YBOP UKUTHOLA: Leli khasi liqukethe imibiko eminingi yokuziphendulela eyenziwe ngabantu (abanye babo abalungile ngokwezepolitiki kunabanye), abaphethe ngokuthi ukuthanda kwabo i-porn kube nomthelela ekuthandweni kwabo kocansi ngemuva kokuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi babona ukuthanda kwabo kubuyela emuva. Le mibiko yokuzimela ithathwa kwizithangami zokubuyisa izithombe ezingcolile. I-YBOP izicaphuna kahle njengoba zinjalo, futhi imibono yabalobi / ukubekezela kwabo akubonisi lokho kwaleli webhusayithi. Uma uzwa ukuthi intshisekelo yakho yezocansi neyothando kubantu be-transgender iphilile, ukuthi weneliseka ngezinkanuko zakho zocansi, noma ukuthi izinkanuko zakho zocansi zisethiwe, ungafundi kude. Leli khasi lenzelwe abantu abakholelwa ukuthi ukukhula kwabo okuqhutshwa yizocansi kuya ezinhlotsheni ezintsha kungafihla ukuthanda kwabo kobulili kwangaphambilini noma okungokwemvelo.
Buka isigaba sokuphawula ngezansi ukuze uthunyelwe abasebenzisi be-porn echaza ukukhula kwezinhlobo ezingavumelani nokuthanda kokuqala noma ukuma. Futhi ubone:
- UPDATE: Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-40 ezibika okutholakele zihambisana nokukhula kokusetshenziswa kocansi (ukubekezela), ukujwayela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ngisho nezimpawu zokuhoxiswa
- ISIFUNDO: Ngubani okhangwa 'ama-shemales?' - Angobani amadoda angama-gynandromorphophilic? Ukufanisa amadoda anentshisekelo yezocansi kwabesifazane abangama-transgender (2015) [Lolu cwaningo lubizwe ngabalobi besifundo.]
- I-self self-report yokuthi indoda ivumela kanjani ukuhamba isisu esidala isikhathi eside ngokusebenzisa indlela yokuhlazeka, yokubuyisela ubuchopho.
- Ingabe Ukuthandana Ngokwecansi Kungenakwenzeka?
- I-Exposure Therapy ye-HOCD? I-HOCD ehlobene nocansi ingase ifake isimiso sayo sokwelashwa
- Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ukunyuka, ukubekezelelana nokuthandana kocansi (i-radio show #16)
- I-Porn, isimo sengqondo socansi nobuchopho besilisa (umsakazo we-#17)
- Ubuchopho obusakhulayo buhambisana ne-Porns Highspeed Inthanethi (i-2013) (ihora lesigamu isethulo se-YouTube esimweni socansi kanye nengqondo yobudala)
I-ARTICLE: Ingabe Izithombe Ze-Inthanethi Zenza Ubulili Bobulili Ngokweqile?
Ngesinye isikhathi, amadoda angathembela ama-penises azowazisa konke okudingekayo ukwazi mayelana nokuthanda kwabo ngokobulili noma ukuma. Ngisho nje, i-neuroscientist yokuziphatha UPaul Vasey ngokuqiniseka wavula ukuthi,
“Ukuya ocansini yilokho ocabanga ngakho lapho ushaya indlwabu.”
Ngempela? Kuthiwani uma izithombe zobulili ezingcolile oye wazijabulela ngenjabulo akusenzi umsebenzi? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi ababukeli abangasoze balimaza abanye babheka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile? Kungani ababukeli bezinsizi ze-gay bazizwa beneliswe yizinto abazithandayo zokubanjwa kocansi okudlwengula noma izithombe zobulili ezingqingili? Kungani amadoda eqondile edangelwa ukuthanda kwabo nge-sexsex noma i-porno gay?
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uNorman Doidge sichaze Ubuchopho Obushintshayo:
Okuqukethwe ngalokho [iziguli] okutholile okuthokozisayo kushintshile njengoba izingosi zeWebhu zenza izingqikithi nezikripthi ezishintsha ubuchopho babo ngaphandle kokuqaphela kwazo. Ngenxa yokuthi i-plasticity iyancintisana, ubuchopho buqondisa izithombe ezintsha, ezithakazelisayo zanda ngenxa yezinto ezaziheha ngaphambili. (i-p.109)
Ingabe okuthandwa kakhulu yizithameli zocansi zakamuva kuveza "izifiso zakhe ezijulile nemicabango yakhe engavinjelwe," njenge Ogas noGaddam Faka isicelo? Ingabe inkanuko yakhe yezocansi iyashintsha kanye nalokho akubonayo? Noma ingabe i-cyberporn ikhiqiza ukuthanda okungabukeki, kwesinye isikhathi okungahlobene nokuya ocansini? Cishe, owokugcina.
I-Porn ishintshile… okuningi
Amagama, izithombe, umsindo nevidiyo akuyona into entsha. Kungani-ke abantu bekhononda ngokuthi "bayimilutha" kwi-Intanethi, i-imeyili, i-Facebook, ukudlala imidlalo yamavidiyo, ama-i-Phones, noma i-Internet ye-porn? Ngoba izinhlobo zanamuhla eziheha kakhulu zale misebenzi, empeleni, zingaba umlutha. Ukuhlola inetha, ikakhulukazi i-porn, kufaka yonke imisebenzi eyenza i-dopamine futhi igcine isifunda somvuzo sikhuza: ukufuna nokusesha, izinto ezi-sexy, ukulindela njengekhasi ngalinye elithwalayo, ubusha obufunwayo, neziboniso ezimangazayo nezishaqisayo.
Ngokusobala, isikhathi esisodwa nenyanga Playboy, noma itheyiphu engama-80 ye-VHS ayikwazi ukuqhathanisa ukusebenzisa izikrini ezimbili ezinencazelo ephezulu, namawindi ayisithupha avulekile, ukusesha uze uthole ukutholwa okulungile ukukuyisa ekhaya. Ngemuva kokuphefumula kancane ungasesha nge-Google ngento ongakaze uyibone, ukuze ukwazi ukuphinda uphinde uyisuse. Ngokungafani ne-static porn yesikhathi esedlule, i-porn yanamuhla ye-Intanethi iyashukumisa kangangokuba, kobunye ubuchopho, ingahamba kancane ukukhiqiza izinguquko ezihlobene nokulutha izidakamizwa.
Akumangalisi ukuthi ubuchopho bomfana bungakhubazeka futhi buyeke ukuphendula ezinkambisweni ezivamile zocansi. Lapho i-vanilla porn ingasamenzeli yona, ukuthanda kwakhe ucansi kungakhombisa uketshezi olumangazayo. Lapho uhlobo lwakhe lwamanje lwe-cyberporn lungamvusi, ucabanga ukuthi, "O, lokho kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ubuchopho bami budinga isikhathi sokuphumula ukuze babuyele ekuzweleni okujwayelekile, ngakho-ke kungani ngingayeki i-porn?"
Cha. Ungacabangi ukwenza into engekho okhokho bakhe abakhetha ngayo (kodwa bekwenzile futhi). Phuma ne-endala nangaphakathi ne-entsha intsha ibangela ukuqhuma kwe-dopamine udinga ukuvuswa. Uzama ukuzungeza iWebhu kuze kube yilapho eshaya okuthile okufaka i-penis yakhe. I-pornstar ye-novel ingase ibe ngokwanele, kodwa mhlawumbe emva kweseshini sesine yosuku, idinga ukwethuka okunye kokukhathazeka noma ukukhathazeka i-goop yakhe ye-dopamine bese ubasa umlilo ngaphansi kobuchopho obuvilaphayo bomjikelezo womjikelezo.
Ngibuyele ezingcolile zobungqingili manje, Ngithole ukuthi izithombe ze-transgender] zivusa ngempela ekuqaleni, kodwa akusikho indebe yami yetiyi. Ngesinye isikhathi ngisaba ukwesaba lokho abantu ababekucabanga, kwalahlekelwa yilokho okwakungikhathaza ngakho kwangikhathaza.
Lapho ngiqala ukuthola izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze- [transgender] kwakukusha futhi kujabulisa, kepha manje ngithanda owesifazane. Ukwesaba yikhona okwenza ngakhanga [kubadlali be-transgender], kepha lapho ukwesaba sekuhambile ukukhangana kwaphela. Akubukeki kahle ukubona umuntu wesimame onedidi. Akunyanyeki kepha akulungile.
Ingxenye yabasebenzisi banamuhla be-porn babika esanda ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo okwakukade kungathandeki. Kwabasebenzisi abathile be-porn, le-reflex engenacala ingaba nomphumela owodwa noma womabili kulezi zinto ezingathandeki ezilandelayo:
1. Ukubuyekeza: Umsebenzisi engahlosile uqopha izindlela ezintsha zokuvusa ohlelweni lwakhe lwezitho zomzimba. Njengoba umcwaningi uJim Pfaus asho, “the Ukucubungula ubuchopho kuyinto enhle. ” Akuboshiwe ngokuqinile ngentambo yangaphakathi, kepha kunalokho ivumelana nezinkomba ezethembisayo zocansi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi sokukhula, lapho ubuchopho bubekwa ngokubambisana ngezifiso zocansi.
