Kulesi sihloko sebhulogi lezivakashi u-fmitsui uthi njengoba abaphuphi abaningi bekuthola kunzima ukuphila ngokocansi empilweni yangempela, bagcina bekuhlola ngemicabango nakwezocansi kunalokho. Okuxakayo ukuthi u-fmitsui uthi, lokhu kungaholela ekuluthekeni okubavimba ekutholeni ubudlelwano bempilo yangempela ababulangazelelayo.
Okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi yezivakashi nge-fmitsui
Ngicabanga ukuthi ngikhubazekile ngithole okuthile kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami okungasiza abantu abaningi. Angikwazi ukuhlinzeka nganoma yikuphi ukuqonda okuvelayo ekuphupheni ngokweqile, kepha ngenze ukuxhumana okuthile ekuguqukeni kwe-neuroscience nokulutha kwezocansi engicabanga ukuthi kwenza kube nzima kwabaningi bethu.
Okokuqala mangisho ukuthi angikholwa ukuthi i-porn ibanga ukuphupha, noma ukuthi ukuphupha ngokweqile 'kungaphulukiswa'. Futhi lokhu akuyona into exolisayo ngombono 'wokwahlukanisa'.
Imibuzo yokuhlola
Lokho kusho, unakho:
- Ukuhlangenwe nakho okungaqondakali kancane kancane noma ngisho nokuziphendukela kwemvelo ekuphileni kwakho?
- Noma ingabe uhlangabezana nezinye izinkinga zobulili noma zobudlelwane ongase uzibonele ekuhambeni okungazange kube khona njalo?
- Ingabe uye wasebenzisa kakhulu i-intanethi / izinto ezibonakalayo nge-intanethi ngokusebenzisa ubusha bakho futhi ube nobuhlobo obalulekile obuphathelene nobulili namuhla?
Uma ngabe yikuphi kwalokhu okuyiqiniso futhi ungumsebenzisi ovamile we-porn noma i-TG material okudingeka ufunde lokhu.
Ingqondo idinga
Abadluli phambili kumele basebenzise umcabango ukufeza ubulili babo. Abaningi abahamba phambili bajabulela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezivamile kanye nobuciko obuhle be-TG nokuzijabulisa ukuhlola ukuhamba phambili. Amazwibela, amahlaya, i-youtube, izindaba ect .. futhi uchithe isikhathi nsuku zonke ukwenza kanjalo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi abahlukunyezwayo balwisana nokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka kokudlulela, nokuphila ngokuvamile, ngokucwiliswa nokuphunyuka kule ndaba.
Abaningi abahamba phambili baphumelela ngesikhathi sokucabanga ngendlela ebonakalayo njengendlela ebonakalayo yokwanelisa umfutho we-crossdream. Lokhu bekuyindaba yami siqu kanye nolwazi lwami siqu futhi ngaphezu kwalokho kusukela ukuhamba kwami komzimba kuboniswa ngemoto ye-libido yesilisa elambile futhi esengozini yokulutha.
Ukulutha komlutha
Konke lokhu kubonakala kungenabungozi futhi kunempilo kuze kube yilapho ulinganisa nokuqonda okukhulayo ukuthi ukulwa nokulahla kobulili ezingcolile kukhona futhi kubangelwa ukuxilonga ubuchopho bethu ngobuningi obungapheli, ubuhle, nenjabulo.
I-PMO yansuku zonke (i-porn masterbation ne-orgasm) ngaphezulu kwezinto ezibonakalayo zivame ukuvumelanisa uhlelo lwembumbulu nezinto eziphathekayo futhi ngaphandle kokuhanjiswa ubuhlobo bangempela nabantu. Ayikho ubudlelwane bangempela abangakwazi ukuncintisana nesikhukhula sokwemvelo nokuthakazelisa okungahle kwenzeke ukuthi i-intanethi ingasondla manje njenge-firehouse, futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili noma ukuma.
Ukuvumelanisa ubuchopho bethu kumaphuzu okuziqhenya kungonakalisa ikhono lethu lokugcina ubudlelwane bangempela futhi buyibeke ngamaphikseli.
Umphumela wokulutha kabi kocansi kungaba ukuhluleka ukufaniswa ngokocansi ngaphandle kokungabonakali, ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile, ukukhula kakhudlwana kwe-fetish ekhona, ukucindezeleka, ukungakwazi ukugxila, ukudideka mayelana nokuzibandakanya kwezocansi, ukwehlisa amandla, futhi ngisho nokuthengwa kwamathambo amasha.
Ubuchopho eplastiki
Isayensi eguqukayo ngemuva kwalokhu nokuthi yini okumelwe uyenze mayelana nayo ichazwe kahle kule sayithi: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com.
Izinguquko ebuchosheni bethu ngale nqubo zingokoqobo futhi ziyenzeka ngokomzimba, kepha zingaguqulwa. Uma noma ngubani ofunda lokhu engahlobana nengxenye yalokhu okubhalwe lapha kufanele uye kuleyo sayithi bese ufunda ngesayensi ngemuva kokulutha kwezocansi nokuthi yini ongayenza ukubuyisa ubuchopho bakho futhi ukwenze kwamukele ubudlelwano bangempela - kucatshangwa ukuthi ukuthi ufunani empilweni yakho.
Ngazitshela ukuthi izinkinga zami zobulili zihamba iminyaka eminingi ngenkathi ngishaya indiva ukuxilongwa kwami kwe-porn. Lokho engikufunda kabusha ukuthi ukudinga ukungahambisani nokungahambisani nobuhlobo engikudingayo futhi engikufunayo empilweni yami.
Angikwazi ukuba ukuphela komuntu ohamba phambili abe yinkinga enkulu ngokusebenzisa ukuxilonga ubuchopho bami nge-PMO. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lokhu kuyithola nakwabanye futhi kuyabasiza.
Lokhu okuthunyelwe kwithunyelwe kuqala ku-Crossdream Life. Uzothola imibono ngaphezulu lapho.
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