Kusukela ku-2016, i-herring ebomvu ephoqelekile iye yazifaka ema-tweets futhi blogs kwezinye ze-AASECT sexologists: umqondo wokuthi i-PIED (ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okubangelwa ucansi) kubangelwa ukushaya indlwabu. Ngaphandle kokunikeza noma yikuphi ukusekelwa kwezesayensi, leli qembu lama-apologians-pornologists lizimisele ukusishukumisela ukuthi i-porn is hhayi ngemuva kokwanda kwamanje kwe-coital ED ku-intanethi abathanda i-intanethi (Gotta kube noma yini ngaphandle porn, akunjalo?). Kuze kube manje isiphakamiso sokuthi ukugcoba i-wonder weasel eneso elilodwa kuyimbangela, ukuthi uma ubona noma ubani ephakamisa njengembangela ye-ED yobusha uqiniseke ukuthi ubhekene ne-propagandist ephusha i-pro-porn. i-ajenda (noma othile otshelwe okungeyikho ngumuntu onjalo).
Kungani lokhu kusho kanjalo, kahle, fishy? Okokuqala, ochwepheshe bezocansi beqiniso abangeke bathi ukudonsa ama-slug kubangelwa u-ED osemusha. Ngokuqinisekile izazi ze-urologists, ochwepheshe bephambili emphakathini wezocansi, angenzi. Iqiniso liwukuthi, cishe akekho emlandweni wezocansi zesimanje (asindise lawa ambalwa abashayeli bezocansi) abake baphakamisa izimbangela zokushaya indlwabu okungapheliyo Ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile kumadoda amasha.
Ngesikhathi la ma-propagandists engaqondakali ngenhloso yokuchaza kahle Kanjani ukuphulula i-poker kungahle kukhiqize i-ED engapheli kwezinye izinsizwa ezinempilo, okuwukuphela kwesiphetho esinengqondo ukuthi basikisela ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kubangela ukuhlukumezeka okukhulu kangangokuba labo abalimele abakwazi ukufeza ukwakhiwa. Empeleni, ama-propagandists asola ukukhuphuka okukhulu kwe-ED yentsha ngokushaya indlwabu okuhlukumezayo. Inkinga ukuthi, ukuhlukumezeka kakhulu kangangokuba izinsizwa azikwazi ukufeza ukwakheka luhlobo lwe eziphilayo I-ED (itholakale kalula ngabahlinzeki bezempilo). Ngenkathi kunezifundo eziningana ezibonisa ukunyuka kwe-500-1000% ku-ED kumadoda ngaphansi kwe-40, akukho swaningo esibonisa ukulimala okukhulu kwezicubu ngemuva kwalokhu kukhula okukhulu kakhulu. Akukhobufakazi obunjalo bokumangalelwa okunjalo.
Amadoda amaningi ane-porn-eyabangelwa i-ED angakwazi ukuthola i-erection ne-pornography
Amadoda amaningi ane-porn-eyabangelwa i-ED angakwazi ukufeza ukulungiswa nokushaya indlwabu ukuze kuphele kahle ... uma nje bebuka izithombe ze-intanethi. Leli qiniso lodwa lenza iphutha le-feirytale elidabukisa imikhuba yokushaya indlwabu elandela ukukhuphuka okukhulu kwe-ED engaqondakali. Uma umfana angakwazi ukufeza i-erection nge-porn, kodwa uyahamba ngaphandle kwayo, lokho kuhlotshiswe nge-porn. Akuyona i-organic organic.
Uma uzibuza ukuthi ngabe ((noma umlingani wakho) okwenyukayo noma okungekho okwenziwe ngesikhathi sokulala ngobulili kungumphumela wokusetshenziswa kocansi, zama ukuhlolwa kamuva ehlongozwa odokotela kumadoda angaphansi kwe-40 nge-ED engachaziwe:
Qaphela ukulungiswa kwakho lapho ukushaya indlwabu yedwa nge-intanethi ye-intanethi. Ngesinye isikhathi, zama ngakho ngaphandle kocansi. Uma ungakwazi ukufeza kalula imigomo yakho ngezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi, kodwa ngaphandle kwayo, khona-ke izidakamizwa zakho zobulili zingase zihlotshaniswe nokusetshenziswa kwayo.
Kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi "imikhuba yokushaya indlwabu" iveza izimpawu zokuhoxiswa noma "i-flatline"?
Cishe wonke umuntu onama-porn-akhiqizwa i-ED ubika ukulinganisa okufanayo kwempawu zomzimba nezingokwengqondo lapho beka ukusetshenziswa kocansi / ukushaya indlwabu. Umbiko omningi uhlukahluka ama-degree wezimpawu zokuhoxiswa njengokukhathazeka, ukukhathazeka, ukulala, ukuzithemba, ukucindezeleka, ukuguquka kwemizwa, ubuchopho obuchopho, nokufisa okukhulu ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
Kungakapheli amasonto e-1-2, iningi lamadoda lihlangabezana nalokho okubizwa nge- "flatline": ukulahleka okukhulu kwe-libido okuhambisana nokwehla okubonakalayo kokwehla kobulili noma usayizi. I-flatline ingahlala amasonto ambalwa izinyanga ezimbalwa. Ezinsizweni izinsizwa i-flatline ingaba ngezikhathi ezithile. Eminyakeni engu-2 edlule ezinye izinsizwa zibike "ngamaflethi" ahlala iminyaka engu-1-3. Izimpawu ezinjalo zingabangelwa kanjani ukushaya indlwabu? Abakwazi.
