Ingabe izithombe ze-intanethi ziveza izifiso zethu zocansi-noma ziyishintsha?
I-blogger yakwethu ethi "Psychology Today" uLeon F. Seltzer usanda kuqeda uchungechunge lwe-herculean oluyizingxenye eziyi-12 lwama-blog ngesihloko se-Intanethi kanye nesifiso sobulili somuntu (esisuselwa ku-Ogi Ogas noSayi Gaddam's Imicabango Engamabhiliyoni Amabhiliyoni, I-2011). Kulo ingxenye yokugcina, wenza umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu wokuveza izingozi ezihlobene nokusetshenziswa kocansi lwe-intanethi.
Kodwa-ke, ngithemba ukuthi uzophinde abheke ukucabanga nokuhlaziywa kuka-Ogas noGaddam ngokubheka izingozi ze-porn yanamuhla ye-Intanethi. Ngokuqondile, ngithemba ukuthi uzocubungula kabusha ukuthi ngabe Imicabango Engamabhiliyoni Amabhiliyoni uletha lokho akusikisela ukuthi kuyakwenza, okungukuthi, "iqiniso elingaqinisekisiwe lezintandokazi nezifiso zethu zobulili."
Kungenzeka impela ukuthi Imicabango Engamabhiliyoni Amabhiliyoni iletha okuthile okuhluke kakhulu: isifinyezo sethagethi eshukumisayo yezigidi zabathandi bezocansi abangahleliwe, iningi labo elingaphansi kwethonya lenqubo ye-neurobiological u-Ogas noGaddam abangazange bayicabangele. Le nqubo ikhona ukubekezelelana, inqubo yomzimba ejwayelekile ebuchosheni njengoba behluleka ukugqilaza-Ngakho umsebenzisi eba nanjengoba eboshiwe enjabulweni (efuna ukuhlanzeka) ngakho-ke ufuna ukugqugquzelwa okwengeziwe.
Isibonelo, abanye abasebenzisi bafuna ividiyo eyodwa imizuzu embalwa izikhathi ezimbalwa ngesonto. Ihlaziya imiphumela yabo izikhwepha khipha idatha ethile enengqondo mayelana nokuthandwa kocansi kubantu bonke. Abanye abasebenzisi bavula amathebhu we-10 + ezikrinini ezimbalwa bese kunqenqemeni kuvidiyo ngemuva kwevidiyo, ikakhulukazi ekufuneni ubusha ngoba ama-dopamine squirts avela entweni akhiqiza umphumela ofana nezidakamizwa ebuchosheni. Ngokusobala, leli qembu lizobe linikela ngokungalingani ezibalweni zokusesha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba sizobona ngomzuzwana, ukuthanda kwabo kuvame ukungahambi kahle njengoba bephishekela ubuciko nganoma iyiphi indlela abakwazi ngayo. Lokhu kukhawula inani ledatha yabo lapho kuhlaziywa izifiso eziyisisekelo zocansi kubo bonke abasebenzisi.
Ngamanye amagama, isabelo sebhubesi sokusesha kungenzeka sivela kwinani elincane kakhulu labasebenzisi, kepha nokho u-Ogas noGaddam noma abafundi babo kubonakala bengakuboni lokhu. Umzamo wabalobi wokuthola iziphetho ezifinyeleleka kokuqukethwe kwalokhu kusesha kufana nokuhlaziya ukwakheka kwengqondo kwamakhasimende ngokususelwa ekutheni waba umlutha wezidakamizwa ngokuhogela noma ngokudubula. Ngesinye isikhathi, yilabo abafuna izinto ezintsha abanenkinga enkulu kakhulu ekusebenziseni kwabo i-porn ngokusho Abacwaningi baseJalimane. Lokhu kuvumelana nokusikisela ukuthi izinguquko zobuchopho ezihlobene nokulutha umlutha zisasebenza ezinhliziyweni zabo.
Akekho owaziyo ukuthi bangaki abasebenzisi banamuhla abaqhutshwa ukubekezelelana, kepha kungenzeka ukuthi iphesenti likhulu ngokwanele ukuthi idatha ka-Ogas noGaddam, empeleni, ayivezi amaphethini ajulile, anenjongo ngesifiso sobulili somuntu.
