Amazwana: Okokuqala qaphela ukuthi akekho owesilisa obuza lo mbuzo, noma uchwepheshe ophendulayo awakhulumi ngezocansi ze-Intanethi. Okwesibili, qaphela ukuthi ukuphawula okuningana (okufakwe nangezansi) kukholwa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi kuyimbangela. Isoka lowesifazane oyedwa laline-porn-elenza i-ED futhi lisenokubambezeleka kokubambezeleka okusalile.
Angikwazi i-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi, ukushaya indlwabu kuphela
Ngiyindoda enempilo kodwa angikwazi ukufaka i-orgasm ngemuva kwemizuzu ye-20 yezocansi zangasese, ngakho ngiyayeka. Ingabe ngiphumile?
- UPamela Stephenson Connolly
- The Guardian, NgeSonto 2 ngoFebhuwari 2014
- Yehla kumibono (137)
UMBUZO:
Ngiyindoda eneminyaka engu-32 enempilo, kepha angikwazi ukwenza i-orgasm ngokocansi lwangasese. Ngingahle ngifike lapho ekugcineni, kepha imvamisa ngiyeke ngemuva kwemizuzu eyi-15-20, yize ngikwazi ukufinyelela ku-orgasm ngenkathi ngishaya indlwabu. Ngiyazi ukuthi ucansi akumele luqondiswe emigomweni, kepha ngibona sengathi ngiyaphuthelwa.
IMPENDULO:
Ukuzithokozisa usemncane kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile kwezocansi; indlela yokufunda ukuthi umzimba wakho usebenza kanjani. Kodwa-ke, kwesinye isikhathi isitayela somuntu oshaya indlwabu singesibhulogi kalula sokuya ocansini nomlingani wakhe. Isibonelo, uma owesilisa ejwayela isitayela esinzima kakhulu sokushaya indlwabu, abukho ubulili obuyokhipha izinga elidingekayo lokuxabana. Cabanga ngesitayela sakho sokuzijabulisa - ungadinga ukwenza uhlobo olwehlukile lohlangothi noma ingcindezi engasiza kakhulu kuvuthondaba lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane?
Esinye isithiyo sokuqeda ubulili ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini kungaba ukuntuleka kokugxila. Abanye abantu baphazamiseka kalula, futhi lokhu kuphazamisa impendulo yocansi. Cabanga ukuthi imicabango noma imizwa ephikisayo iyafika endleleni, futhi uma kunjalo, zama ukugxila kuphela ekuzweleni nasekunikezeni nokwamukela injabulo.
Ukwesaba okuyisisekelo kokukhulelwa, izifo noma ukwehluleka ukulawula nakho kungalimaza ukuhlangana okwanelisayo. Kepha njengoba uyijabulela impilo yakho yezocansi, anginasiqiniseko sokuthi "uyaphuthelwa" ngempela. Lapho ukhathazeka kakhulu ngayo, mancane amathuba okuthi uvuthwe ngendlela ofisa ngayo.
UPamela Stephenson Connolly ungudokotela wezengqondo ogxile ekwelapheni ukuphazamiseka kwezocansi. Uma ungathanda iseluleko esivela kuPamela Stephenson Connolly ngezindaba zocansi, sithumele incazelo emfushane yokukhathazeka kwakho ku[i-imeyili ivikelwe]”>[i-imeyili ivikelwe](ngicela ungathumeli okunamathiselwe).
UMBUZO OMUNYE I-THREAD:
Izinkinga ukuthi uthanda izithombe ezingcolile kakhulu. Uma wena Google "ubuchopho bakho ku-porn" uzobona ukuthi amadoda amaningi asebenzisa i-porn "ye-intanethi" kakhulu anezinkinga ngezocansi zempilo yangempela. Qaphela, lokhu okuthunyelwe AKUSONA ukwahlulela ngokuziphatha kocansi noma i-wanking, futhi futhi lelo sayithi alikho. Kunemininingwane eminingi ewusizo lapho engakusiza ukuthi ubuyise i-mojo yakho.
Okungcono kunenhlanhla.
I-BlughGrant ku-xtrapnel
Ngiphakamise lokho okuphakamisile, futhi umphumela waba kokubili ulwazi futhi okungaba usizo kakhulu. Siyabonga kwangempela!
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Iseluleko esihle kakhulu.
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Ukuthi abantu abaningi (mhlawumbe abantu), batusa ukuthunyelwe kwakho kuvele kuboniswe amadoda amaningi asevele esekhona futhi athathe iseluleko ebhodini.
