Isifiso ngezinye izikhathi siyaqhamuka phezulu ngemuva kocansi olushisayo
Ngabe "lapho uklwebha kakhulu, kulanda kakhulu" kwesinye isikhathi kusebenza kuma-jollies ezocansi? Ngabe okuphambene kuyiqiniso? Ngokumangazayo, amaShayina aqaphela "ukuqhutshwa kwesifiso sobulili ngemuva kwe-orgasm" eminyakeni eyizinkulungwane edlule. Amadoda namuhla enza futhi:
Ngezinye izikhathi ngizizwa nginesibindi ezinsukwini ezilandelayo i-orgasm. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, ngiba nemizwa enamandla yokuheha abanye besifazane (noma ngabe angikaze ngifune ukuya ocansini nomunye umuntu ngaphandle komuntu engithandana naye) .—Tom
Mina nentombi yami entsha sahlukana, futhi manje, usuku noma ezimbili kamuva, ngibona izifiso ezinamandla zokushaya indlwabu futhi ngibheke izithombe ezingcolile futhi (ngemuva kwezinyanga ezintathu zingenazo izithombe ezingcolile). Kubukeka kungqubuzana kakhulu ukuthi ukuphulula kwethu kanzima kungadala lokhu, kepha kuyenzeka. Ngishaya indlwabu ngaphezulu futhi ngaze ngabheka nezithombe ezingcolile zobulili izolo. Ngesinye isikhathi, ngazama ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle kocansi. Ngamangala futhi ngathukuthela, izimpawu zami zokuhoxa * azizange ziphele ngokuphelele. Ukugqugquzela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuphela okwanginika ukukhululeka kwesikhashana kulezi zifiso nokuthi, mngani wami, kungumcabango osabisayo futhi owesabekayo. Geza, kufana nokuqhekeka, uyazi? -Dick
Ngemuva kwe-orgasm yokuqala kule setha yamuva, ngangizizwa ngisondelene nomkami, futhi ekuqaleni ngangizizwa ngisondelene. Ngemuva kwemizimba emibili ye-orgasms, ngaqala ukucabanga ngesikhatsi ngingathola olandelayo-mhlawumbe kathathu ngehora. Ngabe sengine-orgasm eyodwa kuphela, futhi imvamisa yale micabango cishe ibe kabili. Manje ukuthi ngiyazi ukuthi ngiyifunani, kuba cishe ukuhlekisa ukubuka inqubo. Kusobala ukuthi imvamisa ephezulu ye-orgasm iyinethonya eliphazamisayo ukuthi, kusukela kumbono we-utilitarian, akuyona into efiselekayo. Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokugcina, ngayinye isenzakalo engangibuyele kuso kuyi-porn noma ngiyi-masturbated ngaphandle kokuthi kwenzeke ngosuku olulandelayo ngemva kokuba ngine-orgasm ngesikhathi sokulala.-Harry
Ngiqaphele ukuthi ngemva kokubheja ezithombeni ezingcolile, udinga ngempela ukuziphoqa ukuze ubuyele emuva ngoba ithonya le-orgasm lenza u-hornier. Izinsuku ezintathu zokuqala zinzima.-Max
Kuze kube yisonto eledlule, ngangihambe amasonto amane ngaphandle kokukhipha futhi ngazizwa ngijabule ngakho. Ukujula okukodwa futhi nginamahloni ngokweqile futhi ngizizwa ngilingwa yi-porn. Angizange ngibe nakho phakathi kwamasonto amane. Manje ngizizwa nginobugovu. Ngiyakuthanda ukupha umkami, kodwa nakanjani kuzongisiza ukuthola enye indlela engizobuya ngayo. —Alan
Ngemuva kwemizamo eminingi, ngikwazile ukufika ezinsukwini ezingama-90 ngingenayo i-porn. Impilo yami yathuthuka kakhulu… ngahlukana nentombi yami, ngaya ocansini namantombazane ama-4, ngathola intombi entsha. Nganginobudlelwano, ngizethemba, njll. Ezinyangeni ezithile nganginama-LOTS ocansi olwesabekayo, kepha kwadingeka abuyele ezweni lakhe ngoJanuwari. Ngemuva kokuthi ehambile… kahle, izinkanuko zobulili ezingcolile / ezikhulayo zabuyela KULUKHANSI. Ngangifaka izikhathi ze-2/3 ngosuku futhi ngibheka i-porn (into engingazange ngiyenze ezinyangeni ze-6). Konke kwehle lapho: Ukwehla kwesisusa, akuphumanga ngezimpelasonto, kwaba nesisindo