Lo mbhalo ungowesikhathi. Ngemininingwane eminingi esesikhathini, bona okubanzi kakhulu Isigaba se-Porn & ED, bese uqala QALA LAPHA: Ukukhubazeka ngokocansi okubangelwa ucansi. Kuningi okwenzekile kusukela ngo-2010. Izibuyekezo ezimbalwa:
- Isigaba - Ucwaningo luqinisekisa ukukhula okukhulu ku-ED osemusha.
- Leli khasi iqukethe ama-athikili nezingxoxo ezibandakanya ochwepheshe abangaphezu kwe-150 (osolwazi be-urology, urologists, psychiatrists, psychologists, sexologists, MDs) abavuma futhi abaphathe ngempumelelo ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi okubangelwa ucansi.
- Uhlu lwezifundo ezingaphezu kwe-110 ezisekela le ndatshana: Izifundo zibika izixhumanisi phakathi kokusetshenziswa kocansi noma ukubheja kocansi / ucansi kanye nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, ukuvuselelwa kobuchopho obuphansi ekusebenzisaneni ngokobulili, nokwaneliseka kocansi
- Iphepha elibuyekezwa ngontanga elibandakanya odokotela base-US Navy - Ingabe Izithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Zase-Internet Zibangela Ukuhlukunyezwa Ngokocansi? Ukubukezwa Ngemibiko Yomtholampilo (2016) - Ukubuyekezwa kabanzi kwezincwadi ezithinta izinkinga zocansi ezibangelwa ucansi. Ukubuyekeza kuhlinzeka ngemininingwane yakamuva eveza ukukhuphuka okukhulu kwezinkinga zobulili ezisencane. Leli phepha libuye lihlolisise izifundo ze-neurological ezihlobene nokulutha kwezicabha kanye nokuziphatha ngokocansi. Odokotela banikeza imibiko ye-3 emitholampilo yamadoda athuthukise ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi okubangelwa ucansi.
I-ARTICLE: Ngabe kukhona ukuxhumana okungalindelekile phakathi kocansi lwanamuhla namandla?
Through a ukuphelela kwesiphetho, iwebhusayithi yami ibe i-hangout kubantu abathile abamangazayo, kuhlanganise namadoda anqume ukuzondla e-porn. Imizamo yabo ingifundise okungaphezu kwalokho engangikufuna ukwazi ngale ndaba. Eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule omunye wabhala,
Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uma isifundo empeleni senziwa ngamadoda athembekile, sizobona ukuhlangana phakathi kokubukwa kwe-porn ne-erectile. Imbonini yezocansi ihlomula umphakathi ongaziwa futhi yenza amabhiliyoni. Khona-ke izinkampani ezenza imithi zisithengisa izidakamizwa ezithuthukisa ezocansi ukuze ziphathe imiphumela emibi-futhi zenze izigidigidi.
Kuvela ukuthi wayengeyena owehlukile.
Bengilokhu ngibheka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-Intanethi kusukela ngaqala ikolishi eminyakeni eyi-13 edlule. Eminyakeni yobudala engama-24, ngabona ubunzima bokuvuswa nabesifazane bangempela. I-Generic Viagra engekho kwi-Intanethi yangivumela ukuthi ngibe nobudlelwano bangempela nezinkinga ezimbalwa kuze kube yiminyaka engama-29. Ngemuva kwalokho, kwaba nzima kakhulu ukuya ocansini langempela, ngisho nangamaphilisi.
Lapho ngiqaphela inkinga yami, ngazama izikhathi eziningana ukuyeka izithombe ezingcolile. Ode kakhulu engangihlala ngaphandle kwaba ngamaviki angu-3. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, angikwazi ukuvusa ukucabanga ngecansi evamile, ngakho ukukhungatheka kwakhiwe. Ukuphunyuka kwami kuphela kwakungukuthi ngibuyele kulokho kuphela engangivusa: ukucabanga ngothando mayelana nezingane lapho ngibheka i-porn. Khona-ke kubuyiselwe ku-porn. Ngidinga ukuphulukiswa ngalokhu.