Ngibonga uSeltzer ngokuqala le ngxoxo. Kusukela Izinkolelo Ezimbi kuphume, ngibe nokungabaza ngemicabango yayo. Impendulo yami izokwehlukaniswa kabili. Le ngxenye ikhuluma ngodaba lokubekezelelana. Okuthunyelwe okulandelayo kukhuluma ne- Imicabango Emibi ' ukucabanga okuyisisekelo; okungukuthi, ukuthi ukuthanda izinto zocansi akuphenduki.
Ukuzihlaziya futhi ukuthanda izithombe zobulili ezingcolile
Encwadini yakhe ebuchosheni bobuchopho, Ubuchopho Obushintshayo, isazi sezifo zengqondo uNorman Doidge wabonisa ukuthi,
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kubonakala, uma uqala ukuqala, ukuba yindaba ejwayelekile nje: izithombe ezicacile zobulili zidala izimpendulo zangokwemvelo, eziwumkhiqizo wezigidi zeminyaka yokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Kodwa uma lokho kuyiqiniso, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zazingeke zishintshe. Okubangela okufanayo, izingxenye zomzimba nobukhulu babo, obufisa okhokho bethu bekungathijabulisa. Yilokho abacwaningi bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile abangasenza sikholelwe, ngoba bathi banqoba ukucindezelwa ngokobulili, ukuxoshwa, nokwesaba nokuthi umgomo wabo ukukhulula izinhlobo zemvelo zobulili.
Kodwa empeleni okuqukethwe kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyinto a ashukumisayo into ekhombisa ngokuphelele ukuqhubeka kwenambitheka etholakalayo. … Umthelela wepulasitiki wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kubantu abadala ungaba… ojulile, futhi labo abawusebenzisayo abanalo nhlobo ulwazi lokuthi ubuchopho babo bubunjwe kangakanani yibo.
[Ngiye] ngaphatha noma ngahlola inani lamadoda lawo wonke ayenendaba efanayo. Ngamunye wabo wayethole ukunambitheka kohlobo lwezithombe zocansi oluthi, ngezinga elikhulu noma elincane, lumkhathaze noma lumnyanye, lube nomthelela ophazamisayo kuphethini yenjabulo yakhe yezocansi, futhi ekugcineni luthinte ubudlelwane bakhe namandla ezocansi. …
Lapho abathwebuli bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile beziqhayisa ngokuthi bacindezela imvilophu ngokwethula izingqikithi ezintsha, ezinzima, abangakusho ukuthi kufanele, ngoba amakhasimende abo akha ukubekezelela okuqukethwe. (ugcizelelwe wengezwe)
Ngakho-ke, owesilisa ocansini angaqala ngezithulumi ezinqunu zenkanyezi oyithandayo ye-movie. Lapho-ke, njengoba ubuchopho bakhe buyeka ukuphendula lezo, "uqhubekela phambili" kumavidiyo ocansi lomuntu, i-vanilla sex, isenzo sezithandani, okufakiwe, amaqembu ezigelekeqe, izithombe zocansi ezithandana nobulili obufanayo, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile (noma kunjalo uyakuchaza lokho) ngisho nezocansi ezingamanyala. Abasebenzisi bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile nabasebenzisi bezithombe ezingamantombazane babika into efanayo, ngokuqhubekela phambili okungabakhathazi ngokufanayo. Indoda eyisitabane yabelana ngalolu lwazi ngaphansi kwe- okuthunyelwe kwangaphambilini:
Ngikholelwa ukuthi ngizalwa ngongqingili, ukucabanga kwami kokuqala kwakungamadoda namadoda ayelokhu engivusa, kanti abesifazane bangivusile kakhulu. Ngaba umlutha wezintambo ze-intanethi ngiseneminyaka engu-20 ubudala. Ubulili be-Gay kimi bujwayelekile futhi buyimvelo. Kodwa ngilahlekelwa isithakazelo kuso ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngaba nesithakazelo esithombeni esingcolile futhi ngazithola ngilahlekelwa isithakazelo kumuntu wesilisa futhi ngathuthukisa isisu sofuzo lwesifazane. Angizange ngikukhange ngaphambi kokubuka kwami izithombe ezingcolile zobulili. Izinhlobo ezintsha zishintsha kancane kancane ezakhulile ekuthandweni kocansi. Ngethuka kakhulu, ngaqala ukucabanga ukuthi ngingase ngibe ngowesilisa ocansini, ngakho ngahlela umhlangano wesifazane ohambisayo ukuze avivinye lokhu kungenzeka. Kodwa-ke, angizange ngiphakamise kakhulu futhi isimo sangizwakala kabi. Behluke kakhulu kunecansi.