esincane, njll. Ngabe sengiya ocansini nenye intombazane futhi… ake sithi kwakudumaza kancane. Angizange "ngisebenze" ngendlela engangiyenza ngaphandle kokukhula. Ngakho-ke manje, ngizimisele kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili, ngibuyele ezinsukwini ze-5 ze-nofap futhi ngizwa kangcono kakhulu. Kimi ingozi enkulu yizinsuku ze-3 ngemuva kokuya ocansini noma ukukhula. Uma ungadlula kulokho, ucezu lekhekhe. Kepha izifiso emva kocansi… f * ck leyo sh * t. Ngisebenzisa izidakamizwa eziningi futhi, futhi ukukhula kunzima kakhulu ukuyeka. Ngakho-ke qaphela. Ungabuyeli emuva. Uma uzizwa uthanda ukukhula vele uphume wenze noma yini ongayenza ukuthola ucansi lwangempela. Ukufakwa kwe-fapping akukufanele.—Ralf
Ngokwesazi uDoulas Wile (Art of the Bedchamber), ama-Daoists amaShayina asendulo aqopha ukuthi i-orgasm ingavuselela isifiso sobulili (ngemuva kwalolo phumulo ngemuva kokuhlangana komshado) -ngisho ukuthi idambisa umzimba nengqondo. Ngasikhathi sinye, baphikelela nokuthi ukujabulisa ubudlelwane obumnandi kubalulekile empilweni enhle yomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Zabo Isixazululo salesi conundrum kulandela ukutholakala kobulili obuvamile kanye ne-ejaculation ephindaphindiwe kwakuncipha kakhulu kunezocansi ngezikhathi ezithile nokujwayela ukujwayela. Ngokombono wabo, ubulili obukhulu ne-orgasm encane empeleni babondla abathandi abanomzimba wonke isichazamazwi (ubungqabavu), futhi akhulule amadoda "emicabango evuthayo."
Ngokuphambene nalokho, umzamo wokuhlangabezana nezidingo zakho zocansi ngokusebenzisa "izindleko ngaphandle kokuzibamba" uqede ubuchopho, ukubalwa kwezimpawu ezinjengokukhishwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, ukungakhululeki ngemuva kwe-orgasm, ukuphuma ebusuku kanye nokungezwani kobudlelwano.
Ah, abesifazane. Benza i-highs ephakeme futhi ihamba ngokuphindaphindiwe.-UFriedrich Nietzsche
Ingabe lezi zibukeli zazilungile? Kungenzeka ukuthi abambalwa abaphezulu baholela emigqeni encane nokwaneliseka okuphelele? Kungenzeka kungenzeka, yize ibhalansi yokufunda ngemuva kweminyaka "yokusebenza ngaphandle kokuzibamba" idinga ingqondo evulekile, ukubekezela kanye nokuhlekisa. Nayi imibiko yabathandi:
Umfana wokuqala-
Siye sazama ngalomqondo cishe inyanga. I-scorecard yami:
• Ayikho i-porn
• Akukho ukushaya indlwabu
• Ayikho i-ejaculation emavikini amathathu
• Ama-orgasms amathathu "asethafeni", ngaphandle kokuphuma
• Mina nomkami siphila kabusha
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile bekumangaze kulula ukuziyeka (awu, ngiye "ngabheka" kanye ngesonto lokuqala). Angibonanga zimpawu zokuhoxa futhi angizizwa ngilingeka kakhulu. Lokhu kuyangimangaza impela, ngoba bengilokhu ngibuka i-porn njalo amashumi eminyaka. Phakathi nesonto lokuqala, ngakhipha umuthi kathathu. Kusukela lapho ngiye ngazibona izinzuzo zokungayingeni leyonto. Uma ngizwa isifiso sokungena, ngivele ngiphumule bese ngiyasidedela sidlule. Ngemuva kwalokho silungele okuningi. Ngikujabulela ngempela ukwenziwa kothando okude, okuhamba kancane okubonakala sengathi akupheli neze. Ngiye ngabona i-orgasm eyodwa engakholeki nokuncane okubili (konke ngaphandle kwe-ejaculation.) Kepha ukuba ne-orgasms ejwayelekile akusona esinye sezizathu zami eziphezulu zokuphila. Ingxenye ehamba phambili ngukuthi umshado wethu uphume esikhathini eside esedlule futhi uvuselelwe. Mina nomkami sisondelene kakhulu kunalokho ebesinakho iminyaka, sisembhedeni futhi usuku lonke.