Ngenxa yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ukukhulelwa kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebuchosheni, ngakho-ke noma ngabe umuntu osebenzisa i-porn angathanda ukukhohlwa yilokho asanda kukubona — ubuchopho bakhe buhlanganisa izintambo ngokucophelela zonke izinhlangano eziholele ku-orgasm yakhe. Ifuna ukuthi ikwazi “ukuvundisa” leli khokho futhi ngokuzayo. Ngokusebenzisa ngomdlandla, indlela entsha yobuchopho ingaba yindlela 'yokuzikhethela,' kungakhathalekile ukuthambekela okuyisisekelo. Ngamafuphi, amangqamuzana ezinzwa ahlangana ndawonye ngocingo — ikakhulukazi uma ekhiqiza i-orgasm 'enkulu' n 'engcono.
2. Ukungahlehlisi kahle: “Amahora amabili ehlela izithombe ezingcolile? Yilokho okwenzelwe iGoogle. ” “Izichitho ezimbili selokhu kwadliwa? Ake ngishise i-laptop yami endala ukuze ngibuke amanye amawindi kusikrini esingeziwe. ” Ngokungafani nezinye izilwane ezincelisayo, umfana angabhala ngaphezulu imingcele yakhe yemvelo esebenzisa i-porn ever-novel.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubuchopho bomsebenzisi bungashintsha ngokomzimba. Izimpawu ze ukuguqulwa kobuchopho obuyisisekelo (njengoba kuqhathaniswa nokujwayela isikhathi esifushane) kungabandakanya: ukulawulwa kwethonya elingapheli, ukulangazelela ama-spikes ekuphenduleni izinkomba azihlanganisa nokusetshenziswa kocansi, nokunciphisa ukuphendula ngokocansi. Akasabhalisi ubumnandi ngokujwayelekile; ubuchopho bakhe obungenasidingo buyi unesifiso sokuba i-dopamine hits kusuka stimulation. Ukuphefumula, yena izidingo ukubuka isikhathi eside noma ukuhambisa izinhlobo ezintsha ze-porn.
Lokhu akuyona nje imfundiso. Ukucwaninga kwezilwane kwakamuva kwembula ukuthi amazinga aphezulu okuthiwa i-dopamine (athunyelwe nge-dopamine D2 agonist izidakamizwa) angakwazi guqula okuthandwayo kocansi kumadoda. Abasebenzisi be-porn abahlehlisiwe bafuna noma yini ezokwengeza i-dopamine yabo esele. Lapho sebayitholile, i-dopamine iyanda, futhi inqubo yokuvuselela isimo sempendulo yabo yezocansi isiqalile. Uma beqhubeka nokushaya indlwabu kuhlobo olusha, i-dopamine ivuselela amasekethe abo ocansi, okuholela kokungazi, futhi okuvame ukwethusa, ukuguqula ukuthanda izinto zobulili ezingcolile ezenza kube nzima, noma kungenzeki nhlobo, ukuvuthwa kokuthandwa kwangaphambilini. Akumangalisi-ke ukuthi, njengoba abasebenzisi behamba bethwebula izithombe zobulili ezingcolile befuna “O” omkhulu olandelayo, bangagcina befike emvuthwandaba ezibonweni ezingathusi — noma ezingekho emthethweni.
U-Anthony: Ngaqala ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, njalo, cishe eminyakeni emihlanu edlule. Okokuqala bekukhona abesifazane abahle, bese kuba i-hardcore porn, bese kufakwa okuxakile, bese kuba [abadlali be-transgender], bese kuba ngabagxeki, bese kuba ama-hermaphrodites, bese kuba yi-porn yentsha, bese kuba amamodeli amancane manje sekuzoboshwa. Njengoba iminyaka idlula ngaya ngokuya ngiba nentshisekelo yokushaya indlwabu futhi ngibe nentshisekelo yokufuna "okusha". Uma ngibheka emuva, angiboni nje ukuthi ngehluleke kanjani ukubona ukuthi nginenkinga.
Omunye umuntu on a isithangami sokubuyisa ama-porn:
Angazi ukuthi ubheka i-reddit ejwayelekile, 'ikhabethe elingenalutho' njll ... amawebhusayithi mayelana nokudideka / ukuma kwe-porn, kepha kunezinkulungwane nje zemicu abantu abazibuza ukuthi kungani befuna ukuncela amaqhude noma ukubukela izinto ezimangazayo ngemuva kokusebenzisa i-porn.
Ngisho nesithangami 'esingenalutho' sigcwele abantu, izitabane / bi / iqonde ezilahlekile ngokuphelele nezididekile ngokuma kwazo, futhi BONKE bakhulume ngokusebenzisa kwabo i-porn.
Kubukeka sengathi isizukulwane esinejubane elikhulu sabasebenzisi be-porn sesingena ku-inthanethi futhi sicela izimpendulo. Ezithangamini zaseFrance, kuyefana. Baningi abangazi ukuthi kungani bahlakulela ukulutheka kwesisu noma ubufazi… kukhona izinkulungwane zabantu abafunda okuthunyelwe futhi into ejwayelekile yabo bonke abantu ukusetshenziswa kwe-inthanethi (i-porn, ingxoxo, isayithi lokuphola).
Ukuhlosana ngokocansi ngokuthandana nokuthandwa kocansi
Ngokusobala, umsebenzisi okhuphuka esitimeleni se-inthanethi ye-Internet angagcina esehla emagcekeni ayengenakwenzeka. Mhlawumbe i iningi elishaqisayo ukuthi, “Siza! Ipipi lami liphendula kuphela i-erotica engizihlanganisa nomuntu okunye ukuthambekela kobulili. ”
URyan: Ngangicabanga ukuthi ngiphenduka isitabane. Imicabango yami ebucayi ngalolu daba beyinamandla kangangokuba bengicabanga ukukhipha indawo ephakeme eseduze kakhulu. Ngazizwa ngicindezeleke kakhulu. Ngangazi ukuthi ngithanda amantombazane futhi angikwazi ukuthanda omunye umuntu, kepha kungani ngangine-ED? Kungani manje ngidinga izinto ze-transgenderl / gay ukuze ngehle? Kufana nokuthi ngenze iphutha engingasakwazi ukulilungisa. Ngifuna ukubuyela ezinsukwini zami zakudala lapho ngangivulwa kuphela ngumzimba wesifazane.
Omunye umfana ozichaza ngokwakhe ngokuthi bi:
Njengomuntu osemusha ngangiqabukela ngisebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili obuhlukile noma i-porn lapho kwakugxilwa khona indoda ngoba ngesaba ukuthi ngizokhishwa umlando wami we-intanethi bese ngiphikwa ngumndeni. Angisetshenziswanga ukuveza leyo ngxenye yobulili bami. Angikwazanga i-orgasm okokuqala ngiya ocansini (okwakukhona nomfana). Ngisho nokuheha kwami ngokocansi emadodeni kusekelwe ekutheni baziveza kanjani besifazane ngoba ngifundiswe ukuthi abesifazane bayalingana nobulili. Ikhanda lami lidungekile. Konke lokhu kudidekile.
Gay guy: (Gay) Ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuhlukanisile ukuthanda kwami kobulili
Omunye umfana we-gay:
Indoda entsha lapha, i-26 evela e-UK futhi ngisanda kubona ukuthi ngihlushwa i-porn eyenze i-ED ngemuva konyaka omuhle noma emibili ilwela ukuyigcina nabalingani bayo.
Ngithole nokuthi ukuthanda kwami izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwehlukile kobunikazi bami bobulili - ngingumfana oyisitabane futhi ngithandana nabesilisa kodwa angibonakali ngathi ngiyeka ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili futhi ngivuleke kakhulu yiyo yonke into kuze kufike lapho uhlobo kuphela lwe-porn engingayibuka. Anginayo inhloso yokukhipha umuntu wesifazane, ngibona owesifazane enqunu noma esondela eduze ne-pussy empilweni yangempela kepha angikwazi ukusiza kepha ngidonswe kakhulu yilolu hlobo lwe-porn.
Ngicabanga ukuthi izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile zingihlukumezile, ngiyakwazi ukugodla izikhathi ezingu-5 ngosuku nge-porn futhi ngingathola i-erection ephelele kodwa ngisakwazi ngokuphelele ukwenza nzima futhi ngihlale nginamandla kumlingani wangempela wezocansi.
Ngiyethemba ukuthi kukhona ukukhanya ekugcineni komhubhe kepha lokhu kuzoba usuku 1 kimi. Kungaba kuhle ukuzwa kubantu abanokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo kimi okwamanje kuze kube sezingeni lapho izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zingazange zonakalise nje kuphela ikhono lami lokwenza kodwa futhi zashintsha nomqondo wami ngezinto engiqede ukuzibuka! Ngangicabanga ngobuqotho ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ngihlanya ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile ezingafani nanoma yiziphi izifiso zami. I-Porn idonsela i-ED futhi ishintshe kuzifiso zobulili
Ubuchopho obunqunyiwe ukuzwa kungathola izinto eziveza ukukhathazeka ngokukhethekile ngokuvusa. Imizwelo enjalo ikhulula i-dopamine eyengeziwe (ne-norepinephrine) ebuchosheni. Empeleni, ziyi-a ukusabela kokuthatha ingozi.
