Xhumanisa ne-PDF - Umtholampilo wezokwelapha we-Parton ubona ukuphakama kwesifo se-erectile
NgoSaadiah Schmidt. Thu, 05 / 03 / 2012
Iminyaka emithathu edlule ibonile inqwaba yezibalo zabafundi besilisa ababika ukukhubazeka kwe-erectile nezinye izinkinga ezihlobene nobulili e-Parton Health Centre, ngokusho koMqondisi kanye noMnyango wezeKholeji uDkt Mark Peluso.
"Awukwazi ukuthola ukulungiswa noma ukugcina ukulungiswa nomlingani wesifazane," kusho uPeluso. "Bacabanga ukuthi badinga i-Viagra."
Esihambelwaneni esivamile, uPeluso uzocela isiguli sakhe uchungechunge lwemibuzo: Uyakhangwa kumlingani wakho? Ingabe usondelene naye? Ingabe unesimo sezokwelapha sokuvimbela ngokocansi? Ingabe usebenzisa izinto, ezifana nokuphuza utshwala, okwehlisa ukusebenza kobulili? Ingabe uzizwa ukhangwa kwamanye amadoda? Ngokusho kukaPeluso, impendulo yazo yonke yale mibuzo ngokuvamile "cha."
Kodwa-ke, "ezimweni eziningi, lezi ziguli zaziyizibukeli ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile, futhi azizange zibe nobunzima bokusebenza ngokocansi lapho bezodwa," kusho uPeluso.
Ekubheka ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe ezingcolile zobulili, i-Peluso iphakamisa ubudlelwane obuphambene phakathi kwe-porn kanye nokuzivocavoca - njengoba ukusetshenziswa kocansi kuyanda, ngakho-ke ukungakwazi ukwenza ucansi.
Umhlengikazi oPhezulu oMnyango wezeMpilo eCarton u-Laurel Kelliher uvame ukukhuluma nabafundi besifazane mayelana nokusebenza kabi kwe-partner erectile.
"Ngingasho ukuthi eminyakeni embalwa edlule, sekuvelele kakhulu," kusho uKelherher. Ukholelwa nokuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi kuyisici esikhulu futhi kunxusa abesifazane ukuba bakhuthaze abalingani babo ukuba bayeke ekusebenziseni kwawo.
Bobabili uPeluso noKelherher babike ukuthi iningi leziguli ezifuna usizo lwe-erectile ukungasebenzi liqala ubuhlobo.
"Ngiyabona bobabili, kodwa ngokuvamile abantu bangabathandana kunokwakheka okungahleliwe," kusho uKelherher.
Amadoda "angena ngoba afuna i-Viagra," kusho uPeluso. "Bazoba nomlingani wesifazane, bazovakashela intombi, baqale ubudlelwane obusha futhi bazizwe behlukumezeke ngokuhlukumeza kwabo erectile]."
"Uzizwa ungenele futhi unamahloni," kusho umculi wesilisa oye wahlushwa u-erectile disys function. "Isimo esibuhlungu kakhulu."
Ngamahloni nakuba kungase kube ngamadoda, ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile kuthinta nabesifazane.
"Uvele ucabange ukuthi [i-erectile dysfunction] yiyona iphutha lakho," kusho owesifazane oshayisana naye, "nakuba kungenzi lutho, ngoba kuyisimo somzimba womfana kuwe."
INGABE I-PORN TO BLAME?
Ukusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kungathinta kanjani ukusebenza kobulili?
"Le ndlela ayifanele isinqunywe," kusho uPeluso, kodwa kungase kube nezinguquko ezingapheliyo ebuchosheni obonakalisa umsebenzi wobulili kubantu abasebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. "
U-Peluso ucaphune ucwaningo lapho abacwaningi baphatha ukulutha kobulili nge-intanethi nge-naltrexone. Bathola ukuthi i-dopamine namanye ama-neurotransmitter ebuchosheni angase athintshwe yizithombe zobulili ezingcolile zisebenzise ngendlela efana nokulutha izidakamizwa.
