Ochwepheshe bezocansi bavame ukushesha ukugcizelela ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwesidlidlizi kuhle kakhulu kwabesifazane. Kodwa-ke, kunobufakazi obukhulayo bokuthi ama-vibrator empeleni “ayizisusa ezingaphezu kwamandla,” ezingenakufaniswa nabalingani babantu. Kwabanye abasebenzisi, lokhu kusho ukwehla kokuphendula ngokocansi nenjabulo ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini nomlingani wakho.
Phakathi nendawo ye-2018, ukucinga kocwaningo oludakayo oluhambelanayo nokucindezela okujwayelekile kwenziwa kwindaba yokuthi ngabe ukusetshenziswa kwe-vibrator kunciphisa ukuphendula okwenziwe ngokocansi esikhathini esilandelayo phakathi kocansi kwabanye abasebenzisi bokudlidliza. Kukhona akukho cwaningo ngqo kwiphuzu (ukuhlola imiphumela yokusetshenziswa kwesidlidlizi esidlule ekuvukeni ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini ngaphandle kwethoyi). Izifundo ezintathu ezibonakala kakhulu kuma-vibrator zonke zaxhaswa yiChurch & Dwight, inkampani engumzali weTrojan, inkampani enesigaba esikhulu esizinikele ekwenzeni amathoyizi ocansi. Le nkampani yayinesithakazelo emiphumeleni yezifundo leyo omunye wabasebenzi bayo co-authored konke 3.
Ukungabikho kokungabi nandaba, ukucwaninga ngokuqondile-okuphazamisa amaphuzu kuye kwaveza imibono ehlukene kakhulu kwiWebhu. Ngokwesibonelo:
Ukucaca: akukho kulokhu okuzwa ngama-vibrator "ukumenza wehlise amandla" noma ngubani ovela kunoma yiluphi uhlobo locwaningo lwesayensi olukhombisile ukuthi, noma kunoma yini esiyaziyo ngomzimba womuntu: konke kuphuma ngokungazi, ukwesaba, ukungazethembi kanye nesidingo ukulawula. http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/do_vibrators_cause_a_loss_of_sensitivity
Ngokungqubuzanayo,
Mhlawumbe kufanele ufunde konke ukukhala kosizo kwabesifazane kuyo yonke i-inthanethi bekhala ngokuthi balahlekelwe wubuzwela. Iningi lezimpendulo ezivela kochwepheshe bezokwelapha libukeka njengokucabanga okungazi lutho. Batshela abesifazane ukuthi umuzwa uzobuya futhi kuyinkinga yesikhashana nje. Umuzwa wami wawulahlekile eminyakeni edlule futhi awukaze ubuye. Ungangitsheli ukuthi izidlidlizi azidali monakalo! https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Sexual-Health/What-evidence-do-you-have-that-vibrators-dont-cause-nerve-damage/show/2465319
Njengendaba yesayensi, inkinga ukuthi ngabe ngabe yini engavamile kakhulu njengamathoyizi wezocansi (kanye ne-pornography enganaphakade ye-intanethi) inganciphisa ukuphendula ngesikhathi sokulala ngaphandle kokudlala ngaphandle kubasebenzisi abathile be-vibrator. Ama-anecdotes amaningi athi angakwazi, futhi oseduzane (kodwa okwamanje akusikho ngokuqondile kuphuzu) ukucwaninga bethola ukuthi i-16.5% yabasebenzisi be-vibrator besifazane babike ukuthi "kunzima," okuyingxenye yesikhashana. Futhi, lokho kuhloswe kwaxhaswa ngemali (futhi kubhalwe phansi) yinkampani enesigaba esinikezelwe ezithombeni zamathoyizi. (Ngaphezulu ngezansi)
Kuyaphazamisa ukuthi abakwa-sexologists abacwaningi ngalesi simo ngokuqondile nangokwehluleka. Njengokuphenywa kwe-porn ye-intanethi, kuzodinga ukuthi (abasebenzisi be-1) bayeke okwesikhashana ukusetshenziselwa ukudlidliza futhi babike noma yiziphi izinguquko, noma (2) abasebenzisi abasha nabalingani bobulili babike noma yiziphi izinguquko.
Lesi sihloko sikhumbuza lapho abacwaningi bezemfundo emikhulu ababhekiswe kubantu bezocansi baxwayiswa (eminyakeni engaphezu kweyishumi edlule) ukuthi izinsizwa ezinama-ED nokulahleka kokukhangwa kwabalingani bangempela zaziguqula kokubili ngemuva kokuyeka izithombe ze-intanethi, nokuthi abacwaningi bezocansi babedinga ukucwaninga imiphumela ye-internet ye-porn. "Ungabi mkhuba. Lokhu kuzofana nokucwaninga ama-unicorns, "kusho omunye wabo.
Le mpendulo ephikisayo yafika naphezu kokuthi ngesikhathi esifanayo, abacwaningi baseKinsey babesanda kubika okufanayo ngokuphathelene nokusakaza izithombe zocansi ezigodini nasezindlini zokugeza: I-Dual Control Model - Indima Yokuvimbela Ngokocansi & Ukuzijabulisa Ekuvusweni Ngokobulili Nokuziphatha (2007). Omunye wabalobi wayeze ngisho nakwe-sexologi ohlwini ... futhi akazange athi lutho.
