Buza uDkt David Greenfield uma kunenkinga yezithombe zocansi eziku-inthanethi futhi uzokutshela ukuthi kukhona - kepha hhayi ngenxa yezizathu zokucabanga noma ngenxa yezimpikiswano eziphikisana nomkhakha wabadala ngesethi. Esikhundleni salokho, ngoba izithombe zocansi online - zitholakala, ngokungaziwa futhi mahhala, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, noma kuphi ngomakhalekhukhwini bethu - zinikeza uhlobo olusha lokulutha olungabangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi.
Izithombe zocansi kungenzeka zingabambeki emphefumulweni njenge-heroine - umlutha ungakhula iminyaka, kusho uGreenfield, umsunguli weCentre for Internet Technology Addiction, e-Connecticut, e-US - kodwa uma enza, angaba nomthelela omubi kakhulu empilweni yomsebenzisi , ukukhubazeka ubudlelwano ngenxa yokwenza ubuhlobo bezocansi ezweni langempela kube yinkinga, ngenxa yalokho okubizwa ngokuthi yi-PIED - ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile - ne-PIDE - ukujeziswa okwenziwe nge-porn. Kubambezelekile, okungukuthi, njengoba kungenzeki nhlobo. Bese kuba nezimpawu zezimpawu zokuhoxa, kufaka phakathi ukuthandwa ngokungalaleli, ukukhathazeka, ukuphathwa ikhanda nekhanda. Abanye abakwazi ukugxila emsebenzini wabo wokudonsa izithombe zocansi. Abanye bathi isivumelwano sonke kungukubhidliza isikhathi, njengokulinda umvuthwandaba.
Kwabanye kukhulunywa nje ngoba, phakathi kwezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, kusenengxoxo mpikiswano yokuthi ngabe umlutha wezocansi ukhona yini. Ngenkathi kube nezifundo ezithile ze-40 zokuthola ukushaya indlwabu okuphoqelekile zisebenzisa izithombe zocansi eminyakeni yamuva nje, iDSM, ibhayibheli lezengqondo, kusamele ibone ukuthi kunenkinga. Kodwa-ke impela kunobufakazi obuningi obungejwayelekile, ikakhulukazi kulabo 'abomdabu bedijithali' abake bazi ukufinyelela kwe-porn ngaso leso sikhathi; ubuchopho bakhe abancane, sekuphikiswana ngalo, ukuthambekela kokulutha kwe-dopamine hit okunikezwa yi-porn.
I-YouTube yenze izinkanyezi ezivumayo ngokuthandwa kweNowa Church, umbhali we-'Wack: Wumlutha we-Internet Porn ', noGabe Deem, obuye abe yi-Reot Boot Nation azungeze izinkulungwane zakhe ikakhulukazi hhayi ababambeleli besilisa kuphela, evuma ngezindaba zabo nge-porn Sebenzisa futhi ulandele izeluleko zakhe zokuthi ungabhekana kanjani kangcono nomthengisi wedijithali ikhibhodi yabo. Abekho kubo abane-hang-ups noma inkolo yokuziphatha ngokwezithombe ezingcolile. Bobabili nje ubudlelwane obunolwazi abuphindanga buphindaphindeka ngoba bancamela ukuba nokulala okusheshayo, okulula, okulula, okubonakalayo kocansi ngaphezulu kwenkimbinkimbi futhi bafuna into yangempela.
Isixazululo sazo senkinga naso sinzima. UDemem uyisethembiso sesimilo esidala kodwa, uthi, izindlela ezisebenzayo zokulungisa umlutha we-porn - futhi ngeshwa akulona uhlobo lokuhoxa olulinganise kancane kancane. Uthi okuwukuphela kwendlela ukuzithiba nokuzithiba ngokuphelele - futhi kubheka iningi labesilisa abazithola bedinga ukuqala kabusha umsebenzi ojwayelekile wokuya ocansini lokhu kungathatha izinyanga ezintathu noma ngaphezulu, ukuvumela ukubuyela esimeni okungenakugwenywa, ngokululama okuphelele ngemuva kwenyanga eyisishiyagalolunye ukungazinaki. Abanye baphakamise le ndlela ebandayo ye-turkey engahle ingezelwe kangcono ngokuthola uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi ongabeka okunye esikhundleni, futhi balahle, isifiso sokuhlala esikrinini futhi bawuphathe ngesandla: ukuthatha umdlalo, ukujoyina ikwaya, noma ngabe yini.
Qaphela noma ngabe akukho iSonto noma i-Deem ephikisana ngokwandulela ukushaya indlwabu ngalesi sikhathi, ukushaya indlwabu kusizwa izitho zangasese. Ngempela, uGabe uphakamisa ukuthi ukuhlolwa okukodwa kokuthi umuntu usencike kakhulu ekuvuseleleni okubukwayo kwezithombe zocansi ukuzama ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle kwawo. Uma umuzwa wangempela nomcabango osebenzayo unganele ukwenza umsebenzi, khona-ke kungahle kube khona inkinga. Ngendlela efanayo, futhi asikukhuthazi ukuthi isikhathi sokuqhubeka kokungazilandeli singalandelwa ukubuyela ekusebenziseni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile - okungcono, bathi, kwenziwa nje ngakho futhi ungabheki emuva. Isikhuthazo ngaso sonke isikhathi singaba khona. Kepha kufanele uphile ngakho.
Ukuthi i-psychiatry izoqhamuka nezindlela zokwelashwa ezincike kakhulu kuzoncika ekwazisweni kwayo okukhulayo kokuthi kunenkinga nakancane, okungaba umphumela wezibalo zalabo abalungele ukuzixilonga bese bebika ukuthi banomkhuba . Kunjengokuthi, njengoba iGreenfield igcizelela, umugqa omuhle kakhulu phakathi kokusetshenziswa nokuhlukumezeka. Yize kunjalo, izidakamizwa notshwala ngokungangabazeki zombili ubuthi, yize kwesinye isikhathi zijabulisa. Ungaziyeka. Ukuyeka ubulili bomuntu ngendlela efanayo akuyona inketho.
Iseluleko sakhe sithi: “Uma usebenzisa i-cocaine futhi ingenawo umthelela omubi, ingabe uyilutha? Ngingasho okufanayo nezithombe zocansi. Uma usebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile nsuku zonke futhi kungawuthinti umsebenzi wakho, umndeni wakho, ubudlelwano bakho noma ukukunikeza uhlobo oluthile lokungaziphathi kahle ngokocansi, ke wonke amandla kuwe. Ngivame ukubona abantu uma sekuvele kunethonya elingathandeki. ”
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