Umsebenzisi we-porn wangaphambili uchaza inselelo yokuchaza izingozi zangempela ze-porn
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Kulabo okungenzeka bangasheshisi emkhakheni wokucwaninga ngomlutha nokubaluleka kwawo kwabasebenzisi be-porn be-Intanethi, nginikeze ukubuyisa okufushane ngezixhumanisi eziningi ezingezansi kweposi lakhe.
Singayiletha kanjani inkinga yokulutha kabi kocansi kuyizingxoxo ezijwayelekile?
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Ukulutha kwezidakamizwa kuyinkinga, futhi iningi lamadoda ahlupheka umlutha we-porn awazi ngisho nalo. Abazi nokuthi kukhona lapho is into enjalo. Ngacabanga ngezizathu zalokhu kungazi ngemuva kokufunda la mazwana ngomunye umucu:
Ngicabanga ukuthi izinyathelo kudingeka zithathwe ukuze kugcinwe i-porn kude nabantu abancane. Bakudinga kakhulu ukuhlanganisa imithetho ethile abakhiqizi bezithombe ezingcolile okudingeka balandele ukugcina izithombe ezingcolile ezinganeni!
Yize ngisiqonda lesi sifiso, angivumelani naso. ngicabanga ukuthi ezombusazwe lowo mthetho wawuyoba nzima ukudlula, futhi cishe kungaba nzima ukuphoqelela. Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuzodingeka zichazwe ngandlela thile (cishe akunakwenzeka - i-porn yokulutha yomuntu oyedwa yividiyo eyisicefe yomunye umuntu wesifazane ogqoke izingubo ezimnandi ezibhema ugwayi). Futhi-ke uhlelo kuzodingeka lusungulwe ukugcina izingane kepha hhayi abanye ekufinyeleleni ezingcolile. Kuyinto iresiphi yokubusa kukahulumeni i-Intanethi, kanye nomnyango ovulekile wokuvimbela zonke izinhlobo. Cha ngiyabonga.
Ngicabanga ukuthi Ubunono bakho ku-Porn ukugcizelela imfundo yenza umqondo omkhulu kakhulu. Cabanga ukuthi bangaki abantu abafika emgwaqeni wokuthola kabusha ngokuthola nje kuphela ukhona yokulutha kwe-PMO. Futhi abafana abaningi bathi, "Ukube ngangazi, ngangingeke ngiziyekele ngibanjwe." Bakhombisa ukuthi lokhu kuyiqiniso ngokusebenza kanzima ukuze bangabanjwa.
Kodwa imfundo idinga abantu ukuba balalele. Futhi kuyinselele enkulu ukwenza abantu balalele inkulumo ethize neyinkimbinkimbi [yesayensi] yokulutha kabi kwezocansi.
Njengamanje asibheki izithombe ezingcolile ze-Intanethi ngendlela efanele. Siyanengwa yiyo noma siyayithanda, futhi alukho uhlangothi oluthola umbono wokuthi i-porn ye-Intanethi iyalutha njengogwayi noma amanzi kashukela. Izingxoxo eziningi zisuswa ngakolunye uhlangothi zimemeza zithi “Phambukisa!” nolunye uhlangothi lumemeza luthi "Prude!" Womabili la maqembu ahlala engazi ukuthi kwenzakalani ngempela ebuchosheni bentsha yethu ngenkathi befunda ukuthi ucansi = i-porn ye-Intanethi.
Ukukhuthazwa kwe I-YBOP Isisekelo sibhekene nokuphikiswa cishe cishe wonke amaqembu:
AmaLabhali zivame ukuhambisana nesayensi, kepha ukusabela okuguqayo emadolweni kunoma ngubani okhuluma ngobungozi banoma yiluphi uhlobo lwenkulumo kwenza izinkululeko zibe yimodi yokuhlasela. Bajwayele kakhulu abantu abalwa nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ukuba ngabaziphethe kahle ngokwenkolo abazama ukushaya umthetho kusuka eBhayibhelini ukuthi imvamisa (ngokungafanele) benza iphutha kuGary Wilson ngomunye walaba bantu ekuqaleni. AmaLiberal adinga i-porn ukuthi ingabi nangozi ukuze ihlale iyiqiniso ukuthi akukho lutho oluvikelwe ngaphansi kweSichibiyelo Sokuqala olwenza ingozi. Kunzima ukubhekana neqiniso eliyinkimbinkimbi lokuthi uhlobo oluthile lokukhuluma lungahle lufanelekele ukuvikelwa futhi lube nobungozi ebuchosheni. Kulula ukukholelwa ukuthi ayikho inkinga edinga ukubhekana.
