Ucwaningo Lwezingcingo: Ingabe Ukubuka Ukuchaza Ukukwenza-Noma Cha?

I-Porn iguqula ukuziphatha kocansi; ngakho yenza ezinye izinto

Isifundo esisha saseDashi (“Ingabe Ukubuka Ukuchaza Ukukwenza? Ukuhlola Inhlangano Ephakathi Kwezinto Ezibucayi Ukusetshenziswa Kokusetshenziswa Kwesisetshenziswa Nokuhlukunyezwa Ngokobulili Esikhathini Esikhulu Sama-Adolescents Nasebekhulile AbaseDutch") ithola ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuhambisana nokuziphatha kocansi okuyingozi ku-15 kuya ku-25 ubudala ubudala ... nokuthi nezinye izinto zenza kanjalo. Impela lokhu okutholakele akumangazi, akuhlukile futhi akukufanele ukumenyezelwa kabanzi.

Kodwa-ke, umfundi ongenasisindo ohlolisisa izihloko ezizwakalayo kanye nezicaphuno ezihlobene nazo zithola umqondo wokuthi wonke umuntu kufanele agxothe imiphumela yokusebenzisa i-inthanethi njengento engathandeki, futhi uhambe nje. Yilokho ngempela isiphetho sabahleli ku-AVN® Media Network, Inc (“umthombo ocacile wakho konke lokho ukuzijabulisa kwabantu abadala.”): Imiphumela Yokutadisha I-Downplay Impikiswano Ye-Porn ekuziphatheni kwentsha, Isikhathi: Ukutadisha: Izinqunu Azingabi Umthelela Omubi Ekuziphatheni Ngokwecansi, Futhi I-Huffpo: I-Porn Sebenzisa Impikiswano Yokuziphatha Ngokweqhaza Ngaphansi Kokuthi Ungase Ucabange, Kusho Ucwaningo.

Umlobi wokutadisha umholi uGert Martin Hald, isazi sezokwelapha esikliniki eYunivesithi yaseCopenhagen, wavula:

“Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile akuyona impisi enkulu futhi embi njengoba besicabanga, futhi mhlawumbe kufanele sigxile kwezinye izici. Ichaza ingxenye ethile yokuziphatha ngokocansi, kodwa inesizotha, ”

Empeleni, i-porn is “impisi enkulu futhi embi” uma kungukuthi ukwakhiwa kwakho akwenzeki (okuningi ngomzuzwana). Kunoma ikuphi, iziphetho zangempela zesifundo zikude kakhulu nesihloko;

“Lolu cwaningo luphakamisa ukuthi, lapho ulawula ezinye izici ezibalulekile, ukusetshenziswa kwe-Sexual Explicit Material (SEM) kunomthelela ekuziphatheni kocansi. Izinhlangano ezincane ezilinganiselayo ezavela phakathi kokusetshenziswa kwe-SEM nokuziphatha kocansi ngemuva kokulawula ezinye izinto eziguqukayo ziphakamisa ukuthi i-SEM ingesinye sezici eziningi ezingaba nomthelela ekuziphatheni kocansi kwentsha.

Okususwayo: Ukusetshenziswa kocansi kungakhuthaza izindlela ezithile zokuziphatha zocansi eziyingozi, kepha ezinye izinto zingakhuthaza. Lokhu okutholakele akusitsheli lutho ngobulili babasebenzisi abasha, njengokugculiseka kobudlelwano, umsebenzi wezocansi noma ubumnandi bezocansi. Okubaluleke kakhulu, lokhu okutholakele akusho lutho nge- izimpawu eziningi ezimbi Abasebenzisi abasha be-porn bachaza, noma izinzuzo eziningi babika lapho beqeda izithombe ezingcolile.

Ihlukumeza ngokujulile

Ukufuna ukwazi ukuthi ukutholakala okunjalo kwe-ho-hum kungagcina kanjani izinhloko ezinjalo zokulawula, sibheke ngokubheka. Ucwaningo luncane kakhulu lokusiphakamisa kunalokho esasiqalile ekuqaleni. Okokuqala, isifundo asimele, njengoba abacwaningi bevuma. Lithembele kumavolontiya ase-intanethi, abangu-70% babo ababengabesifazane (kuphela abangu-5% abasebenzisa i-porn kanye ngesonto noma ngaphezulu).

Abaphenyi bahlaziya kuphela izifundo ezazenze ucansi. Lokhu kungabonakala njengesimo esibalulekile esisobala ngoba ucwaningo beluhlola "ukuziphatha ngokocansi." Kodwa-ke, "ukuziphatha ngokocansi" iningi labasebenzisi banamuhla abancane (abesilisa) abasebenzisa i-porn abakhalaza ngalo ukungakwazi ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuvamile kwezocansi. Kungakho bezama ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-Intanethi.