Urologist wase-Italy uCarlo Foresta wenza ucwaningo lwe-2011 lapho athola khona ukuxhumana okuqinile phakathi kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nokusebenza kabi kwe-erectile. Amaphesenti angamashumi ayisikhombisa emcwaningweni owahlukunyezwa yi-erectile abasebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, futhi izingxoxo ziphakanyisiwe ukuthi isibalo sangempela sasinkulu kunalokhu. Ithimba liphetha ngokuthi "ukusetshenziswa okuvamile kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ku-Inthanethi kuholela ekukhulisweni kwezinsizwa zokuhlukunyezwa kwamadoda kanye noku ... ukuhlenga izinkinga."
Ngokwamanye ochwepheshe bezokwelapha, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zingaba umlutha.
"Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi kungenzeka kube nabantu abathile abazobe besengozini yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezithinta izinga lokulutha kuze kube yilapho ziphazamisa izimpilo zabo futhi zingabonakali ukuphatha ukubuka kwabo," kusho uMqondisi oPhezulu wezeMpilo noKwazisa ngamasevisi Gus Jordan.
Ngokwe-Assistant Professor weSpanishi uJuana Gamero de Coca, oye wenza ucwaningo ngesihloko sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi efundisa inkulumo yokuqala yonyaka okuthiwa i-Heterosexual Relationships, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zanamuhla "ziyinkimbinkimbi" kakhulu kunezingu-15 eminyakeni edlule.
"Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zithinta indlela ethile," kusho uGamero de Coca. "Kumele kube ukuzithokozisa abantu abanezingqondo ezibucayi ... I-Porn iye yaba nobudlova kakhulu, ihamba kakhulu [eminyakeni yamuva]. Ekuqaleni kwekhulu le-20th, amanoveli afana Madame Bovary futhi Lover Lady Chatterley's kwakungemthetho ngoba babhekwa 'njengezocansi.'
"Ngicabanga ukuthi i-porn njengoba siyazi ukuthi izophela," waqhubeka. "Ukuhlukumeza, ukudlwengula nokuhlukunyezwa kwengane kuyaqhubeka."
Ngokusho kukaGamero de Coca nezinye izazi, lo mkhuba uthinta abasebenzisi: ukuthanda okuthandayo kuyashintsha ukuze kube ngokweqile njengoba bejwayelekile kwizinto ezivusiwe ngaphambili.
The campus uye wavimbela amagama abafundi ababesaba imiphumela yomphakathi.
"Ekuqaleni bekukhona izithombe njalo," kusho owesilisa wokuqala ngonyaka. "Manje amavidiyo ku-intanethi. Ngicabanga ukuthi kwakulula ukuma ngaphambili. "
Ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kungase kuqhubekisele phambili ukuhlukanisa abafundi abacabangela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezivela ebusweni bomuntu siqu.
"Kwabaningi, ubulili boqobo abuhlali ngokuvumelana nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile," kusho uPeluso. "Ngakho-ke, [amadoda] angase abhekane nezinkinga zobulili lapho bebhekene nento yangempela."
Omunye wesilisa oneminyaka yokuqala uthe ufanisa ucansi langempela nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
Uthi: "Ngibona izinto ezingcolile futhi ngifuna ukuzizama," esho. "Kodwa angiqhathanisi namantombazane engilala nabo namantombazane e-pornography."
"Kukhona umzila ovaliwe wokuxhumana uma ukhuluma ngocansi nabafana," kusho owesifazane ongumama-sophomore. "Okuningi esikwenzayo kusekelwe kulokho esikucabangayo ukuthi abantu bafuna nokuthi yini esicabanga ukuthi bayibheka kuyi-porn, kodwa awukwazi."
I-Gamero de Coca yakhulume ucwaningo lwamuva olubonisa ukuthi isilinganiso seminyaka yonke emhlabeni lapho abafana baqala ukusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyisishiyagalolunye.