AmaLibertarians bavame ukuba abahlakaniphile kanye nesayensi kanjalo. Nokho, ukugcina imibono yabo, ama-libertarians adinga konke ukuba zombili futhi engenabungozi. Yonke imishanguzo kufanele ibe semthethweni - ngakho-ke noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka mayelana nemilutha egijima emgwaqweni kufanele kuchithwe njengokukhathazeka okungenangqondo. Konke ukudla kufanele kube semthethweni - ngakho-ke abasebenza ngokukhululeka badedela noma ngubani ukukhuluma mayelana nezingozi eziluthayo zokunikezwa kwethu kokudla okwenziwe ngcono njengamanje njengoba "isimo somzanyana" sigcizelela isihogo sokuthatha amalungelo ethu. Futhi-ke noma ngubani ophakamisa ukuthi i-porn ingahle ibe nezindawo zokulutha okufanele amadoda ahlakaniphile azicabangele ngaphambi kokuzisebenzisa kuyisimo esingalungile sobulili. Abantu baseLibertari banesihlungi esiqine ngokweqile esigcina noma iyiphi impikiswano, noma ngabe inomsindo kangakanani, engaholela umuntu onengqondo ukuthi acabangele ukukhawulela noma yimaphi amalungelo.
Ama-Conservatives babonakala njengabahlanganyeli bemvelo ekukhuthazeni izingozi ze-porn. Kepha lokho kungenxa yokuthi bathambekele ekubukeni ubulili ngokwalo njengento eyingozi futhi edinga ukulawulwa kobushiqela. Futhi abantu abalondolozayo inkolo basondela kule mpikiswano ngombono oqinile wokuphikisana nesayensi. Izimpikiswano ezisuselwa ku-biology yokuziphendukela kwemvelo - ukuphela kwezimpikiswano okufanele zenziwe, ngamanye amagama - azikho. Ukuvumelana okukhohlisayo phakathi kwabavangeli ukuthi imfundiso yokuziphendukela kwemvelo ngokuzikhethela kwemvelo bamanga futhi kuholela abantu kude noNkulunkulu. Ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kuphikisana kakhulu kune-porn. Ama-Conservatives angaphikisana "nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile", kepha izizathu zabo zokuthi kungani, futhi ikakhulukazi isifiso sabo sokusebenzisa umthetho ukuguqula isimilo sabo sibe yimithetho, babenze abalingani abanobuthi abazonikeza abantu abanengqondo esinye isizathu sokuchitha zonke izimpikiswano "zokulwa nezocansi" njengokuqonda okugqugquzelwa ngokwenkolo.
Abesifazane, iqoqo elibalulekile labakhululekile, futhi libukeka njengabahlanganyeli bemvelo. Ubukhokho abukho ukubonakaliswa okucacile kunokubuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili. Abadlali besifazane abasebancane kwezocansi bavame ukuhlukunyezwa yisipiliyoni sabo. Futhi abesifazane abaningi, kubandakanya nabesifazane, abafuna nje ubulili obuhle obuphilile nabalingani babo besilisa banqatshelwa lolu phiko olubalulekile lokuluthwa ngumlutha we-PMO wesilisa. Kepha abashisekeli besifazane banezizathu ezintathu ezinhle zokungafuni ukungena kule mpikiswano. Okokuqala, "abesifazane abanesifiso sokuya ocansini" benze ukugxeka ezocansi kwanoma ngubani kunempikiswano phakathi kwesifazane - noma yini ethathwa njengokugxeka ukukhetha kwamahhala kwabathengisi bezocansi ibhekwa njengabamelene nabesifazane. Okwesibili, i-psychology yokuziphendukela kwemvelo iyenqatshwa cishe yibo bonke abesifazane abadumile; bakubona kuyincazelo yokuthi “kunjalo nje” nezaba zamadoda enza noma yini afuna ukuyenza. Yonke imibono iyamelana nesayensi ephazamisayo, futhi ubufazi buyinto ehlukile. Okwesithathu, ukubona kahle inkinga lapha ngokuthi “ukuluthwa” kuthatha isilinganiso somthwalo kumuntu ngamunye futhi kudinga nozwela ngaye. Ubuntu besifazane abuyithandi enye yalezi.