Umfana wesibili-
Okokuqala, ngakwazi ukuhamba cishe amasonto ayisithupha ngaphandle kwe-orgasm futhi phakathi naleso sikhathi ngangizizwa ngizinzile ngokomzwelo. Ngaleso sikhathi ngangilale kahle nomlingani wami. Kodwa-ke, ngenyanga edlule noma ngibuyele emuva kumvamisa we-orgasmic "ojwayelekile" ngesikhathi socansi (1-2x / ngesonto) futhi imizwa yami iye yazinza kancane. Ngizibandakanya kakhulu ekuqhubekeni nasekuxabaneni kunangaphambili. Kuzwakala kumnandi impela ngaleso sikhathi futhi uzizwa ulungile hhayi ku-orgasm, kepha ukwakheka ekuvuseleleni kwenza kube nzima kimi ukuthi ngingafuni ukukhululwa ngesinye isikhathi.
Umfana wesithathu-
Nginciphise imvamisa yami ye-orgasm cishe cishe ikota eyodwa kusho izinyanga eziyisithupha ezedlule (okwakuyi-0.76 / usuku). Ukuphoqelelwa kwe-orgasm, ebengikwazi ukukuqeda iminyaka eminingi, kwehle kakhulu. Umkami uthe uyasiqonda isisusa sami sokuzama ukunciphisa imvamisa ye-orgasm, kepha lapho senza uthando, kwesinye isikhathi uzama ngenkuthalo ukungenza ngibe yi-orgasm. Ngikholwa ukuthi ukuvumelanisa indlela yami yokuziphatha ngokocansi nentando yomkami ekugcineni kuzosisondeza. Ukube i-orgasm ejwayelekile ibiyi-glue enhle kakhulu engokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni, ngabe besiboshwe ngokungenakuphikiswa, ngokuvumelana komunye nomunye kudala. I-Orgasm ayilethi abathandi basondele. Okucasula kakhulu kimi ukuthi uvame ukuba ne-orgasm ngesikhathi / ehambisana nocansi (futhi unama-orgasms ambalwa jikelele), futhi ubelokhu ehlangabezana nemiphumela yokuqinisa ubudlelwane yama-orgasms ambalwa. Ngokungafani nami, akakaze akhononde ngokunganeliseki ngokocansi, kuyaqabukela eqala ukulwa, futhi waneliseke kakhulu ngempilo nangomshado wethu.
Umfana wesine-
Impilo yami yocansi ingcono kunakuqala. Ngithola ubulili obuningi, nobungcono kunangaphambili. Ngiyijabulela kakhulu, futhi ngisondelene kakhulu nonkosikazi wami. Ngikholwa ukuthi abanye bethu bamane nje banamandla amaningi ezocansi asebenzayo kunabanye, futhi lokhu kungasifaka "ezinja zezimpondo" enkingeni. UKarezza [ucansi olunothando ngaphandle kwenhloso ye-orgasm] ukukhulula! UKarezza ufana ne-ritalin yemvelo yobuntu be-ADHD. Kube wukusindisa impilo kimi.