Ezesayensi, akukho lutho oluphumelelayo njengoba hhayi ngifuna okuthile uma ungafuni ukukuthola, futhi okufanayo kusebenza lapha. Abacwaningi bezocansi nabacwaningi babo baye batusa amathoyizi ezocansi (kanye nokusetshenziswa kocansi lwe-intanethi) ngaphandle kokubhuka. Maye, le ndlela ayisebenzisi imishini "yezempilo ngokocansi".
Of Yiqiniso abantu be-orgasm kalula futhi babike ukuvusa okuningi ngezocansi. Esifundweni esibizwa ngokuthi, "Izimpawu zokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa phakathi kwabesifazane (i-1996)," "Iningi libonise ama-orgasms abangelwa ukuvuselela izidakamizwa kunamandla kunabanye." Yingakho izinsizakalo zobulili zibizwa ngokuthi "usizo lwezocansi."
Kodwa-ke, ngokulinganisela kwe-female orgasm kalula ngamathoyizi (futhi nesipiliyoni esinciphile sokujabulela ubulili ngesikhathi socansi obuhlukanisiwe), bubufakazi bokuthi amathoyizi ezocansi empeleni "yinto engavamile," imiphumela engeke iphindwe ngumlingani womuntu . Njengalokhu, ama-vibrators angase afake isimo sabasebenzisi bezocansi, njengokuthi ubulili obuhlangene buyaneliseki kakhulu - futhi amathoyizi ayancipha kakhulu.
Abantu kufanele benze isinqumo sokusebenzisa ama-vibrators ngokusekelwe olwazini olugcwele, hhayi umbono ophihliwe.
Le nto inegama lesidlaliso le-inthanethi: “Dead Vagina Syndrome,” (ngokufanelekile “dead clitoris syndrome?”) Futhi kube nokuxoshwa okukhulu kwabezindaba ukuphika ukuba ngokoqobo kwayo. Odokotela abaningana abahlukene baphinda amaphuzu afanayo okukhuluma aboniswe ekubulaweni kwezindatshana ezifanayo "eziqinisekisayo". Hmmm…
Okusele kwalokhu kuqoqwa kuhlukaniswe ngocwaningo, ama-anecdotes aboniswe emaforamu, kanye nama-athikili avela kuwebhu ngale ndaba.
QAPHELA: Imboni iyaqhubeka nokukhuthaza ukusetshenziswa kwesidlidlizi nomcwaningi "ngokuqasha": Abesifazane bangajabulela ama-orgasms kuze kube imizuzwana emine futhi isikhathi esisheshayo uma besisebenzisa ithoyizi lezocansi, ucwaningo olusha luvezile. Noma kunjalo, abesifazane bayaqhubeka bebika imiphumela emibi ehlobene nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa: Ubudala bomama ama-30 - ahluleka ukwenza i-orgasm namadoda, kuphela yedwa - indaba yokuphumelela kuze kube manje!
Ucwaningo oluhlobene nama-vibrators
Izinguquko kokuhlangenwe nakho kobulili kowesifazane nokulindelwe kulandela ukwethulwa kosizo lwesidlidlizi kagesi.
(Okufanele)
Nini abacwaningi baphenywa nge-19 Abasebenzisi be-vibrator abasha, “Abesifazane bakhulume lukhulu ngoshintsho ekuphenduleni kwabo nasekuvuseleleni i-orgasmic lapho beqala ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi. … Ngokuphawulekile, abesifazane abayisishiyagalombili basho ngqo ukuthi babekhathazekile ngokuncika kusixukuzi. … Abesifazane abathathu kuphela abakhulume ngqo ngezimpilo zabo zobulili obuhlukanisiwe ezithuthukiswa isidlidlizi. ”
Ukuqhathaniswa Nezici Zokusetshenziswa KwamaVibrator Abesifazane E-United States: Imiphumela evela Esifundweni Sezimele Esizweni.
QAPHELA: Ixhaswe inkampani yabazali yeTrojan (Church & Dwight Co), enesigaba samathoyizi ezocansi. Akugcinanga lapho, omunye wababhali abambisene naye bekuyi-C & D isisebenzi:
Ukungqubuzana kwezintshisekelo: U-Annahita Ghassemi uyisisebenzi seChurch & Dwight Co, Inc., okuyinhlangano exhase lolu cwaningo.
Abanye abalobi babambene ne-Indiana University noma i-Kinsey Institute.
