'Abaneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye ubudala bavezwe ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile'
Kwazulu Natal / 13 Jun '16
Kerushun Pillay
Durban - Abelaphi bezidakamizwa baseNingizimu Afrika nabafundisa ngezocansi bathi kuyadingeka ukungenelela okunzima ukuze kunqandwe intsha yanamuhla ehlushwa yimiphumela emibi yezempilo kamuva empilweni ngenxa yokuluthwa yizithombe zocansi.
Ukhetho oluxoxwa yi-The Mercury luthi ukukhululeka kokufinyelela ku-porn nge-tekhnoloji kwandisa amathuba okulutha umlutha, okwakunqanda ubulili besilisa futhi wabhidliza amandla okuba nobuhlobo "obunempilo noluthando".
Abelaphi bezokwelapha baseNingizimu Afrika kanye nabasebenza kwezemfundo yezocansi bathi ukulutha kwezocansi ezinganeni "kwakuwubhadane" olukhulayo.
Bathi ukubheja kobulili ezingcolile ezinganeni kwakuwumkhuhlane okhulayo. Omunye umntwana osencane njengo-10 uphethwe.
Uthe uHeather Hansen, inhlangano yakhe, u-Teenworx, uqhuba imihlangano yokuthuthukiswa kwesikole.
"Kunabantu abancane abafana namantombazane abangasho ngokuthembeka ukuthi abakaze babone izinto zobulili," kusho uClive Human, umqondisi we-Standing Together ukuphikisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
Uthe isilinganiso seminyaka lapho izingane zitholwa khona ngezocansi kwakungu-8 manje.
"Intsha iqala ukuzama lapho isencane kakhulu ukubhekana nomthelela ongokomzwelo wokuthi ukuvuselelwa okubonakalayo nokuntuleka kwemingcele yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kukhona," kusho uSheryl Rahme, onguchwepheshe wezokwelapha e-Changes Rehab Centre.
Ukuvezwa kokuqala, konke okuvunyelwene ngakho, ukulimala kwezocansi esikhathini esizayo. Ukubuka okubucayi kwezingubo zobulili ezingcolile kwaholela ekutheni "u-rewiring" wobuchopho, kusho u-Rahme.
“Ababukeli abasha bezithombe ezingcolile baqeqesha imizimba yabo ukuthi ivuswe ikakhulukazi ezimweni ezingavamile… ezethulwe yizithombe zocansi. I-Porn ibangenisa ezindleleni ezijwayelekile, ezahlukahlukene zocansi. Abakulungele ukuyicubungula. ”
UHansen uthe lokhu kubangele ukulangazelela "ukuvuselela okukhulu" ukuvuswa. "Uthola i-18-25-ubudala ubudala, okufanele abe sezintweni zabo zobulili, nokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile," esho.
Ekuphileni kwesikhathi eside, izilonda ezingcolile zihlukumezeka ukukhombisa noma ukuthola uthando nokusondelana nomngani wakho, kusho yena.
Ukubhebhetheka kocansi "kubangela ukuphazamiseka kwezibopho ezinzima kakhulu zomndeni osondelene nobuhlobo bomshado", kusho uMuntu. "Yilapho ubuhlungu obukhulu, ukulimala nokudabuka kwenzeka khona."
Iningi labantu litshele izingane zabo ukuthi zingaboni kodwa zingazi ngokwanele ukusekela, ukufundisa nokuzikhulisa, kusho u-Rahme.
"Ngaphandle kokuba lezi zingxoxo zivikeleke futhi zithandeke, abantu abasha bahamba ngezinyathelo zabo zentuthuko ngaphandle kokuqonda ngokujulile lokho okushiwo ubuhlobo obunempilo ngokobulili, nothando nobudlelwane obuhle," esho.
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