Umfana wesihlanu-
(Ngubani owayeseqale kabusha ngokuphelele) Ngemuva kokushaya indlwabu, ngabona ukuthi umphumela wokujaha wawusengowangempela. Lapho-ke lapho ngihamba isikhathi esingenayo i-orgasm, amasonto amabili okuqala ikakhulukazi izinsuku 4 no-7, no-10 - 12 kwakunzima kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho kuba nokushintsha kwengqondo. Lokho kungukuhlangenwe nakho kwami. Njengamanje, ngisezinsukwini ezingama-20 kusukela nge-M / O yokugcina futhi ngizwa kahle. Ngisazizwa ngezikhathi ezithile ukudonsa, uma nginephupho elimanzi ngingahle ngifune ucansi noma i-MO.
Owesifazane-
Kuthatha umyeni wami izinyanga ukuba abuyele ngemuva kokusebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile zobulili. Manje kokubili sinciphisa ama-orgasms ethu cishe kanye ngenyanga, futhi sonke sibona umehluko omkhulu. Ilungiselelo lethu elisha liyanelisa ngokwanele futhi asikhathali neze. Kudinga uthando oluvame kakhulu nokuvusa okuhlangene (okuncane kwe-orgasm) noma ukuhlala phakathi.
Isayensi yesimanje ingaba yini ukukhanya kulokhu okuhlangenwe nakho? Kungenzeka. Eqinisweni, amaDaoists kungenzeka ukuthi ayeqinisile ukuthi ubuchopho buyisihluthulelo. Ukugqugquzela okukhulu (hhayi kuphela izinsiza zanamuhla ezivuselela ubulili, kepha ngisho nokuvusa ngokwanele ucansi nge-orgasm) kungaba yisignali ebuchosheni ukubheka ukuzungeza okunye ukuvusa okukhulu.
Lokhu kuhambisana ngokuphelele ne- "i-binge trigger”Umqondo: umqondo wokuthi lapho ubuchopho bubhalisa isasasa elikhulu (ngesimo sesiginali yemithambo yegazi ukuthi okuthile okubaluleke ngempela kumayelana nakho), kuyazikhathaza okwesikhashana ukuze kusinxenxe ukuthi siphishekele okuningi kwako. AbakwaDaoists bathi uvuthondaba oluningi kakhulu "luqeda ubuchopho," oluhambisana nalo mqondo, njengoba ukundikimba kungenzeka, ngokwengxenye, kube ngumkhiqizo kunciphise i-D2 (dopamine) receptors ku-striatum yobuchopho.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izindlela eziqondile, umphumela ungaba ukuthi, esikhundleni sokuzizwa unelisekile ngemva kokuvusa okukhulu kocansi, ngokushesha sizobukeka sizungeze ukuze sithuthukise phambili. Empeleni, ukushisa i-hook-up, i-chaser eyomelele. Ngakho-ke yikulungele. Lo mfana wazibonela lokhu:
Ukuxhumana kwakumangaza! Kwakunale nkukhu yaseBrazil. EBUHLENI! Saxhuma emcimbini wasendlini yangasese. Bengifuna okwengeziwe ngemuva komzuliswano wokuqala, kepha yena usenayo eyakhe. Ngaphandle kwalokho, sasisendlini yokugezela isikhathi eside futhi abantu baqala ukungqongqoza emnyango nokusola. Kwakuyi-hookup enhle, mhlawumbe phezulu ohlwini lwami, kodwa lapho ngifika ekhaya ngangilokhu ngiyiphinda ekhanda lami futhi ngifuna okuningi. kubi impela. Bekufanele ngidedele futhi noma bengizokweqa eweni! Nganginokuncenga okuncane kakhulu ukuthi ngibuke i-porn futhi kepha angikwazanga ukuziletha kuyo. Hawu! Okungenani ngiyazi ukuthi sengiphelile lowo mkhuba! Kodwa manje ukushaya indlwabu kaningi kubuyile futhi ngiqala ukubona ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwami kwezenhlalo kuyaphinda futhi. Ngikhumbula ubudoda bami obukhulu!