Njengoba ijubane le-intanethi selikhulile, libuye likwazi ukushaya indlwabu kumavidiyo. Zifinyeleleka kalula, zikhula ngokweqile-futhi zithandeka kakhulu kunalokho Ama-Playboys okwedlule. Maye, ongoti abaningi abacabangi ngokuya nge- “degree yokushukumisa okuthinta ukulinganiswa kwamakhemikhali obuchopho / izintambo. ” Basacabanga ngazo zonke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile “njengokuthile okusiza ukushaya indlwabu,” ngakho-ke akunangozi, noma kuyazuzisa. Njengoba amavidiyo e-Intanethi ewumkhuba osanda kwenziwa, kungenzeka ukuthi ukucabanga okujwayelekile akunasikhathi sokuthola iqiniso le-porn yanamuhla nezingozi zayo.
Ukuxhumeka kwe-porn / potency kuyakhohlisa ngokumangazayo. Amandla amaningi wamadoda akunjalo ethintwa yi-porn… kuze kube yilapho. Ngakho-ke inkinga ibonakala iyinkohliso ize ifike kothile — ngaleso sikhathi uthambekele ekwenzeni iphutha njenge-porn eshushu njenge ukwelapha. Izinto eziningi ezimbi kakhulu zenza ngcono ubuchopho bakhe. Ngalesi sikhathi, amadoda amaningi abamba kunoma iyiphi incazelo ngaphandle kokusebenzisa i-porno yezimpawu zabo, ngenxa yokuthembela kwabo okukhulayo.
Imvamisa ochwepheshe bacabanga ukuthi amahloni ayimbangela yezinkinga zamandla anjalo, kepha emadodeni amaningi kungenzeka ukuthi i-chemistry yobuchopho isuselwe ekukhuthazeni okusindayo yimbangela. Akukhona nje ukuthi bebelokhu besebenzisa i-porn ngokwanelisayo iminyaka, kepha futhi, uma amahloni bekuyimbangela, izinkinga kungenzeka zivele ngokushesha. Amadoda amaningi ahlangabezana nezinkinga kuze kudlule iminyaka yokusebenzisa kabi i-porn. Bese kuba nokuncipha okwengeziwe njengoba ukufuna kwabo izinto ezeqisayo kukhula. (Ihlazo alihlali lingabalulekile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Yiqiniso, lingenza ucansi ukuvusa kakhulu, ngaleyo ndlela ijubane nomjikelezo wokungabi naso.)
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okulethwa ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe ezibucayi ngokusobala kubonakala kuguqulwa. Ingxenye ebuhlungu yukuthi ohluphekayo kufanele anikeze ukusetshenziswa kwakhe kocansi okuphoqelela-umhlatshelo okuwukuthi ngokumangalisayo kunzima.
Nakhu okwabiwe ngabesilisa:
Ngemva kweminyaka eyi-porn, ngangizinkinga nge-erections. Kwakulokhu kuqhubeka nokubi kakhulu iminyaka embalwa. Kunesidingo esiningi futhi saphezulu sokugqugquzelwa kocansi, futhi sasingakusizi. Ngangikhathazekile ngempela, kodwa ukukhathazeka kwangishukumisela kakhulu ekuziphatheni ezingcolile. Kunzima ukukholelwa, kunikezwe ukuqhubeka. Ngase ngisebenzisa zonke izinhlobo zezithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi ngiphuma ngaphandle ngaphandle kweyodwa: ingane yengane. Yini engishaqisayo kimi, Ngingabe ngihambe ngaleyo ndlela, futhi, ngolunye usuku?
