Ukulahlekelwa ku-Porn Roulette (i-2010)

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I-porn, ikakhulukazi enobudlova ne-BDSM porn, yenzelwe abantu abadala, hhayi intsha. Lokhu kwaziswa kunobuchopho futhi kuqinile, futhi kudinga ukuvuthwa ukuze kuqondwe futhi kufakwe. Ngenkathi ngimelene nokucwaninga, ngicabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi kuqashelwe ukuthi lokhu kuvezwa kungadida futhi kubuye kube nzima, lapho kubukwa yintsha engayitholanga imfundo yokufundisa ngocansi ephumelelayo nephambukayo. ~ UDavid Ley PhD (ukuxhumana kwangasese - uLey unenhlonipho yokulutha i-porn kanye ne-anti-porn, kepha usexwayisa ngemiphumela ye-porn yanamuhla ezinganeni.)

Kwabaningi abasebenzisi be-porn, bathanda ukushintsha-ngokujwayelekile kukhula kuze kube yilapho kunzima kakhulu. Ngetulu kwaloko, kushisa lomuntfu lomuntfu lococekako, kucala kakhulu kutsi utawutfola lokungakatsandzi ngisho nangesikhatsi lesidze. Ubufakazi be-anecdot also bukhombisa ukuthi i ekuqaleni umuntu uqala ukubuka izinto ezeqisayo, ukukhuphuka kokukhula nokuqina kokucindezelwa. Lokhu kungenzeka kokugcina kuyaphazamisa, ngoba abasebenzisi abasha bamakhompiyutha banamuhla baqala nge-porn ecace bha kune Playboy omagazini. Njengoba bejwayele ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili, abanye abasebenzisi bathola i-kinkier, enobudlova obuningi, izinto ezinengi eziphoqelela ukubonga isimo se-dopamine.

Ehlangothini elihlangene, ukuhlala kude nayo yonke i-porn ne-fantasy ye-porn ihamba kancane kancane nalezi zindlela. Kodwa ukuvuselela ubuchopho kuthatha isikhathi namandla okungajwayeleki. Ukuphindaphinda kubambelela ngokumema, futhi kuqinisa izindlela ezingathandeki zobuchopho. Iningi labasebenzisi abenza kuphela iqhawe lobuqhawe lokuvuselela kabusha lapho bebona ukuthi banenkinga e-erectile nabalingani bangempela, noma uma bekhula bengakhathazeki ngokungakhathazeki ngokuthi ukufuna kwabo okungahleliwe kuvuke kanjani. Nokho, ngaleso sikhathi, ukukhathazeka kwabo ngokwayo kungabangela ukukhululeka okukhulu. Isibonelo esihle salesi senzakalo yi-HOCD (ukungezwani kobulili obunzima-okucindezelayo): abesilisa abaqondile ivuliwe ngobulili obungcolile noma obungqingili. (Kodwa kunezinye izindawo ezingenzeka, ezicindezelayo, ezifana nezingane ezingcolile.)

Indaba elandelayo, elandiswa ngumuntu oneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala, ingomunye wama-akhawunti afana nawo angama-12 afinyelele ngonyaka odlule (lokhu okuthunyelwe kunalokho kunomhla):

Abangani bami bonke babekhuluma ngezocansi ze-Intanethi kanye nama-movie amahle kakhulu e-inthanethi. Ngakho-ke ngalo kanye usuku engathola ngalo i-Intanethi ngaya ezingosini ze-porn. Ngemuva kwesikhashana, i-porn ejwayelekile yayingavulwanga ngempela, ngakho-ke ngadlulela kwezocansi ezingabobulili obufanayo, ezazivusa ngokukhethekile. (Wow abesifazane Ababili abalala ocansini?)

Kwadlula iminyaka, kwathi ngolunye usuku ngisafuna izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngathola isikhangiso se-porn shemale. Angikwazi ukuchaza ngempela ukuthi kwenzekeni. Angikaze ngikhangwe kuyo ngaphambili empilweni yami, kepha, kungazelelwe, umbono wowesifazane onepipi wabonakala ... uthakazelisa? Angazi noma lelo yigama elifanele yini.

Okuthile kuvele kwangifenda ekhanda lami, ngathi "kuphakeme" okusha. Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobungqingili manje zibonakala zijwayelekile. Ngangibona ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle, ngoba njengoba ngangishaya indlwabu, empeleni ngangizizwa ngigula emzimbeni. Bengicabanga ukuthi, "Lokhu AKUZWA kahle, kepha kuyangivusa. Kungani? ”

Nganquma ukuyeka. Ngemuva kwesonto lokungashayi indlwabu (KAKHULU kanzima kulo mfana oneminyaka engu-15), ngabuyela ku-porn ejwayelekile. Ukukhanga kwami ​​kwabesifazane nama-vaginas kwakukuhle, futhi kuvusa futhi. Kepha ngibe sengiqala ukubheka i- "Futanari," ubuciko besifazane abanepipi nesitho sangasese sowesifazane. Lokhu bekungokunye “ukubhuza” kimi. Ngabe sengibuyela ezithombeni ezingcolile zobulili.