Abanye babasebenzisi be-cyberporn banamuhla bakhulisa amaphethini acindezelayo azungeze izithombe zocansi ezishaqisayo. Isibonelo, umsebenzisi angaqhubeka nokuhlola ukubona ukuthi uhlobo oluthile lwe-porn luyavuka yini - ngoba kwenzeka ukuthi athole lelo themba liyesabeka (futhi liyajabulisa). Ngemuva kwalokho ushaya indlwabu ukuze akhulule ukukhathazeka okukhiqizwayo. Ufana nomuntu ongayeki ukubheka ukuthi isitofu sicishiwe yini. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ukulutha umlutha ne-OCD kukhiqiza okungafani okufanayo kumjikelezo womvuzo wobuchopho. Ukwaneliseka kuba nzima kakhulu, ukushayela kuqhubeka nomsebenzi ongafuneki.
Kusho omunye oneminyaka engu-21 ubudala nentombi yakhe, okwaqala ukukhathazeka ezinyangeni ezintathu ngaphambili lapho ethola ukwakheka ekubukeni ipipi lendoda kuvidiyo:
Manje, ngihlala ngizwa isidingo sokuqhubeka ngibheka ngokusebenzisa i-porn ukufakazela ukuthi ngisaqondile. Ngisebenzisa noma yimuphi umzuzu otholakalayo ku-PMO kwabesifazane, kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nasekamelweni elilodwa nentombi yami njengoba ilele! Lokhu kuziphatha kungiphatha kabi kodwa ngithola ukuthi angikwazi ukukusiza. Inikeza induduzo cishe imizuzu eyi-10 ngaphambi kokungabaza kuphinda kungena.
Abenzi bezithombe ezingcolile bayazi ukuthi kuphoqa kanjani lokhu kukhathazeka, futhi babheke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-transgender "njengezici eziqondile zocansi." Uma uxoxwa, umqhubi wezingosi eziningana ze-porn-transgender wathi, "Izithameli zami eziyinhloko, nezilaleli ze-porn [ama-transgender] amaningi, zingama-dudes aqondile. Bekulokhu kunjalo-ke. Ngizokusho lokho zonke izivakashi eziteshini zengqingili ziqondile. ” (kugcizelelwe)
"Ngingubani?"
Uma umbukeli wezitabane eqala ukuvuthondaba ngezithombe ezingcolile eziqondile, noma okuphambene nalokho, ingabe uthola “ukuthambekela kwakhe kwezocansi ngokweqiniso?” Cishe cha. Kepha ubuchopho bungupulasitiki futhi, abasebenzisi bangakwazi ukufaka izintambo ezintweni zabo ngokungazi, njengoba izinja zikaPavlov zafunda ukugcoba insimbi. Kuzo zombili lezi zimo, ukwenziwa kwe-dopamine (ukulindela) kukhuthaza imiphumela yokuzimela esezansi. Imijikelezo yokuqala yomvuzo wobuchopho ayazi ukuthi insimbi akuyona ukudla, noma ukuthi i-porn "entsha" akuyona i-porn "yami". I-axiom yayo imane ithi, “Dopamine okuhle. "
Ngenhlanhla uRyan angakwazi futhi, ngokubekezela nangokuzithiba unshayela izinhlangano zakhe ezingafuneki. (Ngesikhashana nje.) Okwamanje, kungase kudingeke aqaphele abantu abathandayo abazama ukumtshela ukuthi izinto zakhe ezithandwayo zithinta izinto ezigciniwe mayelana nokuzikhohlisa kwakhe ngokobulili. Mhlawumbe benza; mhlawumbe bengekho okubalulekile njengezithombe ezingenakwenzeka azibheke njengengane. Kusho owodwa ubudala we-22:
Ngesikhathi esikoleni esiphakathi nasesikoleni esiphakeme ngangibheka izithombe ezingcolile amahora amaningi. Ngemuva kwesikole samabanga aphakeme ngangithandana nentombazane engangiyithanda kakhulu, kepha angizange ngizizwe ngivuswa kakhulu kuye njengoba ngangizizwa lapho ngibuka i-porn. Ekolishi ngadideka ngobulili bami ngoba ngangingazizwa ngikhangwa ngokobulili njengabanye abantu. Ngiphinde ngavulwa yi-gay porn futhi ngacabanga ukuthi mhlawumbe nginobungqingili obufihliwe. Unyaka wami omkhulu ngaya kwezokwelulekwa ngezocansi kanye neqembu labasekeli eliphumayo ikota. Akekho futhi owangisondeza ekuqondeni ubulili noma ukukhanga. Yebo, ngivulelwe ezinye izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobungqingili, kepha angizwanga ngikhangwa, noma ngicabanga ngakho, bafana. Abafana abayizitabane engihlangane nabo babonakala beqiniseka kakhulu ngokuma kwabo. Ngemuva kwesikhashana ngangingaqiniseki ukuthi ngangikhona yini lapho. Ngiqale ukuzwa ukukhanga okungaphezulu kobulili phakathi kwabesifazane manje njengoba senginciphise i-porn nokushaya indlwabu.
Noma cabanga ngoRyan futhi. Lapho eqala ukusebenzisa i-porn, konke ayecabanga ngakho kwakungamantombazane. Wayebuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngoba wayengafuni ukubuka amadoda enza ucansi. Kuphela ngemuva kweminyaka yokukhula kocansi okuqhubekayo lapho aqala khona ukungabaza ukuma kwakhe. Ukubuyisa abasebenzisi be-porn esithangamini sethu kaningi bika ukuthuthukisa, nokulahla, “ukuthanda” okuningi njengoba ukuluthwa kwabo kuba kubi. Kusobala ukuthi lokhu kuthandana okungahlangene, okwexeshana akukwazi konke ukukhombisa imikhondo eqondene nezocansi — uma kunjalo iyiphi kubo benza.
Isibonelo, ukunambitheka kwe "transgender porn" kungakhombisa kanjani a ubulili ukuma? Ukubheka abathandi be-transgender kungaba yindawo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ngakho-ke ukuziphendukela kwemvelo akukwazanga ukuyikhetha. Kungenzeka yini ukuthi lokhu okungeke kwenzeke ukuphendukela kwemvelo kungathandeka njengendlela ye-cornucopia yezinhlamvu zocansi eziphoqelekile (amabele, ukubeka ipeni, ukuvusa izenzo), ivuliwe nge-dopamine eyengeziwe kumbukeli otholayo okukhipha okweqile noma okukhathazayo?
Ushintsho olukhulu ekuthandweni kocansi kungenzeka lube yisibonakaliso sokuqhubeka nokungafuneki kwengqondo. Ngamanye amagama, uRyan akakwazi ukuqiniseka ngokuningi kuze kube yilapho eyeka ukuvuthondaba ezintweni ezingafuneki futhi abuyisele ubuchopho bakhe ekuzweleni okujwayelekile. Lokhu kungathatha izinyanga.
Ukuthanda izinto zobulili kungenziwa isimo
Umlutha we-porn ovuthayo we-Intanethi ubonakala usebenza ngaphandle kocansi. Kodwa-ke, inkolelo yokuthi "ukuthanda kwami ubulili kunqunywa yilokho engikushaya indlwabu" inamandla kangangokuba abasebenzisi abaningi be-porn banamuhla abaqapheli ukuthi ukuthanda kwabo okungahleliwe kungumsebenzi wokweqisa okuholela ekubekezeleni, ngakho-ke kuyabuyiselwa. Futhi, ucwaningo seluqala ukukuqinisekisa lokho Abasebenzisi be-porn banamuhla bayanda kwizinto ezazingenasithakazelo.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ososayensi bangasifaka isilwane sesilisa khetha umlingani wobulili obufanayo ngokubamba i-dopamine yakhe. Futhi akuthathi isikhathi eside kakhulu. Abaphenyi bajova i-rat yesilisa nge-dopamine agonist (umuthi olingisa i-dopamine), base beyifaka ehokweni nomunye wesilisa. Amagundane amabili avele ahlanganyela ndawonye usuku olulodwa. (I-dopamine agonist iphumile ohlelweni cishe ngosuku olulodwa.) Abaphenyi bakuphindile lokhu amahlandla ama-2, izinsuku ezi-4 zihlukene.
Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa kamuva, owesilisa ovuliwe wahlolwa. Njengoba engekho i-dopamine agonist ohlelweni lwakhe, wabekwa emgodini nabesifazane bakhe besilisa nabesifazane abamukela ucansi (khumbula ukuthi i-dopamine yayingekho ohlelweni lwakhe). Ukuqagela ukuthi yisiphi isici esiphendule kakhulu kunayo? Wabonisa ukusabela okuningi kowesilisa: ukulungiswa okuningi, uphenyo oluningi lokubeletha, ngisho nokuncenga kwamabhinqa - ngokuphambene nokuziphatha okuvamile kwesilisa.
Isifundo? Amazinga aphezulu e-dopamine angabuyisa kabusha ubuchopho ngamandla futhi aguqule ukuthanda izinto zocansi. Abaphenyi bagcizelele ukuthi igundane lowesilisa alisona isitabane, njengoba engazami ukufaka elinye igundane. Nokho wayeseshintshile nakanjani. Ngokufanayo, ukusetshenziswa kocansi okuqhubekayo akunakuguqula ubulili bakho, kepha kungashintsha ukuthi hlobo luni lwe-porn olukujabulisayo. Abasebenzisi be-porn abahlehlisiwe (ama-receptors aphansi e-D2) asesha noma yini ezokhulisa i-dopamine yabo esalele.