Nganquma ukuyeka ukubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, futhi ngemva kokungabonisi izithombe ezingcolile isikhathi eside ngingajabula ngitshele ukuthi izingane zami zitholile. Ubulili bobulili bubuyele esimweni esivamile kimi. Ngingafakazela nokuthi phakathi nokukhula kwami kwe-porn, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile azizange zivuse kimi kancane kancane, naphezu kokuthi i-pre-operative transwomen ine-penis. Kungaba njengokubuza umuntu oqondile uma elala ocansini nendoda enesidumbu, okumele ngiyengeze into eyangibizayo ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Kuyacaca ukuthi lolu hlobo lwenqubekela phambili ehlobene nezocansi aluhlangene nakancane nabasebenzisi abathola “izifiso zabo ezijulile nemicabango yabo engavinjelwe” (amagama ka-Ogas noGaddam). Izinhloso zihamba ngokushesha okukhulu. Abasebenzisi abangajwayelekile baze babone inqubo ngenkathi iqhubeka:
Ama-bing ama-Porn amahora angu-4-6 izinsuku ezimbalwa zokugcina. Ohlangothini oluhlangene, kwabonakala ngokusobala ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile azihambisani nobulili bami. Ngemuva kokuchitha amahora angu-30 + ngezinsuku ze-5 ezedlule ezibuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili ezithandanayo zaqala ukuzibamba! Ngaqala ukufuna ezinye izinto ezingcolile nezesabekayo.
Manje kwenzekani empeleni? Ake siqale ngokuhlukanisa ukungafuneki kokuzijwayeza. Ukusuthisa (ukujwayela) kanye nesifiso sobusha zakhiwe ngqo ebuchosheni be-mammalian futhi azikho izifo. Awungeke udle okunye ukulunywa kwe-turkey (ukusutha), kepha uzizwa unentshisekelo ethintekayo yophaya wethanga (i-dopamine ekhishwe ngenoveli, ukudla okunama-khalori amaningi). Inqubo iyaziphinda ngosuku olulandelayo. Ngokusobala, le nqubo yemvelo ingashiya abasebenzisi be-porn besengozini yokuthola i-eerotica yenoveli ngenxa yokuthi ubusha bubhalisa njengo "yebo!"
Ukuhlukunyezwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, yi-pathology evela ekuqhubekeni okuqhubekayo. Ukulinganisa, ubuchopho bomzimba buguquka (ukwehla ku-D2 nerve cells receptors) kubonisa ukuthi ukulutha komzimba kuqhubeka. Ngokungafani nemiphumela eseduzane yokuhlala, ukungafuneki kahle kuthatha isikhathi ukushintsha, ngokwengxenye ngoba kuhlanganiswe nezinye izinkani ukuguqulwa kobuchopho obuhlobene nomlutha.
Intsha = i-dopamine
Uma kwenzeka abasebenzisi be-Internet be-porn, isikhalazo sokwedlula ngokweqile ukuthi ivumela umsebenzisi ukuba anqobe ifasitela lokubuyisa le-satiety-recovery. Esikhundleni sokulinda isifiso sakhe socansi ukubuyela ngokwemvelo angakwazi ukuchofoza ekukhuthazeni okwanele ukuze akhiqize ama-neurochemchemicals amnandi (njenge-dopamine ne-norepinephrine). Ufeza ukuvuka okungeke kwenzeke, noma kunzima kakhulu.
Manje, ubuchopho bakhe bubona konke i-porn emvusayo, noma ngabe okuqukethwe, ibaluleke ngoba ikhipha "go get it" ama-neurochemicals. Futhi, konke akudingayo kuyinoveli, izinto ezishaqisayo, noma ngabe ziyafana yini nezinkanuko zakhe eziyisisekelo zocansi. Ubuqili ku Izinkolelo Ezimbi wukuthi kuphela ukuthanda kwethu okuyisisekelo kungakhipha i-dopamine eyanele ebuchosheni bethu ukugqugquzela ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili. Akukho okungaba kude neqiniso. I-Dopamine i-dopamine, noma ngabe uyayifaka.