I-ED ayibangelwa ukushaya indlwabu, kodwa ukuphuza ukuphuza kungase kuhlobene nemikhuba ethile
Nakuba abasebenzisi abaningi abasha bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile abakaze baqede i-shank ngaphandle kwe-porn, ukushaya indlwabu kanye nokusetshenziswa kocansi kufanele kucatshangelwe ngokwehlukana ukuze kubonakale i-etiology efanele (imbangela) yezidakamizwa ezithile zocansi. Ukujula okulindile (ubunzima bokuqeda umlingani nomlingani), njengoba kuqhathaniswa ne-ED, kungahle kuhlotshaniswe nesitayela sokushaya indlwabu, njengokuhlela amahora noma ukufa ngaphandle kwe-lube.
Kodwa-ke, engekho izinkinga eziphilayo ezingokwenyama noma ezingokwengqondo, ukuphazamiseka nokuvusa ngokobulili akuzona izinkinga ezithombeni zokushaya indlwabu ngaphandle uma besebenzisa i-porn. Ngendlela efanayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isitayela sokushaya indlwabu, isimo sokuziphatha ngokobulili nezici zokubuka izithombe ezingcolile kungabangela ubunzima ekukhuliseni nomlingani.
Kubalulekile ukuhlukanisa umsuka wezidakamizwa zobulili zanamuhla, funa abagulayo bangabheki indima enkulu yokugqugquzela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezinkingeni zabo.
Nakuba ukushaya indlwabu kuye kwazuzwa njengenzuzo emashumini eminyaka, iminyaka engu-15 edlule amazinga e-erectile ukungasebenzi (nabalingani) ayenganaki (2-5%) kubantu abesilisa ocansini ngaphansi kwe-40. Kusukela ekufikeni kokusakaza kwe-porn, abacwaningi babika amanani aphezulu njengo-30% kule nkathi yobudala efanayo. Amanani we-libido ephansi kanye nocwaningo oluqondisa ukusetshenziswa kobulili ngezinkinga zocansi nobudlelwane uye wavuka.
Amadoda asebancane, okungenzeka ukuthi bebeqothula i-rocket iminyaka embalwa kunamadoda amadala, ngokuvamile badinga eside ukuze uvuselele isifiso esijwayelekile sabalingani bangempela kanye nomsebenzi ovamile wobulili kunamadoda afane nesifanekiso sezocansi esakhiwa ngaphambi kokufika kokusakazwa kwe-porn ku-2007 (kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imvamisa yokushaya indlwabu). Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi isimo sengqondo socansi, ikakhulukazi ebantwaneni, sinegalelo ekusebenziseni ubulili obusemusha. Ubufakazi obuphawulekayo bokuthi i-intanethi ye-intanethi yi-variable variable evela ku-an Isifundo sase-Italy lapho abadala asezikoleni eziphakeme bebuzwa ngesifiso sobulili esiphansi. U-16% walabo abasebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi ngaphezu kwesisodwa ngesonto babike isifiso sobulili obuphansi, uma kuqhathaniswa ne-0% kwabangewona abathengi.
Ngabe ukushaya indlwabu kunini lapho kubangelwa khona inkathi ye-9 yenyanga yokuphikisana ngamashumi amabili-okunye?
Ungalokothi. Njengoba engathandekile yiqiniso, abanye abantu abanobulili be-sexlogist bathi i-ED engakaze ibe yintsha "iyisikhathi sokuphikisana" (isikhathi esifushane, sokuphumula ngokwemvelo emva kokukhipha). Ngempela? Kungani kunjalo ezinye izinsizwa ezidinga izinyanga nezinyanga ngaphandle kokushaya indlwabu ukuze kutholakale izithombe ezingcolile? Kungani bebika ukukhangwa okungajwayelekile ngokweqile abalingani bangempela? Kungani bangathola ama-erections ku-intanethi ye-intanethi, kodwa hhayi ngaphandle kwayo?
Kanti abanye abakwa-sexologists baxoshwa ngokuqaphele ukucabanga okuphelelwe yisikhathi ukuthi yonke i-ED yentsha kanye nabalingani iwukuphela "kokukhathazeka kokusebenza." Kodwa uma insizwa ingakwazi ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle kocansi ngasese - kodwa ingenza kahle ngokushaya indlwabu ngasese nge Internet porn, akuyona yini ngaphambi kwesikhathi ukuphetha udaba lwakhe "ukukhathazeka mayelana nokusebenza?" Ingabe "ukukhathazeka lapho enza" ngesandla sakhe siqu?
