Izingane namuhla zinokufinyelela ezingcolile ezingcolile ezingabangela ukukhubazeka kwe-erectile, ukukhathazeka komphakathi, nezinye izinkinga.
Ngo-2006 inani elingenamkhawulo lamavidiyo wamahhala, ashaqisayo, abeka obala atholakala kabanzi kubasebenzisi be-Intanethi abanobuhlakani bokuxhumana ngejubane elikhulu. Maye, abanye babathakathi bama-computer abanekhono kunabo bonke emhlabeni yintsha. Ukudlula amavidyo kliphu wevidiyo enezithombe zobulili ezingcolile manje sekuyinto ethandwayo yomphakathi.
Amavidiyo anjalo avame kakhulu ngokweqile kangangokuthi awakhathaza ngisho nabazali abakhululekile kakhulu. Ngokusho kwesazi sezifo zengqondo uNorman Doidge Ubuchopho Obushintshayo, i-porn iyashaqisa kakhulu ngoba abasebenzisi be-porn banamuhla bavame ukujwayela izinto ezibukwayo. Lokho wukuthi, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zanamuhla, esikhundleni sokwanelisa ngokwengeziwe, zenza impendulo yenjabulo yengqondo ibe buthakathaka. Ngemuva kwalokho umsebenzisi udinga okuthile okushaqisa ngokwengeziwe ukuvusa-okulethwa yimboni yezocansi ngokuqhubekayo. Ubani ozojabula ngo "PacMan" lapho kade edlala i- "Grand Theft Auto" noma "Halo 3"?
Inoveli eyengeziwe, eyethusayo, "enesono," enqatshelwe, noma enengekayo, ividiyo iyona epholile ukudlula kuyo. Futhi, lapho ijabulisa kakhulu ubuchopho bombukeli (ikakhulukazi, isekethe lomvuzo). Umvuthwandaba ke iqinisa “inani” kwento ekhiqiza uvuthondaba. Ngakho-ke, ubuchopho bezingane manje sebuphinda buzwela ukukwazisa okokusebenza kokujula kobuchopho okungekho lutho kulwazi lwabo (noma oluningi lwabanye) olubalungiselele. INorepinephine ekhishwe ngokuphendula izithombe ezishaqisayo nayo iyavela qinisa lokhu kufunda.
Ngenkathi imidlalo yevidiyo nayo igcwala ubuchopho nge-dopamine, kusobala ukuthi okuqukethwe kwezocansi kusebenze ezinye izici zemijikelezo yomvuzo wobuchopho. Njengoba izingane zivuthwa, izimpawu zokukhiqiza ngokocansi zibonisa ukuthokozisa komdlalo wevidiyo.
Izinguquko zobuchopho ezilandela ukukhuthazwa okuphindaphindiwe zingaba nemiphumela emangazayo. Izinsizwa zibika ukuthi izinkanuko zazo zocansi kwesinye isikhathi ziyahlangana ngendlela engalindelekile, nokuthi ziye zingasabeli kakhulu ekudlaleni ngothando okujwayelekile. Impela, ingxenye yobuchopho babo isafuna isithandwa esingenza naye izinto ezijwayelekile, ezivuzayo zentsha. Enye ingxenye ifuna ukububula kwenkanyezi yezocansi isifiso sokuzenzela, ubuchopho babo obusondeza nokusizakala okudlulayo.
Kusukela ngaqala ukuhlanganyela amadoda ahlangene athola phakathi kokusetshenziswa okukhulu kwe-intanethi ye-Internet nezimpawu ezifana ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile futhi ukukhathazeka komphakathi, Bengilokhu ngizwa kubafana abancane nabancane abalwa nalezi zimpawu. (Njengecala, abasebenzisi abakwaziyo ukugwema ukukhuthazeka okweqile ababonakali bebika izinkinga ezingajwayelekile zokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile.) Nasi isampula:
Ngithemba ukuthi ngizolulama futhi ngivuswe ngokwengeziwe ngamantombazane. Kade ngihlanya ngicabanga ukuthi impilo yami yocansi isiphelile. Ngineminyaka engu-15 futhi bengilokhu ngishaya indlwabu kusukela ngineminyaka engu-12. Kwaqala njengamavidiyo alula nje kodwa manje sengingena ezintweni ezeqisa kakhulu. … Ungangichazela ngezinyathelo eziyisisekelo engidinga ukuzithatha ukuze ngiphinde ngilulame? … Kufanele ngibuze lokhu ukuze ingqondo yami ikwazi ukuphumula futhi ngizizwe nginokuzethemba. Ingabe kukhona umonakalo ongapheli owenziwe kimi? Uma ngiyeka ngempumelelo i-porn ingabe isitho sami sizohlala lapho ngiya ocansini ngokuzayo? Noma ngizoba nezinkinga ze-ED?
