Ingabe ukubhebhetheka kocansi kubangelwa ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi? nguDkt. Robert Weiss (2019)

Abesilisa abasebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile zobulili, ikakhulukazi labo abacindezelayo / abanomlutha, baye babika izimpikiswano zocansi ngokungasebenzi. Isikhalazo esivame kakhulu yi-erectile dysfunction (ED), nakuba ukubambezeleka kokukhipha (DE) kanye ne-anorgasmia (ukungakwazi ukufinyelela i-orgasm) nakho kuvamile. Ngokuthakazelisayo, lezi zinkinga ngokuvamile azikwenzeka uma usebenzisa i-porn; laba bantu babonakala behlupha lapho bezama ukwenza ucansi nomlingani wangempela wezwe. Babuye babike ukuthi ukukhubazeka kwabo ngokocansi kwenzeka ngisho nalapho bethola omunye umuntu ekhangayo ngokweqile nokuthi izimpikiswano zabo azihlobene nokudala noma impilo yomzimba.

Eminyakeni yamuva nje, abacwaningi emhlabeni wonke baye bafunda imiphumela yokusetshenziswa kocansi olubi kakhulu, futhi imiphumela iye yaqinisekisa njalo ukusebenzisana phakathi kokusetshenziswa kocansi okucindezelayo / okuyimilutha nokuhlukunyezwa kwesilisa ngokocansi. Isibonelo, isiFulentshi esikhulu cwaningo ukuziphatha kocansi okutholakala ku-intanethi nemiphumela yathola ukuthi ukuziphatha kocansi okujwayelekile kakhulu kwe-intanethi kuyisisindo se-porn, ne-99 amaphesenti wabambiqhaza abahlanganyela kulo msebenzi. Isikhathi esichithwe esibheke izithombe ze-porn esivela kumaminithi we-5 ngesonto kuya kumahora angu-33 ngesonto. Futhi enye yemiphumela evame ukubikwa kokusetshenziswa kwesilonda esinzima kwakuyizinkinga zocansi-ngokuvamile uhlobo oluthile lwe-ED.

Olunye ucwaningo luye lwaveza imiphumela efanayo. Ngakho-ke kusobala ukuthi ukungasebenzi komzimba kuyinkinga evamile kubasebenzisi abanobudlova obukhulu.

Abalobi besifundo seFrance babonisa ukuthi mhlawumbe amadoda asevele ehlushwa yi-ED abazethemba kangako emakhono abo okucansi ngakho-ke aphendukela ezingcolile. Kodwa-ke, ngemva kweminyaka eminingi yokusebenza nabasebenzisi be-porn abacindezelayo, ngicabanga ukuthi incazelo enembile ukuthi amadoda achitha iningi labo abesilisa ocansini abafuna ukubuka, ukubheka, nokushaya indlwabu ekunikezeni okungapheli nokuguquguqukayo kokuvusa izithombe zobulili -Kubeka i-jolt entsha ye-adrenaline ne-dopamine nayo yonke isithombe esisha noma ividiyo-ifakwe kulesi sigameko esingapheli se-neurochemical. Khona-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bathola injabulo eyakhiwe ngumlingani wangempela wezwe akulingani. Umlingani ongashadile wezwe wangempela akwanele ukudala noma ukugcina ukuvusa kwabo.

Izimpawu ongase ubhekane nokusetshenziswa kwe-Porn-Induced Dysfunction (PIED) kuhlanganisa:

  • Awunazo izinkinga zobulili ezingcolile ngocansi, kepha ulwa nomlingani wangempela wezwe.
  • Ungathola futhi ugcine ukulungiswa nabalingani bezwe bangempela, kodwa i-orgasm ithatha isikhathi eside kakhulu.
  • Ungakwazi ukugcina umxhwele nomlingani wangempela wezwe lapho uphinde ubuyekeze iziqeshana ze-porn engqondweni yakho.
  • Ukhetha i-porn kuya ezweni langempela-ngokobulili.
  • Umlingani wakho wezwe wangempela ukhononda ukuthi ubonakala unqanyuliwe ngesikhathi sokuthanda uthando.

Izimpawu ongase uziphathe ngokubheja kocansi zihlanganisa:

  • Uxhwele kakhulu ekuziqhenyeleni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
  • Ulahlekelwe ukulawula ukusetshenziswa kwakho kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile (ngokuvamile okuboniswa imizamo eminingi ehlulekile yokuyeka noma yokusika).
  • Ubhekene nemiphumela emibi ehlobene nokusebenzisa kwakho i-porn (hhayi nje i-PIED, kodwa yachitha ubuhlobo, ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, ukuzihlukanisa, ukukhathazeka emsebenzini noma esikoleni, njll)

Ngeshwa, abaningi abanomlutha wezocansi abafuni usizo ngalolu daba, bakhetha ukubhekana nezimpawu zabo nemiphumela yabo ngokufuna ukwelulekwa kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka, kanye nezinkinga zobudlelwane bezempilo, nokubona odokotela bezokwelapha ngezinkinga zokuvimbela ukucindezeleka, ama-anti-anxiety meds , kanye ne-Viagra nezidakamizwa ezifanayo (ezingasisiza ngoba zikhuluma ngokomzimba kunenkinga yengqondo). Amadoda amaningi ayobona ochwepheshe futhi athathe amaphilisi isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokubhekana nokucindezela kwabo nge-porn. Ngenxa yalokho, inkinga yabo eyinhloko, ukulutha kwezidakamizwa ezingcolile zobulili, ayigxilile futhi izimpawu zabo azigcini nje kuphela kodwa zikhula kakhulu.

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