Uphi ubufakazi besayense bokusekela noma yikuphi kwalokhu okushiwo yi-bald?
Noma kunjalo I-AASECT sexologist ibhala ukuze uthole ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela, "angathanda ukubona ukutadisha lapho insizwa ibuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi ingayithandabuzi." Yini engacabanga? Uma umgomo ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani, ingabe umklamo wokutadisha kangcono ungafanisi nabasebenzisi be-porn abasebenzisi be-internet nge-ED kumadoda angakaze (noma ajwayelekile) asebenzise i-porn ye-Internet uma eshaya indlwabu?
Noma okungcono nakakhulu, babe nabasebenzisi abasha be-porn abangenayo i-ED engazange bayichaze ukuqeda ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn isikhathi isikhathi eside futhi babheke imiphumela (uma kuqhathaniswa nokulawulwa kwe-porn-using controls). Uma i-ED yabo ibuyisela, khona-ke i-porn iyimbangela. Yilokho abacwaningi abakwenzayo ezincwadini ezimbalwa zokuqala elikuleli khasi. Ngokuvumelana nalezi zifundo, i-YBOP iqoqe izinkulungwane ezizimele ngokwazo ngamadoda aphulukise izidakamizwa zobulili ngokuyeka izithombe ze-intanethi.
Ayikho ukusekelwa noma yikuphi ukufaka isicelo sokuthi inkinga "yangempela" ngemuva kwe-ED engakaze ibe yinto encane iyinqubo yokushaya indlwabu kunoku izithombe ze-inthanethi (noma i-VR). Ngokwemvelo, ukuhleka kwe-ole ngokwakho kungakujabulisa kanjani ukuchaza izinguquko kwezinye izibonisi zobulili zabasebenzisi abathile ezibucayi ukuthi ukuhlangana nabalingani bangempela akuvusa? Bangayichaza kanjani lezi zikhathi ezinzima zokubuyisa ezinye izinsizwa ezibikayo?
Ukuguqulwa okunenkani, okungafuneki kumaphethini okuvusa inkanuko yezinto eziphilayo kubonisa ukuba khona kwezinguquko ezikhungweni zobulili zobuchopho. Imishini yokushaya indlwabu iyodwa ngeke ibaphendule. Labo abathintekile, empeleni, baye balungisa kabusha ubulili babo ngokungazi (baqeqeshe kabusha ubuchopho babo) ngokusebenzisa ukusakaza-bukhoma okungavamile kwanamuhla (kanye nengokoqobo langempela) ezocansi.
Ngokuphambene nalokho "ukushaya indlwabu kubangela i-ED" inkolelo, kukhona ukusekelwa okukhulu kwesayensi "isifanekiso sezocansi eshintshwe ngokumangalisayo ngokugqugquzela i-pornpot" hypothesis. Bheka isigaba esilandelayo, nohlu oluvuliwe leli khasi.
Ngabe ochwepheshe abanomsebenzi bathi?
Odokotela bezokwelapha emhlabeni wonke babhekisela ekuthandweni kwethonya le-porno, bebika ubunzima iziguli zabo ezibhekene nazo, futhi baqaphele ukuthi izidakamizwa ezinzulu ezingakaze zenzeke zingasetshenziswa kanjani kubantu ngaphansi kwe-40. Cabanga ngalokhu okulandelayo:
- Ephepha le-2016 eshicilelwe ku-Sexologies umqondo wezifo zengqondo uRobert Porto, MD, uMongameli we-European Federation of Sexology, wathi (ngokuphindaphindiwe) ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu "akulimazi futhi kuyasiza." Nokho, uma kusetshenziswa ngokweqile futhi kuhambisana ne-cyber-pornography kusetshenziswa, "kubonakala sengathi kudlalwa indima kwi-etiology yezinhlobo ezithile ze-erectile ukungasebenzi noma ukuqubuzana komzimba. "Imibiko kaPolto yokucwaninga ngeziguli ze-35 ezinalezi zinkimbinkimbi zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, i-19 yazo eyathola umsebenzi ocansini owanelisayo ngemuva kokwelashwa okubanzi. Ngokusobala, abasebenzisi be-porn abangenalo umlutha nabo basengozini yokuthuthukisa ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi okuhlobene nocansi.