Le minyaka engu-4-5 edlule ibidideka kakhulu. Ngokomphakathi, ngikhangwa abesifazane futhi anginakho ukuheha amadoda. Kucishe kube sengathi lapho NGIYESABA kakhulu izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezingcolile ezingivusa, kuyanda ngokwengeziwe, uma lokho kunengqondo.

Ngangicabanga ukuthi ngingaba nobungqingili okwesikhashana. Ngivivinye lo mbono ngenkathi ngisebusuku. Ngagcina ngijola nentombazane, futhi ngabuka abanye besifazane ngicabanga, "Leyontombazane ibivele yangibuka, kuhle!" nokungawanaki ngokuphelele amadoda. Angizizwa “ngithanda abesilisa nabesifazane enhliziyweni yami. Ukube benginemizwa efanayo yothando enginayo ngabesifazane, kwabesilisa, bengizoba bi / gay ekushayeni kwenhliziyo, kepha ezothando, "imvelo," azikho nje.

Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kokushaya indlwabu ocansini lwe-shemale, ngikhathazeka ngokuthi ngingaba gay / abesilisa nabesifazane. Kuyaxaka. 'Ngoba noma nini lapho sengizokhipha i-ejaculate, ngokushesha ngicabanga ngowesifazane nowesifazane. Bengihlale ngikwenza lokhu, noma ngibuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Ngihlale ngizicabanga ngilala nowesifazane omuhle. Ngaphakathi enhliziyweni ngiyazi ukuthi ngingumuntu oqondile. Empilweni yangempela angikwazi ukukhuluma namantombazane. Ngikhangwa nje yibo.

Ukulutha komzimba wami okwedlule kwaqhubeka, lapho ngangiyihlaziya khona izikhathi ezingu-4-5 ngosuku, ngingenamandla futhi ngingaphumi. Ngangihlala ekhaya nginecala lokushaya indlwabu esikhundleni sokuya ekolishi. Khona-ke, maduzane, ngashaqeka lapho ngithola indoda evulekile ifilimu ye-porn movie. Lokhu kwakungumzila wokugcina kimi, futhi ngaqala ukubona ukuthi empeleni nginomlutha ophuthumayo.

Lesi yisigaba engikuso manje, ngididekile ngoba, ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa zokungashayi indlwabu, ngivuswa intombazane eqondile, eyedwa kanye nezocansi ezingqingili. Kodwa nge-porn shemale ngiyakwazi ukuzilolonga isikhathi eside. Ngishaye indlwabu njengezikhathi ze-9-11 ngosuku olulodwa, noma ngabe i-porn ithola "i-taboo" ne-and naughty ngokwengeziwe kimi, lapho ngiya khona ukushaya indlwabu ngokwengeziwe. Iphethini elijwayelekile lizoba ama-1-3 amavidiyo aqondile, ama-4-6 shemale, isikhathi se-7-9th lapho bezobuswa ngongqingili / mina. Kuyadida impela.

Muva nje, ngihambe nomndeni wami ngezinsuku ze-3-4 futhi ngisuke kude nekhompyutha ne-inthanethi. Angikaze ngizicabange ngezocansi ezingcolile. Ngikhumbula ngidabula ogwini ngicabanga ukuthi bekuyoba uthando ngempela uma nginentombazane enginaye. Ngabe ngangihleka, ngikhumbula indlela engangididekile ngayo ngisho noma imicabango yothando ekhanda lami ihlale iphathelene nabesifazane. Lapho ngiphindela ekhaya nginomuntu oshaya indlwabu ukuze ngithole izithombe ezingcolile ezinsukwini ezimbalwa. Khona-ke, emuva kwezingcansi ze-shemale.

Ngibheja ukuthi ngabe ngazalwa eminyakeni eyi-10 ngaphambili, futhi angikaze ngisibone leso sikhangiso sokuqala se-shemale, lokhu bekungeke kwenzeke, kepha hheyi, ngeke kushintshe okwedlule. Ngizozama kanzima ukushintsha ikusasa lami!

Ukulutha ngokwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kungashintsha ukuthandwa kobuliliNgicabanga ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze le nkinga izothola ukunakwa okwandayo njengoba isizukulwane esilandelayo-esizalwe sine-inthanethi nakho konke lokho kwe-porn okutholakala ngokuchofoza nje kwegundane-sizohlupheka kakhulu kunami. Ngicabanga ukuthi lapho sengikudlulisile lokhu, ngizonikela ngemali enhlanganweni elwa nezocansi, engizothembeka, ngaphambi kokuthi ngicabange ukuthi kwakuyiqembu labantu ababulawa.

Ngokuyisisekelo ngiseyintombi nto ngenxa yalokhu kulutha kabi. Ngibe nentombi amasonto ambalwa. Ngabona ukuthi ngangishaya indlwabu neze futhi ngicabanga ngaye esikhundleni salokho. Isihogo, ngangijabule kakhulu ngaze ngakwazi ukuthola ukwakheka ngama-jean aqinile angithengela wona (usayizi ongafanele). Kwakungathi bazokwenza amabhola ami aqhume. Ha ha! Ngifuna ukuthola intombi emangalisayo futhi ngibe nesikhathi esihle kakhulu naye. Angifuni ukuhlala ekamelweni lami lokulala ukushaya indlwabu ezingcolile zobulili impilo yami yonke.