Cishe cishe i-30% yabesifazane babhekene nezimpawu zobunikazi kusukela ekusetshenzisweni kwezidakamizwa. Ingqikithi ye-16.5% (i-95% CI, i-14.3-18.7%) yayingakaze ibone ubunzima be-genital, ingxenye yayo yesikhashana. Isigaba esigcwele:
Kubasebenzisi abake basebenza, ama-71.5% (95% CI, 68.8-74.2%) abike ukuthi abakaze babhekane nanoma yimiphi imiphumela emibi ebaluliwe kusuka ekusetshenzisweni kwesidlidlizi. Njengoba kukhonjisiwe kuThebula 5, isamba esingu-16.5% (95% CI, 14.3-18.7%) esake sabhekana nobuthakathaka ngokobulili, kwathi u-0.5% (95% CI, 0.1-0.9%) wabika ukuthi ubundindisholo buqhubeke usuku noma ngaphezulu . Phakathi kwalabo ababika ukunganaki, isilinganiso sobukhulu besilinganiso sasingu-4.0 (esikalini samaphoyinti ayi-10). Ingqikithi ye-3.0% (95% CI, 2.0- 4.0%) ibike ukuthi yake yabhekana nobuhlungu besitho sangasese obudalwa ukusetshenziswa kwesidlidlizi, kuthi i-0.6% (95% CI, 0.1-1.1%) ibike ubuhlungu obuhlala usuku noma ngaphezulu. Phakathi kwalabo ababika ubuhlungu, isilinganiso sobukhulu besilinganiso sasingu-3.0. Inani eliphelele le-9.9% (95% CI, 8.1-11.7%) labasebenzisi libike ukuthi lihlangabezane nokucasuka kwezitho zangasese ekusetshenzisweni kwesidlidlizi, nge-2.6% (95% CI, 1.6-3.6%) ebika ukucasuka okuhlala usuku noma ngaphezulu. Phakathi kwalabo ababika ukucasuka, isilinganiso sobukhulu besilinganiso sasingu-4.0. Ukuvuvukala / Ukuvuvukala kubikwe ngabasebenzisi abangu-8.0% (95% CI, 6.4-9.6%) ngo-1.5% (95% CI, 0.8-2.0%) ababika ukuvuvukala / ukuvuvukala usuku noma ngaphezulu. Isilinganiso sobukhulu besilinganiso sokuvuvukala / ukuvuvukala kwakungu-4.0. Inani eliphelele labasebenzisi abangu-1.1% (95% CI, 0.5-1.7 1.0%) babike ukuzwa izinyembezi noma ukusikeka maqondana nokusetshenziswa kwesidlidlizi, ngesilinganiso esiphakathi sobukhulu esingu-XNUMX.
Abacwaningi abazange babuze ukuthi ngabe kunciphile ukuphendula ngesikhathi sokulala nomlingani. Futhi "baphoqa" lokhu kungenzeka ngokuthi "inkolelo yamlando" nje:
"Kodwa-ke, kunikezwa inkolelo engokomlando yokuthi ukusetshenziswa kwe-vibrator kungase kuqhubekele abesifazane ezindleleni ezithile zokuphendula ngezocansi (okungukuthi, ukubhekana ne-orgasm kalula nge-vibrator nokuncane kakhulu nomlingani), ucwaningo lwesikhathi esizayo kufanele lucabangele ukuhlola ukuthi izinga labesifazane labesifazane liba khona kanjani -Kunjalo, okuthuthukisiwe-ngokuphathelene nokusebenzisa isidlidli. "
Izindlela zokusetshenziswa kwezidlidliza phakathi kwabesifazane
(I-1996, isampula eqoqwe kusuka kubathengi abazungezile. Abamele: 37% amancane abesilisa ocansini, i-54% yayingabalingani bobulili besilisa kuphela)
Ngenkathi abanye ababhali (isb., Heiman, Lo- Piccolo, & LoPiccolo, 1976; Masters & Johnson, 1986) bakhuthaze abesifazane ukuthi basebenzise isidlidlizi ukukhulisa inkanuko yabo yezocansi noma ukuthuthukisa amandla e-orgasmic, abanye (isib. Kaplan, 1974) babe ngibe nomdlandla omncane, ngesaba ukuthi owesifazane angahle ancike kakhulu kudlidliza. UKaplan uphikise ukuthi abesifazane bangase bangakwazi ukuzwa i-orgasm ngezinye izindlela uma isidlidlizi sincike kakhulu kuso.
... Abesifazane abathola i-orgasm kuphela bathola ukugudluza kwe-clitoral kanye nokuvuselelwa kwe-clitoral-manual ukuze kuphumelele kakhulu, cishe i-80% ebonisa ukuthi ukugqugquzela i-clitoral nge-vibrator ngokuvamile noma okuvezwa njalo i-orgasm.
... Abesifazane abaningi (n = 123) kuchaza umehluko, uma ikhona, phakathi kwemizwa abayibona lapho i-orgasm ishukunyiswa ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa, uma kuqhathaniswa nemizwa yabo lapho isidlidliza singasetshenziswanga. Iningi labika ama-orgasms ayenamandla ngesidlidli (bheka ithebula 4). Abesifazane abayishumi babika ukuthi babhekana ne-orgasm kuphela ngokusebenzisa i-vibrator.
... Ukuzivuselela ngokweqile kwakunokwethenjelwa kakhulu ekwenzeni i-orgasm kunezinhlelo zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi. Abaningi besifazane nabo banesisindo esincane ngokwanele ngokuvama noma ukuvumelana kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kwe-orgasmic, kokubili kwedwa kanye nomlingani. Lokhu akuyona isampula yabesifazane abakhungathekile ngezocansi zabo noma ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi ukukhokhela ukwaneliseka kocansi ngezinye izindlela, kungaba yedwa noma nomlingani wakho.