- Ingabe Izithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Zase-Internet Zibangela Ukuhlukunyezwa Ngokocansi? Ukubuyekeza nge Imibiko Yomtholampilo (I-2016), iqembu labodokotela, kuhlanganise bobabili urologists kanye nezifo zengqondo, babuyekeze izincwadi eziningi zesayensi kanye nemibiko yesithathu. Ukucaphuna izakhiwo eziyingqayizivele ze-intanethi ye-intanethi (intsha engenamkhawulo, okungenzeka kube lula ukukhula kwezinto ezibonakalayo ngokweqile, ifomethi yevidiyo, njll.) Bahlongoze ukuthi kungase kube namandla ngokwanele ukuvusa ukuvuthwa ngokocansi ezintweni ze-intanethi ukusetshenziswa okungahambisani kalula ne-real- abalingani bokuphila. Odokotela basikisela ukuqhubeka nokutadisha izinguquko eziyinhloko zobuchopho ezihlobene nokungezelela / isimo sengqondo socansi ngokuqhathanisa nababukeli ngokulahla ababukeli. (Qaphela: leli phepha lihlaziya ngokucophelela amaphepha amabili e-sexology okusho ukuthi "debunk" i-ED eyenziwe ngocansi.)
- Urologist u-Tarek Pacha wanikezela isingeniso odokotela akanye naye emhlanganweni wonyaka we-American Urological Association we-2016 eSan Diego, CA, enesihloko esithi, "I-erectile i-dysfunction (PIED): Ukuqonda ububanzi, isayensi, nokwelashwa. "
- Kuze kube manje, Izifundo ze-110 + uxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kobulili ezinkingeni zobulili, ukuvusa okuncane ezenzweni zobulili, nokwaneliseka ngokocansi nokuzwana komndeni.
- Ngaphezu kwezifundo ezingenhla, Leli khasi liqukethe ama-athikili namavidiyo ngama-140 ochwepheshe (urology professors, urologists, psychiatrists, psychologists, sexologists, MDs) abavuma futhi baphumelela ngokuphatha i-porn-kuhoxiswa ED kanye nokulahlekelwa izithombe ezingcolile zobulili.
- Ngezansi kwalesi siqephu, ungabona isicashunwa nengxoxo mayelana nokubuyekezwa kwe-neuroscientist / MD, ekhombisa ukuthi kungani "ukulawula ukushaya indlwabu" kungadingekile.
Ubufakazi obukhulayo bukhombisa ukuthi amadoda angaphansi kweminyaka engama-40 anokungakaze kubonwe, kungenjalo i-ED engachazwanga ibeke umvuthwandaba wabo ezicini ze-intanethi / i-virtual-reality porn engahlangene nakancane nobulili obuhlukanisiwe. Nakulokhu, izici zobulili ezingcolile njengokukhuphuka ngamandla kokuya ezintweni ezeqisayo ngesikhathi sesikhathi sokubuka, ubusha obungapheli, amafomethi wokuletha ovusa imizwa nokunye, kuguqula izifanekiso ezithile zobuchopho ngezindlela ezibangela ukungasebenzi kahle okukhulu kwezocansi, futhi kuyinselele ukubuyela emuva.
Kukhona futhi ubufakazi obukhulayo ukuthi abasebenzisi be-porn abasindayo bakhombisa ubufakazi obuningi bokuthi "ukungafuneki," lokho kungukuphendula okuphelele kwezocansi. Eqinisweni, akuyona into engavamile kulabo abaphulukisayo (ngokushiya izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zedijithali ngemuva) ukubika ukuthi i-orgasm nomsebenzi wezocansi uqala bazizwa kujabulise ngokwengeziwe. Ngaphambi kokuba bayeke, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuvusa kwabo okukhulu kuvela ekulindeleni ukusebenzisa (ukuphendula izinkomba ezihlobene nokusetshenziswa kocansi) nokufuna ubungqingili bezocansi - kunokushaya indlwabu uqobo (okubikwa ukuthi kulula ukuyeka ukubheka izithombe ezingcolile). Emilutha, i-dopamine iphakama kakhulu ukuthola izinkomba kunokusetshenziswa kwangempela. Lokhu kungashayela ukunyuka kwabasebenzisi be-digital digital.
Ngamafuphi, ukucinga i-buzz eqhuba ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile (nezinkinga ezihlobene). Futhi leyo buzz iya ngokuya ivela ezinkomba ze-porn nasekufuneni i-porn - hhayi kusuka ekushaya indlwabu (kubasebenzisi abanzima). Leli qiniso lembula ukungacabangeli okusikisela kokuthi “inkinga kuyinkinga.”
Jabulela i-irony?
Lo mkhankaso wamanje wokudidliza abathengi bezingcingo mayelana nombangela oyinhloko we-ED yabo uqhutshwa ngabangqingili bezocansi be-porn, kuhlanganise nalabo abaqeqeshwe eKinsey Institute. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi kwakuyi-Kinsey sexologists eyaqala ukubona futhi yashicilela lezi zenzakalo ze-porn-zenza isifiso esiphansi futhi zanciphisa ukuphendula ngokocansi!
