I-Porn iyatholakala kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili, futhi imibhangqwana eminingi isebenzisa ukuthuthukisa impilo yabo yesondo. Kodwa yenza okubi ngaphezu kokuhle, uDkt. Samadi uthi.
BY UDkt David Samadi Umthengisi wezindaba zansuku zonke. NgoLwesihlanu, ngo-September 9, i-2016
Ubani ongakhohlwa ukuhlukunyezwa kuka-Elizabeth Smart, oneminyaka engu-14 enqotshwe ekamelweni lakhe eSalt Lake City, e-Utah e-2002 futhi ebanjwe ngabathumba bakhe izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye?
Ngenhlanhla, indaba yakhe ibe nokuphela okujabulisayo njengoba ekhululwa ngoMashi 12, 2003, nje ngamamayela angu-18 ukusuka ekhaya.
Ngawo wonke ama-akhawunti, lona wesifazane onesibindi onesibindi, oye wabhekana nokuhlukunyezwa okubi kokungazi ukuthi isiphetho sakhe siyoba yini, uye wabhekana nesipiliyoni sakhe esibuhlungu ngomusa nesithunzi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi.
Muva nje, uye phambili ukukhuluma ngesibindi futhi wabelane ngemininingwane emisha yokuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zenze kanjani izihogo ezingu-9 ezibi kakhulu nakakhulu. Uphume ngevidiyo yeqembu eliphikisayo le-porn elikhulisa ukuqaphela ngemiphumela eyingozi yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezisekelwe kwisayensi, amaqiniso, nama-akhawunti akho.
U-Elizabeth Smart: i-porn 'yenze isihogo sami esiphilayo saba sibi kakhulu'
Leli qembu, elibizwa nge-fightthenewdrug.org, linomgomo wokufundisa umphakathi ngethonya lezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ekwakheni izinkinga ezinkulu ebudlelwaneni, ekuqothulweni kwalo emindenini nokuthi ukukhiqizwa kocansi kuvame ukuhlangana kanjani nokushushumbiswa kwezocansi nokuxhashazwa ngokocansi, ikakhulukazi abesifazane.
I-intanethi yenza izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zifinyeleleke kunanini ngaphambili. Ngokuchofoza okulula okulula noma ubani ongabuka cishe nganoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile abazifisayo.
Imibhangqwana eminingi ingawubheka njengento eyithuthukisa impilo yabo yocansi, kodwa ingabe ngempela indlela engcono kakhulu yokuletha umbhangqwana osondelene ndawonye? Noma ingabe ushayela ngaphezulu komkhawulo phakathi kwabo?
Nazi izindlela lapho izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zinomthelela omkhulu, omazayo kunokuba siqaphele:
Abantu abashadile ababukela i-porn kuphela bafaka ingozi yokuhlukanisa
Isiyaluyalu ku-porn sikhula
Ungacabanga ukuthi ukubuka isampula elincane lezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngeke kube yingozi. Kepha lapho ubuka kakhulu, kulapho udinga khona isilinganiso esanda njalo, ukuvuselela isifiso sobulili obunzima obunzima ukufinyelela ezingeni elifanayo lokuvuka.
Okukusetshenziselwa ukuzishaya manje ukuguqula
Ngemuva kokubuka ukudla okungcolile kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuziphatha kwakho kuqala ukushintsha ngokuthi lokho okuvame ukukuphazamisa nokuyizondayo, manje kubonakala kuyinto evamile futhi evamile.
U-Pamela Anderson uphendule ngokubongoza abantu ukuba bangaboni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile
Ubuchopho bakho bukuvuza ngokubukela i-porn ngokushaya i-chemical dopamine, okwenza ube nomuzwa onamandla - kodwa okwesikhashana kuphela.
Okungenzeka ukuthi kwaqala ngokuthi "i-connoisseur" ye-porn ezithambile kungagcina kuguquke kakhulu ukuze uthole impendulo efanayo yezocansi.
