Ukuvuthwa kwentsha nocansi kakhulu kuyinkimbinkimbi emangalisayo
Ukucwaninga ngezilwane kubonisa ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kocansi okokuqala kungaba namandla amaningi okubheka izinto ezithinta ezocansi ngokweqile kunalokho esikucabangelayo, nokuthi benze kanjalo ngokusebenzisa izindlela ezithile zobuchopho. Cabangela ucwaningo olulandelayo ngamagundane amancane, amantombazane:
“Liyini lelo phunga oligqokile, sithandwa?”
Umcwaningi uJim Pfaus wadonsa ama-rats abesifazane abamukela ucansi nge-cadaverine (iphunga elimnyama) futhi wawabeka emaceleni Osemncane intombi amaduna azalwa. Imvamisa amagundane agwema ukubola kwenyama. Kungokwemvelo; akukhona ukuziphatha okufundwayo. Bazongcwaba abangani abafile namathosi okhuni afakwe ku-cadaverine.
Kodwa-ke, leli bekuyithuba lokuthi laba besilisa abancane balahlekelwe ngamakhadi abo e-V. Njengoba i-dopamine yabo ikhuphuka ngokulindela, bahlangana futhi bachitha izikhathi eziningana. (I-Dopamine "kufanele uyithole" ngamakhemikhali emithambo yegazi ngemuva kwesifiso, ukugqugquzela, ukulungisa nokulutha.)
Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa emva kwalokho, amagundane amancane afakwa ehokweni elikhulu elinezinsikazi ezinephunga elijwayelekile nabesifazane abanuka ukufa. Amagundane anesimo se-cadaverine akuthola ngokungakhethi. Ngokuvamile, abesilisa abanolwazi lokulawula abanakukwazi ukusondela kwabesifazane abanuka ukufa.
Besijule kangakanani isimo? Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, izintombi ezazikhona ezinemibandela zathola ithala lezinkuni eligcwele i-cadaverine. Badlala ngayo, futhi abaningi bayiququda — njengoba nje bebeyokwenza ukube ithayi belifakwe okuthile abajwayele ukukuthanda, njengoshokoledi noma uketshezi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Ngabe lokhu kungachaza ukuthi kungani abasebenzisi abasha be-porn banamuhla bevame ukukhononda ukuthi bagcina bebambeke kocansi olungafani nolwabo ukuziphatha ngokocansi okuyisisekelo noma ukuzithokozisa?
"Kungani le ndoda ishisa kangaka?"
Ikhamera yendoda enesilisa ingahle ibekwe khetha umlingani wobulili obufanayo cishe amasonto amabili ngokugqoka i-dopamine yakhe ngokuhlakanipha (ngaleyondlela ukulingisa ukuvuswa kobulili). Abacwaningi bajobe umlingo wesilisa oyindoda nge-dopamine agonist (umuthi olingisa i-dopamine), wabe esembeka emgodini nomunye wesilisa. Amagundane amabili asanda kuhlangana ndawonye usuku. (I-dopamine agonist ayikho ohlelweni cishe ngosuku olulodwa.) Abacwaningi baphindaphinda lokhu izikhathi ezingu-2, izinsuku ezingu-4 ngaphandle.
Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, owesilisa obuyiselwe wahlolwa. Wayengenayo i-dopamine agonist ohlelweni lwakhe, wafakwa emgodini nabangane bakhe besilisa nabesifazane abalalelayo ngokocansi (khumbula ukuthi i-dopamine yayingaphandle kwesistimu yakhe). Qagela ukuthi iyiphi igundane eyamguqula kakhulu? Ukhombise ukuphendula okuningi kowesilisa. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi uma umngane wakhe futhi eyintombi nto igundane elinombandela futhi uvele wakhombisa ubudlelwano bezenhlalo. Kodwa-ke, futhi ngendlela engaqondakali, uma umngani wayeyigundane elihlangenwe nakho ngokocansi, intombi enesimo yakhombisa ukwenyusa okuningi, uphenyo oluthe xaxa ngokobulili, kanye nokucela okunjengabesifazane -okuphikisana nokuziphatha okwejwayelekile kwabesilisa. Abaphenyi baqaphele ukuthi igundane lezintombi lalingeyona isitabane, njengoba engazami ukufaka elinye igundane. Kodwa-ke indlela yakhe yokuziphatha ngokocansi ibivele isukile kulokho obekuzolandela ngaphandle kwesimo sobulili obufanayo. (Ingabe lobu bufakazi bokuthi abantu abadala bangayithonya kalula indlela yokuziphatha kwentsha ngokwemvelo ngokobulili?)