Ososayensi bafunda nokuthi ukubikezela kokuthambekela kwezocansi okuyisisekelo akulula njengoba bake bacabanga. Njengoba Umkhuhlane wobulili umbhali uLisa Diamond uthi, “Ukuvuswa kocansi… isici esisodwa kuphela wokuthanda izinto zobulili nokuthi ungubani. ” Ukuphawula okushiwo kakhulu ngumkhiqizi we-TV ngaphansi kwalesi sibuyekezo we-documentary yase-UK I-Porn On the Brain:
Eminyakeni emithathu eyedlule ngangiyingxenye yeqembu labacwaningi be-TV ababheke ezinkingeni eziningi ezizungezile nge-porn ye-intanethi ngenhlelo engakaze yenzeke. Umkhiqizi oyinhloko waba nobufakazi besayensi obathintekayo (okwakungadingeka ukuthi kube yisifuba salo hlelo) okwakungenamandla ngokwanele.
Ngesikhathi socwaningo engakhuluma ngayo nabantu abaningi abanezinkinga ezihlobene nezocansi, bafunda izinkulungwane zamaphuzu avela emadodeni kumasayithi angqubuzana nocansi bese bekhuluma nabahlengikazi bezinzwa. Ucwaningo oluningi lwesayensi lusasencane kodwa akungabazeki engqondweni yami ukuthi ukubuka isikhathi eside kwezingcingo ezingcolile kungaba nethonya elibi kakhulu kwabanye abantu abadala kanye nezingane.
Into engangiyithinta kakhulu engangiyithola kwakungabantu besilisa abadala nabasha abaqala ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile ezijwayelekile (uma kukhona into enjalo) njalo futhi phakathi neminyaka eminingana baqala ukuthuthela esithombeni esibi ngokwengeziwe njengoba beqala ukungabi nandaba ne-porn ejwayelekile futhi ngibheke 'ukulungisa' okusha sha.
Abantu ababengabonakali njengabantu abavamile babesaba ukuthi bangathola i-pornography, bangabe besaba nesifiso sokwakha ubudlelwane obuhle nomuntu onjengoba bephuzile njengabantu abathandanayo, abesilisa abesilisa nabesilisa abesilisa ababesithandana nabo. izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili obuhlukile zathola ukuthi zibuka izithombe zobulili zobungqingili, amadoda ayekhathazekile ngemicabango yabo ngezingane ngoba umklomelo phakathi kwalokho abatholile kuhle noma omuhle nokuthi yini abayitholile i-sexy iqala ukuphazamiseka.
I-99% yalesi sizwe yayinabantu abadala futhi yayinezikhathi zokwakha ubulili nobuhlobo obufanele ngaphambi kokushiwo kwabo. Lokhu kwakusho ukuthi, njengoba nje oyedwa wezinzwa ze-neuroscientist ephakamisa, ngosizo olufanele ubuchopho babo bungabuyiselwa kubunikazi babo bobulili obudlule, ngisho noma izithombe ababezibonile azikwazi ukukhohlwa ngokuphelele.
Ngomfana oneminyaka engu-10-14, ongenaso isipiliyoni sangaphambilini socansi, ayikho inkinobho yokusetha kabusha. Singaba nezizukulwane ezizayo zezinsizwa ezihlose abesifazane futhi zibe nemibono engeyona engokoqobo ngocansi futhi kwezinye izimo amadoda azobuyiselwa izingqondo zawo ngezithombe ezeqisayo kuze kube yilapho zingaba yingozi kwabesifazane nezingane ezibazungezile. . Akufanele sibeke amakhanda ethu esihlabathini futhi silindele ubufakazi obuthile besayensi. Sidinga ukwenza okuthile manje.
Ingabe lokhu kunguvivinyo olungcono (kunezingcingo) zokuzibandakanya kwezocansi?
Ngakho-ke uma 'okubukwayo + ukwakhiwa' kungadukisa, ulubona kanjani uthando lwakho lobulili? Ngokusobala, noma yini oye wafinyelela umvuthwandaba kuyo lapho uqala ukushaya indlwabu kuyinto ewusizo (ucabanga ukuthi imicimbi yangaphambili yobuntwana angikuphambukisanga.)
Ukubuyela ekulinganisweni kobuchopho kuzokutshela kakhulu nge-orientation yakho yangempela, kodwa okwamanje, abanye abantu bakuthola lokhu ukuhlolwa okuwusizo kokukhangwa ngokocansi (noma ukuphikisa): Ufuna ukwenza nobani obunzima nobani?
Ukuheha nokwenyanya kuboniswa ngamandla ekukhangeni (noma ukwenqaba) kokuzibandakanya ezenzweni zocansi ezisondelene ezibandakanya ukuthinta, ama-orifices omzimba, noketshezi lomzimba olufana namathe, uketshezi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma i-ejaculate. Ngokuvamile abesilisa “bavulelwa” kakhulu yiphunga, ama-orifices, noketshezi lobulili obubodwa kunolunye.
Eqinisweni, esinye isazi esixoxe naso saphawula ukuthi amadoda angaba nokuzonda okukhulu kulezi zici zobunye ubulili — kuze kufike ezingeni lokuba nesicanucanu nokuhlanza (mhlawumbe ngemuva kwenjabulo “yokungavunyelwe” noma imiphumela yotshwala eseyidlulile). Kusho uRyan,
NGIHLALA ngingafuni ukuqabula umfana. Ngasizathu simbe, amathe omfana abukeka kabi, kanti eyentombazane iphelele impela. Kimina, umcabango wamathe omfana u… uyanengeka, ucishe ubonakale ugcwele amagciwane. Amathe ka-gal abonakala ecishe abe mnandi kimi.
Qaphela, noma kunjalo. Uma u-OCD usuqothule ngokuphelele ubuchopho bakho, ungathola indlela yokuguqula iyiphi zivivinye emthonjeni omusha, ongenasisekelo, wokukhathazeka:
Ngiqhubeka ngicabanga ngokuhlolwa kokumanga, futhi ngilokhu ngicabanga ngakho ngakho 24/7. Phambilini, nganginengeka ngokuphelele umcabango wokuqabula indoda, kepha ngokuzibuza nokuzibuza kaninginingi, kancane kancane angizange nginyanye noma ngivuswe. Manje, ngivuswa ukucabanga ngokuqabula indoda. Angisavuswa kakhulu ngocansi lwama-gay, ngoba ngivimbele ngempela ebuchosheni bami, kepha kungani ukuqabula indoda kungivusa manje? Angifuni ukukwenza empilweni yangempela. Ngoba empilweni yangempela bekungeke kuvuse. Empilweni yangempela ngifuna ukumanga amantombazane, kepha uma ngicabanga ngakho engqondweni yami, kuyavusa. Akunangqondo. Akufani nokuthi ngiyakhangwa. Bubula.
Izinguquko zeplastiki ezingaguquki
Njengoba ukulutha komsebenzisi we-porn kuqhubeka, imikhuba yokushaya indlwabu ingamtshela okuncane kakhulu ngokuma kwakhe kwangempela. Kodwa-ke, abafana esithangamini sethu bathole ukuthi uma (1) benikeza ubuchopho babo ukuphumula ezithombeni ezingcolile, imicabango engcolile (kanye nokushaya indlwabu kanye ne-orgasm), futhi (2) beshintsha imikhuba yabo yangaphambili ngokuzijabulisa, ukuvivinya umzimba, ukuzindla neminye imisebenzi eduduzayo , bangaqala ukubona izinguquko ekuthandweni kwabo kocansi ngokumangazayo ngokushesha. Nanku umbiko kaRyan ngemuva kwenyanga kuphela:
Ngichitha ngonyaka owedlule esikoleni esiphakeme ngigxuma kwi-Internet ye-porn ngokucindezela, futhi ngakhuphukela ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule. Ngithole kuyaphazamisa ukubuka; ithoxise i-OCD yami nokucindezeleka okulandelayo.
Manje sengizizwa ngicishe ngifane nomuntu omusha. Ngidlule cishe amasonto ama-4 esihogweni, futhi kwadingeka ngilungise imishanguzo yami yokulwisana nokucindezeleka. Bengihamba ngebhayisikili nsuku zonke futhi ngihlangana nabanye ekolishi. Kepha angisavuswa ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile. Kufana nokuthi ngilahle leyo masekethe. Umcabango wezocansi ezingokobulili uphinde uvuse. Ngiyaqala kancane ukubuyisa i-libido yami. Akukapheli, kepha senginqobile ingxenye yako.
Ngiye ngaba sezithangamini nezinkulungwane zamakhasi wokuthunyelwe ngabantu ababebhekene nokungafuneki nokwenyuka kwezinto ezixakile. Angijabule neze lapho abantu betshela abanye ukuthi abakushaya indlwabu “yilokho abayikho.” Mhlawumbe lokho bekuyiqiniso eminyakeni engama-20-30 edlule, kepha akusenjalo.