Ngakho-ke, ukwanda kwezithombe ezingcolile zobulili kuyazuzisa ikakhulukazi ngoba kuyisibonakaliso esiyisixwayiso sokulutha, hhayi ngoba kutshela imilutha yezocansi (noma omunye umuntu) imininingwane ewusizo mayelana nezifiso zabo zobulili ezingokwemvelo. Ukuluthwa komuntu okujule kakhulu, kunesidingo esikhulu salokhu kukhululeka kwamakhemikhali, ngokwengxenye ngoba injabulo ejwayelekile ikhula inganelisi kakhulu futhi izifiso zinamandla kakhulu.
Okubi kakhulu, uma umsebenzisi wezocansi evuthisa okuthile okungahambisani nokuthambekela kwakhe ocansini kanye nokuthambekela okuyisisekelo, kepha kukhipha i-dopamine ne-norepinephrine eyanele ebuchosheni bakhe (ngoba kuyajabulisa noma kukhiqiza ukukhathazeka), ubuchopho bakhe buzophinde bucingo ukuvuselelwa okusha kuze kube semjikelezweni wakhe womvuzo. Ngokuzayo lapho ehlangana nanoma yimiphi imikhondo ehlobene nayo, uyokuthola kuvusa isimanga — futhi abelaphi banamuhla bazomqinisekisa ngokushesha ukuthi uthole ulwazi olubalulekile mayelana "nezikhalazo zakhe ezijulile" Akunjalo.
Vele, abanye abasebenzisi be-porn bathola ukulungiswa kwabo okusha ngokubuka i-porn entsha ngaphakathi kohlobo abaluthandayo (okungukuthi, uhlobo olubonisa izifiso zabo zobulili eziyisisekelo). Kodwa-ke, iningi labasebenzisi be-porn banamuhla babika ukuthi ukuthanda kwabo ezocansi kuya morph kuyo yonke indawo njengoba ubuchopho babo bukhula bungasasebenzi. Lokho kusho ukuthi, amandla okuluthwa kwe-porn angahluka kakhulu kwabesilisa nabesifazane.
Ngendlela eyodwa?
Labo abasesitayeleni sokukhuphuka bavame ukwethuka lapho bethola ukuthi abasakwazi ukuvuthisa ukuthanda kwabo kwangaphambili. Ngokudabukisayo, lapho bekhathazeka kakhulu (kubo) ukukhetha kwabo izithombe ezingcolile, kulapho lezozinqumo zingaphoqelela kakhulu, ngenxa yamakhemikhali e-neurochemicals akhululwe ukukhathazeka kwabo ngalokho abakubukayo.
Kuyaqabukela ukuthi babone ukuthi ukukhubazeka kwengqondo yabo kungaziguqula ngokwabo-ngaleyo ndlela kubuyiselwe ama-dopamine receptors wabo kanye nokuphendula kwabo ezintweni abazithandayo. Kungani? Abalokothi bayeke ukushaya indlwabu ngisho amasonto ambalwa, ngokwengxenye ngoba lapho bezama ukumisa okwabo I-libido ingase ihle ngokuthusayo futhi abaqapheli ukuthi kungumphumela wesikhashana wokubuyisela ubuchopho babo ekulinganiseni. Igama elisemgwaqweni lithi, “lisebenzise noma ulilahle,” futhi njengoba abaningi sebevele belahlekelwa yi-mojo yabo ngenxa yokweqisa, basebesaba ukuyeka.
Ngamafuphi, inkinga kulabo abasebenzisi akuyona inkululeko yokuphishekela izifiso zabo ezijulile, kodwa kunalokho okuthandwa ngu-alien, okuyinhloko ngokuyinhloko ukuguqulwa kwezinkinga ze-neurochemical ezigwemekile ezingeniswe ngokuzenzekelayo ngabasebenzisi ngokwabo.
Kwenzeka ngokwengxenye ngenxa yokuhlaziywa okungaphezulu, okusobala, okukhohlisayo okuyingozi, ingasaphathwa eyokucindezela, kubasebenzisi be-porn ababanjwe kulo mthambeka oshelelayo:
- Ngokungalungile kusho ukuthi abanakho ukulawula ukuthanda kwabo okuguqukayo.
- Ilahlekisa ukunakwa kwabo ngaphandle kolwazi lwesayense mayelana neuroscience of addiction, okuyinto kudingeka baqonde izimo zabo futhi steer for the imiphumela abafuna.