An ukuhlolwa kwangaphambili wembula ukuthi amagundane abesifazane ayengalungiswa ngale ndlela - abesilisa kuphela. Futhi, ubungqingili bobulili obufanayo buhambile izinsuku ezingama-45 ngemuva kokuthi ososayensi bemise isimo sokufakelwa, okungasiza ekuchazeni ukuthi kungani ezinye izinsizwa zishiya izithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi ziqaphela ukuthi ukuthanda kwazo ngokweqile ngokocansi buyela ekuthandeni kwangaphambili.
I-neurochemistry yesimo socansi
Ungase ukhumbule ngokucacile okumangazayo isithombe / umuntu wokuqala oheha ngokocansi owubonile, noma ukuthinta kokuqala okuthinta inkanuko okutholile. Kungani izinkomba / okuhlangenwe nakho ngokocansi kwasekuqaleni kunamandla kangaka? Isizathu siyi-neurochemical. Ubuchopho bentsha busezingeni eliphakeme (1) amazinga e-dopamine, (2) ukuzwela kuya ukusayina kwe-dopamine futhi (3) ubungozi bokulutha. Izinga labo le-FosB liphakeme kakhulu kunabantu abadala. (Okuningi ku-ΔFosB ngomzuzwana.)
Inoveli, okumangazayo, okuvusayo kungashukumisa umhlaba wobusha ngendlela engeke kube eyabantu abadala. Leli qiniso le-neurochemical livumela ubuchopho obusha ukuthi bukhethe izinhloso zocansi ngokuya ngalokho okunikeza i-buzz enkulu yezocansi. Ngokusobala, lokhu kusebenza kahle endaweni lapho okuwukuphela kwento enamandla kakhulu yezocansi ekugcineni eholela khona osemusha ekuhlangabezaneni nabalingani bomshado wangempela.
Kodwa lokhu kuyiqiniso ukuthi kungani ososayensi baxwayisa ukuthi intsha isengozini enkulu kunabantu abadala ekudakwa. Ukucwaninga kubonisa ukuthi ukucindezeleka kwabo ukuvusa kusho ukuthi intsha ithola izinto ezintsha, izinto ezishaqisayo, ngisho nezinto ezisabekayo ezithandekayo kakhulu kunabantu abadala. Lokhu kwenza kube yingozi kakhulu ekusebenziseni ubulili babo kunoma yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho okukhulu, okubuhlungu, uma kuqhathaniswa nabantu abadala. Cabanga nge-porn gonzo.
Lapho i-dopamine isuka ngokwemvelo ngokuphathelene nokuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala kocansi, ubuchopho bamammalia buphendula ngokukhiqiza i-molecule eyaziwa ngokuthi i-ΔFosB. A Ucwaningo lwe-2013 ukuqinisekisile ukuthi kuhlanganisa isimo socansi. I-osBFosB isiza ubuchopho ukuthi buguquke ngokwenyama ukuze okuhlangenwe nakho kocansi okuzayo (nazo zonke izinkomba ezihlobene) kubhalise njengezinto eziseqhulwini. Ama-dendrites ahluma ukwenza izinkomba ezihlobene zivuse kakhudlwana, ukuxwayisa kuyakhululeka lapho izinkomba ezinjalo zivela, njll. Izidakamizwa ziphinde zintshontshe le ndlela ye-ΔFosB, ebangelwa ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwemisebenzi ephakamisa i-dopamine nezinto.
Ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi, uma kukhulunywa ngokuziphendukela kwemvelo, into ephambili kwi-ΔFosB ukufaka ocingweni lokuqala lwezocansi (kanye nanoma yikuphi ukuhlangenwe nakho okukhulu kwezocansi ngemuva kwalokho), ngethemba lokuthuthukisa impumelelo yokuzala. Esimweni sokuhlangenwe nakho kocansi kwegundane okune-cadaverine-laced okokuqala umyalezo we-ΔFosB wawuthi, “Khumbula: Iphunga lokufa hot—Ngoba ikhona ngesikhathi uqala ukuya ocansini! ”
“Kungani ngingehli ijubane?”
Isimo sokuqala socansi singakwazi ukunamathela. Ngokuphambene nalokho, isimo sengqondo socansi sinwebeka kakhulu nakakhulu uma kwenzeka ngemuva Amaphethini avamile wokubambisana asungulwa. Cabanga ngalolu cwaningo oluchazwe ku Ukubuyekezwa kukaPfaus ngesimo socansi. Ososayensi bathela owesifazane owamukelayo owesilisa kamuva, ngomzuzwana kamuva, wamxosha ekhanda lakhe. Ngokuphindaphindiwe okwanele, lokhu kwamenza afinyelele ngokushesha kakhulu kunokujwayelekile. Uma laba besilisa befunda leli phethini phakathi nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kokuqala kocansi, babambelele kubo-ngisho nalapho kamuva bavunyelwe ukungena ngokungathinteki kwabesifazane.
Ukuze babone umehluko, abacwaningi bafundisa abesilisa abanolwazi (okuye bafunde ubulili ngesivinini esivamile) ukuze bajule ngokushesha, ngokukhipha abesifazane emva komzuzu. Nokho-ngokungafani namagundane ayeziphatha kahle ngokobulili kusukela ekuqaleni-ama-rats anamava abuyele ekuziphatheni okujwayelekile kokuvuna lapho evunyelwe ukungena okuphazanyiswa kwabesifazane.
Lezi zindlela zocwaningo zihambisana nokuhlolwa okubandakanya abantu abadala. Ngenxa yokunciphisa imali encane, abantu abadala bakwazi ukulawula ukusabela kwabo ngokocansi kancane ngenkathi kubhabhu, kodwa umphumela usinyamalale ekuvivinyeni okulandelayo.
Isiphakamiso sokuthi isimo sengqondo sokuqala socansi sinamandla kakhulu kunokuba isimo sengqondo sezocansi kamuva sihambisana nalokho esikuzwa kubasebenzisi be-porn-abese belulamela ku-ED. Abafana abathuthukisa ubulili babo ngaphambi basebenzise izithombe ze-intanethi zidinga kuphela izinyanga ezimbalwa ukuze zilulame kusuka kuma-porn-akhiqizwa ED futhi zijabulele ubulili be-3-D. Amathuba afinyelelwe ekuvusweni kwabo ngokocansi ekuqaleni kokucabanga okuphefumlelwe abalingani bangempela abangaba khona futhi (mhlawumbe) izimo zobulili ezingokoqobo, noma mhlawumbe basebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile ezidinga ukucabanga. Ubulili beqiniso babonakala bukhulu kakhulu ngokuqhathanisa.
Ngokuphambene, abafana abanezinkinga zokusebenza ngocansi, abaqale ukushaya indlwabu ku-inthanethi ye-porn, imvamisa idinga izinyanga eziyisithupha noma ngaphezulu ukufeza ucansi olwanelisayo nomlingani wangempela. Iningi lathinta ubulili babo bokuqala ekusakazeni, ama-hi-def vids, izinto ezeqisayo, ubusha obungenamkhawulo futhi akukho mcabango odingekayo ngenxa yokutholakala okulungile kwe-Internet erotica. Lapho ekugcineni behlangana nomlingani wangempela, abanye babika ukuthi "abazizwa lutho" ngesikhathi socansi lomlomo noma lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane.
Ubuchopho babo buxhume kusenesikhathi ekubukeni kwe-voyeur ye-porn, kugcizelelwa ezingxenyeni zomzimba eziyizintandokazi kanye nezisu, kanye nobusha obuhlala njalo, obhaliswa njengobunamandla kakhulu kunabalingani bangempela (ngoba busekela i-dopamine ephakeme).