Abasebenzisi be-Porn, abasesikhundleni sokuzuza kakhulu kule ngxoxo, kungaba kakhulu ukumelana nombono. Akuthathi isikhathi eside i-ad hominem ukuhlaselwa ukuze kube ukuzivikela okuyinhloko okuthunywe umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile lapho ebhekene nokulutha kwakhe, ngisho nasendleleni ebonakalayo. Abasebenzisi abadala be-porn abazwayo mayelana namadoda abasha abahlukumezayo ED isiqiniseko ukuthi esinye isici njengokudla kufanele sisebenze, noma ngabe kucacisiwe ukuthi abafana abathintekile bangakuthola ukuthola izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kodwa hhayi abesifazane abasha abashisayo bangempela. Kunjengokungathi i-hindbrain inebutho elizinikele lamaseli obuchopho eli-oda ukuhlaselwa ngokushesha, okungenangqondo, nokuqinile kunoma ngubani osabisayo i-porn eyigugu. Njengoba kuvamile ukulutha umlutha, umsebenzisi we-porn kumele "ashaye phansi" nge-ED noma acindezeleke kakhulu ngaphambi kokuthi avulekele emcabangweni wokuthi ukuchitha amahora wanking nsuku zonke kwi-porn eyeqile ye-Intanethi kungabonisa isimilo esiyinkinga.
Ngamafuphi, cishe akekho ibekiwe ukuthi ifune ukuba nengxoxo mayelana nezingozi zangempela, ezisekelwa ngokwesayensi zokusetshenziswa kocansi ebuchosheni bomuntu. Futhi-ke asinayo ingxoxo.
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- Ukuxilongwa okusemthethweni? Umbhalo wezokwelapha wezokwelapha osetshenziswa kakhulu emhlabeni, I-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), iqukethe ukuxilongwa okusha efanelekile ukulutha izidakamizwa: "Ukucindezeleka Ngokuziphatha Ngokwemvelo. "(I-2018)
- Ukulutha kobulili / ucansi? Leli khasi libala Ucwaningo lwe-39 lwe-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikeza ukusekela okuqinile ngesimodeli sokulutha kwezidakamizwa njengoba iziphumo zabo zibuyisa ukutholakala kwezinzwa ezibikiwe ezifundweni zokulutha izidakamizwa.
- Imibono yangempela yezobuchwepheshe ekubhekaneni nocansi / ucansi? Lolu hlu luqukethe Ukubuyekezwa kwezincwadi ezingama-16 zakamuva nezincazelo ngezinye zezazi eziphezulu zezinzwa emhlabeni. Bonke basekela imodeli yokulutha.
- Izimpawu zokulutha umlutha nokukhula kwezinto ezimbi kakhulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokubika okutholakele okuhambisana nokwanda kokusetshenziswa kocansi (ukubekezelelana), ukujwayela i-porn, kanye nezimpawu zokuhoxa (zonke izimpawu nezimpawu ezihlobene nokulutha).
- Ukubheka iphuzu lokukhuluma elingasekelwa ukuthi "isifiso sobulili esiphakeme" sichaza ukulahla ucansi noma ukulutha ngokobulili: Okungenani izifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa isimangalo sokuthi ubulili nemilutha ye-porn "banesifiso esiphakeme sobulili"
- Izinkinga zobulili nezinkinga zobulili? Lolu hlu luqukethe izifundo ze-26 ezixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn / ukubheja kocansi ezinkingeni zobulili kanye nokuvusa okuncane ezenzweni zobulili. I fiziqu ze-5 ezingekho ohlwini zibonisa ibangela, njengoba abahlanganyeli beqede ukusetshenziswa kwezingcolile kanye nokuphulukisa okungavamile kocansi.
- Imiphumela yocansi ebuhlotsheni? Ucwaningo oluseduze lwe-60 luxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kuya ekungeneni kocansi nokuzaneliseka komndeni. (Njengoba sifana nathi konke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zabika ukusetshenziswa okuningi kocansi okuxhunyiwe abampofu ubulili noma ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano.)
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta impilo engokomzwelo nengqondo? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-55 zixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kocansi nezimpofu ezingokwengqondo-ezingokomzwelo nemiphumela empofu yokuqonda.
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta izinkolelo, isimo sengqondo nokuziphatha? Hlola izifundo ngabanye - ngaphezu kokuqukethwe kwe-25 ukuxilongwa kwe-porn ukuze "isimo sengqondo esingafani" kubesifazane kanye nokubukwa kobulili - noma isifinyeto kusuka kulolu cwaningo lwe-2016 meta: Imidiya nezocansi: Umbuso woPhando lwezobuciko, i-1995-2015. Umbhalo:
Umgomo walokhu kubuyekezwa kwakungenxa yokwenza umsebenzi wokuhlola uphenyo wemiphumela yokuhlolisisa imidiya. Okugxile ekucwaningweni okushicilelwe ezincwadini zamaphephandaba ezibukezwa kontanga, phakathi kwe-1995 ne-2015. Isamba sezincwadi ze-109 eziqukethe izifundo ze-135 zibuyekezwe. Ukutholakala kwahlinzeka ngokufakazela okuphelele ukuthi kokubili ukuvezwa kwelabhoratri kanye nokwehliswa kwansuku zonke, okuqukethwe kwansuku zonke kulokhu okuqukethwe kuhambisana ngqo nemiphumela eminingi, kufaka phakathi amazinga aphezulu okunganeliseki komzimba, ukuzethemba okukhulu, ukwesekwa okukhulu kwezinkolelo zobulili kanye nezinkolelo zobulili ezingathandeki, futhi ukubekezelela okukhulu kobudlova ngokocansi kubesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuvezwa kokuhlolwa kwalokhu okuqukethwe kuholela kokubili abesifazane nabesilisa ukuba babe nombono owehlisiwe wokufaneleka kwamakhosikazi, ukuziphatha nokubambisana kwabantu.
