Umsunguli weGuyology uDkt. Melisa Holmes ukhuluma ngokuthi abafana ababa umlutha wezinsizwa ze-porn bagcina sebebafundi basekolishi abanesisindo esiphuthumayo futhi badinga i-Viagra. Ukhulume esithangamini socansi kanye nentsha ngoMeyi 17, 2017, eWarehouse Theater, eGreenville. I-SC
Futhi nguDkt. Holmes: Ukuguqulwa kwedijithali kungaba isizathu sokuthi amazinga okukhulelwa kwentsha ehle….
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"Kunabana abaningi kakhulu abanabo izidakamizwa ezingcolile zobulili ukuthi sibona abafana besempilo yabafundi emakolishi ekolishi abacela iViagra kanye neCialis njalo ngeviki ngoba bane-erectile dysfunction. "
UDkt. Melisa Holmes ungumbhali futhi umsunguli we-Girlology noGuyology.
Uthe uDkt. Melisa Holmes engxoxweni ekhethekile yephaneli ngoLwesithathu eWaterhouse Theater.
Holmes ungumsunguli we I-Girlology neGuyology, i-platform yezemfundo yobulili yezingane kanye nabazali encike emaqinisweni ezokwelapha.
Esihlokweni sezidakamizwa ze-ED namadoda asekolishi, uHolmes uthi inkinga ngobusha nentombazane engcolile ukuthi abafana abayisebenzisayo bahlela isimo sabo sokuguqula ucansi. Ekugcineni, i-porn kuphela into abangayiphendula ngayo-ngakho-ke isidingo sezidakamizwa zokungasebenzi ngendlela erectile.
Abafana abayedwa lapho bebhekene nezinkinga zabo zobulili. Kumantombazane, inkinga yiyo yonke inkulumo yemilayezo yezocansi.
"Wonke amawebhusayithi abaya kuwo abonisa okuthile okucansi," kusho uHolmes. "Amabhodi amabhodi - thola iBrazil yakho lapha. Konke kuhlotshaniswa ngokobulili, kodwa sinamahloni emphakathini wethu ukukhuluma ngocansi ngokusobala ukuthi asikwazi ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokuba nezingxoxo ezinempilo mayelana nobulili. "
U-Esther Hall ungumzali wentombazane esemusha.
UHolmes ubengomunye wezikhulumi ezine zobulili ezisencane engxoxweni yaseWarehouse ethi “Ed Ed: The Education and Oversexualization of our Country”. Lesi sithangami besingesokugcina ochungechungeni lwesizini olukhona mayelana nezihloko ezinempikiswano.
Isithangami seSex Ed besiphathelene nomdlalo wamanje weshashalazi, “Spring Awakening, ”Umculo odabukisayo omayelana nentsha nezocansi. Lo mdlalo uqala ngoMeyi 19 kuya kuJuni 20.
Ku-Esther Hall, umzali wentombazane eyeve eshumini nambili, into esabisa kakhulu ukuthi omakhalekhukhwini benza kube lula ukuthola izithombe zocansi noma ukuthumela izithombe nemiyalezo engaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu zomthetho nezenhlalo.
Ngama-smart phone, umyalezo ezinganeni uthi, “Ungagijima, kodwa awukwazi ukufihla,” kusho u-Esther Hall, umxhumanisi wemicimbi waseMichelin eNyakatho Melika. “Uya ocansini ku ephaketheni ngaso sonke isikhathi. "
Uma amafoni omusha enesithombe sombhalo wesigqoko sezintandane, ingane encane ingaboshwa ngenxa yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezinganeni, kusho iHholo.
UMike Quint ungumqeqeshi wokugwema ingozi ngokocansi kanye nomfundisi wokuzilahla.
Lezi zinkinga zezimpikiswano azizange zikhona lapho abazali bentsha yanamuhla bekhula, futhi umphakathi ushiya abazali ukuba babambelele, kusho uHolmes.
"Isiko lethu linikeza i-oversexualization kubantu abasha ngaphandle kokubanika amathuluzi namakhono okubhekana nawo, "kusho uHolmes.
Amantombazane akhula eminyakeni encane kunamashumi eminyaka adlule, kusho uMike Quint, ummeli we-abstinance kanye nochwepheshe oqinisekisiwe wokugwema ubungozi kwezocansi ku-Live Free Inc.
"Uma sihamba edolobheni sibona amantombazane [esikoleni esiphakathi] ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku, futhi abonakala njengabafundi bekolishi," kusho uQuint. "Mina nomkami sasikhuluma ngesikhatsi sisesesikoleni esiphakathi, lokho kwakuyisigaba sakho esiyingozi. Noma kunjalo, wonke lawa mantombazane ayaqaqa isigaba sabo esiyingozi. "
Ukuphawula kwakhe kwakudonsela ukuhleka kwezilaleli mayelana nabazali be-50 kanye nentsha.
Amaphutha ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, lawo ocansi noma okunye, angagcina futhi alimaze namathuba okuba intsha ibhekane nokuqeqeshwa, izinhlelo zokufunda, nemisebenzi, kusho uMeghan Meier.
Meghan Meier we-Pure Romance
UMeier ungumqondisi ophezulu Ama-Romance ahlanzekile, enikeza imikhiqizo yobudlelwane, kuhlanganise nama-lingerie namathoyizi amakhulu. Uphinde wabandakanyeka nabaPulse Young Professionals.
"Ngesikhathi ngisengumqeqeshi omusha wekolishi, ngagcina ngisebenza ekolishi, futhi enye yezinto engangiqashwe ukuba ngizenze kwaba ukugxila abafundi bami," esho.
Noma yibaphi abafundi abacatshangelwa ukuqeqeshelwa umsebenzi noma izikhundla zokufunda umsebenzi bahlolwe nge-akhawunti yabo yezokuxhumana.
"Ngakho-ke, ngihlale ngiyazi kahle-ingabe ngibheke indebe ebomvu [esithombeni esithunyelwe], futhi lokho kubonakala kanjani?" Kusho uMeier.
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