Ukubukeka kwesayensi ngemuva kokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okubangelwa ucansi.
03 / 06 / 2016 6: 26 AM AEST | Kubuyekeziwe Juni 21, 2016 12: 39
Emily Blatchford Hlanganisa Umhleli Wendlela Yokuphila, i-HuffPost Australia
Wake wahlangabezana negama elibizwa ngePIED? Limele 'Ukubambisana Okubambisene Kunokukhubazeka Kwe-Erectile', futhi yisimo esithinta izinsizwa zase-Australia.
Eqinisweni, ngokusho komeluleki wezobudlelwano, umelaphi wezocansi kanye nomhlobo we-Impotence Australia, u-Alinda Small, hhayi kuphela amacala we-PIED ngokwanda, yilokho asebenzisana kakhulu nakho eSydney yakhe umkhuba wangasese.
"Ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okubangelwa ucansi empeleni kuyisethulo esikhulu kunazo zonke engisibonayo njengamanje," kusho uSmall etshela iThe Huffington Post Australia. "Abafana abaningi engibabonayo banomlutha wezocansi futhi ngenxa yalokho banezinkinga zokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile."
Ngakho yini i-PIED?
Okokuqala, ake sikhulume ngokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile. I-ED yisimo lapho indoda ingakwazi ukuthola noma ukugcina i-firm erection eyanele ngokwenza ucansi. Kukhona izizathu eziningi ukuthi kungani indoda ingaba ne-ED (kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo), kufaka phakathi izizathu zezempilo.
Esinye sezimbangela zengqondo, okuyisenzakalo esanda kwenzeka, kucatshangwa ukuthi sincike ngokweqile kwizithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-Inthanethi zokuvuselela. Lokhu kuyi-PIED.
"Sinesimo lapho sonke isizukulwane samadoda sikhule sibheka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwi-intanethi," kuchaza uSmall. "Ishintsha indlela izinhlelo eziyisisekelo zobuchopho bethu - uhlelo lwemiklomelo - olusebenza ngayo empeleni."
“Kufika eqophelweni lapho ukulindela ubumnandi kuphakame kakhulu, ucansi olujwayelekile nomlingani wangempela onganikezi lokho.
Isebenza kanjani?
"Ngokuyinhloko, okwenzekayo amazinga akho e-dopamine athola ukukhahlelwa lapho unesici 'senoveli', futhi i-porn iyona nto ebaluleke kunazo zonke," kusho uSmall.
“Uma usuyilutha, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ziya ngokuya ziba zimbi kakhulu, ngakho-ke abantu baqala ukuzitholela isigqoko.
“Kufinyelela eqophelweni lapho ukulindela ubumnandi kuphakame kakhulu, ucansi olujwayelekile nomlingani wangempela onganikezi lokho. Akuyona inoveli, ikakhulukazi esimweni lapho, ngokwesibonelo, umfana enentombi yesikhathi eside.
"Ezimweni eziningi bangancamela ukuba wanking bodwa ngoba bathola lokho."
Uma ukhetha ukucabanga kwezimo zocansi ezisesikrinini kunokwangempela, ucansi lwempilo yangempela luzwakala luxakile kuwe, uSmall uthi kungenxa yokuthi ukutholakala, ukufinyeleleka, ukwehluka kanye nenani elikhulu le-porn ngaphandle lapho kuningi kakhulu ongancintisana nakho.
"Akukho neyodwa indaba [yangempela] engashaya izindaba ezihlukene ezingama-20 ezikrinini ezihlukene eziyi-10 ngasikhathi sinye," kusho uSmall.
“Futhi sikhuluma noma yini kusuka [ebudlelwaneni bezocansi] nezilwane kuya ekuchamelaneni omunye nomunye - ubuchopho bombukeli buvele budlulele ngokweqile.
“Esikhundleni sesithombe esisodwa unabahlanu noma abayisithupha bese uvele uthole umlutha walolo shintsho oluthile.
“Ngokudabukisayo, uma unomlingani wangempela empilweni, awutholi ukushesha okufanayo. Kuyethusa impela. ”
Kungani kwenzeka manje?
Yize kusobala ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zilokhu ziningi kakhulu, i-intanethi iye yafaka amazinga omusha okudingekayo, futhi iyaqhubeka ikhula. Eqinisweni, kuye kwaphakanyiswa ngoba abantu abaningi banokufinyelela ku-porn namuhla, imboni yezocansi yenza imali engaphezu kwayo yonke imidlalo yezemidlalo ehlangene.
"Ukulutha kabi kocansi kuyinkinga enkulu kakhulu okwamanje," kusho uSmall. “Kusabisa kakhulu izingane ezisencane ngoba [ukufinyelela izithombe ezingcolile kuyi-Internet] yikho kuphela ezikwaziyo.