Bikahlekelwa ukukhangwa kwabalingani bangempela, izinkinga zokusebenza ngocansi (ED, DE, ukungakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm nomlingani), ukulimaza ukukhathazeka komphakathi, njll Ngokuqapha kwabo ngokobulili kungenakuqeda, abambalwa kulaba bantu banakho ngisho nokukhetha ukuhlanganyela ocansini eliyingozi, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi kuqhuba ukuthembela kwabo okukhulayo kwi-pornography. Ezinye ziyizintombi-futhi azijabuli kakhulu ngakho. Bengeke bakhishwe kulolu cwaningo ngokuphelele.

Ngamanye amazwi, izingqungquthela eziphezulu ezithi ukusetshenziswa kwe-intanethi akuthinti lutho ekuziphatheni ngokocansi kudala ukucabanga okungamanga ukuthi impilo yezocansi ayinakukhubazeka kakhulu ukusetshenziswa kwe-inthanethi ye-inthanethi. Kodwa kuphela ukuziphatha ngokobulili abacwaningi ababenqume ngempela ukuthi:

  • Ubulili obuyingozi: (i) okuhlangenwe nakho ngama-threesomes; (ii) ubulili nomlingani ofanayo wobulili; futhi (iii) ubulili beqiniso kanye nomlingani ohlangene naye;
  • Ukwabelana kozakwethu: (i) yobudala ekuqaleni kokulala (eminyakeni); (ii) okuhlangenwe nakho ngesimo sebusuku esisodwa; futhi (iii) inombolo yokuphila yabalingani bobulili obuhlukene (1 = umlingani we-1; 7 = abalingani be-20 +).
  • Ubulili obuthandanayo: (i) uke ukhokhelwe / wakhokhelwa ngokocansi (ngemali noma ngomusa).

Abasebenzisi abaningi abathintekayo be-Internet abasebenzisa i-Internet izindaba esizifunda online angathanda ukusho “yebo” kokukodwa noma okuningi kokuziphatha okubalwe ngenhla, kepha baphume emdlalweni ngenxa ye- izimpawu ezinamandla okubangelwa ukugqithiswa kwezingcolile zobulili. Lezi zimpawu zihlanganisa ukuthola ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kulula kunokuphishekela abalingani bangempela futhi ngisho nokugcwele, ukulutha ukukhubazeka.

Abanye abasebenzisi benza isenzo, baphefumulelwe porn. Bangena izinkundla esizilandelayo ngoba bakhathazekile ukuthi, njengoba izinto zansuku zonke zilahlekelwa amandla okuvusa impendulo yabo yezocansi, kunjalo ukuqhubekela phambili kwisenzo socansi nokuziphatha “angisiye ngempela, ”Noma ukuthi abafuni ukwenza okuthile ukuze nje behle. Ngokuhambisana nalesi simo, abacwaningi ocwaningweni lwamanje baqaphele ukuthi ukuseshwa kwemizwa yezocansi kubonakala sengathi kuqhuba izindlela eziyingozi zokuziphatha:

"Okuphawuleka kakhulu kubo bobabili ubulili, yomithathu imikhakha yokuziphatha ngokocansi yayihlotshaniswa kakhulu nokufuna ukuzwa ngocansi."

Labo abazenzayo kubonakala sengathi bangamaphesenti amancane abasebenzisi abakhononda ngezinkinga ezibangelwa i-porn. Abasebenzisi abaningi babika ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi kunqanda ukubamba iqhaza kwezocansi langempela.

Isithombe esiphendukekile?

Ngakho-ke uma kunabasebenzisi abaningi abalingisa ngakolunye uhlangothi lobubanzi kanye nabasebenzisi abanezivimbelo ezingezona ezemvelo kolunye, kwenzekani ngempela? Ingabe izithombe zanamuhla ukushayela abanye abantu ekuziphatheni okuyingozi, kanti abanye bavaliwe ngenxa yokusebenzisa i-porn? Ngabe la maqembu womabili ayakhanselana ngokwengxenye ngenxa yokuthi asemaphethelweni angafani ejika lensimbi emiphumeleni yocwaningo? Uma kunjalo, isifundo singanikeza isithombe esiphambukisiwe semiphumela ye-porn ye-Intanethi ekuziphatheni kocansi.

Okungenzeka ukuthi idatha yocwaningo yaqoqwa ngo-2008 nango-2009. Lokho kudala kudala emhlabeni wezocansi nogqugquzela ucansi. Ngokwesibonelo, Grindr, umgqugquzeli wephayona we-online-assisted hook-ups, ohlala e-2009 kuphela.

Emuva ngaleso sikhathi, ama-Smartphone (nokufinyelela kwezingcolile) ayengabonakali. Futhi akuzange kusetshenziswe amasayithi we-tube tube, ngokuvamile abasebenzisi abashiwo bahlolisise ukusetshenziswa kwabo kwe-porn. Kuhlala kubonakala ukuthi izimo zentuthuko yamuva ezizobe zithinta kanjani ekuxhumaneni phakathi kokusetshenziswa kocansi nokungaziphathi kahle (ngokobulili).