by Thatha Roland-Jenkins, MS | | Okthoba 6, 2017
Kukhona umkhuba okhulayo wezinsizwa ezinempilo esebenzisa imithi efana ne-Viagra ne-Cialis, izidakamizwa ezihloselwe amadoda amadala nalabo abane-erectile-disy functional (ED) ehlobene nempilo.
Abaningi balabafana (abangazi?) Basebenzise lezi zidakamizwa ukuze baphathe isimo esengokwengqondo kunokuba senze izinto eziphilayo: i-porn-induced ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile (PEID).
Amaqembu omphakathi e-inthanethi namawebhusayithi afana nalokhu Ubuchopho bakho ku-Porn futhi i-"no fap" yeqembu le-Reddit (https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/) yasungulwa ukusiza amadoda ane-PIED.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izifundo ezihlolwe ukuxhumana phakathi kokubuka porn futhi ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile akutholakali ubufakazi obuhlanganisa lezi zinsuku. Uma kunjalo, yini echaza ukuphakama okukhulu kwe-ED kumadoda amasha eminyakeni yamuva?
Ngo 2012, Abacwaningi baseSwitzerland usebenzise i-International Index of Erectile Function (IIEF-5), ukuthola isilinganiso se-ED esingu-30% esigabeni esiphambanweni samadoda aseSwitzerland aneminyaka eyi-18 kuya kwengama-24. Isifundo se-2013 sase-Italy kubika ukuthi esinye seziguli ezine ezifuna usizo lwe-ED esisha olusha sasincane kune-40, ngamanani e-ED aphezulu cishe angu-10% aphezulu kunamadoda ngaphezu kwe-40.
Sabuza u-Takeesha Roland-Jenkins (i-MS ngokusengqondweni kanye ne-MS nge-neurology) uchwepheshe wezobuchwepheshe Phakathi Kliniki Yethu, ukulinganisa. Ukuthatha kuyisibonelo kokubili kwengqondo kanye neurology, futhi unokuqonda okuyingqayizivele kokubili psyche kanye nobuchopho.
Ngokombono wakho, ingabe ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn ngokweqile kungabangela umuntu ukuba abe nokusebenza kabi kwe-erectile?
Yebo, ukubukela izithombe ezingcolile ze-hardcore, ikakhulukazi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngokuziphatha okuphambene nobudlova kungabangela ushintsho lwengqondo olungabangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile.
Kwenzekani ebuchosheni bomuntu lapho ehlushwa isenzo esibi kakhulu socansi (njenge-pornography eyingozi) futhi lokhu kuhlobene kanjani ne-ED?
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-Hardcore zivame ukubonisa imidwebo futhi ngokuvamile zibonisa ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle, okubudlova nokungaqondakali kinky. Lokhu akuyona into ejwayelekile yokuhlangana ngokocansi futhi kungakha imibono engafanele engqondweni yokuthi indoda kufanele ihlanganyele kanjani emsebenzini wocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umuntu angase athole injabulo ngokubuka lokho akukholelwa ukuthi kuyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukubuka izithombe ezibucayi ngokweqile kubheka abantu besilisa ngokucindezela okukhulu ngokobulili ngisho nodlame lwezocansi okwenzeka ngezinye izikhathi kwi-porn ebhekwayo, ngaleyo ndlela kwehlisa ikhono ukuhlanganyela ebuhlotsheni beqiniso.
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ngokuvamile, zibangela ukukhushulwa kwengqondo okukhulu okushintsha indlela ubuchopho obubukela ngayo izenzo zobulili nokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile ukuguqulwa ebuchosheni.
Lokhu kwenzeka kufana nokubekezelela kakhulu isidakamizwa esithile ngemuva kokusebenzisa isikhathi eside; okusho ukuthi ekugcineni udinga ukulinganisa okuphakeme nokuphakeme ukuze uthole imizwa efanayo yokuzijabulisa. Ukubuka ngokuphindaphindiwe i-porn-core iyinomphumela ofanayo ekusebenzeni ngokocansi. Ngamanye amazwi, ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezishintshashintshayo kushintsha indlela ubuchopho busebenza ngayo ekuvusweni ngokobulili nomsebenzi, okuvame ukuholela ekunciphiseni okunciphisa i-libido nezimbangela ukungasebenzi kwe-erectile yengqondo.