Baye baqeqesha imidlalo engafanele. Abanye babo kufanele bayeke ukugxila kuma-pixel a isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuba ubuchopho babo bubheke nxazonke ukuthola ezinye (3-D) izinkanuko zocansi. (Funda i-akhawunti yomuntu oyedwa ehlekisayo, nebuhlungu yokuthi le nqubo ingaba inselele kanjani: Wakhela IsiHlm. Khumbula ukuthi wayesekhulile futhi empeleni wayefunde ukuthanda ngaphambi wahlangana nocansi lwe-intanethi.)
Izindaba zesimo socansi ezintsha
Amagundane anikeza ithuba elihle kakhulu lokuqonda amandla okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala ngokocansi ngokwemibandela yesayensi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, bekungaba yinto engafanelekile ukuzibeka engcupheni yokulawula ubulili bomuntu oyintombi ebhodini ngezindlela ezijule kangaka.
Akunasizathu esincane sokungabaza ukuthi abantu abasha bayafana namagundane uma kukhulunywa ngokuhlanganisa izintandokazi zobulili zakuqala. Ngempela sekuvele kunocwaningo olunzulu lwabantu olukhombisa ukuthi ubuchopho bentsha / obuphapheme buzwela kakhulu ekuzuzeni kunobuchopho babantu abadala. Ucwaningo olwengeziwe lukhombisa ukuthi lapho sebekhulile intsha igawula i-neurocircuitry engasetshenziswanga, ngakho-ke uma intsha inentambo entweni exakile, ukuya ocansini nabalingani bangempela kungaba inselele enkulu ukuyazi. Bheka Kungani kungadingeki ukuthi u-Johnny Watch Porn Uma Athanda?
Ngokuzayo lapho uzwa othile ephikisana ngokuthi “Izingane zinobulili futhi akekho umuntu okufanele abeke umkhawulo ekukhetheni kwazo ezocansi,” bakhumbuze ukuthi ubuchopho bezingane busengcupheni yokuthanyelwa ngocansi ezintweni ezivusa inkanuko zocansi, ezingokoqobo noma zokwenziwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucwaningo oluchazwe ekuqaleni lukhombisa ukuthi ukugqugquzela okukhulu kwezocansi kunamandla oku shintsha umkhondo wokuqala wobulili bomuntu ngezindlela ezingalindelekile. Uma umuntu eqala ukugxila ekugqugquzeleni okuthile okwenziwa yi-orgasm ngayinye iqinisa ukubambisana, okwenza kube nzima ukubuyela emzileni womuntu wokuqala.
Izingane ezindala zingasebenzisa i-wiring ezinkomba zobulili ezifanele iminyaka yobudala ezihlinzekwe ngokuyinhloko yiontanga, ngcono. Uma befisa ukuhlola uhlangothi lwe-kinky of life akeke benze kanjalo ngemuva bafinyelela ebuntwini futhi ubuchopho babo abusekho ama-pipula epulasitiki kanye nama-hyper-asebenzayo emaceleni ezocansi.
AMAKHAYA:
Imiphumela ibuye ikhombise ukuthi ukubuthana kwandisa ukukhulumisana kwe-Fos kuma-neurons e-NOS, nokuthi lokhu ukwanda kwakungaphezulu kakhulu kwezilwane ezithinta ukuhlangana kwabo ngokocansi, okubonisa ukuthi isipiliyoni sokuqala socansi sandisa ukukhiqizwa okungekho ku-mPOA yamagundane angamadoda. [Qaphela: i-NOS = i-nitric oxide synthase]
Ubuchopho obusakhulayo buhambisana ne-Porns Highspeed Inthanethi (i-2013) - isethulo sehora lehora ngesimo sezocansi nobuchopho bentsha.
Ukukhula kobufakazi besayense yomjikelezo we-post-orgasm oqhubekayo (izifundo)
Izifundo ekuqhekekeni phakathi kobulili nezidakamizwa ebuchosheni
Izifundo Thola Ukunyuka (nokuhlala) ku-Porn Users (2016)
Ukuhlola nokulinganisa kwe-hedonic ekukhethweni komlingani (2018)
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