- Kuthiwani ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili nokusetshenziswa kocansi? Okunye ukuhlaziywa kwemeta: Ukuhlaziywa Kwemifanekiso Yezingcolile zobulili kanye Nemisebenzi Yezenzo Zokuhlukunyezwa Ngokobulili Ezingxoxweni Ezivamile Zabantu (2015). Umbhalo:
Ucwaningo lwe-22 oluvela emazweni ahlukene we-7 luhlaziywe. Ukusetshenziswa kwakuhlotshaniswa nokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili e-United States nakwamanye amazwe, phakathi kwamadoda nabesilisa, nasemifundweni engezansi kanye neyesikhathi eside. Izinhlangano zaziqinisile kunomlomo ngaphezu kokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, nakuba zombili zazibalulekile. Iphethini elijwayelekile lemiphumela lisikisela ukuthi okuqukethwe okubudlova kungase kube yinto ekhudlwana.
- Kuthiwani ngokusetshenziswa kocansi kanye nentsha? Hlola lolu hlu lwaphezulu Ucwaningo lwezingane ze-200, noma lokhu kubuyekezwa kwe-2012 yocwaningo - Umthelela Wezithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Ze-Intanethi Kubantwana Abasha: Ukubukezwa kocwaningo (2012). Kusuka esiphelweni:
Ukwandiswa kwe-intanethi yizingane ezisencane kudala amathuba angakaze abe khona okufundiswa ngokocansi, ukufunda nokukhula. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingozi yokulimala ebonakalayo kulezi zincwadi iye yaholela abacwaningi ukuba baphenye ukuvezwa kwentsha ezithombeni ezingcolile ezenzweni zokuzama ukuhlukanisa lobu buhlobo. Ngokubambisana, lezi zifundo ziphakamisa ukuthi intsha edla izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ingahlakulela izinkolelo nezinkolelo ezingacabangi ngokocansi. Phakathi kokufundwayo, amazinga aphezulu wemicabango yokuziphatha ngokocansi, ukukhathazeka ngokocansi, nokuhlolwa kwangaphambili kobulili kuhlotshaniswa nokusetshenziswa kaningi kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile .... Noma kunjalo, ukutholakala okuqhubekayo kuye kwavela ukuxhumana kokusetshenziswa kwentsha yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezisemuva ezibonisa ubudlova ngezinga eliphakeme lokuziphatha kocansi. Lezi zincwadi zibonisa ukuthi kukhona ukuhlangana phakathi kokusetshenziswa kwentsha engcolile nokuzicabangela. Amantombazane abika azizwe engaphansi kwabesifazane abakubukayo ezintweni ezingcolile zobulili, kuyilapho abafana besaba ukuthi ngeke babe njengabantu abafana nalabo abakhona kulezi zindaba. Intsha iyabika ukuthi ukusebenzisa kwabo izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kunciphile njengoba ukuzethemba kwabo nentuthuko yezenhlalakahle kwanda. Ukwengeza, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi intsha esebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ikakhulukazi etholakala kuyi-intanethi, inezilinganiso eziphansi zokuhlanganiswa komphakathi, ukwanda kwezinkinga zokuziphatha, amazinga aphezulu okuziphatha okuhlukumezayo, izimo eziphakeme zezibonakaliso zokucindezeleka, futhi ukunciphisa ukuhlanganiswa ngokomzwelo nabanakekeli.
- Ukuze uthole i-debunking cishe cishe yonke iphuzu lokukhuluma nge-naysayer nokutadisha okuthandwa yi-cherry bheka lokhu kuhlaziywa okubanzi: Debunking "Kungani Sikhathazeke Ngokukhathazeka Ngokubuka Izithombe Ezingcolile?? ", NguMarty Klein, Taylor Kohut, noNicole Prause (2018). Indlela yokuqaphela ama-athikili abathandwayo: Bakusho Prause et al., 2015 (ngokumangalela ukuthi ihlambalaza izidakamizwa ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile), ngenkathi ishiya ngaphezu kwezifundo ezingu-3 ezinokwenziwa kwezinkanyezi ezisekela ukulutha kocansi.
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