Isayensi ayiphenye noma iqinisekise izimpendulo zemibuzo yakhe. Okokuqala, ubani ongathola izintombazane ezingcolile zobudala obufanele bokuhlola? Okwesibili, ngubani ofuna ngamabomu ukuveza izingane ukuba ziphakanyiswe, amavidiyo angamahlaya ukuze abone okwenzekayo ebuchosini bawo, noma ukuthi lishintsha kanjani impendulo yabo ngokocansi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi?
Sekuyisikhathi eside kwaziwa ukuthi ukweqisa umjikelezo womvuzo wobuchopho ngezidakamizwa kungadala ukufisa kokuningi. Manje, ucwaningo lwembula ukuthi izinto ezingezona izidakamizwa, izinto "zemvelo", njengokudla okungenamsoco, zingaguqula ibhalansi ye-neurochemical yale ngxenye yobuchopho njengezidakamizwa—impendulo enzima ezintweni ezivamile. Izimpawu abasebenzisi be-porn abasindayo babika ukuthi ubuchopho babo babhekene nalezi zinguquko. (Kancane kancane, zombili izithombe ezingcolile izingozi futhi izinzuzo kusukela ekushiyeni ngemuva kuyacaca.)
Uma umfana ebuka amavidiyo angcolile kusukela ebusheni, noma ngaphambili, wayeyokwazi kanjani ukuthi ukungahambi kwakhe (impendulo) kumakhasimende amnandi, ukuthanda kwakhe kinky, noma ukuthanda kwakhe ukushaya indlwabu kungokwemvelo kuye? Akanayo lutho okufanele aluqhathanise nakho. Isazi sezocansi uJakob Pastötter unikeza isibonelo sokuthi umbono wezinhlobo zobulili ezingcolile:
Ngenkathi uKinsey enza izifundo zakhe ngeminyaka yama-40s, ngisho nabesilisa abayizitabane babenza ucansi lwendunu njalo. Izinguquko zokuqala zenzeka ngeminyaka yama-70s endaweni yezitabane bese kuthi, ikakhulukazi ngaphansi kwethonya lalokho okubizwa ngokuthi yi-gonzo izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, nasemibuthanweni yobungqingili. Ngokungazelelwe, kubonakala sengathi ucansi lwendunu seluwumkhuba ovamile. Futhi ngokufanelekile, abeluleki bezocansi babika ukuthi kungekudala kakhulu abafana bokuqala babuza, “Ngingayincenga kanjani intombi yami ukuba iye ocansini lwangemuva?” Ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa kwafika amantombazane okuqala, “Ngingalinqanda kanjani isoka lami kwezocansi lwangasese?” Manje, amantombazane eza abuze abeluleki bezocansi, "Yimaphi amaphilisi engingawaphuza ukuvimbela ukuthi kubuhlungu njengesihogo?" Konke lokhu esikhathini esiyiminyaka eyishumi nanhlanu kuphela, okwaqala lapho kwenziwa ucansi lwendunu ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile njengokuhluka kocansi okuvamile, maphakathi nawo-90s cishe.
Namuhla, akusizwakala ukuthi izingane eziqondile zixhunyiwe izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili, autoerotic ukuphefumula, ukugqilazwa noma ukudlwengulwa kobudlova. Kungaba ukukhathazeka kakhulu ukuba babe nokuphazamiseka / ama-orgasms kuzinto eziphikisana nesithombe sabo.
Yini okufanele yenziwe ngumzali?
Ngabe ingane yakho ingaxoxa nawe ngokukhula kwayo kocansi noma izimpawu eziphazamisayo? Futhi uma enza kanjalo, uzokwazi yini ukuchaza ukuthi kungani i-porn yanamuhla iyingozi kune-erotica yesikhathi esedlule? Unganikeza iseluleko esisebenzayo mayelana nokuphatha isifiso sobulili nokushaya indlwabu? Iningi labazali liwela iminwe yabo, lizikhumbuze ukuthi basindile ekuhlangabezaneni nakho Playboy, futhi nethemba lokuthi izingane zabo zizozibheka izinto.