Idatha ayiphakamise ukusetshenziswa kokudlidliza kwaba nemiphumela emibi ekusebenzeni ngokocansi nokwaneliseka ngaphandle usebenzisa isidlidlizi, kepha ayikho idatha eqhathanisa ukuphendula kwezocansi ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini phakathi kwabasebenzisi nabangewona abasebenzisi - njengesampuli esetshenzisiwe esidlidliza, phakathi kwezinye izindlela zokushaya indlwabu nemisebenzi yezocansi.
Ukukhathazeka ngemitholampilo nokucwaninga ngokuvuselela okudlidlizayo: ukubuyekezwa kanye nokuhlola okuqhutshwayo kwamadivayisi avamile okuvuselela
(Izivivinywa ezivivinywa ngokuzenzekelayo, kunokuba zibe yi-vivo. Inhloso yalolu cwaningo kwakuwukuhlola izakhiwo zamashini ezixhumene nazo ezivamile zobulili.)
[Kusuka ku-Abstract] Ama-vibrator ayisikhombisa asetshenziselwa ukugqugquzela ngokocansi ahlolwe esebenzisa i-accelerometer ye-piezoelectric ekhonjiwe ezindlini zabo ukulinganisa imvamisa, ukufuduka, nokusheshisa ngayinye. Imvamisa evimbelayo isukela ku-43 kuya ku-148 Hz, ukuhamba ukusuka ku-37 kuya ku-783 μm, futhi ukusheshisa kusuka ku-18 kuya ku-311 m / s2. Ububanzi bubonisa ukuthi ama-vibrators asetshenziselwa izifundo zelabhorethri angathuthukisa kakhulu ukuvuselela kwabo, ngenkathi amanye amadivayisi empeleni anganciphisa ukuzwela ngokocansi okwesikhashana. Isifundo se-vivo singasichaza amaphethini wokusetshenziswa angakwazi ukwandisa ukuvusa ngocansi ngenkathi kunciphise ukulahlekelwa kokuzwela.
[Kusuka ephepheni] Amaklayenti angabika ukukhathazeka ngokuthi izidlidlizi ziba `` yinduku '' yezocansi noma zinciphise ukuzwela kwazo (Heiman & LoPiccolo, 1988). Okunye kwalokhu kwesaba kubonakala kufanelekile ngokwengxenye. Ukuzivumelanisa nezikhathi zesikhashana kwenzeka ekuvuseleleni isidlidlizi, njengokuthi ukuvuselela imizuzwana eyi-15 ngemuva kwesikhuthazi esiqhubekayo sokudlidliza akukwazi ukubandlululwa nangaphambi kokugqugquzela okudlidlizisayo (UTommerdahl et al., 2005). Kodwa-ke, izidlidlizi zingahle zehluke kunokushukumisa mathupha ekwehliseni ukuzwela okulandelayo. [ß Njengoba kunikezwe isitatimende esingenangqondo esifana nalesi, umuntu kufanele abuze ukuthi ngubani osebenza neTeam Prause….]
Ukuxhunywa okukhathazayo nokugwema, ukusetshenziswa kwe-vibrator, ubulili obuyindlala, kanye ne-orgasm yangasese engakhubazekile.
(Okuthakazelisayo, kodwa hhayi endaweni)
IZIPHUMA:
Ukuxhunywa okukhathazayo kwakuhlotshaniswa nokulingana okuncane kwesisu se-vaginal, kodwa ngezinga eliphakeme le-vibrator kanye ne-analgasms yangasese yesilwane. Ukunamathisela okugwema kuhlotshaniswa nemvamisa ephakeme yama-orgasms okudlidliza. Ukuzibandakanya okukhathazayo noma okugwemayo kwakungeyona inamba yokuphila yama-penile-ubulili bobulili.
Izinqununu ze-orgasms zocansi zesifazane
(2016 - hhayi isifundo sedlidliza, kepha esanda futhi sithakazelisa)
… [Kwabesifazane] Kube nokwehla okuqhubekayo komkhuba maqondana neminyaka ye-orgasm yokuqala ekushaya indlwabu, kepha hhayi maqondana neminyaka ye-orgasm yokuqala kwezocansi. Kulezi zinsuku, uhhafu wabesifazane ube ne-orgasm yabo yokuqala ekushaya indlwabu okungenani iminyaka eyi-5 ngaphambi kwe-orgasm yabo yokuqala ekuhlanganyeleni. Baye baba nesikhathi esiningi sokuzijabulisa kwabo ngokocansi nge ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kokuba baqale ukulala, kodwa lokho akuzange kubasize ukuba bafinyelele i-orgasm noma yimuphi osemncane ngesikhathi sokulala. Lo mphumela uhlukanisa nokulindela. (ukugcizelelwa okunikeziwe)
Kukhona ngisho nokuthola ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kuhlotshaniswa nekhwalithi ebudlelwane bompofu, ingozi enkulu yesifo sokuvuthwa kwesifazane ngokobulili, ukwaneliseka ngokocansi, ukukhubazeka komzimba (ikakhulukazi i-orgasm yangasese) kanye nezinye izinqubo ezimbi (Brody, 2007). Kulolu cwaningo, ikhwalithi yobuhlobo besifazane ayihlotshaniswa nemvamisa yokushaya indlwabu kodwa ukwaneliseka ngokocansi okujwayelekile kwakungaphansi kwabesifazane abashaya indlwabu ngenkuthalo.