- Kubakhuthaza ukuthi banganaki, noma bamukele futhi balandele, ukuthanda kwabo okwandayo njengokuphilile, lapho, kubaningi babasebenzisi banamuhla, izimpawu zenqubo yesifo esungulwe kahle: ukulutha kokuziphatha.
Umlutha "ojwayelekile"
USeltzer uyabhala:
Enye yezinto eziwusizo kakhulu Imicabango Engamabhiliyoni Amabhiliyoni okufezayo kuvamile ukwenza okuningi okuthandwa nguzocansi ukuthi kuze kube yileli phuzu kungase kukushaye (futhi mhlawumbe abantu abaningi) njengokwehlukana. Ngokusobala, uma usakazeka kakhulu, ukulukhuni kunzima ukuwuyeka nje ngokuthi "ugula"-ikakhulukazi uma kunezizathu ezingokwengqondo nezingokwemvelo ezichaza ngokucacile.
Kuthiwani uma okunye kwalokhu okubizwa ngokuthi 'okuphambukayo' kungenxa yokulutha nokubekezelelana kuphela (isidingo sokukhuthaza okunamandla)? Uma abantu abenele bebona ubufakazi bokugula kungahle kube yinto ejwayelekile, kepha lokho akusho ukuthi indlela abaziphethe ngayo "ayiguli."
Izifo eziwumshayabhuqe ziye zaba khona ngaphambili emlandweni wesintu futhi azizange zenze izimpawu ukuthi imilutha ihlupheke "zijwayelekile" ngomqondo wokuthi "ayinakho ukugula." Isibonelo, maphakathi nekhulu le-18, izingxenye zangaphakathi kweLondon zahlushwa i- isifo sokuqwashisa kokuqala emhlabeni kokudakwa ngokweqile. Futhi ku I-Compass ye-Pleasure UDavid Linden uphawula umlutha wokuqwashisa i-ether eshibhile e-Ireland kuma-1880s.
Endabeni yezocansi ze-Intanethi, kuwukuhlakanipha yini ukucabanga ukuthi konke esidinga ukukwazi ukuthi ukuthanda izinto “kujwayelekile” noma “kuyaphambuka”-sisekela impendulo yethu ngezibalo kunokuba i-physiology? Ingabe senza ngisho nomthetho ozwakalayo uma singanaki ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ukuthanda izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kungaqhutshwa umvuzo ongenamkhawulo wesifunda esilandelayo ekuphishekeleni i-neurochemical buzz kungakhathaliseki okuqukethwe?
Ukuguqula izinjini: ubufakazi bokuthi ukuthanda izithombe zobulili ezingcolile akuyona ingozi
Okumangalisa kakhulu, abasebenzisi abayeka zonke izithombe ze-inthanethi futhi bavumele ubuchopho babo babuyele ekuzweleni okuvamile ngokuvamile bathole ukuthi kwakungekho ngendleleni eyodwa-ke emgwaqweni ngemuva kwakho konke. I-porn yabo ihamba kancane kancane iqala ukuziphendulela-ngokumangalisayo, ngokuhleleka okulandelanayo-yonke indlela eya ekuthandeni kwabo kokuqala. Isibonelo, ubulili bangempela nabalingani babo kaningi ivuselela (futhi).
Inqubo akulula. Ngokuvamile kubandakanya okubi izimpawu zokuhoxiswa, imicabango ecasulayo, futhi ngokuvamile isikhathi eside se- "libido flatline." Kepha, kwabaningi, ibuyisa ngokuphelele izifiso zabo zocansi, ezingasetshenziswa yizithombe zabo ezingcolile. Indoda eyodwa yathi:
Ngangivame ukuguqulwa yinoma yini lapho ngikude nabesifazane lapho ngineminyaka engu-13, kodwa lokho kwashintsha ngokuqinile njengoba ngangibuka izithombe ezingcolile ezingaphezulu. Ngaqala ukukhathazeka ngobulili bami ngoba ngangazi ukuthi ngiqonde ngokususelwa emlandweni, kepha ngasikhathi sinye angikwazi ukuphendula ngokwengqondo kuzinkomba ezindala. Kwesinye isikhathi lapho ngangikhululeke kakhulu noma ngidakiwe, ngangiphendula njengoba ngangiphendula ngisemncane. Kwakudida kakhulu ngoba angikaze ngibe nemicabango yobungqingili noma izifiso. Ukunikeza indlwabu ku-porn kuqede ngokuphelele ukungabaza, ngoba manje i-libido yami icishe isingathe. Ngiyasabela kakhulu kwabesifazane, futhi ngiphendula okuningi ngabesifazane.