Ingabe ubuchopho bakhe buvele buqhamuka noma kuthuthukiswa kwayo kwe-dopamine (ukuguqula ukuchithwa kwemisebenzi), noma kokubili? Kubonakala sengathi njengoba abasebenzisi benqaba ukucindezela uhlobo oluthile lwezocansi, becabanga ngakho, becabanga ngakho futhi ukukhathazeka ngakho, ubuchopho obuhlobene nabo buba buthakathaka ngokomzimba ekusebenziseni ukungasebenzi. Njengoba izazi zezinzwa zithi, lapho amangqamuzana e-nervous fire fire apart.
Njengoba indlela elahliwe iyeka ukukhiqiza inzuzo ye-dopamine, ubuchopho-buhlala buzimisele ukuhamba ngezinyathelo zokukhiqiza kabusha-ukukhishwa kwamanzi nokushisa izifunda zangaphambili zobuchopho. Yiqiniso, uma umlutha uthuthukile kuze kube yilapho umuntu engakwazi ukuphefumula ngaphandle kocansi olubi ngokweqile, ukuyeka ngeke kube lula. Uzodinga ukwesekwa okuningi. Okukhulu izimpawu zokuhoxiswa zivamile, kodwa kuwufanele kubasebenzisi abaningi:
UMike: Ngibuyele emuva ngosuku 23. Sengivele ngiyabona ukuthi uma ngiyeka lo mkhuba, ngizokwazi ngokuphelele ukuya ocansini nabantu besifazane. Kanye nokuzitika kwami kwafika ulwelwesi lwesiliva: Lezo zikhathi ezimbalwa zokuqala ukushaya indlwabu zazithokozisa kakhulu, futhi kwakungezocansi ezingcolile kakhulu. Ukuthanda kwami ngokocansi kwase kuqale ukujwayelekile. Kuyaqinisa kakhulu. Lezi zinto ze-vanilla bezingakaze zibe yi-blip ku-radar yami emasontweni amane edlule, kepha manje ingishayele ihlane. Vele, njengoba ukuzitika ngocansi kuqhubekile ngathuthukela ezintweni ezeqisa ngokwengeziwe, ngiphinde ngikwenze kucace bha ukuthi ukulutha komlutha kukwenza kanjani ukuthanda kwami. Kwakudingeka ngifinyelele ezintweni ezimbi kakhulu ukuthola lokho kushesha.
UShawn: Kunzima ukukholelwa ukuthi ngonyaka odlule, into eyinhloko eyangisusa kwakuyi-porn [transgender]. Ukuvuswa kwabesifazane [cis] kukhuphulele ezingeni engilikhohliwe phakathi neminyaka yokubuka izithombe ezingcolile. Manje sengibona ukuthi ngizwela kanjani ngaphandle kokushaya indlwabu ezithombeni ezingcolile. Ama-erections ami aqine kanzima, futhi azizwa emuhle. Ngiyathanda ukuthi ngisho nokuthinta okulula kakhulu okuvela entombini yami kungenza ngiphendule njengobuhlanya!
Thina bantu singafuna ukubona kude kakhulu futhi sikhethe mayelana nezindlela zocansi lapho sifaka khona ama-orgasms ethu. Ngokusobala ingxenye yobuchopho bethu yakudala, engazi lutho, futhi ekholisayo, ayinandaba kangako.
- Ukufunda: Ukukhathazeka kwandisa ukuvuthwa kobulili (i-1983)
- Ukufunda: Ukukhathazeka ngokobulili nokuvuka kwesifazane ngokocansi: ukuqhathaniswa kokuvusa ngesikhathi sokukhathazeka ngokocansi nokuvuselela ngokocansi (1987)
- Ukufunda: Umphumela wokuvusa ngokomzwelo ekuvusweni kocansi okulandelayo kubantu (1980)
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Bengihlala ngithanda amantombazane kusukela ekuqaleni lapho ngisemncane, noma ngisemncane ngithola izindlela zokushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kokuthi ngazi kahle ukuthi kuyini noma kuyini ucansi. Ukuphela kwesikhathi ebengicabanga ukuthi nginentshisekelo kubantu besilisa bekungokusebenzisa isikrini. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi bengilokhu ngishaya indlwabu phambi kwekhompyutha… kwesinye isikhathi bekungaba kanye ngosuku, abanye kube ngaphezu kwesisodwa manje sekucishe kube izikhathi ze-5-10 ngosuku. Njengoba sengikhulile, ngicabanga ukuthi ngithuthukise okufana nalokho omunye umsebenzisi wobungqingili akuthumele ngokuba 'nesisu' samantombazane. Ngaphambi kwalokhu, ngangiba nefantasy engafani yobulili efanayo, akukho engake ngakucabanga ukuthi ngisebenza kukho. Kepha manje, le mibono kanye nokubuka kwami i-porn kuvame kakhulu ukubaphazamisa. Angazi noma ngabe lokhu uzokuhlukanisa njengomkhawulo, kepha ngasizathu simbe, ngithole lokhu kukhanga kwesisindo somzimba wesilisa (AKA), amaBhele. Umcabango wobulili wanoma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lomzimba unengekile, kepha ngasizathu simbe ngivulelwe lokhu. Umcabango wokubuswa futhi mhlawumbe udlwengulwe (yize ngingakaze ngibuke noma iyiphi i-porno efana nokudlwengulwa) uyavusa. Angazi ukuthi ngabe lesi yisizathu sokwehla kwesithakazelo sami emantombazaneni, kodwa ngesaba ukuthi sengiphenduke isitabane phezu kwawo, ngicabanga ukuthi nginezimpawu ze-HOCD ne-OCD ngenxa ye-dopamine yami ephansi ngoba ngihlala ngiphikisana nami ikhanda lami lizama ukwenza ukuthula. Uma ngigxile, ngangizolile futhi ngingavumi ukuthi ngesaba ukungayitholi, ngavuswa yimicabango yabesifazane. Kepha noma kunini lapho ngikhathazekile noma ngikhathazekile, lokho kuvuka ngeke kwenzeke. Ngiye ngabona ukuhlolwa kwe-PMO kwezinsuku eziyi-12, ukuthi ngangivuswa kalula ngamantombazane. Kepha lokhu bekulokhu kuqhubeka isikhathi eside futhi sengikhathele futhi ngibuthakathaka kangazi ukuthi yini ngempela eyiqiniso futhi…
Indlela kuphela yokuthola mayelana nobulili
ukuvula i-porn okwesikhashana. Amadoda amaningi abambeke ezithombeni ezingcolile ezingahambisani nesimo sabo sobulili bathola ukuthi ukuthanda kwabo kubuyela ezinsukwini zocansi zangaphambi kwe-Intanethi. Akukho okuzolahleka.
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Bangaki kini abanomlutha wesithombeni sokuzilimaza / esithandanayo?
I-HOCD iqalile inkukhu Ngabona ukuthi ngithanda intombazane ye-porn
Ukushaya i-HOCD
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Indoda yami eyindoda iyathanda ukubona i-porn-male! Ingabe lokhu kuyingane evamile
Indoda yami eyindoda iyathanda ukubona izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zesilisa! Ingabe lokhu kuyisibeletho esivamile samadoda? - THREAD
GUY 1) Kubonakala sengathi sinakho
lesi sihloko sinengqondo ngempela
Iphuzu eliphansi kakhulu? Eqinisweni ezintathu
(LINK kuya kwintambo)
Ayikwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngaphandle kokuthi ubuke i-kinky porn…
Izithombe ezingcolile zingashintsha ukuthanda komuntu ngokocansi.
Ngiza emavikini e-6 angenayo i-PMO, (HOCD)
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Umlutha we-Porn Shemale. Noma ubani onenempumelelo yesikhathi eside ngeNoF
Umlutha we-Porn Shemale. Noma ubani onempumelelo yangesikhathi eside nge-NoFap no-Fetishes?
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Ingabe kuyinto evamile ukuthi "thina lot" ukwenza
Ngaqala nge-porn "ejwayelekile" futhi kamuva ngangena ezintweni ezifana
Ingabe i-NoFap igcina ukuphulukisa ama-fetus?
Ingabe i-NoFap igcina ukuphulukisa ama-fetus?
Phansi kwedwala. Angisazi ukuthi ngingubani. I-HOCD
Ngangibambe isigqoko sami soguquko ngecala lika-2 hrs kwabanye
pho yini ekuqhubele ngaphesheya futhi yakwenza wathi "akusekho"?
Ngangibuka izithombe ezingcolile kakhulu kangangokuthi ngaqala ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili
Ngangibuza ukuthi ngabe ngabe ngiqinisile ngempela noma cha,
Lapho ngibheka izithombe ezingcolile, ngiyaqhubeka ngizibuza futhi ngingena ku-penis.
Ubudala 17 - HOCD ne-porn-eyenziwe i-ED, izinsuku eziyi-100 +
Ukubuyisela kabusha indaba: Ubudala 17 - HOCD ne-porn-eyenziwe i-ED, izinsuku eziyi-100 +
I-Lesbian ene "HOCD eqondile"
Ubungqingili, umlutha we-porn? Udinga iseluleko?
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Nginomuzwa wokuthi amantombazane ami endala ayafa
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siphelela ekufikeni kwezinye izinto ezihlekisayo ze-kinky
Uphula kanjani 'isixhumanisi' nezinhlobo ezithile ze-porn?
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Iminyaka engu-12 ye-PMO ikhuphukela ezingcolile zobulili obukhulu kakhulu
Uhlobo lokushintsha okwethusayo kokuhehayo… ngabe lokhu kuvamile?
