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Ubufakazi obukhula bubonisa ukuthi izithombe ezingcolile kakhulu zinganciphisa ukusebenza kocansi.
Ishicilelwe ngo-May 3, i-2012 nguTyger Latham, i-Psy.D. kuTherapy Matters
Ngivame ukubona amadoda emisebenzini yami ebizwa ngokuthi yi-urologists "ngezinkinga zokusebenza ngokobulili." Ngokuvamile, la madoda avela nge-erectile dysfunction (ED), i-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi, noma kwezinye izimo ziphuza ukujula. Ngesikhathi befika kimi, iningi labo liye labhekana nazo zonke izinhlobo zokuhlolwa kwezokwelapha, kuphela ukuthi zitshelwe ukuthi "amapulisi" awo ahle kakhulu futhi ngakho-ke izinkinga zabo kufanele zibe semakhanda abo. Mhlawumbe kwezinye izimo lokhu kuyiqiniso, kodwa ngokuvamile ngithola ukuthi inkinga yinkimbinkimbi. Eqinisweni, ngiqala ukubona inombolo ekhulayo yamadoda asebenza ngayo i-ED evela ekuhlanganiseni kokubili izici zomzimba nezingokwengqondo.
Ngenyanga edlule, amaklayenti amaningana amadoda angibuze ngezimvu ukuthi ngicabanga ukuthi i-ED yabo ingahle ihlobene nokuthembela kaningi kwizithombe zobulili ezingcolile lapho beyi-masturbating. Njengabachwepheshe abaningi bezempilo abasebenza ngokuhlukumezeka ngokocansi emadodeni, ngisebenzisa ukucabanga ukuthi ikhono lomuntu lokuthola i-erection ne-orgasm ngenkathi kubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyichaza umthetho ophuma ku-ED. "Uma ungayithola futhi ukhuluphele ngesikhathi se-porno kunenkinga engeke ibe yinto engokomzimba," ngiphetha ngephutha; kodwa ubufakazi bokuthi u-anecdotal uye wangenza ngicabanga ngenye indlela.
Lapho ngiphenya ngale ndaba, ngathola ngokushesha ukuthi amaklayenti ami abesilisa ayedwa. Ukusesha okukhangayo kwe-Inthanethi kuthole inqwaba yamawebhusayithi kanye namabhulogi womlayezo ahlanganiswe nama-akhawunti akho omuntu afakazela ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu ngokweqile ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi kuphazanyise ngokungathí sina ikhono labo lokuzibandakanya ngokobulili nomlingani.
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ku-intanethi zinegciwane lesandulela ngculaza, zinabantu abaningi (nabesifazane) basebenziseka kalula, ukukwazi ukukwazi, nokungaziwa okuza ngokubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi. Futhi uhlobo lwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezitholakala kuyi-Intanethi liyamangaza. Lokhu akuyona umagazini kababa wakho we-Playboy. Izithombe "ezithobekile" zithathelwe indawo enezinto ezibukeka kahle ezibonisa zonke izinhlobonhlobo zezinkinobho kanye nezindwangu. Lesi sithombe asikona nje kuphela isichazamazwi kodwa sitholakala ngokusakazwa kwevidiyo okunganikeza umbukeli ngokuthokozisa ngokocansi okusheshayo. Ukunethezeka nokusheshisa lapho umuntu angabuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyingxenye yenkinga ethi ochwepheshe.
Ukutadisha izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuye kwaba yinto enesithakazelo kubafundi emashumini eminyaka kodwa umthelela wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezingakapheli ekusebenzeni ngokobulili usanda kuthathwa yinkampani yezokwelapha. Ukusesha kokuqala kwamaphephandaba wezokwelapha wathola ambalwa kakhulu okukhulunywa ngawo ngokuqondile ngokubhekisela ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile kanye no-ED, nakuba ngikholelwa ukuthi lokhu kungashintsha njengamadoda amaningi (nabesifazane) abethula ukukhubazeka ngokocansi okubangelwa ucansi.