Lapho ngihamba ngingenazo izithombe ezingcolile, ukushaya indlwabu, i-fantasy ne-orgasm, kunzima nakakhulu hhayi uthole ukulungiswa. LOL. Azikho izinkinga ze-ED noma ama-ejaculations abuthakathaka afana nezinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlule. Umzimba wami uphululile. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlala kude nocansi nokushaya indlwabu isifiso sakho socansi sizokhuphuka. Izokhuphuka ngendlela enhle. Ukuzinikeza lokhu nje isikhathi esifushane sekuyisigaba esikhulu ekuphulukiseni umonakalo engangizenza kimi. Manje inselelo ukuthola umlingani, noma isikhathi sokushaya indlwabu esisebenza. -
Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingama-90 zokuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile / ukushaya indlwabu, ngabona ukuthi ngangizwela kakhulu kunakuqala; Angizange ngidinge noma yikuphi ukuvuselelwa okungenza ngibe ne-horny. Futhi ukuvuza kwesidoda kumile. Manje njengoba sengibuyele ekushayeni indlwabu, ngiyaqaphela ukuthi ngibe nentshisekelo kakhulu kwabesifazane (futhi ngigcine ngilala nabo) ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwami ngemvamisa ephansi yokushaya indlwabu. -
Ngenkathi ngidla izithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi ngishaya, nganginokukhathazeka okukhulu kokusebenza uma kukhulunywa ngocansi lwangempela. Lokho sekuphelile. Anginankinga. Kuhle ukuvuswa yizinto ezincane: ihembe elivezayo, ukuqaqamba okungenacala, ingubo yasehlobo, noma nje ogelezayo wesifazane, izinwele ezicwebezelayo nephunga, esikhundleni seziqeshana zamavidiyo ze- "Cum Gurgling sluts".
- Ngiyajabula ukuthi le nkinga ye-porn-ED iyaqala ukubonwa. Kuzosiza ukuvimbela izinkinga eziningi. Ngifunde izinto ngabantu abakwazi ukubuka i-porn ngezikhathi ezithile bese besenza nomunye obalulekile. Kodwa-ke, uma behamba ibanga elide ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lobulili bomlingani, futhi babuka izithombe eziningi ezingcolile zobulili ngokushaya indlwabu, khona-ke babenezinkinga-ubunzima ababengenabo ngaphambili.
Ngokwesazi sezifo zengqondo Norman Doidge, umsebenzisi osindayo wezithombe ezingcolile akafani
umlutha wezidakamizwa ongasakwazi ukuphakama ezithombeni ezake zamvula. Futhi ingozi ukuthi lokhu kubekezelelana kuzodlulela ebudlelwaneni, njengoba kwenzeka ezigulini engangizibona, okuholela ezinkingeni zamandla nakokusha, kwesinye isikhathi okungathandeki. Lapho abathwebuli bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile beziqhayisa ngokuthi bacindezela imvilophu ngokwethula izingqikithi ezintsha, ezinzima, abangakusho ukuthi kufanele bakwenze, ngoba amakhasimende abo akha ukubekezelela okuqukethwe. Amakhasi angemuva omagazini abawubungozi besilisa nezingosi ze-Internet ze-Internet agcwele izikhangiso zemithi yohlobo lwe-Viagra — umuthi owenzelwe amadoda amadala anezinkinga ze-erectile ezihlobene nokuguga nemithambo yegazi evinjiwe ethweni lobudoda. Namuhla izinsizwa ezishaya izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zikwesaba kakhulu ukungabi namandla, noma "ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile" njengoba kubizwa ngendlela ehloniphekile. Igama elidukisayo lisho ukuthi la madoda anenkinga ezithweni zabo zobulili, kodwa inkinga isemakhanda abo. … Kuqabukela kwenzeka kubo ukuthi kungaba nobudlelwano phakathi kwezithombe zocansi abazisebenzisayo namandla abo.
Nakhu okungaziwa amadoda amaningi. Isikhathi sokungaphatheki kahle noma ukuphakama okukhulu ngesikhathi se- izinsuku zokubuyiselwa ngemuva kokukhuthaza okukhulu kubonakala njengesizathu esizwakalayo sokuzelapha ngenye i-porn binge. Kodwa ukwenza kanjalo empeleni kuyenza ibe yimbi inkinga. Uma othile evuthwa ngaphambi kokuba ubuchopho bakhe babuyele emuva, kungenzeka ukuthi afune isikhuthazo esishisayo nesishisayo. Kungani? Ingxenye yokuqala yobuchopho bakhe ayisabambi kangako okwesikhashana. Yingakho ucansi / i-porn ejwayelekile "ingamenzeli yena."
