Ukufunda: i-porn isolwa ngokuncipha kwesifiso sobulili nokwandisa ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kwentsha, uDkt Carlo Foresta (2014)

Amazwana: Izihloko ezilandelayo ezihunyushwe (ezilinganiselwe) ziqukethe izingcaphuno futhi zichaze izifundo (ngokucindezela) nguprofesa we-urology wase-Italy, uMongameli we-Italy Society of Pathophysiologyology, kanye nomlobi wamaphepha afundiswa yi-300, uCarlo Foresta. Bheka leli khasi ukuchazwa kwezifundo kanye nekhasi lakhe le-90 PDF yenkulumo lapho eveza khona imiphumela yakhe.


Izingcaphuno zangaphambili:

  • "Impela - unezela uCarlo Foresta - 'akunasinqumo esiziphethe kahle [ngokusetshenziswa kocansi], kodwa kuyacaca ukuthi lesi sizukulwane sakhula ngokuthola imibandela yezocansi ngokungagunci, saqala ukukhombisa izinkinga ezinkulu ngobudlelwano bomzimba."
  • "Kubantu abasha abasebenzisa kakhulu izithombe zobulili ezingcolile enetheni, oyedwa kwabane ubeka engcupheni yokulahlekelwa isifiso sobulili nokukhulelwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi."

 

Isizukulwane asikho ucansi

Baneshumi nesishiyagalombili, kanti izulu labo lisegumbini elivaliwe. Ubungani, uthando, ubumnandi, yonke into ikhona. Futhi kukhona 'isidingo somzimba wangempela wokuthambisa, ukuthinta, ukuthinta, umuntu ozobheka emehlweni: ucansi kubo lunesizungu, luhamba kwinethiwekhi, luxhumana nabantu ongabazi, luzondla ngemizwa eyeqisayo. Ngakho-ke konke okubandakanya ukuthi kungenzeka, kuyenzeka ngempela, ukuthi hhayi abafana abambalwa ababejwayele ukuhambela amasayithi kanzima kusukela besebancane, bese beqala ukuphelelwa yisithakazelo kwezocansi beqiniso, lokho obekuphila, okusikisela ubudlelwano, ukuxhumana, futhi mhlawumbe, kwazi bani, ngithanda. Njengokungathi iqiniso ngaleso sikhathi lalijabulisa kakhulu kunenganekwane. 

Odokotela bababiza ngocansi "olungenangqondo", abasebasha, ama-twentysomethings abavuma ukuthi abazizwa benesifiso sokwenyama ngokhonkolo noma umlingani, kepha ukugcwaliseka ngenjabulo eyedwa yocansi lwe-cyber. Lowo ngumdlalo ovusa inkanuko emathunzini egumbi labo. Imizwa kaHikikomori eJapan ngakho-ke abafana bayizinkulungwane, futhi babizwa ngokuthi "izilwane ezidla imifino." 

Kepha lo mkhuba uyathathelana, wembulunga yonke. Futhi okuvelayo kuyisimanga kwimininingwane ye-Italy Society of Andrology eqondiswe nguSolwazi Carlo Foresta. Ucwaningo lwe-Eun lwabafundi abangaphezu kwezinkulungwane eziyisikhombisa zonyaka odlule esikoleni esiphakeme ePadua, ukuhlolwa kukakhaphethi ngempilo nemikhuba yezocansi yabantu abasha base-Italiya. Okumangazayo ukuthi 'eminyakeni lapho isifiso kufanele sibe khona', ngakho-ke ilukuluku nesifiso sokuthola 'ama-eros nezimfihlakalo zawo, iqembu labesilisa (i-12% yabaphenduli) lithi esikhundleni sokujwayela ube nobudlelwano obubonakalayo awufuni okwangempela okwengeziwe. C 'yilokho okumangazayo. 

Kufana nokubuka i-nightmare watch digital ngaphandle. Noma kunjalo ukuthambekela kungokoqobo. Okukhulukazi uma ucabanga, njengoba kungeza uCarlo Foresta, isazi esihamba phambili ngokungabi nenzalo kwabesilisa, okwathi eminyakeni eyishumi eyedlule, ngo-2003, “ekuphenduleni lolu cwaningo olufanayo, inani labantu ababulawa i-anorexic lezocansi lama kuma-1.2% wabaphenduli… . ”Kwenzekeni kule minyaka eyishumi?

Ihlathi lelula izingalo zalo: “Waba nomqondo wemfihlakalo. Kusukela lapho abafana abasakhula behlangana nanoma yiluphi uhlobo lobulili obucacile ngezingosi zocansi ezikwi-intanethi. Ukuqothuka kwezithombe eziluhlaza, ukuziqondisa, nokuzithena kuze kube phakade kuguqula imizwa yazo. Futhi yize kwabaningi - ngokubonga - lokhu kuhlala kusezingeni lomdlalo, kwabanye kuba 'umkhuba, ngisho nokulutha, okuholela ekubeni banganaki ubulili bangempela.