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Ngithethelele, iseluleko esihle kepha ukubheka 'i-Porn on the Brain' nakho kuzosebenza. Lesi yisihloko saleyo documentary yeChannel 4 yangonyaka odlule.
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Uma eshaya kakhulu ngakho-ke akufanele abe ne-googling porn noma kunjalo.
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Kuyathakazelisa impela. Amadoda adlula izixhumanisi zale nhlobo yamasayithi kuma-IM nakuma-imeyili, futhi imvamisa athola impendulo “yokubonga, iseluleko esihle kakhulu” esivela kubangani babo emasontweni ambalwa kamuva, kodwa ngokwemvelo abakaze babathumele kuphrofayli yabo ye-Facebook. Kufanele kube nendatshana yeCiF kuyo.
petgaijin ku-bobbymac1956
Cha, cha! Kunobufakazi obuningi manje bokuthi ukushaya indlwabu ocansini kungaba umlutha ofana ne-heroin, njll. Futhi elinye lamagama / amagama okusesha okwamanje, 'ubuchopho bakho kwi-porn' ... mhlawumbe ukhomba 'ubuchopho bakho ezidakamizweni 'kanye' ne-porn ebuchosheni 'mhlawumbe ngemuva kwaleyo documentary.
Lokho kuthiwa, izibonelo eziningi zobufakazi nezibonakaliso eziningi zobufakazi be-anecdotal ziyavumelana ngokuphelele nawe.
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Ngangizibuza lokhu.
Isoka lami elingaphezu kweminyaka emibili lalinokukhubazeka kwe-erectile lapho ngimhlangabeza. Ngathola ukuthi e-zenith yakhe wayezoshaya indlwabu ezithombeni ezingcolile ngezikhathi ze-9 ngosuku.
Ngemuva kwengxoxo ethile - futhi engozini yokuthi ngangibukeka njengentombi enomona - ngamqinisekisa ukuthi ayipakishe. Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa wakwazi ukuthola ukwakheka kocansi. Kodwa-ke ngezikhathi ezithile uphendukela ku-porn futhi angakwazi kuphela, ngezikhathi ezithile (cishe izikhathi ze-4 ebudlelwaneni bethu) i-orgasm ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini. Ku-orgasm udinga ukushaya indlwabu ngesithombe kude.
Le Talk Ted ibonisa le nkinga.
Ngokusobala lokhu akuyona inkinga yomlobi, kepha uma kubhekwa ukuxoxwa okwamanje okuzungeze ukuxhumana phakathi kokusetshenziswa kwe-inthanethi okuvamile kanye nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi / ngocansi ngikuthola kukuxakile ukuthi uPamela akakusho njengokungenzeka.
Kungenzeka ukuthi, njengoba ubeka amazwana akho, ukuthi abantu besaba kakhulu ukufika njengoMshushisi onomqondo omuhle uma begxeka noma bebuza ngisho ne-pornocopia.
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Kuyavunywa - Ubuchopho bakho kwi-porn: I-Evolution ayilungiselanga ubuchopho bakho ukuthola i-porn yanamuhla ye-Intanethi.
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Ulahla lokho nje angithi? Ngabe uyazi kanjani ukuthi iyini imikhuba yakhe ye-inthanethi?
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Umlobi walokho okwashiwo uvele nje enze isiphakamiso esicacile, hhayi ukuphatha iqiniso.
Amaphesenti amakhulu wamadoda (kanye namaphesenti amancane kodwa ayenamaphesenti amantombazane) abuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile njalo. Ososayensi bezenhlalakahle kanye neuroscientists baqala ukuthola ubufakazi bokuthi kungenzeka yini lokhu. Akufanele kube nokuziphatha okubi, kodwa okunye ukuphumelela ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-erectile nezinkinga zocansi ngokusekelwe eziningana zezici.
Uma sicabanga ngalokhu, kubonakala sengathi kunikezwe lesi simo sezulu ukuthi umlobi wangempela unalo le nkinga.
Amadoda amaningi engikhulume nawo enza lokho, angazibheki izithombe ezingcolile zobulili njengesinye sezizathu zokulwa kwabo nokuya ocansini ngoba kulezi zinsuku, ngokungangabazeki, kuthathwa ngokuthi 'kunikezwe' ukuthi amadoda abuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi lokho kungukuthi Igama, 'okujwayelekile', yingakho kungabi yinkinga noma kungalimaza.
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