Ukuhlaziywa okuphezulu kuyingozi
Ukucatshangelwa kokuphumula kuka-Ogas noGaddam ngokuqiniseka okungekho emthethweni ukuthi konke okuthandwa yizocansi akushintshi nokuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubunikazi buhlinzekwa kanjani ebuchosheni bethu, ukuthanda kwethu kuzokuvumelana nezifiso zethu ezingenasimo, ezingashintshi.
Njengoba kunikezwe ukuthi i-overstimulation engapheli nge-intanethi ye-intanethi iwukuthi ukuguqula okuthandwa ababukeli 'kwezocansi, i-Ogas ne-Gaddam snapshot inikeza ukuqonda okuncane okuqotho ngesifiso somuntu. Ukusetshenziswa okusebenziseka kakhulu kwedatha yabo kungaba ukusebenza njengokuqhathanisa nedatha efanayo kusuka kwenye inkathi, ukuze inqubo enamandla yokukhuphuka ikwazi ukukalwa kubantu bonke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, nokubaluleka kwangempela kwedatha kuqondakala kangcono.
Ukutadisha isifiso somuntu kuzohlala kungenasisekelo futhi kungasebenzisi lutho kubantu kuze kube yilapho ochwepheshe behlanganisa futhi bafundise umphakathi ukuthi ubuchopho busebenza kanjani, ukuthi bufunda kanjani nokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kungaphambukisa kanjani izinto zokuzijabulisa ngokocansi ngenxa yokwehliswa kwemvelo / ukubekezelelana.
Ekuthunyelwe kwami okulandelayo ngizobhekana nomcabango obalulekile osekela umsebenzi ka-Ogas noGaddam, okungukuthi, isimangalo sokuthi ukuthanda kwethu ezocansi akuphenduki.
IZIbuyekezo EZIKHULULEKILE DEBUNK OGAS & GADDAM
- Izimpawu zokulutha umlutha nokukhula kwezinto ezimbi kakhulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokubika okutholakele okuhambisana nokwanda kokusetshenziswa kocansi (ukubekezelelana), ukujwayela i-porn, kanye nezimpawu zokuhoxa (zonke izimpawu nezimpawu ezihlobene nokulutha).
- Ukuxilongwa okusemthethweni? Umbhalo wezokwelapha wezokwelapha osetshenziswa kakhulu emhlabeni, I-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), iqukethe ukuxilongwa okusha efanelekile ukulutha izidakamizwa: "Ukucindezeleka Ngokuziphatha Ngokwemvelo. "(I-2018)
- Ukulutha kobulili / ucansi? Leli khasi libala Ucwaningo lwe-39 lwe-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikeza ukusekela okuqinile ngesimodeli sokulutha kwezidakamizwa njengoba iziphumo zabo zibuyisa ukutholakala kwezinzwa ezibikiwe ezifundweni zokulutha izidakamizwa.
- Imibono yangempela yezobuchwepheshe ekubhekaneni nocansi / ucansi? Lolu hlu luqukethe Ukubuyekezwa kwezincwadi ezingama-16 zakamuva nezincazelo ngezinye zezazi eziphezulu zezinzwa emhlabeni. Bonke basekela imodeli yokulutha.
- Ukubheka iphuzu lokukhuluma elingasekelwa ukuthi "isifiso sobulili esiphakeme" sichaza ukulahla ucansi noma ukulutha ngokobulili: Okungenani izifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa isimangalo sokuthi ubulili nemilutha ye-porn "banesifiso esiphakeme sobulili"
- Izinkinga zobulili nezinkinga zobulili? Lolu hlu luqukethe izifundo ze-26 ezixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn / ukubheja kocansi ezinkingeni zobulili kanye nokuvusa okuncane ezenzweni zobulili. I fiziqu ze-5 ezingekho ohlwini zibonisa ibangela, njengoba abahlanganyeli beqede ukusetshenziswa kwezingcolile kanye nokuphulukisa okungavamile kocansi.
- Imiphumela yocansi ebuhlotsheni? Ucwaningo oluseduze lwe-60 luxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kuya ekungeneni kocansi nokuzaneliseka komndeni. (Njengoba sifana nathi konke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zabika ukusetshenziswa okuningi kocansi okuxhunyiwe abampofu ubulili noma ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano.)
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