I-orgasm eqinile kakhulu ingasiphosa esiteji esisheshisayo sokunganeliseki, nokudangala. Okubi nakakhulu, kungabangela abathandi ukuthi basolane ngokungahlangabezani nezidingo zabo zocansi, lapho empeleni ukunganeliseki kwabo kuwumkhiqizo wezinguquko ezicashile zokushintsha kwamakhemikhali, ezingenakunqotshwa ngempumelelo ngokugqugquzela okwengeziwe.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, abathandi abathandayo abanokuthula futhi kaningi, ngaphandle kokuqhuma kwe-neurochemical ye-arousal evelele ne-orgasm, bavame ukuphawula ngalesi sidakamizwa, bavune izinzuzo eziningi zokulala nobudlelwane obuseduze, balondoloze umbono omuhle komunye nomunye, futhi ugweme izifiso ezicasulayo zokuvuselela okukhulu. Njengoba nje amaDaoist aqoshiwe.
Okokugcina, njengoba abafana beqala kabusha, ukuqina komphumela we-chaser ngemuva kwesiphetho ngokuvamile kuvimba kakhulu. Ngakho-ke noma ngabe uzizwa unamandla kakhulu uma ubuyela emuva manje, kungase kungabi njalo njalo lapho ubuchopho bakho buba khona.
- Okwesayensi yakamuva esiza ukuchaza iChaser njengomsebenzi wokweqa izindlela zomuntu zokusuthisa ngokocansi, ishiye ubuchopho "bucime" okwesikhashana, bheka Amadoda: Ingabe Ukujula Ngokuvamile Kungabangela I-Hangover?
- Ukukhula kobufakazi besayense yomjikelezo we-post-orgasm oqhubekayo (izifundo)
- Izifundo ekuqhekekeni phakathi kobulili nezidakamizwa ebuchosheni
Isipiliyoni somfana oyedwa 'somphumela wokujaha'
Nasi isipiliyoni somsebenzisi ongewona owe-porn:
Okuthunyelwe kwale ndoda kukhombisa
uhlobo lomjikelezo we-neurochemical osebenza ngemuva komphumela wokujaha. Ungabona ukuthi izinsuku "eziphansi" (abanye abantu ababhekana nazo njengokulangazelela okukhulu) zingabuyisela kanjani umuntu emuva ku-porn ukuzama ukuthola esinye isikhathi esifushane semizwa emihle. Inkinga, kubasebenzisi abaningi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ama-lows aya ngokuya eba phezulu futhi ukuphakama kudlula ngokushesha.
Ngicabanga ukuthi ngingagcina ngithole okunye kwalokhu kungekudala…
Sekuphele amasonto amabili ngingayi ku-PM. Mina nomkami senza uthando esikhathini esingangesonto nesigamu esidlule. Umamezala kanye nomkami sekunesikhashana bevakashile futhi lokhu kwenze kwaba lula ukungalingisi nabo eduze.
Ngakho-ke ngibonile manje ukuthi bengingashayi indlwabu isifiso sami somkami sivela endaweni ehluke kakhulu. Kubonakala kuhlobene kakhulu nesifiso somzimba ngaye, engicabanga ukuthi yiphuzu. Ujabule kakhulu futhi ngokungadingeki aqhudelane nesandla sami sokudla. Kodwa nabantu abasendlini bekungenakwenzeka "ukubambana".
Ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kuzoshintsha kule mpelasonto ngemuva kokuthi wonke umuntu esehambile…ngiyethemba. 🙂 Kodwa empeleni sengiqala ukujabulela ukuzithiba ekushayeni indlwabu. Njengoba abanye bephawulile, iphimbo lami selibuyele ekuzwakale lizwakala lizwakala lizwakala lijulile. Ngizizwa ngingcono. Ngikwazi kangcono ukugxila emsebenzini wami futhi angizizwa nginamahloni ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Zonke izinzuzo ezinhle zokuziyeka.
