UGary Wilson waphakamisa umbuzo encwadini yakhe Ubuchopho bakho ku-Porn mayelana nemiphumela eyingozi ye-porno esikhathini sokungena ku-intanethi. Uthisha owayengumfundisi wezemvelo owakhubeka kulolu cwaningo futhi ozinikeza yonke inzuzo yencwadi yakhe I-YBOP ku-charity. Ngomthethosisekelo wase-Utah uzama ukudlulisa umthetho ozovumela abantu ukuba baqale imboni yabantu abadala ukulimaza okufana nomkhakha wegwayi. Ubufakazi bucacile ukuthi izithombe ezingcolile zingabangela imiphumela embi kakhulu.
Ini ukuphefumulele ukuba ucwaninge ukulutha kwezidakamizwa?
Lowo ngumbuzo ongajwayelekile (uyahleka). Nganginguthisha we-anatomy, physiology, pathology futhi kwaqala cishe eminyakeni eyishumi nesithupha edlule lapho ngihlangana nomkami. Wayenewebhusayithi futhi yayiphathelene nobudlelwano. Ngaqala ukuphenya ngokuqhubekayo kwi-neurobiology yothando nokuxhuma nobulili futhi eminyakeni edlule ngabeka izindatshana eziningana kuwebhusayithi yakhe ezazinamagama asemqoka afana nocansi, i-ejaculation, i-orgasam, umlutha we-dopamine ngoba umlutha uthatha izindlela zothando nokubopha uhlobo. Ngakho-ke mayelana ne-2006 la madoda aqala ukuvela esithangamini sakhe futhi lesi sithangami asihlangene neze ne-porn noma umlutha futhi unkosikazi wami wayefana nokuthi "ufunani lapha" futhi baqala ukuthumela "hey dick yami ayisebenzi ucabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ihlangene nezocansi. ” Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva kwakuyindawo yokubuyiselwa kocansi. Ngo-2011 ngase ngenze isiza esihlukile, ngenza iTedx Talk. Kwakungenye yalezo zinto engingafuni lutho ngazo kodwa kwakuyigebe elikhulu phakathi kwesayensi nokuthi abantu babhekana nani nemiphumela emibi yokusetshenziswa kocansi. Sabona abantu abaningi behlupheka futhi safuna ukubanika imininingwane.
Yimiphi eminye imiphumela emibi yokusetshenziswa kocansi?
Ngicabanga ukuthi likhulu kakhulu. Ukubuka abababa bakho Playboy engangiyenzile kunemiphumela encane kodwa ubukela abantu bangempela ngokobulili wangempela futhi abakwazi ukuchofoza ividiyo kwividiyo kanye nayo yonke inkinobho ye-hardcore manje futhi benze kanjalo iminyaka ngaphambi kokumanga kwakho kokuqala noma ukuhlangana kocansi kubalulekile kubantu umlando ngakho-ke awuzange ubhekane nokubuka izithombe ezihamba ze. Uma ucabanga ngemiphumela ungabhala zonke izixhumanisi ezifana nesimo sengqondo sobulili, ukuhlukunyezwa, impilo emzimbeni embi, impilo engokwengqondo embi, ubudlelwane obubi, ukwaneliseka kobudlelwane obubi, ngisho nokusebenza kabi esikoleni. Izinto engiziqaphe ngokuyinhloko kumadoda nemiphumela ekusebenzeni kwabo ngokocansi.
Uyazi kanjani ukuthi umlutha wakho ku-porn?
Njenganoma yikuphi ukulutha umlutha uzama ukuyeka. Uma ubona izimpawu zokuhoxiswa noma uqala ukwenza izifiso zombili lezi zibonakaliso unomlutha. Emaphephandabeni awuboni izimpawu zokuhoxiswa ezihlobene nokuyeka izidakamizwa zokuziphatha ezifana nokugembula noma ukudla ngokweqile noma ukubheja kwe-intanethi kodwa kukhona. Sinezinkinga ezinkulu zokuzihoxisa emadodeni azama ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Esinye sezibonakaliso zokuthakazeka kakhulu kunazo zonke amadoda abhekana nokulahlekelwa okuphelele kwe-libido noma isifiso socansi, khona-ke i-penis ingazizwa ibanda noma inzima. Futhi lokhu kungaqhubeka iminyaka, ikakhulukazi kumadoda amasha.
Ukhulume ngamadoda abhekene nokulutha kwe-porn. Ingabe abesifazane bangaba umlutha wezithombe ezingcolile?
Siyabona nakanjani abesifazane betha umlutha wezocansi. Sibona abesifazane besho ukuthi bahlukunyezwe khona ngokobulili, sibona omwomen bebona ukuthi bangakwazi ukuphuma kumabhayisikobho e-hardcore okudlwengula ngoba baye baqhubeka besuka kubabesifazane kepha insizwa efana neyayisetshenziswa yonke indawo. Ngakho izinombolo zezibalo zamadoda ziyobe ziphakeme kodwa ukubheja kocansi kubesifazane kuyanda.
Yini elandelayo kuGary Wilson?
Umsebenzi wami ngaphambi kokudalwa I-YBOP wayefundisa i-anatomy, physiology ne-pathology. Empeleni ngisemhlalaphansi kanti manje ngizinikezela isikhathi konke okuhlobene nayo I-YBOP futhi le ndaba. Kuze kube nini ngiqhubeka ngihlola le ndaba engingazi.
by Ryan Glover - Januwari 26, 2017
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