Uhlobo lokushintsha okwethusayo kokuhehayo… ngabe lokhu kuvamile?
Kodwa angizange ngikuthinte, empeleni ngithandile ngandlela-thile
ukuthi ukuthanda kwami ku-P kushintshe kaningi.
Bangaki kini abakhomba njengokuqondisa, bangena kuwo
Bangaki benu abakhomba ukuthi baqonde, bangena ngaphansi kocansi / udlame?
I-GUY 1)
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Abesifazane besilinganiso sangempela bahlushwa izinombolo ezimbalwa ekukhangeni
Into, nginzima. Lokhu kwangidida kakhulu, ngoba
Intombi yami yahamba ngesigaba esifanayo ngesikhathi esithile emuva
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Ngithola ngibheka izithombe ezingcolile ezithandwayo / ezithintekayo ukuze ngiphakamise
I-ED njengomphumela we-Porn Escalating?
I-ED njengomphumela we-Porn Escalating?
I-GUY 1)
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Ngizibheka ngiqondile - i-porn and fapping iyangilimaza
Ngiyafa ngokoqobo ngamahloni
Ngo-Agasti 16, ngawa phansi emgodini wonogwaja. Bengifuna amathegi ahlukile ku-xvideos.com. Ngangicabanga ukuthi ngibonile konke kusayithi ngakho angangesabi. Nginqume ukubheka amathegi wedwa. Ngizwile ngevidiyo yama-Octomons ngihlolwe ukuze ngibone ukuthi yini ebikhona. Ngibe sengifuna ukwazi. Nginqume ukubheka umaki we-soloboy ukubona ukuthi benzani abanye abantu. Ngiqonde ngqo kodwa nganginelukuluku lokwazi ukubona ukuthi yini eyayikhona lapho. Bengingacabangi ngengikwenzayo ngoba bengidakiwe. Ngangingazi ukuthi ngine-OCD. Noma kunjalo, ngishaye ukusesha. Engikudonsile bekubukeka kungekho emthethweni kimi. Ngaphuma ngehlazo. Ngivale isiphequluli kepha i-OCD yami yangena ukuze ishayele ngokweqile. "Bekungekho emthethweni, onkulunkulu be-intanethi bayakubona engikubhekile, abantu bazocabangani, ngenzeni?" Kwakunzima kakhulu futhi ngangifuna ukubona. Noma kunjalo, ngonakalise ikhompyutha yami. Ngakusasa ngaqala ukutshela abangane engangikwenzile. Ngangesaba ukuthi ngizoboshwa. Kungani ngiphendule kanjena, angazi kodwa ngenzile. Ngishayele umngani wami kwesinye isifundazwe ukuthi ayidonse ukuze ngibone ukuthi akukho emthethweni yini. Ukuqinisekisile ukuthi akukho emthethweni wathi akehlise umoya. Ngambuza ukuthi ngabe ngiyisitabane yini ngokusibheka. Uhleke wathi wonke umuntu wesilisa ubheke okuthile okuyisitabane. Uthe mhlawumbe ubungafunda ezinye izinyathelo ezintsha! Benginelukuluku lokubona ukuthi abanye abafana babeka ini kwi-inthanethi. Ngimelene nabantu ngisho nokuthatha isithombe sami futhi angikwazi ukucabanga ngesibindi abantu abanaso sokuzibonakalisa behamba ze ku-intanethi. Noma kunjalo, ngemuva kokuhlolwa umngani oyedwa, benginenye nje yokuqinisekisa. Wayefana nokuthi, Oh my – soloboy! Angikwazanga ukuzibamba. Kwakunjengokuhlangenwe nakho kwe-OCD komzimba. Kusukela lapho bengilokhu ngitshela wonke umuntu ukuthi ngenzeni kule nkathi yesi-5 yesibili kusuka ekucabangeni kuya ekusesheni. Ngizizwa ngixakile futhi ngesaba ukuthi abanye bazocabangani ngami. Ngaqala ukubona owelapha wangitshela ukuthi kwakungu-OCD. Akacabangi ukuthi yi-HOCD ngoba akufani nokuthi ngibuke ividiyo noma yini futhi wathi wonke umuntu uchofoze okuthile ngenkathi esesha. Ngasesha umaki ngokuzithandela ngoba ngifuna ukubona. Ngizwa ukuthi ukuvuma kuyingxenye ye-OCD futhi. Ukufuna abanye okungenzeka ukuthi benze okufanayo ngaphambili. Ngiyazi ukuthi kufanele ngikhohlwe kepha ngidinga ukwesekwa ngenkathi ngiphansi lapha emgodini wonogwaja. ngokuzama ngamandla ukukhuphukela emuva lapho ngangikhona. Ngisize! Ngibheke kuphela i-porn eqondile ngaphambili ngaphandle kokuthi kube nesithonjana esixubene nezinye. Ngicabanga ukuthi yindlela abakukhubaza ngayo kulokho okubonayo. Angisoze ngaphuma ngiyothenga into efana naleyo kodwa ngoba ibimahhala futhi naku-inthanethi ngicabange ukuthi ngizobukeka. Izindaba ezihlekisayo ziyaziswa ngoba isipiliyoni sami siyangibulala.
Udinga othile ongakhuluma naye
Xhumana nami uma ungatshela okuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo.
HI
Akunakwenzeka ukuthi noma ngubani azokuphendula kuleli sayithi. Ngikunxusa kakhulu ukuthi uvakashele lesi sithangami - http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/ - ungabamba ibhulogi, futhi inqwaba yabafana kulelo sayithi babhekane nezinkinga ezifanayo, kufaka phakathi i-HOCD.
Konke esikwaziyo kule FAQ - Ngiqondile, kodwa ngikhangwa yi-transexual noma i-gay porn. Kwenzenjani?
Ngikufisela inhlanhla
Kusuka kwesinye isigaba se-YBOP
Ngifuna ukuphinda ngiphinde ngiyeke, ngiyeke ukugxila ezintweni ezingcolile
Kubukhosi besifazane futhi okwenyuka ku-porn movie.
Ngemva kwesikhashana kwayeka ukungivusa, futhi ngazithola ngisondele
Ngabuyisela emuva ubuhle bami
Ngabuyisela emuva ubuhle bami
ngu-maybelunaroxizinsuku 22
fnordsnordizinsuku 3
Nxusa ukuba wenze ku-HOCD
Nxusa ukuba wenze ku-HOCD
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Ngaphansi kwalesi sihloko - "Ngabe i-porn yangishaya ingunaphakade?"
bebukele izithombe ezingcolile ze-10 iminyaka manje, iv ubukele izinto eziningi
Ukuphawula okumbalwa ngaphansi kokuthi "Ngabe i-porn yangishaya ingunaphakade? (Salon.com) ”
Ingabe i-porn ihlupha phakade? (Salon.com)
Amazwana ajwayelekile avela kumuntu owaziyo umntwana omama:
Impendulo eyodwa kuye:
Ukuphendula okuqondakala kakhudlwana kokuvamile okuthi “oh lokhu kuvamile”
Isizukulwane sanamuhla siqopha umlando:
I-porn ingakufaka ezintweni ezingafani nezocansi lwakho lwangempela
Ivumela ukuba sikhuthaze izibopho ezingavamile ngokushesha kakhulu
Ngamafuphi, i-porn yonke iyinkohliso. Konke kuyibullshit.
Ama-Fapstronauts ahlala isikhathi eside, ingabe izifwama zakho zahamba?
Ama-Fapstronauts ahlala isikhathi eside, ingabe izifwama zakho zahamba?
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befuna ukubuza ukuthi ngabe omunye umuntu uthanda yini ukushintsha kwakhe
Kusha lapha, befuna ukubuza ukuthi ngabe omunye umuntu uthandile yini ukuthanda kwakhe
Ngomsebenzi wami wokubuka izithombe ezingcolile, angizange ngikukhathalele.
Udinga iseluleko esivela kuwe, ugxilile kwi-pornsexual and gay porn
Ngabona ukuthanda kwami kocansi ukushintsha.
indlela yokushaya i-hocd nokulutha kocansi
Guy guy kusuka kwesinye isithangami
"Ukubeletha" kuphuma ngaphandle kokulawula
Amantombazane ami ngokuyinhloko ahileleke noma yikuphi abesifazane abangcolile.
NoFap Ukukhulula i-HOCD yami
Nginenkinga evamile kakhulu
ukushaya indlwabu kakhulu kangangokuthi nginezinkathazo ngezinto ezivamile
izithombe zokubuka izithombe ezibucayi ziye zaqala ukungena
IZIMPENDULO ZEBHAYIBHELI:
iminyaka engu-3 edlule noma kunjalo, uhlobo lwezinhlaziyi ezibucayi engibukeleyo yilo
I-Porn yonakalise ukuphila kwami, imizwelo yami kanye nobulili budidekile.
Isivivinyo Sokubhekana Nokubheja Ngokweqile Ngokweqhwa Ngokweqeda Ukucabanga (Yena
Isivivinyo Sokubhekana Nokulutha Ngokwezithombeni Zobulili Ezingcolile Ngokukhipha Imicabango (Abesilisa Abesifazane)
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Lo mjikelezo wokuphindaphinda nokuzisola ube yisihogo eminyakeni embalwa edlule. Njengoba kubonakala sengathi kunezinsizwa eziningi ezibhekene nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile zomsindo futhi akekho ophumelele ekudluleleni isikhathi eside ngokuzama ukucindezela lezi zikhalo, nganquma ukwenza iphutha empilweni yangempela ukubona ukuthi ngizokujabulela ngempela ngokuba nesinye isikhathi eside.
