Lawa mazwana angatholakala ngaphansi kokuthunyelwe kukaDavid Ley - I-Erectile Dysfunction Inganekwane: Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile akuyona inkinga. Kungukuphawula kwesibili ngochwepheshe ophikisana nokushiwo nguLey.
Uphinde: inkinga ngeziphetho
Kuthunyelwe ngu- UDkt. Rosalyn Dischiavo ngoSeptemba 8, i-2013
Ngiyaxolisa, Dkt. Ley, kepha iziphetho zakho azivumelekile ngoba ucwaningo olucaphuna alukhulumi ngohlobo oluthile lwezinto ezibeka obala ezocansi ezibukwa yila madoda. Inkinga yocwaningo oluningi lwezithombe zocansi ukuthi cishe njalo isebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile (izithombe zezenzo zocansi noma ama-nudes), noma amafilimu akhethwe ngabaphenyi. Lawa mafilimu avamise ukungabathandi ababambiqhaza esifundweni.
Angazi ngesifundo esivumele abasebenzisi be-porn ye-intanethi abathi bane-ED ukuthi bavele bahambe ngewebhu njengoba bevame ukwenza, babheke ukuthi bavame ukubheka ini (kusuka kuma-akhawunti amaningi, iziqeshana eziningi, ezimfushane kakhulu izinhlobonhlobo zezenzo zocansi, kwesinye isikhathi ngokwedlulele ngokwedlulele), bese ulinganisa okuthile okuhambisanayo esikhathini eside. Lawa madoda angaqhathaniswa neqembu elilawulayo. Ngingathanda ukubona isifundo senziwa ngale ndlela. Uma kukhona eyodwa, ngabe kukhona umuntu okule ntambo ngicela angidlulisele kimi? Ngiyayidinga ngicwaninga. Kepha angicabangi ukuthi ikhona okwamanje.
Ngokungabikho kocwaningo olunjalo, kufanele ngivumelane nezinsizwa lapha. Basuse ukuguquguquka okukodwa, futhi babona imiphumela engaguquguquki. Futhi akekho obanikeza isikweletu ngokuthola ukuthi yini inkinga yabo nokuthola isisombululo esilula. Ngifunde imicu yeReddit. Amakhulu okuthunyelwe, ngafunda. Engikutholile ukuthi isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka noma ngaphezulu kwengxoxo ngakho, amadoda ayeke ukushaya indlwabu aqaphela (ngosizo lwabanye ngentambo) ukuthi bangabuyela ekushaya indlwabu ngemuva kwesikhathi esifushane, uma nje bengazange buyela ku-intanethi, ividiyo ye-porn.
Okungashiwongo lapha ukuthi abaningi engisebenza nabo kanye nabasebenza nabo kwezocansi bakhathazeke kakhulu ngenkulumo yokulwisana nezithombe zocansi. Bayesaba, futhi kufanele, ukuvinjelwa. Ukucwaninga kuyingozi, futhi kubukela phansi lonke ucwaningo. Ibulala ilukuluku, ilimaza intuthuko. ANGINATHANDO ekunqandeni ukusetshenziswa kwanoma ngubani kwezinto ezibeka obala ezocansi (yize ngivumelana nokulawulwa kokuboniswa kwezingane noma abantu abadala abangavumeli, noma izilwane, ezingakwazi ukuvuma).
Kepha njengoprofesa kanye nochwepheshe ofundisa nsuku zonke ngezocansi lomuntu, ngicabanga ukuthi singakwazi impela ukubheka ngokwesayensi, ngeziyalo eziningi kuzo zonke lezi zinkinga. Ngempela, asikwazi ukukhokhela ukungakwenzi. Njengomuntu nanjengodokotela wangaphambili, ngikhathele ngabantu abamisa izingxoxo maphakathi ngoba benqaba ukubheka izinhloso zabo, ukwesaba, kanye nezintshisekelo zabo. Masiqhubeke nokuba nengxoxo. Ake sibhekane nokuthi KUNGANI singakuthandi okushiwo “olunye uhlangothi”. Masihlale siqaphile ngodaba ngalunye. Futhi masiqhubeke SILALELELE omunye nomunye futhi simemezele imigqa yethu esihlabathini.
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