Ukusetshenziswa kwesidlidlizi sabesifazane kubudlelwano bezocansi: imiphumela evela kwinhlolovo emele izwe lonke e-United States.
Leli phepha (elandulela enye yamuva nje ngenhla) nayo ixhaswe yinkampani eneTroksi (ngokuhlukana kocansi) futhi yabhalwa ngabasebenzi benkampani. Yenza hhayi ukuqhathanisa ngokuqondile ukuphendula komzimba phakathi kwabasebenzisi be-vibrator ngokuphendula komzimba phakathi kwabasebenzisi abangabonakali.
Noma kunjalo, “kusibonakaliso sokwaneliseka” sohlu lwemibuzo le-FSFI (“Female Sexual Function Index”), ukwaneliseka kwakuphakeme kakhulu ku- “ungalokothi abasebenzisi ”phakathi kwabesifazane abangama-hetero nababili. Ngabe lokhu kuphakamisa ukuthi kungahle kube nenkinga ehlanganiswa yindlela esetshenziswe kulolu cwaningo oluxhaswe yimboni?
Ukusetshenziswa kwe-vibrator phakathi kwabantu abesilisa nabesilisa ocansini kuyashintsha isimo sesibambisene: imiphumela evela esifundweni esimelele ezweni e-United States.
Ukufundiswa kwamadoda, ngakho akufanelekile "ku-vagine syndrome efile." Lesi sifundo sasixhaswa nenkampani yomzali weTrojan, futhi ibhalwe ngokubambisana yi-Indiana University sikaHerbenick (Kinsey).
Ama-anecdotes avela kuwebhu
[Ama-anecdotes angaphezulu angatholakala ngezansi kusigaba esilandelayo.]
Owesifazane wokuqala: “Inkinga yami enkulu bekuwukusebenzisa i-vibration ukwehla futhi konakalisa ukuzwela kwami. Ngalahla isidlidlizi sami ngokuphelele. Ngeshwa bekufanele ngilahle konke okusendlini okudlidlizelayo ngoba bengilokhu ngizama ukuthola umuntu ozongena esikhundleni sakhe. Ithuluzi lokuhlanza ubuso le-Goodbye Sonic-Care. Ubulili bungcono kakhulu. Akunambuzo. Ingquza yami ibifile kunoma yini engasebenzisi ibhethri. ”
Owesifazane wesibili: “Ngiyethemba ukuthi isipelingi esomile sizongenza ngibe nentshisekelo yokuthandana. Abesifazane abaneminyaka engu-18 akufanele bavalelwe emakamelweni abo abanezithombe zocansi namathoyizi. Ngingathanda ukuthola iziqu esikoleni esiphakeme ngesandla esomile. ”
Owesithathu owesifazane: "Ngiyafunda hentai kancane futhi ushaya indlwabu cishe nsuku zonke. Ngidinga ukuyeka. Ngiphelelwe ubuzwela ku-clitoris yami kusixuni sami. ”
Omunye wesifazane: Ukusetshenziswa kwesidlidlizi kungamenza abe yisisulu owesifazane ngokuphelele. Ngaqala ukusebenzisa eyodwa ekolishi, ngicabanga ukuthi ngingowesifazane wanamuhla, onikwe amandla ocansi, futhi angikholwa ukuthi umsebenzi uwenze ngempumelelo kangakanani. Isebenze kahle kakhulu. Kungakapheli nenyanga, ngangingasakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm nesoka lami, futhi ezinyangeni ezimbalwa emva kwalokho, angibange ngisakwazi ukukwenza ngesandla sami. Isidlidlizi sangena kudoti futhi ukuphendula kwami kwabuya emuva kwamasonto athile. Ngisho namanje, eminyakeni eyishumi kamuva, kwesinye isikhathi ngiye ngikhumbule ukukhuthazeka okukhulu. Kodwa-ke, angikhumbuli nakanjani ukuba nokuphendula ngocansi kwedwala.
Ngiye ngahlala kude ne-porn ye-Intanethi ngesizathu esifanayo. Kuyakhuthaza kakhulu, futhi ngiyazi ukuthi ngizosheshe ngixhunywe. Ngizamile ukushaya indlwabu kanye. Ngempela ngangena ngaphansi komzuzu owodwa (hhayi neze njengokuphila kwangempela!) Ngoba ukukhuthazwa kwakunzima kakhulu. Ubulili bempilo yangempela abusoze bakwazi ukulinganisa lokho. Mhlawumbe yimi ohlukile, kepha ngizazi kahle. Uma ngiqala ukusebenzisa i-porn ye-Intanethi njalo, ngizogcina sengingomunye walabo bantu abangasakwazi ukuvula ngaphandle kwayo. Cha ngiyabonga. Ngizogcina impilo yami yocansi-organic.