"Lokhu kubi kakhulu," esho. "Yonke imininingwane abayifunayo ngokuphathelene nobulili - indaba ejabulisayo kubo bonke abafana nentombazane - isondliwa kubo abezindaba nabangcolile."
Abafundi abaningi (abesilisa nabesifazane) eKolishi bayavuma ukuthi babheke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngaphambi kokuba bahlangabezane nocansi.
"Ngangibukele izithombe eziningi ezingcolile ngaphambi kokuba ngilale ngokokuqala ngcansi," kusho owesilisa oneminyaka yokuqala.
SKEPTICISM
Abanye abafundi bahlala bengabaza ngokuxhumanisa phakathi kwe-porn ne-erectile ukungasebenzi.
"Ukusetshenziselwa noma iyiphi indlela yokuvusa kungenza umuntu aguquke kalula, kodwa ukushintsha izithombe zobulili ezingcolile akufanelekile," kusho uClaire Sibley '13. "Angiqiniseki ukuthi yiyona nkinga yethu ikhampasi esibhekene nayo. Utshela ukuthi sikhuluma ngokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile kanye nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile - ngemuva kwakho konke, lo mbono uveza ukuthi amadoda abuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
"Into engiyisolayo engayinaki yinto engasebenzi ngayo - engabonakali nakancane kubantu besifazane, kodwa njengamanje. Uma inkinga ngempela kuyi-porn, isixazululo sizama - zama ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle kwe-porn. Uma lokho kungasebenzi, thola ukulala futhi unciphise ukucindezeleka. "
EZINYE IZIPHUMA
Amadoda futhi abhekana ne-"condom collapse syndrome," noma ukungakwazi ukugcina ukulungiswa uma usebenzisa ikhondomu. Ithimba lokucwaninga le-Foresta lase-Italy lithole nokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-erectile okuthandwa ngocansi kwakuhlobene nokuncipha kokusetshenziswa kwekhondomu.
"Amakhomikhali ahlukumeza ngempela, futhi ukulutha kabi kocansi ngeke kusize le nkinga," kusho uPeluso. "Ngandlela-thile, usuke unesifiso sokuphindwa kabili."
"Ngicabanga ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi amadoda asebenzisa [ikhondomu] njengesizathu [sokuba] bangenakho noma baqhubeke nokulungiswa," kusho uKelherher. "Kodwa-ke, kaningi kunokubona ukubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile."
I-condom-collapse syndrome ingaholela ekuziphatheni okunobungozi - abalingani bobulili obukhungathekile ngenxa yokuhluleka komuntu ukugcina i-conrection ngekhondomu kungase kukhethwe ukuvikelwa kwe-forego ngokugcwele ekuthandweni kocansi ngokushesha.
UKelherher uthi ubonile ukwanda okukhulu kwesidingo sePlani B kusukela nge-2005. Uthi futhi ubonile amacala amaningi we-herpes ngokobulili kule minyaka emihlanu edlule kunakuqala. Ukuhlolwa kwe-herpes ngokobulili, ku-$ 110, kuyilingo lokuhlola ukutheleleka ngokocansi olubiza kakhulu.
"Kuyadabukisa ukubona ukuthi [imboni yezocansi] ithathe okuthile okulula futhi okuyisisekelo kude nesizukulwane sakho," kusho uKelherher. "Lokhu akufanele kube inkinga yabantwana bakho ubudala. Sethemba ukuthi singaqala ukukhuluma ngakho futhi senze kube lula kakhulu kubafundi ukungena uma benenkinga. Singasiza ngaleso sikhathi futhi singakwazi ukuzithola ngalokhu. "
I-Peluso, iJordani noKelliher bakhuthaza abafundi abahlukunyezwayo ukuhlukumezeka kwe-erectile ukufuna usizo lokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile e-Parton Health Centre.
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