Ukuphila Ngokobulili Kwabesilisa Nokubukwa Okuphindaphindiwe Ezingcolile. Inkinga Entsha? (I-2015)

Source: Ijenali ye-Experiential Psychotherapy / Revista de PSIHOterapie Experientiala. I-Dec 2015, Vol. I-18 Issue 4, i-p40-45. I-6p.

Umbhali (s): I-Cotigă, Alin C .; I-Dumitrache, uSorina D.

Abstract:

Isingeniso:

Imiphumela yokusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kubantu besilisa ivezwa ngamakhulu obufakazi be-inthanethi nabachwepheshe ababhekana nemiphumela enjalo. Lesi sihloko siphakamisa imibuzo eqinile futhi sinquma ukusesha izimpendulo ezivumayo, njengoba le ndlela yokuziphatha iba umlutha kwezinye izimo. Kukhona ukucatshangelwa okukhulu phakathi kochwepheshe ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kungahlobene nezinye izinkinga.

Izinhloso:

Iphepha elikhona manje lihlose ukucacisa ezinye zezici zobulili kumongo wokusetshenziswa kwezithombe zocansi, emzameni wokuqonda zombili izindlela ezisetshenziselwa ubuchopho kanye nezici zengqondo ezibandakanyekile kuyo.

Izindlela:

Indlela esetshenzisiwe kwakuwukuphenya izincwadi nokuhlaziywa kwamacala athile emtholampilo esivela enkambisweni yethu.

Ezenye:

Ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zocansi kunomthelela ekuziphatheni komuntu njengoba esebenza kulolu hlobo lokugqugquzela ukubhekana nokunganeliseki kwempilo. Noma ngabe indlela yokuziphatha ephoqelelayo iphela ekuxolelweni, lowo muntu angahle abuyele emuva uma kungatholakali imbangela yangempela embeka ekusetshenzisweni kwempahla yezocansi. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukukhomba izindlela zokusebenza kwengqondo ezibangela futhi zigcine lokhu kuziphatha noma ezingathanda ukubuyela emuva.

Isiphetho:

Ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo kufanele bacabangele imiphumela engaba khona yokusebenzisa kabi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile yokuziphatha kwabesilisa, ubunzima besilisa kanye nezinye izimo zengqondo ezihlobene nobulili.


IZIPHUMA EZIQINILE KUSUKA KUESIFUNDO:

Ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo kufanele bacabangele imiphumela engaba khona yokusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezenzweni zokuziphatha ngokobulili, izinkinga zesilisa zobulili nezinye izimo zengqondo ezihlobene nocansi. Ezikhathini ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile kubonakala sengathi kudala ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, ikakhulukazi ukungakwazi komuntu ukuthola i-orgasm nomlingani wakhe. Umuntu ochitha iningi lokuphila kwakhe ngokobulili ngokushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi ebuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezithinta ubuchopho ekutheni abuyele emasimweni ayo ehlukene ngokobulili (Doidge, 2007) ukuze maduzane adinge ukuvuselela okubonakalayo ukuze afinyelele i-orgasm.

Izimpawu eziningi ezahlukene zokusetshenziswa kocansi, njengesidingo sokubandakanya umlingani ekubukeni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, kunzima ukuthola i-orgasm, isidingo sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ukuze kuguquleke zibe izinkinga zobulili. Lezi zimo zobulili zingase ziqhubeke izinyanga noma iminyaka futhi zingase zibe yingqondo nangokomzimba ezihambisana nokusebenza kabi kwe-erectile, nakuba kungeyona into eyenza ukungasebenzi. Ngenxa yalokhu kudideka, okudala ukuhlazeka, ukuhlazeka nokuphika, amadoda amaningi enqaba ukuhlangana nochwepheshe

Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zinikeza enye indlela elula ukuthola injabulo ngaphandle kokufakazela ezinye izinto ezihilelekile ekuziphatheni ngokocansi komlando wesintu. Ubuchopho buqala enye indlela yokuziphatha ngokobulili okungabandakanyi "omunye umuntu wangempela" kusukela ku-equation. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile esikhathini eside kwenza amadoda angenele ubunzima ekutholeni ukulungiswa phambi kozakwethu.