Umfana: Nganginentombi eyayitshela ukuthi kunenkathi empilweni yakhe lapho eqala khona ukusebenzisa isidumbu sakhe. Kodwa wazithola engakwazi ukuhlukunyezwa nabalingani bakhe ngoba wayesebenziseke kakhulu. Washiya isidlidlizi, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi uthe wamthatha ngezinyanga ze-6 ukuze abuyele evamile.
Omunye umfana (ongekho kuma-vibrators, kodwa afanele kunoma yikuphi ukugqugquzela ngokocansi okungavamile): Owesifazane oyedwa kwabathathu ontanga yami ubuka izithombe zocansi. Ngiyakhumbula ngangicabanga ukuthi kuhle kakhulu uma intombazane enhle ibuka izithombe ezingcolile. Kepha ngokungathi sína, lokhu kubi impela — akukuhle — empeleni kimi nakubantu bebonke. Angifuni nakancane ukuthi ubuchopho bomkami wesikhathi esizayo buthathwe kabi yi-porn, ngakho-ke impilo yakhe namakhono ami okwenza uthando abonakala eyisicefe futhi ehlambalaza. Jeez kuyabheda lokhu. Kuyadabukisa ukubona ukuthi ubuchwepheshe obubi busiphazamise kanjani ngobuchopho bethu.
Izingcaphuno ezivela kwisampula sezihloko ezijwayelekile
Iningi lalezi zihloko zaphetha ngokuthi "akukho nkinga yangempela" ekusetshenzisweni kwezidakamizwa, ngokuvamile ngokuthembela ekucwaningweni okuxhaswe ngembonini ngenhla, engazange ibuze imibuzo eyinhloko, noma ekucwaningweni (okukhulunywe ngaye ekuqaleni) okungekho izifundo zabantu. Ayikho enye yezihloko ezitholakale kulokhu okushiwo ukuthi i-Indiana ihlola abalobi ababexhomeke kuyo yimboni-eyabanjelwa ngemali futhi ibhaliswe ngumsebenzi wemboni.
Izinto ezingezansi azibonakali lutho, kepha zibonisa ukuthi le nkinga ngokusobala ivamile ngokwanele ukuthi izihloko eziningi zilotshwe kulolu phenomenon elinciphile-lokuphendula. Njengoba kunikezwe ngamaphuzu abo okukhuluma nokuntuleka kokuphenya, ezinye zazo "zingabekwa" yizimboni ezifanayo ezixhaswe ngezifundo zase-Indiana.
Ingabe Ukuvimbela Kwakho Kuchitha Ukuphila Kwakho Kobulili?
"Ngiyahlukana nesidlidliza sami," umngane wami Kate, * 35, wangitshela ngokuthula nge-lattes ngesonto eledlule. "Ngiyayithanda, ngokusobala, kodwa isoka lami licabanga ukuthi kungenza ngiziphendule kancane, niyazi, yena"Angizange ngimangele ukuvuma kwakhe. Umshayeli wami usanda kubuza ukuthi ngizame ukuthatha i-vi-break yami ngokwami emva kokuba ngimtshele ukuthi nginenkinga yokufinyelela i-orgasm ngaphandle kokuthembela kwami uHitachi Magic Wand ....
UCaroline waqaphela ukuthi uzobe esengakwazi ukukhuluma nge-sexgasm - kusuka ocansini yomlomo, ukugqugquzela amabhuku, noma ukulala naye - ngaphandle komngane wakhe osebenza ngebhethri. Uthi: "Kwangenza ngibe namahloni ukuthi umzimba wami wawunamathele kanjani kuwo wonke umuntu kodwa wawunomshini omkhulu wokushisa." "UJon uzama ukuwela phansi kimi noma ukusebenzisa izandla zakhe, kodwa kuzothatha kuze kube phakade. Ekugcineni sasizoyeka, futhi ngiphinde ngibuyele ku-vibrator. "
Ingabe Kufanele Ukhathazeke Nge "Dead Vagina Syndrome"?
1. I-DVS kuthiwa ibangelwa ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi sakho kakhulu. Isifo se-vagin elifile ibhekisela ekusebenziseni isidlidliza sakho kakhulu, okwenza ubulili bakho bulahlekelwe ukuzwela. Izindaba eziningi ngalesi simo zisakazekile, okungenzeka zenze ukhathazeke ngokuthi uhamba kanjani kuMnu. Buzz ukuze uphume.
I-2. I-DVS ivele kanjani, noma kunjalo? Kulungile, ngakho-ke kuthiwa ukuthi i-vagin syndrome efile kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi usebenzisa i-vibrator yakho kakhulu kangangokuthi ulahlekelwa ukugqugquzelwa kwama-clitoral kanye nesisu. Kubi nakakhulu-ngokuya ngokudlidliza kwakho njalo, empeleni ugcina ungakwazi ukufaka i-orgasm nganoma iyiphi enye indlela, njengomlingani ngesikhathi socansi. Uma uqhubeka usebenzisa i-vibrator yakho, uzophela ngegciwane elingakwazi ukuthola injabulo. Ngakho-ke, sekufile. ...