Ngo 2007, Abacwaningi bakaKinsey babika leyo ngxenye yezifundo ezitholwa emabhasini nasezindlini zokugezela, lapho izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili "zikhona yonke indawo," azikwazanga ukufeza ukuvinjelwa kulabhu ekuphenduleni i-porno yevidiyo. Lapho bekhuluma nalezi zihloko, abacwaningi bathola ukuthi ukuvezwa okukhulu kwamavidiyo e-pornography kubangelwa ukuthi kuholele ekuziphenduleleni okuphansi kanye nesidingo esengeziwe sokwedlulela ngokweqile, okukhethekile noma "kinky" ukuze kuvuswe. Abacwaningi baphinde bahlela kabusha isifundo sabo ukuze bahlanganise iziqeshana ezihlukahlukene futhi bavumele ezinye ukuzikhethela. Ingxenye yesine yamalungu omzimba abahlanganyeli ayengaphenduli ngokujwayelekile.
Abacwaningi kulolo cwaningo ngokuqinisekile abazange basikisele ukuthi isitayela sokushaya indlwabu noma imvamisa yachaza ukuvinjelwa okubuthakathaka! Babhekisela kunoma yikuphi lapho kukhona izithombe ezihlukahlukene zobulili ezingcolile futhi ezihlukahlukene - okwakungokoqobo ngokukhethekile emiphakathini lapho baqoqa khona izifundo zabo ngisho nangaphambi kokusakazwa kwe-porn inthanethi kuyatholakala kakhulu. Ngokudabukisayo, futhi ngokungenakuqondakala, bakhetha ukungaphenywa lokhu okungahle kwenzeke, okungaveli komdlalo.
Ngabe bona kanye nabo basebenzisana nabo ngokuqinile ukuthi "ubuhlobo bobulili" kudinga ukuxoshwa kwezingubo zobulili ezinzima njenge-ED engapheli nesifiso esingavamile ukuthi abazange nje banqabe ukucwaninga le nto, kepha manje bazame ukusidukisa ngokufakazela ukuthi ukuhlanganisa i-bologna, hhayi ukusetshenziswa kocansi, ibangela ukungasebenzi kocansi?
Ngezansi: Ubuntu bufuna ngokuphuthumayo abacwaningi abasebenzisa isayensi ezwakalayo (neuroscience) ukuphenya ngokobulili babantu kanye nemiphumela yendawo engavamile yocansi. Akusilo i-propagandists ekhonza izinsimbi ezibomvu.
Okwamanje, ingqondo ejwayelekile (futhi ekhona ucwaningo oluqinile) kufanele isebenze. Njengelungu lesithangami sokubuyisa libeke amazwana:
Kungani abantu bengazi kangako nge-Porn-Induced ED? Kunezikhangiso zamaphilisi we-boner kuwo wonke amakhasi kuwo wonke amawebhusayithi we-porn. Inkampani ye-porn izuza kukho konke ukuchofoza okwenzayo endleleni yokwephula i-dick yakho (futhi bayazi ukuthi wephula udokotela wakho, ngakho-ke yonke imikhangiso yamaphilisi we-boner yonke indawo) bese bezuza ngokuchofoza iphilisi lakho le-boner. KunjengoFiliphu Morris, ngenkathi uzuza ngama-oda akho kagwayi aku-inthanethi, unezikhangiso zemithi yokwelashwa kwezifo zamaphaphu kanye nezifo zamaphaphu kuwo wonke amakhasi afanayo okuthengisela osikilidi, bese uzuza futhi ngokuchofoza okuchofoza egameni amaphaphu akho onakalisiwe.
Ama-PhD angama-pro-porn aqambe leli phuzu lokukhuluma elingasekelwa
Kubonakala sengathi le meme yenziwa nguDavid Ley futhi Nicole Prause, e lesi sihloko U-Prause uphawula ngokucwaninga odokotela bezokwelapha okuxhumanisa ukulutha kwezicabha kanye nokukhubazeka kwe-erectile:
Ngaphezu kwalokho, lolu cwaningo alukaze lubuyekezwe ngontanga noma lushicilelwe okwamanje, kusho uNicole Prause, Ph.D., umsunguli weLiberos, ucwaningo locansi kanye nenkampani ye-biotechnology eLos Angeles.
Futhi akukhona neze umehluko phakathi kokungokoqobo porn kubangela ukungasebenzi komzimba noma uma isenzo sangempela wokushaya indlwabu kungukuthi, uveza.
"Abantu abadli i-popcorn uma bebukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile-benza ukushaya indlwabu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi, noma nini lapho uziphatha khona njalo ngezinye izindlela, awukwazi ukuhlukanisa imiphumela yalezi zibili, "kuchaza. "Asinaso isizathu sokuthi imiphumela abayibonile ingenxa ye-porn. Kungenzeka futhi ngenxa yokushaya indlwabu. Bodinga ukutadisha lokho ngokuqondile, noma ekuhlolweni noma ukususa ngezibalo ukuphumela kokushaya indlwabu. "
Ngosuku olufanayo uDavid Ley tweets okulandelayo mayelana nesifundo esifanayo:
Ukusetshenziswa kaningi kwe-Porn & ukushaya indlwabu kungathinta impilo yakho yezocansi. Kepha angikwazi "ukulawula" kwakho. UYAKULAWULA.
