Ngibeke le ndatshana ndawonye ngezizathu ezimbili: Okokuqala, uma ungowesilisa ozama ukugqashula kocansi, impikiswano eyodwa enamandla kakhulu, yokuzikhethela yokuthi kungani kufanele uyeke ukuthi ungakha i-porn ebangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile.
Akusona isizathu esihle kakhulu sokuyeka, kepha he, kuyisiqalo. Isizathu sesibili ngesalabo kini abafuna ukukholisa abanye ngemiphumela emibi ye-porn ngombono ongengowenkolo. Ngayinye yezingcaphuno eziyishumi nokutholakele engikulethe lapha kunemibhalo engezansi ngezansi ukuze kube lula kuwe. Ngithanda ukubonga umngani wami omuhle, uClay Olson wase Ukulwa Nezidakamizwa Ezintsha ngokuba ungikhombise kwezinye zezimpendulo.
Ukutholakala kwe-10 yizazi
1. “Kunzima ukwazi kahle ukuthi zingaki izinsizwa eziphethwe yi-ED eyenziwe ngocansi. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuthi lesi yinto entsha, futhi ayivamile. ” [1] - UDkt Abraham Morgentaler, Professor of Urology Clinic eHarvard Medical School
2. Ngiyakwazi ukusho ukuthi indoda ibuka izithombe ezingcolile ezingakanani lapho iqala ukukhuluma ngokungagunci nganoma yikuphi ukungasebenzi kahle ngokocansi. . . . Indoda eshaya indlwabu kaningi ngokushesha ingakhula ibe nezinkinga zokwakhiwa lapho iba nomlingani wayo. Faka i-porn kulengxube, futhi angakwazi ukuya ocansini. . . . Ipipi elijwayele uhlobo oluthile lokuzwa okuholela ekujuleni ngokushesha ngeke lisebenze ngendlela efanayo lapho livuswe ngendlela ehlukile. I-Orgasm iyabambezeleka noma ingenzeki nhlobo. ” [2] - UDkt Harry Fisch, UProfesa Wezokwelapha e-Weill Cornell Medical College
3. “Kuqala ngokusabela okuncane kumasayithi we-porn. Bese kuba nokwehla okujwayelekile kwe-libido, futhi ekugcineni kube nzima ukuthola ukwakheka. ” [3] - Carlo Foresta, owayengumengameli we-Italian Society of Andrology kanye neMithi Ezocansi.
4. E-Italy, ucwaningo olubuka izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ikakhulukazi kanye nomthelela walo ezinkingeni zobulili emadodeni aneminyaka eyi-19 kuya ku-25 ithola ukuthi ngesilinganiso isisindo sobulili kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-10 (i-10 yiyona ephakeme kakhulu), abasebenzisi be-porn balinganisela amaphuzu we-4.21, Abasebenzisi be-porn bangena ku-8.02. Umsebenzi we-Erectile wawuyi-30 ngamaphesenti aphansi phakathi kwabasebenzisi be-porn uma kuqhathaniswa nabangewona abasebenzisi, nalabo abanobulili bezothola amanothi aphansi kulo lonke ukwaneliseka ngokobulili nomsebenzi we-orgasm. [4]
5. Ucwaningo olwenziwe eCambridge University olubheka abesilisa abanomlutha wezocansi luthole ukuthi ngaphezu kwengxenye yezifundo babika “ukuthi ngenxa yokusebenzisa ngokweqile izinto zocansi, babe. . . I-libido eyehlisiwe ye-libido noma umsebenzi we-erectile ikakhulukazi ebudlelwaneni bomzimba nabesifazane (yize bungekho ebudlelwaneni nezinto ezibekela obala ezocansi). [5]
6. “Amaphilisi [afana ne-viagra] azokwenza okuthile nge-physiologic. Banganikeza ukugeleza kwegazi kuzitho zangasese. Kepha abangakwazi ukukwenza ukuvuselela isitho socansi kakhulu, okungubuchopho. Ngakho-ke lapho ubuchopho bungasasebenzi, wenza ukungafani. Futhi abanye abantu bazothi, 'Ngiyathola ukwakhiwa' ngisho nakulaba bantu abakwazi ukwelashwa. Ngisho nalolo lwazi, bazizwa bengenasidingo. Abayitholi injabulo. Ngakho-ke ayiphathi into yobumnandi, futhi banomuzwa wokuthi mhlawumbe ngibheke omunye umuntu enza ucansi noma akuyona ngisho ipipi lami; Ngizizwa ngihlukanisiwe nesipiliyoni. Futhi uma sebenakho banalokhu kungafani kobuchopho nobudoda okwenziwe lapho ubuchopho bungazizwa bujabule noma bengahle bakuthande noma bangakutholi ukwakhiwa. ” [6] - UDkt Andrew Kramer
7. Abacwaningi bathole ukuthi ngisho nokusetshenziswa kocansi okulinganiselwe kwakuhambisana nokuphendula okunciphisayo ezindabeni zocansi ebuchosheni. Nakuba akuzange kubonise ngokucacile ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zenze ukuthi lezi zinguquko zenzeke, yilokho okwacatshangwa abacwaningi. Baze bafaka isifundo sabo "I-Brain ku-Porn." [7]
8. Uma umuntu eqhubeka eqinisekisa amabalazwe obuchopho axhumanisa ukuxhaswa ngokobulili ezingcolile, lawo mabalazwe akhulisa futhi angakhipha amabalazwe ahlanganisa ukuxilisa ngokocansi kumuntu wangempela noma ngokobulili wangempela. [8]
9. Abacwaningi base-Italy bathatha izinkomba zobuchopho babantu abane-ED okwakungekho isizathu esibonakalayo esingokomzimba. Bathola ukuthi ubuchopho babo babonisa ukuthi banciphise umthamo esikhungweni somvuzo (okusho ukuguqulwa kwesiginali se-dopamine) nezikhungo zocansi ze-hypothalamus. [9] I-Porn ihlotshaniswa nokunciphisa indaba ebomvu. [10]
10. Odokotela nabasebenzisi be-porn abedlule bathole ukuthi ukushiya izithombe ezingcolile kungalungisa izinkinga ze-erectile ukungasebenzi. [11]
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