Ingabe Ukuvimbela Ama-Vibrators Noma Ukubonga? Umshayeli Wethu Wezocansi Unempendulo Yakho
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Okudingayo ukwazi ngesifo sowesifazane sangasese esifile
Kodwa ingabe i-vaginal syndrome efile empeleni iyinto yangempela? Noma ingabe inganekwane esetshenziselwa ukubeka abesifazane ekuzijabuliseni ngokocansi?
Uma ungazi, i-vaginal syndrome efile ibhekisela ekunciphiseni okukhulu kobuzwe besifazane ngokulandela ukusetshenziswa kwezidlidliza.
Le ncazelo ithi uma usebenzisa isidlidlizi 'ngokweqile', uzokwakha ukwakha ukubekezelelana ekugqugquzelweni kwamagciwane kanye nesiswini, okwenza ungakwazi ukwenza i-orgasm nganoma iyiphi enye indlela. Uma uqhubeka usebenzisa isidlidlizi sakho, uthi ama-theorists abafile, ubulili bakho buzokwenza lokho kuzwela, futhi, okusho ukuthi ubulili bakho buzofa futhi buphikisana nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuzijabulisa.
Imisindo iyayethusa, akunjalo? Futhi cishe ukuthi yenza umqondo. Qhubeka usebenzisa indlela eyodwa yokuphuma futhi mhlawumbe uzothola kuyinkimbinkimbi ku-orgasm kusuka kwezinye izindlela.
Kodwa ungesabi, ubulili besifazane. ...
Izimpendulo ze-Quora: Ungaphatha kabi umonakalo obangela isidlidliza ku-clitoris? Umonakalo wegazi noma okunye?
Ingabe isidlidliza sakho sidabula i-orgasm yakho? (I-Daily Dot)
Amathoyizi ocansi zikhulu. Kodwa njenganoma yini enye, into eningi kakhulu ingaba yingozi. Futhi abanye abesifazane baye babika ukuthi emva kokusebenzisa ama-vibrators isikhathi esithile eside, ama-vaginas abo asuke enesimo sezinhlobo eziningi zokugqugquzela, kuze kube yilapho kungekho lutho olufushane lwe-jackhammer kuya kwi-clitoris oluzobanika i-orgasm.
... Noma kunjalo, abanye besifazane bakholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi izidakamizwa ziye zazisusa. Esikhathini seCosmo, umlobi u-Lauren Bans uchaza ukuthuthukisa "i-Dead Vagina Syndrome," "noma njengoba ochwepheshe bebiza ngokuqondile, i-DVS," ngemva kweminyaka eminingi yokusebenzisa isidlidliza.
"Ngemuva kweminyaka engaphezu kwamandla-ngiphakamisa indodakazi yami ingxenye, ngathola ukuthi ukuza nganoma iyiphi enye indlela kudinga izinga lokuxilongwa ngokuthatha ama-SAT," Ukubhalwa kwebhasi kubhalwe. "Kwakuyinkimbinkimbi. Iminwe ifakwe ngokuqhathaniswa. Angizange ngizwe ulimi. Ngangesaba ukuthi ngabe ngiduduza izinzwa zami zifile phakade. "
... I-TLDR: "I-Dead Vagina Syndrome" kusukela ekusetshenzisweni kokudlidliza ngokweqile mhlawumbe inganekwane. Kodwa ososayensi abazi ngokuqinisekile, ngoba akekho owenzile ukuhlolwa okuqondile ukuthola.
Kuphela I-Organming With Vibrators Enamandla? I-8 Inyathelo Yokuthola Ukuzwela
A: ... Abesifazane abaningi babika ukuthi kufanele ukwandisa izinga lokuqina kwezidumbu zabo, noma ukugcina "ukuthuthukisa" ama-vibrators abo kumamodeli anamandla kakhulu.
... Ngeshwa, akuzange kube nezifundo eziqinele eziye zabonisa ukuthi ukuxhomekeka komzimba okungokoqobo kungakhula noma cha, kepha abesifazane abaningi babika ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwe-vibrator njalo kwenza kube nzima ukuthola i-orgasm ngezinye izindlela (njengokungathi ngukushaya indlwabu noma ubulili bomlomo) .
Yibuphi ubufakazi onabo bokuthi izidlidliza azidali umonakalo wezinzwa?
Omunye wesifazane ubuze ukuthi ngabe bukhona yini ubufakazi bokuthi i-clitoris ingahle ihliswe amandla nge-vibrator. Uthe 'hhayi ukuthi ngikuzwile'. Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi abukho ubufakazi ngoba yisihloko nje esingafundwanga, noma obekufundwa nemiphumela ikhombisile ukuthi bekungenzeki?
Mhlawumbe kufanele ufunde konke ukukhala kosizo oluvela kwabesifazane kuyo yonke i-inthanethi bekhala ngokuthi balahlekelwe ubuzwela. Iningi lezimpendulo ezivela kochwepheshe bezokwelapha libukeka njengokucabanga okungazi lutho. Batshela abesifazane ukuthi umuzwa uzobuya futhi kuyinkinga yesikhashana nje.
Umuzwa wami wawulahlekile eminyakeni edlule futhi awukaze ubuye. Ungangitsheli ukuthi izidlidlizi azidali monakalo! Lolu hlobo lwezeluleko zokungazi lubeka abanye besifazane engcupheni yenkinga efanayo futhi lubambezele ukuthungathwa kokuthi izidlidliza ziwudala kanjani empeleni umonakalo nokuthi ingelashwa kanjani inkinga. Nginomuzwa wokuthi ngisokwe ngendlela engasho lutho futhi Cha akusikho konke okusemqondweni wami.