“Ukunweba kuleso sifiso sobuchwepheshe bokuzihlukanisa osekuvele kuyisifo sentsha yanamuhla. Futhi okuyiyona i-hikikomori edumile yaseJapan, i-autoreclusi yentsha yeRising Sun, engukubonakaliswa okugqame kakhulu. 

“Kodwa isiphephelo ebudlelwaneni obubonakalayo, esifihla umzimba nokuxhumana yisinyathelo sokuqala se-syndrome salabo abanquma ukungaphumi egumbini lakho, futhi bahlupheka e-Italy sebevele bengaphezu kwenkulungwane eyikhulu yentsha , ”Kuxwayisa u-Antonio Piotti, umbhali we-psicoterapeutae wencwadi ekhuluma ngesidoda ku-hikikomori yendlu yethu,“ Ibhentshi elingenalutho. Idayari yentsha eboshwe ngokweqile, “eyashicilelwa nguFranco Angeli ngo-2012

Sifundile ocwaningweni lwabafundi abayisikhombisa okwaxoxwa nabo: Umkhuba we-'L 'wokuthola amawebhusayithi wezithombe zocansi unethonya elibonakalayo esifisweni sezocansi seNtaliyane esencane, kanti izivakashi ezingama-25% ziholele ekuziphatheni ngokocansi okubhekwa njengokubi. ”Yibo laba bantu abafanayo ukubona ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle, ukuvuma (emacaleni ama-3%) ukuncika kwabo, kuyilapho abangaphezu kwama-50% bethi bahlushwa ukukhishwa umchamo ngaphambi kwesikhathi.

"Impela - unezela uCarlo Foresta - 'akunasinqumo esiziphethe kahle, kodwa kuyacaca ukuthi lesi sizukulwane sakhula' ngokungena emibandeleni yezithombe zocansi ngokungenamibandela, saqala ukukhombisa izinkinga ezinkulu zombili ubudlelwane obungokomzimba." 

UFrancis uneminyaka engama-21 namuhla, akanayo intombi, kodwa ekugcineni "ukuzijabulisa" okuthile. Uthi wavala umnyango wekamelo lakhe lapho abazali 'abangazelelwe' behlukene. “Iwebhu isiphenduke umhlaba wami, akukho ukuhlupheka, bekungaba khona ukuthanda, ukujabulela, ukuthola abangane, 'bekungabantu besifazane abangasile abalala nabo, yebo c' bekuphakathi nendawo kwesikrini… bengingenandaba, bekungukuthi iqhubeka kanjani isasasa… angisayanga, angibange ngisakhathala, angilalanga: Ngibe nokuphazamiseka kwemizwa, ngangeniswa emtholampilo. Kwakuyinsindiso yami. Ngabuya ngahlala nabanye.

"Ngenhlanhla, inani" elingathandeki "lezocansi realeè lincane. Futhi mhlawumbe, ngubani owaziyo, ngolunye usuku isifiso 'somunye noma omunye' singaqina kakhulu size sibenze bavule umnyango wegumbi labo. Kepha kukhona okushintshile kanti uGustavo Pietropolli Charmet, udokotela wezifo zengqondo ophambili ekuqondeni abafana be-bambinie, umema abantu abadala ukuthi babheke iqiniso. Ngaphandle kokuphendulela ikhanda lakho uye kolunye uhlangothi ucabanga ukuthi "mhlawumbe kuzodlula." 

“Namuhla sibona ushintsho olwandle ohlelweni lobudlelwano bezothando phakathi kwabantu abasha, abasuke 'othandweni lwezothando baya' othandweni lobudlwangudlwangu. Lolo luhlobo lothando lapho wonke umuntu azama ukuzanelisa, noma ngababili. Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, kubo akunasithiyo phakathi kwangempela nokubonakalayo: thina bantu abadala sicabanga ngewebhu njengezwe lezithunzi ngokungafani nezwe elibonakalayo… “. Ulimi lwensimbi ngamafuphi lucishe lube yi-incomprensibilea oluneminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amabili '. 2.0 Izithandani zingafika zidlule kukhompyutha empilweni yangempela, noma odongeni lwesikole ziqale futhi ziqede ngomyalezo obhaliwe. 

"Zonke izinguquko - kusho uCharmet - zibuza imibuzo yakhe, futhi lokhu kunguquko yezocansi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, iwebhu iyindawo yamahhala, lapho sikhonjiswa khona ngaphandle kwezithiyo, ngisho namahloni noma umuzwa omubi womdlalo, ngoba lokhu kuthathwa njengokuthakazelisa kakhudlwana. U-C 'lapho-ke wumqansa owedlulele wabafana abakhohlisa ukuzivocavoca ukuzoziqeqesha kule nkanuko eyedwa, ngaphandle komzimba, uma kungewona owakhe, ogcina engakwazi ukuhlala ocansini nomuntu wangempela. ” 

Kepha lo mkhuba, empeleni, ungowomhlaba wonke. Futhi uma eJapane, isifo "sokuhlukaniswa kokuya ocansini," manje sithinta ama-35% abantu abasha abaphakathi kweminyaka eyi-16 nengu-19, abangani babo nabangane babo abakhetha onodoli abangena ku-cybersexo, ngisho naseNgilandi ubulili obubonakalayo manje sebuthathwa 'njengesimo esiphuthumayo .