“Isibonelo, elinye iklayenti engilibonayo liyintombi eneminyaka engu-23 ubudala. Angayigcina kuze kufike lapho kungena khona, kepha bese elahlekelwa ukwakheka kwakhe.
“Yingoba akazi ukuthi ubhekene nani. Akazi ukuthi isitho sangasese sowesifazane sizozizwa kanjani empeleni, futhi ukhathazeka ngokumangazayo ngakho. Konke akwaziyo yilokho akubonile ku-inthanethi.
“Eqinisweni, ososayensi baxoxa manje ukuthi silahlekelwa kanjani yilezo zithandani ezihlanganisa abantu abebelokhu benazo. Kunemibono eguqukayo yokuthi uthando luyini, luyini uthando.
“Iqiniso liwukuthi, ucansi luyisidina futhi luyamosheka okokuqala ngqa. Kepha ababoni lokho lapho bebuka izithombe ezingcolile. Ihlelwe kahle futhi ihlelwe kahle futhi owesifazane uyahlanya ngokujabula. ”
Isiphi isayensi esisitshelayo
Ngesikhathi i-PIED ingakacaciswa ngokugcwele futhi iphandwa, i inani elikhulayo lochwepheshe baqaphela izinkinga zobulili ezibangelwa ucansi kanye nezinkinga abazimele emphakathini wanamuhla.
Njengoba iNcane encane ngaphambili, inkolelo yezesayensi ethuthukayo yokuthi ukubheja kocansi kungabangela ukuphazanyiswa kokubambisana kokubili, futhi ngenxa yalokho, "Ukukhanga okuncane kumlingani oyedwa kungaba umphumela wokuchayeka ngokweqile, ngokusho kocwaningo."
Ukusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi kakhulu futhi kubonakala kuthinta uhlelo lokujikeleza komvuzo wobuchopho kanye nendlela esebenza ngayo, umphumela ovele ubonakale kakhulu uma kunikezwa ukuthi kulula kanjani ukufinyelela amanoveli angapheli ngokuqhafaza okukodwa.
Ngamafuphi, ukusetshenziswa okungcolile kobulili kungathinta umsebenzi wezocansi kanye nokuxhumana ngokomzwelo, futhi, njengoba kubhalwe iNcane ku-blog yakamuva, "Uma sibheka ukuthi u-35% wakho konke ukulandwa kwe-inthanethi kuyizithombe zocansi singaqiniseka ukuthi i-porn isazohlala futhi sizothola kabanzi ngomthelela ... ngokuzayo."
Okufanele ngikwenze?
Ngokusho kweNcane, enye yezinkinga ezinkulu ezibhekene nalabo abangase babe ne-porn-eyabangela i-ED yiqiniso abavame ukwenqaba ukukhuluma ngakho.
"Inkinga abantu abaningi abakhulumi ngayo, ikakhulukazi abafana abancane," kusho uSmall. “Kudinga isibindi esikhulu ukuyokwethula i-GP yakho, nokuyinto abantu abavame ukuyenza. I-GP ingahle inikeze izinombolo ezithile zabelaphi bezocansi kepha imvamisa abesilisa abanaso isibindi sokubiza isikhathi esithile.
“Kuyingxenye yesimo somuntu. Abesilisa bakubona njengokukhombisa ubudoda babo, ngakho-ke kunengqondo ukuthi ukwethula okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu kubo bonke ubudoda babo, futhi ukuvuma ukuthi ayisebenzi… kahle, abantu abakhulumi ngayo ngoba iyaphoxa. ”
Lokhu kungabonisa nezinselelo ezinkulu kulabo abathintekayo ebuhlotsheni obude.
"Uma unomlingani, ikakhulukazi umlingani we-hetero, kungaba nzima," kusho uSmall. “Abesifazane bathatha mathupha. Bacabanga ukuthi abathandeki ngokwanele noma abenzi okuthile.
"Abangaqapheli ukuthi akukaze kube yilokho - inqubo yokucabanga kwabesilisa."
“Musa ukuhlala nayo. Akuyona into ongayinqoba uwedwa.
Omncoma uncoma labo abathintekayo ukuthi bangase babe nezindaba ezithile nge-erectile ukungasebenzi kufanele bafune usizo lobuchwepheshe.
"Iya kwi-GP yakho noma uye kobona umelaphi wezocansi, okokuqala ngqa," kusho uSmall. “Sibhekana nezocansi nsuku zonke. Akukaze kube khona ukwahlulela, kuyinto esiyibona njalo.
“Kubalulekile ukuba nesibindi sokushaya leyo foni yokuqala, ngoba kukhona ongakhetha kukho laphaya.
“Musa ukuhlala nayo. Akuyona into ongayinqoba uwedwa. Ukuhlala ekamelweni lakho ufunda incwadi ngeke kukusize ukunqobe ngokwakho. ”
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