Lezi zinsuku akunakwenzeka ukuthola intombazane yomndeni wezinga eliphakathi ngaphandle kwefoni ehlakaniphile noma ithebhulethi; ngakho-ke ngaphandle kokufinyelela kwi-intanethi ephezulu ephathekayo. Nakuba iningi labazali abazi ngokuphelele izingozi ezingase zibe khona emgwaqweni omkhulu; akuyona into engavamile ukuba intsha ikhule ibe umuntu omdala ngomqondo ophambene nokuhlanekezela ngokuphelele kobulili bomuntu futhi iphela ekulimazeni hhayi kuphela ukuzithoba kwayo kodwa kanye nezingqondo nemizimba yabo. Ngesikhathi esesemgodini weminyaka yabo ehlubukayo neyesivunguvungu kuvamile ukuba intsha ibe nemicabango mayelana nobulili bayo futhi lezi zimo zingaholela kuzo zonke izinqumo ezingalungile uma zinganikezwa isiqondiso esifanele. Njengoba imfundo yezocansi isacatshangwa njengengqondo ezweni lakithi futhi akekho obonakala ekhathalela ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwolwazi olusha olunezinombolo zokufinyelela kuma-smartphones, amaphilisi kanye ne-intanethi ephezulu, akuvamile ukuba intsha ilahlekelwe yimpumelelo yabo engcono ukuphila nokuzibandakanya kwezocansi ngaphambi kwesikhathi nokuziphatha okubi.
Inani elikhulu labantu abakhulile esikoleni esiphakeme banokufinyelela, nge-smart-phone ingqondo ekhukhumezayo kodwa kubalulekile ngokufanayo ukuqonda umlandu ngemuva kwesimo. Ukuze wazi ukuthi kungani imboni yezinhlayiya ze-dollar ye-dollar ye-intanethi idume kakhulu kumele siqale siqonde ukusebenza kwe-Coolidge.
I-Coolidge Effect
'Abesilisa bazo zonke izinhlobo zezinhlobo zezilwane bavuselelwa isithakazelo socansi uma bekhulunywa nabalingani bobulili abasha ngisho nangemva kokulahla ubulili kusukela ngaphambi kodwa abatholakale nabo bobulili.' Ngokwemibandela elula, isibalo esikhulu sabalingani bobulili besifazane abazimisele kakhulu siqinisa isifiso sobulili kubantu besilisa. Lapho i-Coolidge Effect yenziwe ngumkhakha omdala wefilimu, yabhekana kakhulu nokuzuza. Intsha evamile yanamuhla ikwazi ukuthola abesifazane abaningi kwi-intanethi ngehora elilodwa bese bonke okhokho bakhe bahlangana ndawonye. Le nqubo entsha engapheli ivuselela amangqamuzana akhe obuchopho ukukhiqiza i-neurotransmitter yamakhemikhali ebizwa ngokuthi i-dopamine emazingeni aphezulu ngokungavamile kanye nezinkathazo ezidabukisayo.
Lokhu kuholela komunye umbuzo. Iyini i-dopamine futhi ithinta kanjani ikhono lobuchopho lokusebenza?
I-Dopamine ingumqondo we-neurotransmitter okhishwe ubuchopho obudlala indima eziningana kubantu nakwezinye izilwane. I-Dopamine ekutholeni injabulo efuna ukuziphatha I-Dopamine yikhemikhali ehlanganisa ukujabula ebuchosheni. Ikhishwa ngezimo ezijabulisayo futhi igqugquzela umuntu ukuba afune umsebenzi othakazelisayo noma umsebenzi. Lokhu kusho ukudla, ubulili, kanye nezidakamizwa eziningi zokuhlukunyezwa nazo zivuselela ukukhululwa kwe-dopamine ebuchosheni
I-Dopamine nokulutha kwezidakamizwa - I-Cocaine nama-amphetamine kuvimbela ukuphinda kuthathwe i-dopamine. I-Cocaine iyi-blocker ye-dopamine transporter evimbela ukuncintisana kokutholwa kwe-dopamine ukwandisa ubukhona be-dopamine.
Amazinga e-Dopamine kanye ne-psychosis - Ukudluliselwa okuphezulu ngokweqile kwe-dopamine kuye kwaxhunyaniswa ne-psychosis kanye ne-schizophrenia. Kokubili izidakamizwa ezijwayelekile neze-antipsychotic zisebenza kakhulu ngokuvimbela i-dopamine ezingeni le-receptor.