Ingxenye yobuchopho elawula ubulili nokudla iyisidala kangangokuba ihlola inani lomsebenzi ngokuya ngokuthi ikhipha i-dopamine engakanani. Lapho umsebenzisi ethola okuthile okumangazayo, ubuchopho bakhe bakudala (limbic) buthatha ukuthi kunokuthile okubalulekile okuzungezile, futhi kumnxusa ukuthi ukuyixhaphaza ngokugcwele.

Ngeshwa, kungenza kanjalo ngokunqamula okwesikhashana impendulo yakhe yobumnandi ngakho-ke uya kuphela ekuqhumeni okukhulu kunokujwayelekile kwe-dopamine, okungukuthi, okwethusayo kakhulu noma okukhuthaza inoveli. Ngokungafani nokhokho bethu, abasebenzisi be-porn banamuhla bangakwazi njalo thola okuthile okunye okubuchopho.

I-Porn roulette ingaholela ezindaweni ezingadingeki, kodwa inkinga akuyona okuqukethwe okuqondile. Inkinga ikhona ku ukuqina kokuqothula kokuqala-Ngokwesimo salomfana, i-porn eqondile. Yilapho kuqala khona ukulangazelela okuthile okuqinile. Qaphela ukuthi ukuthanda kwakhe kuyashintsha emuva noma nini lapho eyeka ukusebenzisa i-Internet ye-porn. Ukubuyiselwa kungasho ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambili ku-orgasm okwesikhashana, ngoba nje ubuchopho bakhe bungase bungazweli ngokwanele ekuqaleni kwe-orgasm ngaphandle kwe-porn noma i-fantasy engcolile. Kuyadabukisa esikweni lanamuhla.

Abasebenzisi bacabanga ngezithombe zocansi "ezihamba phambili" njengezocansi ezibasusa ngokushesha kakhulu noma ngokuqhuma okukhulu, kepha lokho kungaba i-porn eyingozi kakhulu. Akubona bonke ubuchopho obuzothinteka ngokulinganayo, kunjalo. Kodwa-ke i-superstimuli ingenza kube nokwenzeka kakhulu ukuthi okuthandwa ngumsebenzisi kuzolunga ezinkomba ezingalindelekile nezikhiqiza ukukhathazeka.

I-Southpark i-addict pornUbuchopho obuncane bupulasitiki kakhulu, kepha noma kunjalo, okuthunyelwe kwale nsizwa okulandelayo kukhombisa ukuthi inenkinga enkulu, hhayi ngempumelelo ngokuphelele, ukuhlala kude ne-porn. Endabeni yakhe, ukudideka kwakhe ngokuthanda kwakhe kuxhumene kakhulu ebuchosheni bakhe nokuvuka, ngokusobala okwenza ukukhathazeka kube yingxenye yesiko eliphoqelekile. Ngenhlanhla, kukhona kakhulu isithangami esisebenzayo abantu abacindezelekile abanjwe ngale ndlela yokuphoqeleka ukukhathazeka.

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Ngifuna ukukubonga ngendaba yakho, Ukulahlekelwa Nge-Porn Roulette.

Cishe igama negama, ngidlule entweni efana ncamashi nezinsizwa ezikulesi sihloko sakho, futhi ukufunda amagama akho bekufana nokuphakamisa imaski yobuso bomunye umuntu isuke kimi. Ngisanda kuqala kusenesikhathi nge-Intanethi, angikaze ngibe nethuba lokwenza ubuwena: kunalokho, ngabelwa eyodwa yi-dopamine eyehlela phansi ehlanganiswe nokufinyelela kwe-Intanethi okungenamkhawulo.

Ngiyazi ukuthi angiyena lowo muntu, futhi ngididekile ngokuba nezimpawu ezifanayo nezabesilisa abakulesi sihloko sakho; Ngiye ngazigodla ekwakheni ubudlelwano bothando ngenxa yalokhu. Kukhona into enamandla kakhulu ngokubona imicabango yami ngqo, izimpawu nokukhathazeka kwami, ngokombono womuntu esikanye naye.

Awazi ukuthi ungisize kangakanani. Ngibonga kakhulu.

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Izinto ezimbi zenzeke kimi futhi. Kwaphela isikhathi esithile ngacabanga ukuthi ngingase ngisheshe ngibe ngumlingani / i-bi noma into. Enhliziyweni yami ngiyazi ukuthi ngithandwa kakhulu kumantombazane. uma ngihamba ngaphandle kwezingcolile, ngidinga kakhulu, noma ngifuna ngempela. Uma ngiya emasontweni e-3 inyanga, ngiyakwazi kalula ukushaya indlwabu kanye noma kabili ezithombeni zamantombazane abunu. emva kwalokho ngibuyela kuma-movie angama-hardcore, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngigcina ngiya emakhanda futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngiya ocansini.