Udokotela osebenza ngengqondo ocansini waseManchester uye waxwayisa ukuthi ukulutha ngokweqile kobulili ezingcolile kubangela ukukhuphuka kwenani labantu abanempilo, abasha abafuna usizo lwezokwelapha ekusebenziseni i-erectile.
Ukuphazamiseka kwe-erectile okubangelwa ucansi (PIED) yinkinga entsha yocansi echaphazela isizukulwane samadoda asekhulile ekufinyeleleni okungenamkhawulo kwezinto ezicacile.
Ukuba nokufinyelela okungavinjelwe ekugqugquzelweni okuphezulu ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zinikeza kungabangela ukuhlukunyezwa okwenziwe ngokobulili, ngokusho kwengqondo kwengqondo yengqondo uJanet Eccles.
"Ukuya ocansini nomlingani wesikhathi eside kungase kuhlupheke ngoba umsebenzisi ongcolile akajabuli ngokwanele," kuchaza.
"Okulahlekelwa yilapho umqondo wobuntu bomuntu uwukuthi wena nomlingani wakho okhethiwe."
Amakhulu abantu abhekana nemiphumela ye-PIED baye babika ukuthi babhekana nale nkinga yangempela emidlalweni yokulutha izidakamizwa - ezinye zazo ezigcwala izigidi ezihlaselwa ngosuku.
Omunye osebenzisa isithangami ebhala ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe wathi: “Imikhuba yami yezithombe zocansi nokushaya indlwabu yayenze 'indoda yami empofu' yaba yinto engeyinhle, engapheli, engenamsebenzi emzimbeni wami eyayingafuni nje noma eyayikuthanda ukunakwa kwabesifazane bangempela.”
Omunye umuntu, oneminyaka engu-22, wathi: "Ngangesaba ukulala nobulili nentombi yami ngenxa yokuthi ngangisongelwa ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-erectile engaphezu kwami."
“Ngangivame ukumelana nokusizakala kwakhe futhi ngenze izaba zokuthi kungani singakwazi ukuya ocansini ngoba ngangivele ngishaye indlwabu ngalolo suku futhi ngangingekho esimweni sengqondo noma ngoba nganginovalo lokuthi angikwazi ukudlala futhi kufanele ngihlupheke amahloni, amahloni nokujivazeka kokungasebenzi kahle kwenduku. ”
Inani elikhulayo lezinsizwa liphendukela kuViagra ukuze lixazululwe le nkinga - kodwa indlela yokwelapha ivame ukungabi namsebenzi ngoba inkinga ngePIED iqala ebuchosheni.
"Inkinga yukuthi i-dopamine - i-hormone ekhishweyo eyenza isimo esithandekayo - siyingxenye yesifunda somvuzo ebuchosheni futhi singaba nesisusa esiyingozi," kuchaza uJanet.
"Singase sibone isithombe esisodwa ngelinye ilanga esisithandayo futhi sibuyele kuso ngokuphindaphindiwe, kuphela lapho sithola ukuthi asisijabulisi.
"Ngibone amaklayenti amaningi, naphezu kokungafuneki ukusebenzisa i-porn, azibonele ngokuphindaphindiwe kumasayithi we-porn."
Abasebenzisi baphela ngokufuna izinto ezimbi kakhulu ukuze bazuze 'okuphakeme' okufanayo futhi ucwaningo eCambridge University lifanise umsebenzi wezobuchopho obasebenzisa abasebenzisi bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ukuba babone izidakamizwa ezidakamizwa.
Omunye umuntu oneminyaka engu-20 obhala ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe wathi: "Ngangicabanga ukuthi kuyinto evamile, kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi ngangingumuntu we-dopamine junkie."
"Uma ucansi olubukeka kakhulu, uma udinga kakhulu futhi ucansi olukhudlwana udinga ukuzizwa uvukile ngokugcwele."
"Ekubi nakakhulu, ngangizibandakanya nezilwane ezihlala njalo, izigcawu eziningi ezithandana naye noma ezinye izinhlobo zobulili ezingcolile."
Isidingo sokuphoqelela ukuthola ukukhuthazwa okukhulu kusho ukuthi isikhungo senjabulo yobuchopho siyagxila ekuhlangenwe nakho okujwayelekile kocansi, okubangelwa ukungabi namaphuzu okuvuka kanye ne-erectile nabalingani bokuphila kwangempela.
"Kungenzeka ukuthi umqondo wokuxhumana ocansini obuseduze nomuntu owazi kahle nje 'awusenzi lutho' kubo ukuze baxoshwe kumlingani wabo futhi bagweme ucansi ngokuphelele," kusho uJanet.
Amadoda amaningi axoxa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ku-intanethi akhulume ngezindaba ezifanayo, echaza ukuthi ukubheja kwabo kwabaholela ekubeni bazizwe behlukanisiwe, becindezelekile futhi bengenakho ithemba.
Abanye baye babika imicabango yokuzibulala ngenxa yomlutha.
"Balahlekelwe umqondo wabo wemvelo wokuba ocansini - ukuvama kwemvelo kanye nokugeleza kwe-libido, ukusondelana nokududuza komlingani futhi bakhohlwe ukuthi ubulili bubaphi ngempela," kusho uJanet.
"Iba nesipiliyoni sama-robotic, ngokomzwelo, esikhundleni sokuhlanganyela, ukubopha."
Ngenxa yalokho, amadoda ahlukunyezwa yi-PIED kanye nokulutha umlutha ayakhuthazana ukuba bayeke umkhuba futhi baqale 'ukuvuselela kabusha' - inqubo yokupholisa kabusha ubuchopho ukuba ikhuthazwe yizimbangela zobulili zemvelo.
Labo abasesiteji sokubuyela emuva kuya kusezingeni eliyisisekelo baye babika ukuzwela okukhulu kakhulu kunezici ezicashile zocansi ezifana nokuthinta nokuphunga.
Omunye umuntu oneminyaka engu-19 echaza ukuthi 'uqale kabusha' wathi: "Amasonto okuqala ayewunzima kakhulu ngezifiso zokufutheka, ephelele futhi eveza ubuchopho obuchopho, ukwehlisa ithemba kanye nenjabulo enkulu kanye nokuguquka kwemizwelo enobudlova.
"I-porn-wired - manje enganelisekanga, i-dopamine-engenamandla - isistimu yezinzwa yangiguqulela ekugqibeleni okuphelele.
"Ngabe ngenza intuthuko enkulu; izikhalazo behla, isimiso sami sezinzwa kancane saziphendulela ngokuphendula ngokuvusa ukuthinta nokuphunga, esikhundleni sokukhanya okubandayo kwesikrini sekhompyutha.
"Njengoba ingqondo yami yacaca, ukuzethemba kwami kwanda kakhulu futhi ukukhathazeka kwami kwezenhlalakahle kwancipha."
Abanye abaningi baye bachaza uhambo 'lokubuyiselwa kabusha' njengokuthi 'ukuguqula ukuphila', okungathinti impilo yabo yesini kuphela - kodwa konke ukuzethemba kwabo.
"Ubulili obuhle ngokuphathelene nokuzijabulisa, ngokuphathelene nokukwazi ukuzwakalisa futhi uhlanganyele ngokwakho ngendlela ephephile, enothando, ejabulisayo noma enesizotha," kusho uJanet.
"Akukhona nje ukukopisha lokho okubonayo esikrinini sekhompyutheni."
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Kwangathi i-6, i-2014 | NguKat Woodcock
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