Esinye isibonelo se "chaser"
Amaphupho amanzi
imbangela "abajaha" kwabanye (kepha hhayi abanye). Nansi umbiko womuntu oyedwa:
I-Chaser ingashintsha umbono
Lo mfana wabika:
Umshayeli
kuyindlela eyeqisayo yomjikelezo ojwayelekile we-neurochemical ngemuva kwe-orgasm. Kuhle ukwazi ukuthi yini eyakho. Ngaphandle kwalokho ungalingeka ukuba ube ne-orgasm kaningi… bese uthola ukuthi umlingani wakho akakhangi isikhathi esiningi. Nayi i-anecdote yelungu lesithangami ngalesi simo:
Elinye ilungu lesigungu:
Nginomuzwa wokuthi ngisezweni lezinkinga futhi ngidinga USIZO!
Ngineminyaka engu-24 ubudala futhi ngiye ngaqala kabusha manje ezinsukwini ezingama-52 ezedlule. Bengilokhu ngilalele kahle impela, kuze kube amasonto ambalwa emuva, ngemuva kokuya ocansini nentombazane yami, ngingathola izifiso ezinkulu ku-PMO (angikaze ngibe nakho lokho ngaphambili). Isikhathi se-1 sasingamaviki ama-2 1/2 emuva, ngibuke izithombe ezimbalwa futhi ngokungazi ngaqala ukuzihlikihla phezu kwebhulukwe lami. Njengokungathi kungumlingo, ngafaka umfutho othile cishe ngemizuzwana eyi-10! Lokhu kwenzeke ntambama, ngemuva kokuya ocansini nentombazane yami ekuseni. Isikhathi se-2nd senzeka cishe ngesonto kamuva, kuphela ngalesi sikhathi, ngabuka kuphela izithombe ezimbalwa futhi ngazivimbela ukuba ngingazithinti futhi ngavala amafasitela ngaphambi kokuba ngithole izifiso ezinamandla ku-MO. Manje, namhlanje ekuseni walala nentombazane yami futhi emaminithini ambalwa adlule nganginesifiso esinamandla se-PMO. Benginenhliziyo eyenele yokuthi angizukubuka noma yimaphi amavidiyo, ngakho-ke futhi, ngaqala ukubuka ezinye izithombe futhi ngacabanga ngathi, "kungenzeka ngikuqede lokho", ngakho-ke ngafaka iMo'ed imizuzwana ekubukweni kwesithombe.
Nginomuzwa wokuthi ngichitha i-Reboot ebengilokhu ngiyilandela ngalezi zingcosana, ngoba impilo yami yezocansi neyenhlalo ibilokhu ithuthuka. Ngiyazizonda ngokunikela kulezi zifiso lapho ukulala nentombazane yami kuyinto enhle! Uma kukhona uhlangothi oluhle kulezi zingxoxo ebenginazo, lelo iqiniso lokuthi angikaze ngibuke noma yimaphi amavidiyo (engingahlala kuwo amahora amaningi ngibukela futhi ngiya kuwo), umehluko wukuthi ngemuva kokubuka izithombe ezimbalwa, kungasekho ukuthi imizuzu ye-5, ngifaka i-orgasm ngokushesha okukhulu futhi ngivale konke kude. Iqiniso lodaba ukuthi, ngifuna UKUQEDA ngokuphelele lo mkhuba wezocansi kanye nokushaya indlwabu, kepha ubuchopho bami bokulutha buba namandla kakhulu kwesinye isikhathi.
Ngifunde ngaphezulu kokubuyekezwa kwabasebenzisi okushiwo kule ndatshana, futhi ngiyajabula ukwazi ukuthi angiyena kuphela odlula kulo mphumela wokujaha. Ngizozama konke okusemandleni ami ngalesi sikhathi ukuthi kungabikho muntu ogcwalisa isifiso sami ekuqedeni lomkhuba wesikhwama.
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