Noma kunjalo i-porn yanamuhla ayifani Playboy. Kuyividiyo, ngakho-ke umsebenzisi angazicabangela nje yena uqobo endimeni ethile. Kuhlala kuyinoveli, futhi akukho mkhawulo wokuthi kungabukwa malini. Ngisho nangemva komvuthwandaba umsebenzisi angaqhubeka ngokuchofoza kokunye okushaqisayo. Inkinga akuyona ukushaya indlwabu noma ukuthi okuqukethwe “kuhle” noma “kubi.” Inkinga yimiphumela yokugqugquzela ngokweqile i-inthanethi ebuchosheni.
Ngenxa yokuthi a i-search-engine fluke, mina nomyeni wami silalele izinkinga zokubuyisela abasebenzisi be-porn iminyaka engaba ngu-5. Abaningi babo baneminyaka engamashumi amabili noma encane, futhi bavame ukwesaba ukuqina kwezimpawu zabo ezingafuneki. Babonga ngezincazelo ezicacile zendlela ubuchopho babo abathintekile ngayo nendlela yokubuyisela ukuphendula okujwayelekile. (Ukuze uthole okuningi, vakashela Ubunono bakho ku-Porn.)
Kunzima ukwazi ukuthi ungatshela izingane ukuthi zizisize ziqondise ibhalansi endaweni yanamuhla yokuqhakambisa. Kodwa-ke, ngokuya ngezindaba ebesizizwa, Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso. Noma ngabe uzithola ziwusizo noma cha, thola indlela yokuxoxa ngezocansi zanamuhla nengane yakho.
1. Gwema ukusongela nokuhlambalaza. Imisebenzi enobungozi idedela i-adrenaline ne-dopamine eyengeziwe ebuchosheni, ngakho-ke kuyindida ukuthi ibonwa "njengeyigugu" kakhulu. (Imijikelezo yokuqala yomvuzo wobuchopho ihlola inani elincike emakhemikhali e-neurochemicals akhishwe maqondana nomsebenzi othile.) Izinsongo zokujeziswa esikhathini esizayo kanye nezexwayiso mayelana "nesono" ngakho-ke zandisa amandla we-porn wokweqa ubuchopho, okwenza ukubheja okulandelayo kube namathuba amaningi. Khumbula ukuthi umuntu odonswa ezithombeni ezinhle wenza nje lokho ubuchopho bakhe obuguquke ukukwenza: efuna ukukhiqiza kabusha. Okubi lapho umsebenzisi ezwa ngokuziphatha kwakhe, maningi amathuba okuthi afune ukulibala okwesikhashana, kobuchopho-kwamakhemikhali ukunqanda ukukhathazeka.
I-2. Ukushaya indlwabu akuyona imithi enhle yomzwelo. Ngenxa yokuthi ukuphefumula kunika ukukhululeka okwesikhashana ekukhathazeni, ukungabi nokugxila nokulala, kubonakala sengathi kuyindlela yokwelapha. Izingane zingangena kalula kumkhuba wokushaya indlwabu ukulawula imizwa. Ngeshwa, umvuthwandaba ovame kakhulu kunakho yenza izingxabano zibi nakakhulu phezu kwezinsuku ezilandelayo. Izingane zidinga ezinye izindlela zokulawula isimo sengqondo. Ukuzivocavoca okunamandla, ukuxhumana nobungane nabanye, ukuxhumana okuthembekile, isikhathi sokwemvelo, ukuthinta / ukuthinteka othandekayo, ukwenza okuthile okudala, ukucula, isikhathi sokudla nezilwane ezifuywayo, ukuzindla kanye nokusebenza kwabanye kuboniswe konke ukusiza ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka kanye / noma ukulawula isimo sengqondo- mhlawumbe ngoba zithuthukisa ukulinganisa ubuchopho. (Omunye ubaba wasiza ingane yakhe enomdlavuza ngokumfundisa indlela yasendulo ukuphinde unike amandla amandla ezocansi lapho kuvela izikhalazo.)