Abanye bathi amadoda abheka izithombe ezingcola kakhulu angathuthukisa ukukhathazeka kokusebenza. Kungani ukukhathazeka kuthinta ikhono lokuthola nokugcina i-erection?
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngoba ubuchopho bomuntu manje bujwayele ukuvuselelwa ekubonweni kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ukuhlangana okuvamile kuyokwenza lo muntu azibuze ukuthi uzokwazi yini ukwenza ezingeni elifanayo (isib., Isikhathi esingeziwe) njenge yini eye yaboniswa evidiyo yezocansi. Ngakho-ke, ukukhathazeka kokusebenza kusalokhu kuhlobene nezinguquko ezenzeka ebuchosheni futhi uzibuza ukuthi angakwazi yini ukwanelisa umlingani wakhe ngendlela ubuchopho obusetshenziselwe ngayo. Ngamanye amazwi, ukukhathazeka kuwumphumela oqondile wokukhathazeka ngokukwazi ukuvuselela izigcawu zobulili ezingcolile; le njongo engenangqondo ingabangela ukukhathazeka kokusebenza. Ngokulandelayo, umuntu angathola ukulungiswa, kodwa ngemva kokuqala ukukhathazeka ngokuthi angenza njengabadlali be-porn, ukulungiswa kunganciphisa noma kumise ngokuphelele.
Ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka kokusebenza, ingabe kukhona esinye isizathu sokuthi kungani i-porn ingenza abantu bafunde i-ED?
Izinguquko ezenzeka ekwakheni kobuchopho ekuholeni ekuhlanganyeleni kunomthelela ngaphezulu ku-PIED kunokusebenza kokukhathazeka. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ubuchopho budinga ukukhula kwamazinga okuvuselela ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile ukuze kuqale ukulungiswa. Ukukhathazeka komsebenzi kungaba ngeshwa ukungasebenzi kabi kwe-erectile.
Ingabe ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okubangelwa ngocansi kuyaphilisa uma umuntu eyeka ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile?
Ukuyeka ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile akupheli ngokuzenzakalelayo i-PIED. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izidakamizwa ezinjengoViagra noma i-Cialis zibhekene nesici somzimba we-erectile ukungasebenzi, hhayi isici sengqondo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi indoda izobe ixhomeke ngokuphelele kulezo zidakamizwa kuze kube yilapho ubuchopho bubuyisela ikhono layo lokuqala ukulungiswa ngaphansi kwezimo ezivamile zobulili. Ubuhlobo obuhle (isib. Umshado) nomlingani weziguli kungasiza umuntu anqobe PIED ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Iyiphi indlela yokwelapha ongayincoma indoda enesifo se-PIED?
Ukwelashwa okuwusizo kuzoba ngendlela yokwelashwa okwenziwe ngabanye, okungahluka ngesikhathi (isib., Amasonto, izinyanga) kuye ngokuthi umuntu ngamunye kanye nezinga le-PIED. Njengoba i-PIED ivame ukuwumphumela wokulutha ukugqilaza kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, le ndlela yokwelashwa kufanele ibhekwe njengesinyathelo sokuqala sokuthola ukulutha izidakamizwa.
Inhloso yokwelashwa ukuqala ukuguqula ubuchopho emifanekisweni yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi ukubhekana nezinye zezizathu zokuthi umlutha wezithombe ezingcolile ezingaphezu kwamathuba okuqala cishe waqala. Amadoda akhuthazwa ukuba aphinde axhumane ngokubambisana nabalingani bawo ukuze asize ubuchopho kubuyisele ikhono lakhe lokuqala ukuvusa ucansi ngesikhathi sokuhlangana kocansi okuvamile. Ngokuvamile, indoda kufanele izimisele ukuzinika isikhathi sokunciphisa kancane kancane i-PIED.
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