NguSylvia Pownall (isixhumanisi esihlokweni sokuqala)
I-Ireland isesimweni sokuhlukunyezwa kwezidakamizwa ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile nezingane ezincane njengama-SEVENs ekudalweni kwezinto ezilinganiselwe ku-inthanethi. Manje sibheka okwesine emhlabeni ekusetshenzisweni kobulili nge-capitale ngemuva kwe-UK, Canada nase-US - futhi ukukhathazeka kwethu nayo kushayela imibhangqwana ngaphandle nokuphazamisa izimpilo.
Abahlinzeki bezinsizakalo namaqembu okusekela baye babika ukunyuka okukhulu ngonyaka odlule ngezinombolo ezifuna usizo lokuzikhukhumeza kwabo. Okhulumela i-Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous Ireland wathi: "Kubonakala sengathi ukwanda okukhulu ekusetshenzisweni kobulili ngokobulili kufaka phakathi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
"Manje izingane ezincane ezineminyaka engu-7 noma eyisishiyagalombili ziyazibandakanya nayo, ngokungazelelwe ezimweni eziningi, kodwa zingabangela izinkinga ezinkulu.
"Sithole omunye umuntu ofuna usizo ngesikhathi sika-25 owaqala ukusebenzisa i-porn eneminyaka engu-10."
Uthe ukuvela kwama-laptops, amaphilisi kanye nama-smartphones kwakwenze ucansi lwe-inthanethi lufinyeleleke kubantu ukuze babheke ekusithekeni.
Umkhulumeli wanezela: "Ukwanda kuyesabisa. Lawa manxiwa ahlala. Abantu abaningi basezansi edwaleni lapho beza kithi. Ezimweni eziningi libhubhisa umshado wabo nemindeni yabo.
"Ukuzibulala kungase kube yisinyathelo esilandelayo ngoba bazizwa bephansi kakhulu.
"Inkinga ayikho imithethonqubo eseduze nayo. Kufana nomgijimi ongangena esitolo futhi adle umlutha wabo, kufana ne-porn, kubonakala sengathi akukho mingcele yokufinyelela kuyo. "
U-Psychotherapist nomlobi uThish Murphy uthi ubonile ukukhuphuka okukhulu kwezinombolo ezifuna usizo lokuzikhukhumeza kwabo.
Wathi: "Kuvame kakhulu. Ngibona abantu abaningi abangakwazi ukuyeka ukusetshenziswa kocansi, abayandisa futhi bazizwe benengwa ngokuthi kuthatha impilo yabo yonke, ongakwazi ukusebenza nomunye umuntu ngenxa yalokho. "
Wathi abasebenzisi abaningi babe nobuhlobo obunempilo ne-porn - kodwa kwabanye okuqala njengokufuna ukwazi kungaholela eminyakeni yokukhohlisa, icala, nehlazo njengoba beqhubeka bebhekene necala.
"Akuwona wonke umuntu onenkinga," kusho uTrish. "Iningi labantu liphuma kulo, kodwa abantu abathintekayo emphakathini kubonakala sengathi bayasondela ngenxa yokuthi i-porno ikhuthaza lokho futhi iyodwa.
"Ekuqaleni kungabonakala kungenabungozi, kepha kungangena ekhamera yewebhu ebukhoma futhi kuhambisane nezinto, ezingangcolisa ubuhlobo.
"Kulula kakhulu ukungena kule ndawo emnyama lapho udidekile khona ngoba lokho okushiya khona kuyadabukisa. Uyesaba ukuthi othile uzothola lokho ngawe.
"Abanye abantu bayaqhubeka futhi beqhubeka nokuthola ukushaywa okukhulu. Bazithola bethola injabulo futhi bahileleke ezintweni ezibacasulayo kamuva.
"Ngiyazi abantu abazochitha amahora ayisishiyagalombili ngosuku bebukela izithombe ezingcolile bese behlukana kakhulu ngenxa yomphakathi.
"Sinabantu ebuhlotsheni lapho umlingani oyedwa elala futhi omunye umlingani uya ku-intanethi amahora ambalwa. Kukhona umqondo wokungathengiswa kanye nengxenye esondelene kakhulu yempilo yabo engabelwanga.
"Noma mhlawumbe lowo muntu unezifiso zobulili ezingamukeleki komunye umuntu futhi kanjalo ukusondelana kuyaqhubeka kancane kancane kule minyaka."
U-Trish waxwayisa ngezingozi zokuthumelelana imiyalezo nge-SMS futhi wathi abantu abasha babebekwe obala ngezinto ezilinganiselwe ngaphambi kokuba balungele ukubhekana nalo.
Uthi: "Kuyinto eyingozi kakhulu, kodwa yonke indawo futhi kudingeka siyiqaphele. Abazali kudingeka baqale ingxoxo nezingane zabo kulo lonke udaba lwezocansi nocansi. "
Isevisi yezempilo yengqondo yasungulwa eSt John of God's Hospital eDublin eminyakeni emithathu eyedlule ehlose ukubhekana nokulutha kwezidakamizwa kanye nezifiso zocansi ezimbi kakhulu.
Izingqinamba ezihlanganisiwe zifaka ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile, ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwe-porn nokuziphatha kwe-paraphilic - lapho othile evuswa ngokucabanga nangokuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okubi ngokocansi okungabandakanya into, izilwane noma ukubangela ubuhlungu.
UDkt. Fergal Rooney, isazi sezokwelapha esilungisa le nsizakalo, wathi: "Sithole inani elikhulayo labantu abakunzima ngenxa yokusetshenziswa kocansi.
"Ngezinye izikhathi ukusetshenziswa kwazo kuhamba endaweni engekho emthethweni lapho bezobe bebuka izithombe zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane, kodwa lokho kungaba okubi kakhulu.
"Ngokuvamile basebenzisa i-porn kuze kube yilapho ephazamisa ukuphila kwabo kwansuku zonke futhi abakwazi ukuxhumana ngokobulili nomlingani wabo.
"Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile azizinhle. Akuyona into emnandi ukuthi umuntu ahlale emahoreni ekubukeni kwe-porn ekugcineni. Akusijabulisi ngalesosigaba futhi sekuphoqelekile.
"Lapho abantu besebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingaphezu kohlobo olubi kakhulu lwezenzo zocansi ababhekana nazo, futhi lokho kuhlambalaza ngokobulili.
"Bangathola ukuthi banesithakazelo kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokuziphatha ezivame ukungabathandeki, njengokubambezeleka ngesondo sangasese okuqhutshwa yi-porn.
"Lokhu kuholela ezindabeni zokusondelana futhi sizobona inamba enhle yamadoda amasha abhekana nezinkinga zokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile."
Ngokusho kwe-Pornhub umsebenzisi wase-Ireland osejwayelekile usebenzisa imizuzu eyisishiyagalolunye nemizuzwana engu-48 ngokuvakashela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. I-tennis kaKim Kardashian ngo-Ray Jay isalokhu ibhekwa kakhulu emhlabeni jikelele ngokubheka ukubuka kwe-150million.
Amagama ajwayelekile asesho asetshenziswe e-Ireland ahlanganisa i-MILF, umama, ugandaganda, umama wengane, ushintsho kanye nosomabhizinisi, kanti ingxenye eyodwa yezivakashi ezisesayini ngabesifazane.
- Ukuze uthole imininingwane yemihlangano ye-SLAA Ireland bheka www.slaaireland.org, noma xhumana no-01 2771662 noma vakashela ku-www.sjog.ie.
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