3. Qonda inkinga yokukhula. Veza ukuthi ubuchopho bethu ngokuvamile bulinganiselwe izitho zangasese ukuze zithole amazinga ajwayelekile okugqugquzela nokuvuka. Lapho sesithuthela emikhawulweni emisha yokukhuthaza (amathoyizi anamuhla we-super-porn noma amathoyizi ocansi), sizibeka engcupheni yokwenza ubuchopho bethu bube nokuzwela okwesikhashana ezintweni ezicashile, ezejwayelekile. I-porn ye-Intanethi ingaba yindlela esheshayo yokuphuma, kepha izithombe ezingcolile ezishisayo azizanelisi kangcono izidingo zabasebenzisi bezocansi. Kuvame ukubabilisa. Lokhu kungenza ukugcwaliseka kwesikhathi esizayo kube nzima ukukufeza, okuholele ezintweni ezishaqisayo noma ekuvuseleleni ngamandla.
4. Thola ibhalansi. Chaza ukuthi isifiso sokushaya indlwabu kuyinto ejwayelekile. Kuvela ngokuyinhloko ekulangazelelekeni kofuzo kokuxhumeka okutholile nomunye. Lapho nje izingane ziqonda ukuthi ukukhuthazeka okukhulu kakhulu kungenza lesi sifiso esingokwemvelo sifuneke ngokwengeziwe, zingazama izindlela zokunciphisa ukukhula. Kuyindida ukuthi bangathola ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu okungandile kusebenza kahle kakhulu. Lo mqondo ungabonakala ungathandeki namuhla, kepha kungenzeka umzingeli wethu-oqoqayo okhokho bahlambalaze kakhulu Ngaphansi ukwedlula thina, futhi empeleni besingama-horny amancane. Akudingeki babhekane nokwanda okwenziwe namuhla okwenziwe ngokwenziwe. Ukusebenzela uhlelo abalukhethile, yize lungaphelele, futhi kukhulisa ukuzithiba kwezingane — ikhono lokuphila eliwusizo.
I-5. Namathela emthonjeni wemvelo. Ngokuhambisana nesiphakamiso esithi "okuncane kungaba ngaphezulu", tshela izingane ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu kususelwa emicabangweni yabo yabantu abangashada nabo kanye nokuhlangana ngokoqobo ngokocansi ngeke kube yinkinga. Uma ukucabanga kungabenzi bafinyelele kuvuthondaba, mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi ubuchopho babo abubuyelanga ekuzweleni okugcwele kusukela kuvuthondaba lwabo lwangaphambilini. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kungcono ukulinda kunokuvula izithombe ezingcolile zanamuhla (noma ukubuyela emuva kwe-porn) ukuze wenze umsebenzi.
I-6. Izithombe ezingcolile ziyiqiniso. Ngokudabukisayo, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zanamuhla zivame ukwenza izingane zabesilisa ezingewona ama-alpha zingabaze ukufiseleka kwazo esikhathini esizayo ngoba nje zingaziboni zisendimeni ehola phambili. Veza ukuthi ukwaneliseka komlingani akuxhomekile ekwakhiweni okukhulu, okungaxegi noma kwezinye izici zenkanyezi yezocansi. Futhi injabulo yomuntu ayincikile esithweni sangasese esingenaboya, ezenzweni ezingezona ezejwayelekile zocansi, noma ezimilisweni zamabele zomlingani wakhe. Chaza ukuthi abalingisi bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile bakhokhelwa abasubathi bezocansi abagxile ekwenzeni imicabango yokuvusa amadlingozi okukhulu - hhayi ekukhiqizeni imizwa efudumele yokwaneliseka okuhlala njalo noma injabulo nje. Dweba isithombe somqondo wengane yakho ngocansi olwanelisayo.
Izingane ngokuvamile zibona izithombe zabo zobulili ezingcolile zokuqala ze-Internet ezineminyaka eyishumi nanye, noma ezincane kulezi zinsuku. Uma ungakwazi ukucabanga ngendlela enhle yokuvula ingxoxo ye-porn nengane yakho, ungase ufune ukubuka ezinye zazo amavidiyo wamahhala emithonjeni ehlukahlukene. Ungenza futhi kube nzima ukuthi i-porn ibe umkhuba ngokuvikela amakhompyutha wakho wasekhaya (kanye nomakhalekhukhwini wengane yakho) nayo khulula porn blockers.