Osemusha oye wanqotshwa ukubheja kocansi uzoba nezimpawu ezilandelayo:
- Ukusabela okuphansi kumasayithi we-porn
- Ukungasebenzi kwe-Erectile. [Ukungakwazi kwamalungu obulili wesilisa ukuba akhuliswe ukugqugquzela ngokocansi]
- Ukushintsha kobuchopho obuhlobene nobudlova kungabangela izimpawu ezinzima zokucindezeleka: ukungalali, ukucasula, ukuzithoba, ukuhluleka kokuhlushwa, ukulahlekelwa ukudla, ukuzithoba.
Ngeshwa umfana akaqapheli ukuthi usezinkingeni aze ahlasele ukusebenza kabi kwe-erectile. Kungani kungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile? Ubungqingili bomzimba buveza imilayezo ebuthakathaka futhi ebuthakathaka ezithombeni zobulili ngakho kuvimbela impendulo erectile
Ingabe ukugqugquzela ngokocansi kusebenza ekusebenzeni okungasebenzi kwe-erectile? Abasebenzi ku-erectile ukungasebenzi njengoba izidakamizwa ezinjalo zikwazi ukugcina inqubo yokwakha kodwa hhayi ukuyiqala.
Ubani abahlukunyezwa kakhulu emzimbeni wesono futhi ngani? Intsha iyingozi kakhulu. Amazinga we-dopamine wengqondo aphakeme kakhulu phakathi neminyaka ekhulayo.
Uma isibonelo umuntu wesilisa omdala kudinga izinyanga ezingu-2-3 ukulwa nokulutha kwe-porn, intsha ingadinga izikhathi ezingu-4-5 isikhathi esilinganayo sesikhathi futhi lokho kusho ukuziyeka ngokuphelele nokuguqulwa kwesitayela sokuphila.
Kulula futhi kulula. Abazali kumele basebenzise lokho abantwana babo abakwenzayo emafonini abo omakhalekhukhwini nokuthi kungcono kanjani ukuvimbela okuqukethwe okungalungile kwe-intanethi ukungena ezandleni zabasha. Ngeke sishiye umagazini ngokuqukethwe okucacile eduze kwendlu yangasese futhi utshele izingane zethu ukuthi zingaboni lapho ziya endlini yokugezela. Futhi akufanele sinike izingane zethu i-smart phone engakavikelekile, ukuyigcina ekubeni "i-pocket porn" ezandleni zengane eyaziwayo.
Isiphequluli se-K9 Web Protection: Isiphequluli se-K9 Web Protection senza kahle ukuvimbela okuqukethwe komuntu omdala kusuka ekuphumeni esikrinini. Kukhona esitolo sohlelo lokusebenza futhi ngemva kokulanda nokufakiwe, izilungiselelo zokuphepha kufanele zilungiswe ukuze kungabikho esinye isiphequluli esingasetshenziselwa ukuphequlula iwebhu.
Khubaza izinhlelo zokusebenza zokufaka: Ngaphandle kokuthi lokhu kwenziwa izingane nezingane zinganezela kalula esinye isiphequluli esitolo sohlelo lokusebenza esingenayo isihlungi.
Ukukhubaza Us Tube: Izingane nezingane zijabulela ukubukela amavidiyo ku-You Tube kepha ngeshwa kanye ku-You Tube kukhona ukuchofoza okumbalwa nje ngaphandle kokubuka okuqukethwe okungalungile.
Naphezu kwazo zonke izinyathelo zokuzivikela kanye nezinyathelo zokuvimbela intsha ingakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezingalungile njalo njalo futhi njengabazali, kuyoba nenhliziyo ehlabayo ukubhekana namaphutha anjalo abathandekayo futhi ubathethelele, ngoba nje ingane ebhekene nayo yinyama negazi labo .
Kodwa ukuvumela abafana ngokuqondile abafana ukuba basebenzise amafoni aphezulu abangagunyaziwe, bangalinganiswa ukuze bavumele ukushayela izibhamu ezibulalayo esitolo ngaphandle kokushintshwa kokuphepha. Ulwazi lomgwaqo omkhulu ngumgwaqo omkhulu njenganoma yimuphi omunye futhi abazali kumele bavikele izingane zabo ukuze bangalokothi balahlekelwe yizimpawu zabo noma bazilimaze ngezindlela eziyingozi kakhulu futhi bangaziqonda.
Umlobi angatholakala kuwo [i-imeyili ivikelwe]
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