U-Ley walandela enye i-tweet normalizing ED engapheli ezinsizweni. Ley ubephendula a Isihloko se-Guardian mayelana nokunyuka okukhulu kwe-erectile (i-porn ekubhekiswe kuyo imbangela engenzeka):
“Amen. Uma ngilapha u-ED ngimema abesilisa ukuthi bacabangele umhlaba wezocansi ongahlangene nodokotela wabo. ”
Ngeshwa kumakhasimende kaLey uyenqaba ukubheka ukusetshenziswa kocansi njengembangela engaba khona ye-ED emadodeni amancane aphilile. Noma yini ngaphandle kocansi.
Kwenzekani lapha noLey noPrause?
U-Prause wayeyisifundiswa sokuqala nge umlando omude Ababhali abahlukumezanayo nabahlambalazayo, abacwaningi, abelaphi, izintatheli, abesilisa abelulama, Abahleli bephephabhuku, izinhlangano eziningi, nabanye abalelwa ukubika ubufakazi bokulimala kokusebenzisa kabi i-inthanethi. Ukudumisa uhlotshiswe nge debunking PIED, ngemuva kokuhlelwa a Impi ye-3 yeminyaka ngokumelene nephepha lezemfundo, ngenkathi ihlukumeza futhi ikhulule izinsizwa ezifanayo futhi ezithole ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi. Bona imibhalo: I-Gabe Deem #1, I-Gabe Deem #2, U-Alexander Rhodes #1, U-Alexander Rhodes #2, U-Alexander Rhodes #3, I-Noah Church, U-Alexander Rhodes #4, U-Alexander Rhodes #5, U-Alexander Rhodes #6, U-Alexander Rhodes #7, U-Alexander Rhodes #8, U-Alexander Rhodes #9, Alexander Rhodes # 10, Alex Rhodes # 11, UGabe Deem no-Alex Rhode ndawonye # 12, Alexander Rhodes # 13, U-Alexander Rhodes #14, IGabe Deem # 4, U-Alexander Rhodes #15.
Kubonakala sengathi unjalo ehle kakhulu embonini yezocansi, njengoba kungabonakala kulokhu isithombe sakhe (ngakwesokudla) emgqeni obomvu we-X-Rated Critics Organization (XRCO) umkhosi wemiklomelo. (Ngokusho kwe-Wikipedia the I-XRCO Awards anikezwa yiMelika Izinkampani zokuhlaziya ezibalwe ngu-X minyaka yonke kubantu abasebenzisa ukuzijabulisa kwabantu abadala futhi yiwona kuphela umklomelo wemiklomelo omdala oboniswa kuphela ngamalungu embonini.[1]). Kubuye kubonakale ukuthi iPrause ingaba nayo wathola abenzi be-porn njengezihloko ngokusebenzisa enye imboni ye-porn interest group, the Ukusebenzisana kwamahhala okukhulumayo. Izifundo ezitholwe yi-FSC kusolwa ukuthi zazisetshenziswa kuyena isifundo sokuqasha-isibhamu use ungcotshwe kakhulu futhi Ezentengiselwano kakhulu “Ukuzindla Ngokwezifiso” uhlelo (manje kuphenywe yi-FBI). Kwenziwa nodumo izimangalo ezingasekelwe mayelana imiphumela yezifundo zakhe kanye naye izindlela zokutadisha. Ukuze uthole imibhalo eminingi, bheka: Ingabe uNicole Prause Uthonywe Ngu-Porn Industry?
U-Nicole Prause, ngokwamukelwa kwakhe, ukhulula kakhulu umqondo wokulutha kabi kocansi. Isibonelo, ukucaphuna kusuka ku Isihloko sikaMartin Daubney mayelana nobulili / izidakamizwa ezingcolile:
UDkt. Nicole Prause, umphenyi oyinhloko ku-Psychophysiology ne-Affective Neuroscience (Span) Laboratory eLos Angeles, uzibiza ngokuthi "u-debunker ochwepheshe" wokulutha ubulili.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, okwedlule kukaNicole Prause Isiqubulo se-Twitter wembula ukuthi akanandaba nokungakhethi okudingekayo ocwaningweni lwesayensi:
“Ukufunda ukuthi kungani abantu bekhetha ukuzibandakanya ocansini ngaphandle kokufaka umlutha wokungabikho kahle"
Ngo-Okthoba, i-2015 I-akhawunti yasekuqaleni kaTemuse imiswe unomphela ngenxa yokuhlukunyezwa.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi uNicole Prause (wahlawulisa) ubufakazi bakhe “bochwepheshe” bokuphikisana “nokuluthwa” ngocansi.
Kubukeka sengathi uPrause ubedayisa izinsiza zakhe ukuze azuze bathi izidakamizwa zokulwa nocansi eziphethweni zezifundo zakhe ezimbili ze-EEG (1, 2), noma ngabe ubuhlakani obuningi obuhlaziywa yontanga buthi zombili lezi zifundo zisekela imodeli yokulutha (Steele et al., 2013: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8. Prause et al., 2015: 1, 2, 3, 4. 5, 6, 7, 8, 9.).