Ngahlangana nentombazane ye-transgender eyayisebenza, yazwakala futhi yabukeka njengowesifazane okhangayo. Saya kumabhayisikobho futhi ngavuswa umcabango wokuba nepipi okungekho omunye umuntu owaziyo ngalo. Sigcine ukwenza ucansi futhi bekungathandeki kancane. Ngangisakwazi ukuvuswa, kodwa akuzange kungiphendule ngendlela efanayo ne-porn. Angizizwanga kahle ngemuva kwalokho njengoba ngenza ngemuva kokuya ocansini nowesifazane okhangayo. Ngahamba nginemizwa exubile, kepha nginqume ukuphinde ngihlangane naye kwesinye isikhathi. Ubusha bayo ngalesi sikhathi babuntuleka uma kuqhathaniswa nangaphambilini. Ngesikhathi socansi, ngangizizwa ngicishiwe isitho sangasese sowesilisa futhi ngaqala ukucabanga ngokulala nowesifazane ojwayelekile nokuthi ubuhle besifazane bukhanga kangakanani.
Ngakho-ke, ngicabanga ukuthi kucacile ukuthi i-porn idala iphupho elingatholakali noma elingakhangi empeleni. Angiqiniseki ukuthi lokhu kuhlangana kuzongisiza yini ukuthi ngibone indlela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezenze ngayo ukuthanda kwami noma uma zizokwengeza nje ekudidekeni kwami.
I-ED, i-HOCD ne-Anxiety
Ingabe Uzothatha / Kinks Ngibona sengathi uye waqala ukuhamba?
Ingabe i-porn ingenza u-Ed akwenze ucabange umlingani wakho?
Ingabe i-porn ingenza u-Ed akwenze ucabange umlingani wakho?
GUY 2
GUY 2
Ukuphila Kwami Ngaphambi Kokungabikho Nama-Fap: PI-ED, ukungabi khona kweLibido, Es
Ucabanga ukuthi uhulumeni uzama ukwenza us Gay?
Ucabanga ukuthi uhulumeni uzama ukwenza us Gay?
Ngisuke ngizibhedlele ngento engalungile.
Umfana osemncane, ovele nje abulale iphuzu lakhe eliphansi kakhulu
Iqiniso eliphambene
Ngikholelwa ukuthi i-porn iphazamise iqiniso lami. Kungenziwe “ngathanda” izinto engingakaze ngizithande ngaphambi kokuba ngiboshwe. Izigaba ezimbili ikakhulukazi: ama-trannies nama-bbws. Ngaphambi kocansi, nganginabesifazane besimo esihle kakhulu ngaphandle kwama-dick noma amanoni amaningi. Angikaze ngibe nenkinga ngokuqina okuncane kodwa futhi ngingumlandeli wamatiti amakhulu.
Kodwa-ke, ngifuna ukuhlanganyela ukuthi ngikholelwa kanjani ukuthi i-porn iphazamise iqiniso lami, futhi lokhu kufanele kubhekane ne-bbws. Njengoba ngishilo ngaphambili, bengilokhu ngithanda ama-tits amakhulu nobukhulu obuncane (curvy), kepha hhayi amafutha. Kodwa-ke, ngiqale ukubheka i-bbw porn ngoba iningi lalawo mantombazane lalinama-big tits. Ngaphambi kokuthi wazi, ngase ngixhakathisiwe! Ngemuva kweminyaka yokubuka i-bbw porn, ngaqala ukuthandana namanye amantombazane amakhulu engihlangane nawo online. Ngemuva kokuhlangana nabo, iqiniso langishaya ebusweni. Zazizinkulu kakhulu kimi futhi zazingakhangi! Kuyahlekisa ngoba ngibonile abesifazane bebakhulu kakhulu kunalabo engake ngababona ku-porn futhi kuyangiguqula, kepha-ke empilweni yangempela, kwenza okuphambene ngqo! Lokho kuyingozi ngempela! Angikaze ngizame ukuphola tranny, futhi angifuni. Kepha ukuhlolwa kwe-bbw kwakwanele kimi ukwazi ukuthi i-porn iyaphambanisa iqiniso lakho futhi kungasabisa kakhulu. Manje sengiqala kabusha okwesibili. “Ngalulama” kanye, kodwa ngazithola sengiphinde ngibuyelela futhi ngicishe ngonyaka odlule. Ngiyethemba ukuthi manje ngizolulama ngokugcwele futhi ngingabuyela kokuthandwayo kwami kwemvelo kwabesifazane.
Kubantu "abathole" ukuthanda okusha ngenkathi bebuka i-porn, ungathembi. Misa ukubuka i-porn, bese ubuyisela ukuthanda kwakho kwemvelo.
Ngilahlekelwe cishe yonke intshisekelo kwizibungu zami futhi ungazami ukwenza kanjalo
Umjikelezo we-PMO ukungafuneki nokucindezeleka kuletha
Umfana we-Gay owabuka kuphela izithombe eziqondile
http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1h664m/straight_men_gay_fantasies/car8nt6
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zami ziya ngokuxaka futhi izibungu zami azenzi
Izinyanga ze-18 zidlulile futhi i-HOCD yami isekhona kodwa ukucindezeleka kwami kuwukuthi
I-porn eyingozi futhi eyinkimbinkimbi (self.pornfree)
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile nezibucayi
HjerterEss
jtallday
elpis1
Misterml
I-SewerCow
i-knob-goblin
cishehrenrai
les13
samueltanders
Ingabe ufuna noma udinga ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile?
Isipiliyoni sowesilisa ongumGay ngokuthanda izinto ezithandekayo zocansi
http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=8419.msg213389#msg213389
Indaba yokudideka ngokobulili
Ukuguqulwa Kokuthandwa Kwezocansi (noma Ukubuyiselwa emuva) kusuka ku-NoFap - inyanga engu-1
Lezi zingcolile zilokhu ziba zimbi futhi kanjalo nokuthanda kwami ngokobulili
Ngangivame ukuthanda izithombe zobulili zokudlwengula, okungafani neze nesifazane
kusuka kule ntambo - Ingabe kukhona umuntu okwazi ukuqeda ngokuphelele ama-FEMDOM fetishes ??
Lapho ngiqala ukuqala kabusha, ubukhulu bami buqala ukufika
kusuka kule ntambo - Ingabe kukhona umuntu okwazi ukuqeda ngokuphelele ama-FEMDOM fetishes ??
Ngibuchithe kanjani ubulili bami… nokuthi ngihlela ukububuyisa kanjani.
Imibuzo ekukhuphukeni kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile
Imibuzo ekukhuphukeni kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile
September 23, 2013
Frye
I-AlexP11
sidney1990
i-aristotle
mxsurfer
crazydude
Umfana oqondile, i-24 yo virgin, izinsuku ezingu-33, kodwa namanje ufuna ukulingana
Umfana oqondile, i-24 yo virgin, izinsuku ezingu-33, kodwa namanje ufuna ukulala nomuntu ocansini
kufa_to_be_vain
i-wankwillnotownmeizinsuku 64
BowDown2Bale
HunterOfHunters
khulaSmooth
Unqabe intombazane yangempela futhi wakhetha izithombe zocansi… ..
Manje ngiyazi ukuthi nonke niyicabanga; ungowesifazane wesilisa?
Kuyangihlambalaza, kodwa ngiyayithokozela ngenxa yesizathu esithile esiphuthumayo.
Ukulwa 'nesisu' futhi kunomthelela omubi empilweni yami:
Ukulwa 'nesisu' futhi kuthinta impilo yami kabi: Ngabe ukhona onolwazi olufanayo?
MrChingChingizinsuku 315
I-BlackhawkU9izinsuku 13
Kwenziwe_With_This_Crap
waziwa
ngokuphelele_anon
ItsJustNate
stangamla
kmprove
angiyena umlutha we-porn 'ejwayelekile'. Ngiwumlutha wokugula ne-dis
Ngibonile zonke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwi-intanethi, ngakho-ke kungenzeka
ekugcineni kwafika ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile
Noma ubani unolwazi nge-nofap ngemuva kokuphazamiseka
Noma ubani unolwazi nge-nofap ngemuva kokungena emasosheni aphazamisayo?
imredjohn
WinRommel
fnordsnord
I-Steelcrate
I-AerialFreedom
BeastSlayer
Ak_Float_Flyer
lifeisscam
I-Ponfarrfap
MuhNugga
McLauritsen
Iphefumulelwe_Isiphequluli
I-Docderp
Ngokuphathelene ne-shemales, kuyiqiniso ukuthi yibo kuphela abantu abaqondile noma ababi
Ukuthanda kwami izithombe zobulili ezingcolile sekuyahlanya… (Srs Discussion)
Ngabe ekugcineni ngizoyeka ukuthanda i-porn 'eyeqile'?
Ngabe ekugcineni ngizoyeka ukuthanda i-porn 'eyeqile'?