Ukuphela kwe-vibrator kuphelile
Ngingu-40 futhi ngathenga futhi ngasebenzisa isidlidliza okokuqala ngqa futhi sengiyabona manje ukuthi lapho umyeni wami ezama ukungithinta futhi angivuse ngizwa kahle kepha angikwazi ukwenza i-orgasim. Ngiyekile ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi. Kungenzeka yini ukuthi kulimaze ukuphela kwami kwemizwa? Ngingathanda ukuzwa lapho ngokungithinta kwakhe ... Yini engingayenza ukubuyisela imizwa kuleyo ndawo. Bengisebenzisa elinye lazo tho hitatchi wands
Indlela Ukudlala Ngama-Sex Toys Ukuthinta Ngayo: Ingabe njalo bayanda ukwaneliseka?
Ingabe i- “Dead Vagina Syndrome” iyinto yangempela?
[Lokhu kuxhomeke kumcwaningi ukuba adibanise "i-Dead Vagina Syndrome," kodwa ihlobanisa nephepha elivele lihlolwe amandla okudlidliza ebhodini ... azikho izifundo zangempela]
Kungenzeka wake wezwa igama elithi “I-Vagina Syndrome efile”Iphonswe ku-inthanethi, noma okungenani wezwa umqondo ongemuva kwayo: ukuthi ukusebenzisa isidlidlizi sakho ngokweqile kuzokhubaza isitho sakho sangasese. Ngabe lesi simangalo sinaso isisekelo sesayensi, noma kunjalo? Noma ingabe kungenye nje insumansumane yokuxaka abantu ngokushaya indlwabu?
Ngenhlanhla, isazi sezinzwa zezokwelapha kanye nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ngocansi uNicole Prause, Ph.D., onakho wafunda imiphumela yama-vibrator, ithi ayikho idatha yokwenza isipele izimangalo mayelana ne-Dead Vagina Syndrome.
Ungasebenzisa isidlidliza ukulimaza imizwa yakho?
Ake siqale nge-anatomy eyisisekelo. Igatsha le-dorsal le-nervousal nervous is responsible for sensation to clitoris and penis, ngokulandelana. Abesilisa nabesifazane banezitholampilo ezibona ukudlidliza, ukucindezela, izinga lokushisa, nezinye izinzwa ezifana nokushisa / okubandayo.
Nali iqiniso elijabulisayo nokho! Ingquza nomthondo kunezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokwamukela. I-clitoris inama-receptors asheshe azwele ekudlidlizeni phakathi kuka-5 no-15 Hz ngenkathi ipipi lizwela kakhulu kumvamisa ophakeme (250Hz). Mhlawumbe kukhona umehluko phakathi kokudlidliza okufanele kwabesilisa nabesifazane? Kuze kube manje alukho ucwaningo ngalokhu.
Siyazi ukuthi kunokunciphisa ngokwemvelo nokwengqikithi kokuzwela ekudlideni. Lokhu kwenzeka futhi ngokuthinta. Konke kusho ukuthi emva kwesikhashana, kuzodingeka ushintshe okufakwayo (okusho ukudlidliza) ngandlela-thile ukuqhubeka nomphumela ofanayo. Ungakwazi ukufeza lokhu ngokushintsha ukuvinjelwa, amandla, izinhlobo zokudlidliza, noma ukuthatha isikhathi esithile kude nesidlidliza.
Uma kuziwa kumbuzo kaJean, kufanele ngithi lokhu: Ngemva kokusesha okuphelele kwezinguquko ezihlukene, angitholanga i-athikili eyodwa mayelana nama-vibrators abangela umonakalo wamanyo. Manje ngenxa yokuthi ayikho into eshicilelwe ngaphandle akusho ukuthi lokhu akukaze kwenzeke noma akukaze kwenzeke. Ngingasho ukuthi physiologically akuyona ngaphandle kombuzo. Isibonelo, siyazi ukuthi abantu abasebenza nge-jack-hammer usuku lonke basengozini enkulu yokuthuthukisa izinkinga zezinzwa nezengalo. Ngicabanga ukuthi uma uzokusebenzisa i-vibrator high-intensive amahora ekugcineni, izinsuku eziningi zilandelana yebo yebo, kungenzeka ukuthi ubangele ukucasula noma ukulimaza inzwa.
QAPHELA: Imboni iyaqhubeka nokukhuthaza ukusetshenziswa kwesidlidlizi nomcwaningi "ngokuqasha": Abesifazane bangajabulela ama-orgasms kuze kube imizuzwana emine futhi isikhathi esisheshayo uma besisebenzisa ithoyizi lezocansi, ucwaningo olusha luvezile. Noma kunjalo, abesifazane bayaqhubeka bebika imiphumela emibi ehlobene nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa: Ubudala bomama ama-30 - ahluleka ukwenza i-orgasm namadoda, kuphela yedwa - indaba yokuphumelela kuze kube manje!
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