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ubuhlobo bomzali obuqinile, obusekelayo ingavikela izingane ngokuziphatha okuyingozi, ngisho nakwabo abahlukunyezwa ngokofuzo. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ibuze imibuzo. Yamukela ukuthi ekugcineni uzodingeka enze izinqumo zakhe. Konke ongakwenza ukunikeza ulwazi oluqinile, ukwesekwa kwakho ngothando, nesibonelo esihle. Lokhu kungaba yilokho okumele ingane yakho ikwazi ukuqondisa khona ibhalansi yezocansi.
Selokhu sabhala lokhu okuthunyelwe sekuvele umkhuba ophazamisayo. Abafana abasebenzisa i-porn ye-Intanethi ngesikhathi sabo sobusha bavame ukudinga isikhathi eside ukubuyisa impilo yabo ye-erectile, bheka - Abasebenzisi Abancane be-porn badinga Isikhathi Eside Ukubuyisa I-Mojo Yabo.
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- Ukuxilongwa okusemthethweni? Umbhalo wezokwelapha wezokwelapha osetshenziswa kakhulu emhlabeni, I-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), iqukethe ukuxilongwa okusha efanelekile ukulutha izidakamizwa: "Ukucindezeleka Ngokuziphatha Ngokwemvelo. "(I-2018)
- Ukulutha kobulili / ucansi? Leli khasi libala Ucwaningo lwe-39 lwe-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikeza ukusekela okuqinile ngesimodeli sokulutha kwezidakamizwa njengoba iziphumo zabo zibuyisa ukutholakala kwezinzwa ezibikiwe ezifundweni zokulutha izidakamizwa.
- Imibono yangempela yezobuchwepheshe ekubhekaneni nocansi / ucansi? Lolu hlu luqukethe Ukubuyekezwa kwezincwadi ezingama-16 zakamuva nezincazelo ngezinye zezazi eziphezulu zezinzwa emhlabeni. Bonke basekela imodeli yokulutha.
- Izimpawu zokulutha umlutha nokukhula kwezinto ezimbi kakhulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokubika okutholakele okuhambisana nokwanda kokusetshenziswa kocansi (ukubekezelelana), ukujwayela i-porn, kanye nezimpawu zokuhoxa (zonke izimpawu nezimpawu ezihlobene nokulutha).
- Ukubheka iphuzu lokukhuluma elingasekelwa ukuthi "isifiso sobulili esiphakeme" sichaza ukulahla ucansi noma ukulutha ngokobulili: Okungenani izifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa isimangalo sokuthi ubulili nemilutha ye-porn "banesifiso esiphakeme sobulili"
- Izinkinga zobulili nezinkinga zobulili? Lolu hlu luqukethe izifundo ze-26 ezixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn / ukubheja kocansi ezinkingeni zobulili kanye nokuvusa okuncane ezenzweni zobulili. I fiziqu ze-5 ezingekho ohlwini zibonisa ibangela, njengoba abahlanganyeli beqede ukusetshenziswa kwezingcolile kanye nokuphulukisa okungavamile kocansi.
- Imiphumela yocansi ebuhlotsheni? Ucwaningo oluseduze lwe-60 luxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kuya ekungeneni kocansi nokuzaneliseka komndeni. (Njengoba sifana nathi konke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zabika ukusetshenziswa okuningi kocansi okuxhunyiwe abampofu ubulili noma ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano.)
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta impilo engokomzwelo nengqondo? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-55 zixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kocansi nezimpofu ezingokwengqondo-ezingokomzwelo nemiphumela empofu yokuqonda.