Isikhuthazo esishisayo sikhiqiza ukuvusa inkanuko, kepha amanye amazinga we-dopamine engxenyeni eyinhloko yobuchopho bakhe. Njengoba izibabuli zakhe kanye nokulangazelela ukukhululeka okushisayo kuza ekubuseni impilo yakhe, umsebenzisi angakhohlwa ukuthi ukuzwana kwakunjani. Imvamisa uhlangabezana ukudangala okungachazeki nokukhathazeka-Ngeke axhumane nezinguquko ebuchosheni bakhe ezilethwe ukusetshenziswa kocansi okunzima. Futhi ngoba inkinga iyakhula kufayela le- izintambo zobuchophoUkulungiswa kwesikhashana kweViagra ngeke kumise ukuwohloka. (Ikhuluma kuphela ngokugeleza kwegazi kuye ekuphakanyisweni.)
Njengoba izivakashi zami zathola, isixazululo kubonakala sengathi ukuyeka ukushaya indlwabu ezingcolile. Eqinisweni, ukusho ukushaya indlwabu ngokuphelele kuze kuphele izinyanga ezimbili kusheshisa "ukungavuki" kwenhlangano etholakele phakathi kokuvusa inkanuko, nokwedlulele, okwenziwa ngokwenziwa komzimba. Lokhu kunikeza isiqalo esisha, ukukhuluma ngocansi (yize ubuchopho kungenzeka buhlale buzwela kakhulu ezinkomba ezihlobene nocansi).
Lokhu okude, okuvame ukhathaza, Inqubo "yokuqalisa kabusha" kungesabeka. Amanye amadoda esaba ukuthi i-libido izophela ngokuphelele. Lokhu akunjalo. Njengoba ubuchopho bubuyela emuva ukulinganisela buvame ukuba buthaka kakhulu futhi buphendule, hhayi ngaphansi. Ekuqaleni, abanye babhekana nesikhathi esiyimpunga, lapho kungabikho lutho olwaludlulisela khona ngoba ubuchopho babo bubuhlungu kakhulu.
Njengoba ubuchopho buvinjelwe ekuphishekeleni izinhlangano ezizibandakanya ngocansi, ekugcineni zibukeka zizungeze ezinye imithombo yenjabulo. Ibuye ibuye ibuye ibe yiyona eyavela kuyo ukuze ithole: ukuxhumana okunobungane, abalingani bangempela, isikhathi semvelo, ukuzivocavoca, ukufeza okuthile, njalonjalo. Empeleni, amadoda amaningi athola ukuvivinya umzimba ngokuyinzuzo. It ngcono self-image futhi unciphisa ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka ngenkathi ubuchopho ubuyela ekhayaostasis.
Ngokusobala, izici eziningi zingasebenza emsebenzini wokukhathazeka kokusebenza. Kodwa njengoba abantu befunda ukulawula ukuziphatha kwabo ngokobulili kubalingani bangempela abangasebenzisa izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwabo, bangakwazi ukukhuluma ngokuzethemba nganoma yiziphi ezinye izinkinga ezifaka isandla ekukhathazeni ukusebenza.
[Bheka futhi: "Indlela Engiphinde Ngiphinde Ngayithola Ekusebenziseni Kwama-Erectile ehlobene nocansi"]
Ukuze uthole okwengeziwe ngokuqonda impilo ye-erectile, bheka ekaGary Ukukhubazeka kwe-Erectile ne-Porn slide show.
Kusukela sabhala lokhu okuthunyelwe kwe-PT sekuvele umkhuba ophazamisayo. Abafana abasebenzisa i-porn ye-Intanethi ngesikhathi sabo sobusha bavame ukudinga isikhathi eside ukubuyisa impilo yabo ye-erectile, bheka - Abasebenzisi abasha abasha abadinga usizo olude ukuze babuyisele uMojo wabo
Izifundo ekuqhekekeni phakathi kobulili nezidakamizwa ebuchosheni
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