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Ka-Kui
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I-SolitaryPath
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I-MyPetPickle
imstartingover
kwenziwe i -XXUMUMX
fapstronaut0
I-Steelcrate
sithandwa
Imicabango yami mayelana nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nobulili
Ngangineminyaka engu-XNUMX ubudala ngangihlambalaza izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kodwa angikwazi ukusho ukuthi ngake ngacabanga
Ukudla kwabesifazane kushintshwe ngemuva kweminyaka yokusebenzisa i-porn
I-PMO ivuselele ubuchopho bami futhi ihlukumeza izifiso zami zocansi
I-PMO ivuselele ubuchopho bami futhi ihlukumeza izifiso zami zocansi
Kutholakale i-TS Porn kuneminyaka engu-18
Ngicabanga ukuthi i-Porn ishintshe ukuma kwami. (Okwamanje okungenani)
Ngicabanga ukuthi i-Porn ishintshe ukuma kwami. (Okwamanje okungenani)
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FuthiTheSonsofDisaster
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FuthiTheSonsofDisaster
LokhuEndsNow1
I-Element-A
Hawkeye5
i-backbackbrother
UKUKHUMA KUNYE NOMUNYE NEMHOCD noma NGOKWESIKHATHI SEXULE!
"Ngingungqingili ngokobulili, Kwabe sekufika izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zaphazamisa konke
Kwakuyi-porno eyangenza ngifune kinkier
Ifinyelele esincane esisha. Lena umlutha onamandla. Ayikho into enjalo
Ukuqhubeka nohambo lwe-porn free emva kokuboshwa
Ngangingenaso isithakazelo kunoma yimuphi umuntu noma umuntu we-transgender kuze ngiqale
Ukuthandwa kwe-Fetish H-OCD. Ngilungile kodwa umzimba wami udinga abagulayo ru
Izinto ebengizenzile zavela ekhanda lami futhi esikhundleni sokuvuka
I-Autobigraphy yami: Imiphumela Yesikhathi Eside Yomlutha Wezocansi Emqondweni &
kwaholela kimi ukuba noxhumano olunesihawu nezinkanyezi zesilisa ezingcolile
Ngithole inkinga yami, kodwa ingabe ingalungiswa?
Noma ngubani wakhuphukela fetish mayelana nokuthi "Ukuba intombazane" ku-porn?
ku-noPMO yami yokugcina ihlanganisa isishwane ngisho nokungangivangeli
Seriously ?? Ngabe imimoya ye-MO kanye ne-PMO ingaba yizona zindawo ezihlukile ngokuqondene nalokho okuvusa wena? (Uzwa sengathi unethemba)
Ngishaye phansi kwe-porn-ungenze ngacabanga ukuthi ngithandana nabesilisa nabesifazane. angiyona
Nakhu ukuthi kungani ngithanda i-gay porn:
Ngiyakhanga kwabesifazane, kepha ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile kuyisontile indlela yami….
Ingabe kukhona izifebe ezithi “No-Fap / No-soliciting on craig's & backpage” ezisetshenziselwe amadoda ezifiso zawo zisonteke ngaphezu kokuqashelwa kwezocansi?
Ngineminyaka engu-17 futhi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zangifaka kumuntu ozijabulisa ngezocansi.
Ngineminyaka engu-17 futhi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zangifaka kumuntu ozijabulisa ngezocansi.
Ngaqala ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile ezingaphezu kakhudlwana
Yeka ukuthi izidakamizwa zangibulala kanjani
Yeka ukuthi izidakamizwa zangibulala kanjani
Ngiphishekela ukuvuselela ngisho noma kusongela konke
Ngithatha ama-polygraph minyaka yonke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi angizisebenzisanga izithombe zobulili ezingcolile - futhi ngiyaphasa, yize ngishelela kwesinye isikhathi.
Kuvela ukuthi ngingungqingili kakhulu
Kuvela ukuthi ngingungqingili kakhulu
I-NoFap + Yezocansi = Inqotshwe Amandla Obulili Obunzima
[Izinsuku ezingu-30 nofap] i-ED eqinile kusukela ku-17 futhi ididekile mayelana nobulili bami
[Izinsuku ezingu-30 nofap] i-ED eqinile kusukela ku-17 futhi ididekile mayelana nokuncenga kwami kobulili
Qaphela ukuthi uqale ukushaya indlwabu (izintshevu)
Fap mahhala 2yrs 2months! Ukufuna ukwazi ngokukhululekile
Lokhu kungalungile ukuthi kungathola: ukuvuma okungahambi kahle komlutha
Bengicabanga ukuthi ngithandana nabesilisa nabesifazane okwesikhashana,
Ngicabanga ukuthi i-NoFap ingenza ngibone ukuthi ngingungqingili futhi lokho kuyangethusa.
Ngicabanga ukuthi i-NoFap ingenza ngibone ukuthi ngingungqingili futhi lokho kuyangethusa.
Ngenxa yobuthi bami obungcolile, ubulili bami buhlanekezelwe ngokuphelele
Abesilisa abesilisa nabesifazane abesilisa nabesifazane abenza i-NoFap?
Abesilisa abesilisa nabesifazane abesilisa nabesifazane abenza i-NoFap?
engihlala naye "isitabane" uzame uNoFap futhi manje uqondile.
Ngangicabanga ukuthi ngingu-bi kodwa i-nofap ingifundise ukuthi ngithola ngempela
LINK
Ekuqaleni angizange ngizizwele ngowesifazane, ngakho-ke angizange ngibe nesikhathi eside
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/3fhhwe/gay_or_bisexual_men_doing_nofap/ctoo90z
Ngemuva kokuthi i-nofap yami yokuqala iqede ukukhanga kwami kumadoda kwakunamandla
LINK
ngesikhathi se-120 + streak Ngikhangwa kakhulu ngabesifazane
LINK
Ingabe i-nofap isiza ngokukhathazeka, i-ocd, njll?
Ingabe i-nofap isiza ngokukhathazeka, i-ocd, njll?
zenmike
IKlodion
mrmacfarlane
Ukuphawula kwebhulogi
Ngabe ubuka kanjani umthondo wamanye amadoda kumavidiyo we-porn ushaya i-gi
[Ukuyeka ukusiza kusiza ukucacisa ukulingana ngokobulili obuhlukile]
Amaviki e-9 - Ukucindezeleka kuthuthukiswe kakhulu, i-Porn yayingidonsa ngamandla ami
Ngingungqingili, kepha bengilokhu ngibuka amavidiyo aqondile.
Ngingungqingili, kepha bengilokhu ngibuka amavidiyo aqondile.
Crusty_Dick [isixhumanisi asisasebenzi]
i-bigballsomar
iziqhwaga
Umlutha wezocansi nobungqingili
Umlutha wezocansi nobungqingili
mrnatoo
MNK925
GolanSnyder
fappersam
I-FreedomManOfGlory
i-randomdewd99
I-Traumtropfen
I-GamerI-Gamin
gab_astr95 [lo msebenzisi ususe i-akhawunti yakhe ngoJuni 2021]
umculi we-archer3199
i-tryhardagain
I-Tesla4sure
Kusemsk
akafake
KeepGoingSon
Ngingungqingili ocabanga ukuthi uyabesilisa nabesifazane
isixhumanisi sokubeka amazwana
Hit rockbottom, walala no-ts hooker
Hit rockbottom, walala no-ts hooker
I-Porn yangenza ngicabanga ukuthi ngingumama-gay
I-Porn yangenza ngicabanga ukuthi ngingumama-gay
Uma ngenza isikhathi eside i-NoFap, ngiqonda ngqo…?
Uma ngenza isikhathi eside i-NoFap, ngiqonda ngqo…?
I-Pisces21
Ukulutha kabi kobulili obucayi kubangele ukuguquka kwezocansi
Ukulutha kabi kobulili obucayi kubangele ukuguquka kwezocansi
Ingabe kukhona obabuza ukuziphatha kwabo ngokobulili ngemuva kokubukela futhi
Ingabe kukhona obabuza ukuziphatha kwabo ngokobulili ngemva kokubuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili? Uma kunjalo, ingabe usuqedile ukushintsha ukuma kwakho noma ugcine ukuhlala ukuma okufanayo ngemuva kokuyeka?
TheFlacidM
i-nofapkelany
u-fredtheuser
I_Ine_i_i_Ingqikithi
I-Prismagraphist
uphilisa nge -1
I-01xdollar
ama-fckprawns
i-seatint
TristanJeremiah
true_life
Ubulili buyashintsha
Ubulili buyashintsha
Kuyi-porn yo. Ngingungqingili ngokuqinile….
LINK UKUFAKA
Xhumanisa kokuthunyelwe
Umelaphi wami ukholelwa ukuthi umlutha wami we-porn ube nethonya elikhulu ekuthuthukeni kwami kwe-OCD.
Ingabe i-porn ikunikeze imizwa yezitabane? - ngu Iphuthaway09856893929
I-Mithan1 [i-akhawunti ayisatholakali]
UBenfelz
UkunqobaRev1211__
bongeziwe
I-Rando4412
I-FightingAddict2018
ngobuqili
I-FaclessSpy
umagazine
UMarkimonius
nkululekofromfear7
Newmenorean
weex_gune
Walkinhathh
I-Steamzombie
deep_muff_diver_ [Le akhawunti ayisatholakali]
UBruhtha
okademia
I-Sogeking_