UDavid Ley ngenkolo uyakuphika ukulutha ngokobulili nangokobulili, futhi ubhale i-30 noma ngakho-ke izikhala zebhulogi ezihlasela izinkundla zokuvuselela izithombe zocansi, futhi uxosha umlutha we-porn kanye ne-porn-eyenga i-ED. Ngokushayisana kwezimali okusobala kwenzalo, UDavid Ley ngu ukunxephezelwa imboni ye-porn eyi-X-hamster ukukhuthaza amawebhusayithi abo kanye nokuqinisekisa abasebenzisi ukuthi ukulutha kabi kocansi nokulutha ngokocansi kuyizinganekwane! Ngokuqondile, uDavid Ley kanye nabasanda kusungulwa I-Alliance Health Alliance (SHA) babe lihlanganyele ne-X-Hamster iwebhusayithi (Strip-Chat). Bona "I-Stripchat ihlangana ne-Health Health Alliance ukushaya ubuchopho bakho obukhathazekile be-porn-centric":
I-Alliance Health Alliance Alliance entsha (SHA) ibhodi yokululeka kufaka uDavid Ley nabanye ababili I-RealYourBrainOnPorn.com "ochwepheshe" (UJustin Lehmiller noChris Donahue). I-RealYBOP iyiqembu le- pro-porn obala, “ochwepheshe” abazibiza ngamakhanda Nicole Prause. Leli qembu okwamanje lihlanganyela ukuphulwa komkhiqizo ongekho emthethweni nokuqhekeka iqondiswe ku-YBOP esemthethweni. Kalula nje, labo abazama ukuthulisa i-YBOP nabo bakhokhelwa ngumkhakha we-porn ukukhuthaza amabhizinisi ayo, futhi nokuqinisekisa abasebenzisi ukuthi izingosi ze-porn nezama-cam azinazinkinga (Qaphela: uNicole Prause usondele, emphakathini imboni yezimboni ze-porn njengoba ibhalwe ngokuphelele kuleli khasi).
In lesi sihloko, ULey uxosha ukunyuselwa kwakhe okuyinkimbinkimbi komkhakha we-porn:
Kuyavunywa, ochwepheshe bezempilo yezocansi ababambisana ngqo nezinkundla zokuxhumana zezocansi babhekana nezinkinga ezithile, ikakhulukazi kulabo abangathanda ukuzethula njengabangacwaswa ngokuphelele. "Ngilindele ngokuphelele ukuthi ukuthi [bonke abamelene nama-porn] bakhale bonke, 'Bhekani, bhekani, uDavid Ley usebenzela i-porn,' 'kusho uLey, Igama libizwa kaningi ngenhlamba emiphakathini elwa nokushaya indlwabu njengeNoFap.
Kodwa noma ngabe umsebenzi wakhe neStripchat ngokungangabazeki uyohlinzeka ngokudla kunoma ngubani othanda ukumbhalela njengonothile noma ephaketheni lephephelo lezithombe ezingcolile, likaLey, lokho kufeza kufanelekile. “Uma sifuna ukusiza [abathengi be-porn abakhathazekile], kufanele siye kubo,” kusho yena. "Nansi indlela esenza ngayo lokho."
Ukubandlulula? Ley usikhumbuza odokotela ababhemayo abadumile, kanye ne-Health health Alliance, i- Isikhungo Sogwayi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uDavid Ley ukhona ukukhokhelwa ukukhipha umlutha we-porn nobulili. Ekupheleni kwe lokhu Psychology Today iposi blog ULey uthi:
Ukudalulwa: UDavid Ley unikeze ubufakazi ngamacala asemthethweni ahlanganisa izinsolo zokuluthwa ngokocansi. "
Kuwebhusayithi entsha ka2019 uDavid Ley anikeze eyakhe nezinsizakalo ezihlinzekelwe kahle "zokusebenzisa imali":
UDavid J. Ley, Ph.D., ungudokotela wezengqondo nomqondisi oqinisekisiwe we-AASECT wezokwelapha, ozinze e-Albuquerque, e-NM. Uhlinzeke ngofakazi oyingcweti kanye nobufakazi obucutshungulwayo emacaleni amaningi ase-United States. UDkt Ley uthathwa njengochwepheshe wezimangalo zokulutha umlutha wezocansi, futhi uqinisekisiwe njengofakazi onguchwepheshe kulesi sihloko. Ufakaze ezinkantolo zombuso nezikahulumeni.
Xhumana naye ukuze uthole isheduli yakhe yezimali futhi uhlele isikhathi sokubonisana ngentshisekelo yakho.