Esinye isifundo esinjalo engikwaziyo senziwa yiqembu labachwepheshe bezokwelapha abahambisana ne-Italy Society of Andrology and Medicine Medicine. Ngokwenhlolovo yamadoda ase-Italy e-28,000, abacwaningi bathole imiphumela "emincane kodwa eyonakalisayo" yokuvezwa ngokuphindaphindiwe kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile esikhathini eside. Ngokusho kwenhloko yocwaningo, uCarlos Forsta, inkinga "iqala ngokuphendula okuncane eziteshini ezingcolile, khona-ke kukhona ukwehla okuvamile kwi-libido futhi ekugcineni akunakwenzeka ukuthola ukulungiswa."
Ngakho-ke yini eyenza ukuhlanganiswa phakathi kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ne-erectile ukungasebenzi? Esikhundleni se-blog esihle kakhulu ku-Psychology Today ("Kungani Ngithola Ukubheka Okubaluleke Kakhulu Kunomlingani?"), UGary Wilson, uthisha we-anatomy ne-physiology uchitha izixhumanisi ze-neurophysiological phakathi kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile no-ED. UWilson uchaza ukuthi kukhona i-loop impendulo eyingozi engase ivele phakathi kobuchopho kanye ne-penis lapho amadoda ethembela kakhulu ezintweni ezingcolile zobulili ukuze ahlase isithombeni. Nge-pornography ye-intanethi, u-Wilson ubhala ukuthi "kulula ukugcizelela ngokweqile ubuchopho bakho." Ngokuqondile, ukuqhathaniswa ngokweqile okwenziwe ngokubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kungaveza izinguquko ze-neurological-ngokuqondile, ukunciphisa ukuzwela ekuthokoziseni ukufuna i-neurotransmitter dopamine-okungenza ukuthi umuntu afune ukubhekana nesimo socansi ngempela umlingani. Lezi zinguquko ze-neurochemical hhayi nje zenza umuntu abe "umlutha" ezithombeni ezingcolile kodwa angenza kube nzima nakakhulu ukugwema ukubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngokuphelele.
Amadoda athembela kakhulu ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile ukuze afinyelele i-orgasm azovame ukukhononda ngezibonakaliso zokuzihoxisa lapho benquma ukuya emakhazeni. Amadoda anjalo achaza ukuzwa "kungenasono," okuholela abaningi ukuba bakhathazeke futhi bacindezeleke ngenxa ye-libido yabo eyancipha. Kodwa ubufakazi bubonisa ukuthi i-libido ekugcineni ibuya-ngokuvamile phakathi kwamasonto e-2-6 wokuziyeka-njengoba kuboniswa ukubuya kancane kancane kwezinyathelo zokusa ekuseni kanye nokuvinjelwa okuzenzekelayo usuku lonke. "Ukubuyiswa" kungenzeka futhi amadoda amaningi abike ukuthi uyaqhubeka nokujabulela injabulo yangokwenyama ngokweqile ngesikhathi socansi nabalingani babo ngemva kokuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
Ngakho-ke, uma uthola indlela kuphela ongakwazi ukuyenza ngayo yonke imithi nge-porn, kungase kube yisikhathi sokuba ucabangele ukuyeka nokubonisana nochwepheshe. Njengamadoda amaningi atholakala ngokubuhlungu, ubulili boqobo buhilela ukuthinta nokuthinta omunye umuntu, hhayi nje ukuthinta igundane bese uqobo.
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UTyger Latham, i-Psy.D. ungumqondo wezokwelapha welayisensi osemthethweni osebenza eWashington, DC. Ukwazisa abantu ngabanye kanye nemibhangqwana futhi unesithakazelo esithile ekuhlukunyezweni ngokobulili, ukuthuthukiswa ngokobulili, nokukhathazeka kwe-LGBT. Ibhulogi yakhe, i-Therapy Matters, ihlola ubuciko nesayensi ye-psychotherapy.
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