I-Porn ibulala uthando
U-Shaun White ulandele ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili ngumuntu ohamba naye
Ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi amadoda avezwe ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile imvamisa abeka kakhulu ukubukeka kozakwethu, ukusebenza kocansi nokubonisa uthando. Abesifazane bavezwa njengezinto zocansi ezidinga ukubuswa. Abasebenzisi abaningi bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile bangathola ukuthi sebelahlekelwe yintshisekelo yokuthola uthando, okubenza babe nobudlova ngokwengeziwe ebudlelwaneni obunothando, abangakwazi ukwethemba abanye futhi babe nombono womshado njengovimba.
Izithombe ezingcolile zilimaza impilo yethu yobulili
Uma ubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, konke kubonakala sengathi ku-surreal njengoba umbukeli ewela ezweni eliyinkimbinkimbi yobulili obuphelele, ubulili obukhulu kanye nobulili obuhle kunokuthi kwenzekani empilweni yabo yangempela.
Ukuvezwa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezithambile ezibonisa abesifazane abanemizimba ephelele kungadala imizwa yokunganeliseki ngokubukeka komlingani wethu, ngokuzimisela okuncane ukuzama izenzo ezintsha zocansi, okuholela ekuzweleni othandweni nomunye wethu obalulekile.
Ukuwa okuphawulekayo kwamadoda abheka ubulili njalo ukuhluleka ukufeza ukulungiswa. Ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile zihlanganisa isikhungo somvuzo ebuchosheni bethu ngokukhukhumeza ubuchopho nokuxoshwa kwamakhemikhali.
Lokhu kubangela ukuthi ubuchopho bomsebenzisi buphendule ngokunciphisa inani lamakhemikhali enjabulo ewakhiqizayo ukuze iyeke ukuphendula kumakhemikhali akhiqizwayo. Lokhu kuholela ekubeni umuntu abhekane nokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile lapho enomuntu wangempela ngoba abakwazi ukuthola ukwakhiwa ngaphandle kokubuka i-porn.
I-Porn ibulala ubuhlobo
Abanye abantu bangabheka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile njengohlobo olunye uhlobo lwesipiliyoni socansi, kodwa empeleni lidukisa umuzwa wethu wokukwahlulela.
I-Porn ifundisa ngokuphambene nalokho okushiwo ubudlelwane bothando obuseduze - ngokulingana, ukwethemba, ukwethembeka, inhlonipho nothando.
Esikhundleni salokho, i-porn ibonisa ukuthi ubudlelwane busekelwe ekubuseni, ukungabi nhlonipho, ukuhlukunyezwa, ubudlova kanye nempi. Uma umuntu ebuka izithombe ezingcolile, kunzima kakhulu ukuba nabo babe nobuhlobo bothando lwangempela noma impilo yocansi.
Ngalesi sikhathi akukho ukuvumelaniswa kwezokwelapha ukuthi ngabe izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ziyilutha yini noma cha, kodwa injabulo yesikhathi esifushane engayihlinzeka ingaba kalula ubuhlungu besikhathi eside, okubonakala kube inkinga emibhangqwaneni eminingi.
UDkt Samadi udokotela ohlinzeka ngomdlavuza oqinisekiswe ngamabhodi oqeqeshwe ngokuhlinzwa okuvulekile nokwendabuko kanye ne-laparoscopic futhi unguchwepheshe wokuhlinzwa kwamarobhothi. Ungusihlalo we-urology, umphathi wezokuhlinzwa kwamarobhothi eLenox Hill Hospital kanye noprofesa we-urology eHofstra North Shore-LIJ School of Medicine. Ungumbhali wezokwelapha we-Fox News Channel's Medical A-Team Funda kabanzi ku- roboticoncology.com. Vakashela ibhulogi kaDkt Samadi ku- SamadiMD.com. Landela UDkt. Samadi ku-Twitter, Instagram, i-Pintrest ne-Facebook.
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