U-Ley uphinde athole inzuzo ngokuthengisa izincwadi ezimbili eziphika umlutha wezocansi nezocansi ("Inkolelo-mkhuba yokulutha kocansi, "2012 no"Porn Ethics for Dicks,”2016). I-Pornhub (ephethwe yi-porn giant i-MindGeek) ingenye yezinqumo ezinhlanu zangemuva ezingemuva ezifakwe ohlwini lwencwadi kaLey's 2016 mayelana ne-porn:
Qaphela: I-PornHub yayingu i-akhawunti yesibili ye-Twitter ukuphinda uveze i-tweet yokuqala ye-RealYBOP imemezela iwebhusayithi yayo “uchwepheshe”, iphakamisa umzamo oxhumene phakathi kwe-PornHub ne Ochwepheshe be-RealYBOP. Hewu!
Ekugcineni, uDavid Ley wenza imali nge Seminars ze-ECU, lapho athuthukisa khona umbono wokuphika umlutha 'obekwe ezincwadini zakhe ezimbili (ngokunganaki indiva amakhulukhulu ezifundo nokubaluleka kwalokhu okusha Ukuxilongwa okuphathelene nocansi okuphathelene nobulili obucashile encwadini yokuhlonza iWorld Health Organisation). U-Ley unxephezelwa ngezinkulumo zakhe eziningi ezinemibono yakhe enobandlululo nge-porn. Kulesi sethulo se-2019 u-Ley ubonakala esekela futhi egqugquzela ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kwentsha: Ukuthuthukisa Ubungqingili Okulungile Nokusetshenziswa Kwezithombe Ezingcolile Ezingcolile Kwintsha.
Lokhu okungenhla kumane nje kuyiphuzu le-Prause neLey iceberg.
Ukubuyekezwa kwe-neuroscientist / MD kukhombisa ukuthi kungani "ukulawula ukushaya indlwabu" kungadingekile
Njengoba ingcaphuno engezansi ichaza ngokweqile, ukubukela i-porn kuyefana nokuya ocansini - noma ngabe awushayi indlwabu. Lezi zicelo ezinkulu ze-2 ze-Prause / Ley:
1) Ukuthi “Izifundo zocansi kufanele zilawule ngokushaya indlwabu.”Akunasidingo sokubuza ngemvamisa yokushaya indlwabu lapho ukubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kufana nemizwa yokushaya indlwabu.
I-2) Lokho “Ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile kuyindlela yokushaya indlwabu.” Lesi yisimangalo sokuthi ukubukwa kocansi akuyona indlela yokulutha okukhulunywa ngayo; ukushaya indlwabu ukulutha. Kungani kunendaba lokhu? Ukudumisa Ucwaningo lwe-2015 EEG "debunking umlutha wezocansi" kubike kancane Ngaphansi ukuvuselelwa kobuchopho kulabo abasebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile lapho bebuka izithombe ze-vanilla porn. U-Prause uthe lokhu kwakungefani nalesi simodeli sokulutha umlutha, ethi ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwakunjalo cue ukushaya indlwabu. (Izilonda ngokuvamile zinempendulo enkulu yobuchopho kuzindlela zokusebenzisa - isb., Imilutha ye-cocaine ibona i-powder emhlophe izophendula ngokuvula ubuchopho okuningi ngokuhlobene nokulawula okunempilo kunalokho okuzoyisebenzisa uqobo.) Amaphepha ayisishiyagalolunye abukezwe ontanga avumelani noPrause ngesiphetho sakhe, ethi ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile is ukuluthwa umlutha, nokuthi abasebenzisi be-porn abasebenza njalo be-Prause babengenasidingo noma bajwayele i-vanilla porn - yingakho kunciphise ukusebenza kobuchopho. Babenesithukuthezi. Ucwaningo oluthile lwaphikisa umbono wakhe ngqo: Ingabe izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zingaba umlutha? Ucwaningo lwe-fMRI lwamadoda olufuna ukwelashwa lwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezinenkinga.
Kucashunwe ku "I-neuroanatomy esebenzayo ye-cortex cerebri yabantu ngokuphathelene nokufuna ubulili nokuba nayo":
Emhlakheni wamanje womqondo, lapho ukuvuswa kocansi kuyingxenye yokuqeda ngokocansi, ukulala ocansini akudingi ukuxhumana ngokobulili ngokomzimba noma ngomunye umuntu noma ngesigqila. Thatha isibonelo sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Ukucabanga ngezindlela zokufinyelela kuso, noma ukuwufuna ngokuzithandela, futhi mhlawumbe uhlangabezana nesifiso phakathi nenqubo, kubhekwa njengokufunwa ngokocansi. Ukubuka indaba ephathekayo yezocansi, ngisho nangaphandle kokushaya indlwabu, kungacatshangwa ngokuthi "ukulala ocansini" uma kuvuka ukuzala ngokobulili. Ngokufanayo, lapho abantu befinyelela ekuvusweni ngokobulili noma ngisho ne-orgasm ngokuzikhandla kwengqondo (ngaphandle kokuxhumana kwangaphandle komzimba), lokhu kubuye kufinyeleleke ngokuthi "ukwenza ucansi" (uKomisaruk no-Whipple, i-2011).
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