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta izinkolelo, isimo sengqondo nokuziphatha? Hlola izifundo ngabanye - ngaphezu kokuqukethwe kwe-25 ukuxilongwa kwe-porn ukuze "isimo sengqondo esingafani" kubesifazane kanye nokubukwa kobulili - noma isifinyeto kusuka kulolu cwaningo lwe-2016 meta: Imidiya nezocansi: Umbuso woPhando lwezobuciko, i-1995-2015. Umbhalo:
Umgomo walokhu kubuyekezwa kwakungenxa yokwenza umsebenzi wokuhlola uphenyo wemiphumela yokuhlolisisa imidiya. Okugxile ekucwaningweni okushicilelwe ezincwadini zamaphephandaba ezibukezwa kontanga, phakathi kwe-1995 ne-2015. Isamba sezincwadi ze-109 eziqukethe izifundo ze-135 zibuyekezwe. Ukutholakala kwahlinzeka ngokufakazela okuphelele ukuthi kokubili ukuvezwa kwelabhoratri kanye nokwehliswa kwansuku zonke, okuqukethwe kwansuku zonke kulokhu okuqukethwe kuhambisana ngqo nemiphumela eminingi, kufaka phakathi amazinga aphezulu okunganeliseki komzimba, ukuzethemba okukhulu, ukwesekwa okukhulu kwezinkolelo zobulili kanye nezinkolelo zobulili ezingathandeki, futhi ukubekezelela okukhulu kobudlova ngokocansi kubesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuvezwa kokuhlolwa kwalokhu okuqukethwe kuholela kokubili abesifazane nabesilisa ukuba babe nombono owehlisiwe wokufaneleka kwamakhosikazi, ukuziphatha nokubambisana kwabantu.
- Kuthiwani ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili nokusetshenziswa kocansi? Okunye ukuhlaziywa kwemeta: Ukuhlaziywa Kwemifanekiso Yezingcolile zobulili kanye Nemisebenzi Yezenzo Zokuhlukunyezwa Ngokobulili Ezingxoxweni Ezivamile Zabantu (2015). Umbhalo:
Ucwaningo lwe-22 oluvela emazweni ahlukene we-7 luhlaziywe. Ukusetshenziswa kwakuhlotshaniswa nokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili e-United States nakwamanye amazwe, phakathi kwamadoda nabesilisa, nasemifundweni engezansi kanye neyesikhathi eside. Izinhlangano zaziqinisile kunomlomo ngaphezu kokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, nakuba zombili zazibalulekile. Iphethini elijwayelekile lemiphumela lisikisela ukuthi okuqukethwe okubudlova kungase kube yinto ekhudlwana.
- Kuthiwani ngokusetshenziswa kocansi kanye nentsha? Hlola lolu hlu lwaphezulu Ucwaningo lwezingane ze-200, noma lokhu kubuyekezwa kwe-2012 yocwaningo - Umthelela Wezithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Ze-Intanethi Kubantwana Abasha: Ukubukezwa kocwaningo (2012). Kusuka esiphelweni:
Ukwandiswa kwe-intanethi yizingane ezisencane kudala amathuba angakaze abe khona okufundiswa ngokocansi, ukufunda nokukhula. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingozi yokulimala ebonakalayo kulezi zincwadi iye yaholela abacwaningi ukuba baphenye ukuvezwa kwentsha ezithombeni ezingcolile ezenzweni zokuzama ukuhlukanisa lobu buhlobo. Ngokubambisana, lezi zifundo ziphakamisa ukuthi intsha edla izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ingahlakulela izinkolelo nezinkolelo ezingacabangi ngokocansi. Phakathi kokufundwayo, amazinga aphezulu wemicabango yokuziphatha ngokocansi, ukukhathazeka ngokocansi, nokuhlolwa kwangaphambili kobulili kuhlotshaniswa nokusetshenziswa kaningi kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile .... Noma kunjalo, ukutholakala okuqhubekayo kuye kwavela ukuxhumana kokusetshenziswa kwentsha yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezisemuva ezibonisa ubudlova ngezinga eliphakeme lokuziphatha kocansi. Lezi zincwadi zibonisa ukuthi kukhona ukuhlangana phakathi kokusetshenziswa kwentsha engcolile nokuzicabangela. Amantombazane abika azizwe engaphansi kwabesifazane abakubukayo ezintweni ezingcolile zobulili, kuyilapho abafana besaba ukuthi ngeke babe njengabantu abafana nalabo abakhona kulezi zindaba. Intsha iyabika ukuthi ukusebenzisa kwabo izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kunciphile njengoba ukuzethemba kwabo nentuthuko yezenhlalakahle kwanda. Ukwengeza, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi intsha esebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ikakhulukazi etholakala kuyi-intanethi, inezilinganiso eziphansi zokuhlanganiswa komphakathi, ukwanda kwezinkinga zokuziphatha, amazinga aphezulu okuziphatha okuhlukumezayo, izimo eziphakeme zezibonakaliso zokucindezeleka, futhi ukunciphisa ukuhlanganiswa ngokomzwelo nabanakekeli.
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