Ngocwaningo olukhulu olunesihloko esithi "Uyazi ukuthi ingane yakho igadla kuphi," i-Guardian yethule umkhankaso wokunxusa abazali ukuthi balawule izingane zabo eziyizisulu zokuthumelelana imiyalezo yocansi, ukunxenxwa, noma eziyimilutha eyingozi 'yokuthanda online. Futhi njalo eNgilandi uqale umkhankaso wokulwa namavidiyo omculo acace bha (bheka uMiley Cyrus), lokho nakho kungacasula amalungu amancane eMTV. 

U-Emilio Arisi, udokotela wezifo zabesifazane we-Sigo (Italian Society of Gynecology and Obstetrics) umjaho wokuphephela emthunzini wobulili obubonakalayo ngabesilisa, kungahle kuncike engxenyeni ye- "asymmetry" yokuvuthwa phakathi kwabafana namantombazane ngemuva kokuthomba, manje izimisele kakhulu kunakuqala. “Abafana bayesaba: Iminyaka eyi-18 isifiso sinamandla kakhulu, kepha imvamisa ubudala abutholakali, kunezinganekwane zamandla nobungqabavu. Eduze kwalokhu, c 'yindawo yonke ye-intanethi lapho yonke into ibonakala ingenzeka, kubukeka njengokubaleka, ikakhulukazi kwabasengozini kakhulu, okuphephe kakhulu. Esikhundleni salokho, kwenzeka ukuthi ekugcineni izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile zithathe indawo yobudlelwano obuphathekayo nomlingani. ”

Enkulumweni yakhe yendaba ekhuluma ngoHenry, insizwa ekhetha 'i-autoreclusione egumbini lakhe, u-Antonio Piotti uchaza izinyathelo kanye nezigaba okuholela kancane ukuthi osemusha aqede ubuhlobo nezwe langaphandle. “Lesi sikhalo esikhulu kangaka kwezocansi ku-inthanethi siyinkomba yokuthi ingcuphe 'ye-autoreclusione ikhona kangakanani kubantu abasha base-Italy. Kunjengokungathi bekunezifundazwe ezimbili: enye intsha ibheka izingosi ozifunda kanzima, kufana nokuthwasa okwenziwe, bese idluliselwa ebudlelwaneni bomzimba, kuyiqiniso. Futhi lokhu kusebenza nasemantombazaneni. Abanye bazihlukanisa, kwezocansi njengakuyo yonke enye into, lokho uContae ukuzijabulisa kukodwa, i-'altroo the 'enye ayikubali.

Futhi usuku nosuku uba owenele ngaphakathi kwezindonga ezine zekamelo lakhe. Ingaphandle liba yinto ebonakalayo kuphela. I-Autoreclusi ngokunembile. ”

DE LUCA MARIA NOVELLA


 

Ubulili encane buthakathaka, isifiso sokusola izintandokazi ku-intanethi

1/29/2014

Eminyakeni eyishumi, ubulili besishiyagalolunye nesishiyagalolunye isi-Italy selishintshile kakhulu: sekuphindwe kabili labo ababika isifo socansi, futhi banda kakhulu i-ejaculation engakafiki ngaphambi kokunciphisa ubunzima kanye nobunzima obukhulu be-erectile phambi kozakwethu. Inkinga ephela lapho ubulili buba yi-virtual and multimedia

UCarlo Foresta, umongameli weFree Foundation engenzi nzuzo kanye noprofesa wezifo zomtholampilo e-University 'yase-University of Padova, izolo wethule le phrojekthi i-andrology unomphela, noma uhlelo lokuhlola ezocansi' ezinsizaneni, ezenziwa kanye i-alderman Services Social yeSifundazwe sasePadua, okuze kube manje ibandakanye izingane eziyi-10,000 XNUMX.

Futhi 'isithombe esingenasihe sithathwe yiHlathi. Eminyakeni eyishumi, ngokusho kukaprofesa futhi bavumelana nemininingwane eqoqiwe, ubulili be-Italian eyishumi nesishiyagalombili "buguqulwe kakhulu: sebephindeke kabili labo ababika ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi, ukuphuma kwesikhashana ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi ngokubambisana bakhuphuka ukungabi nesifiso nobunzima be-erectile lapho kukhona umlingani. Inkinga evele inyamalale lapho ucansi luba yi-virtual ne-multimedia. ”Inkinga engekho, ngakho-ke lapho osemusha etholakala nje phambi kwe-pc, futhi kumqapha kudlulisa ama-movie ezithombe ezingcolile zobulili noma ngenye indlela.

Okwabafundi abanonyaka owedlule esikoleni samabanga aphakeme esifundazweni - futhi besekelwa yiSifundazwe sasePadua, i-ULSS 16, yiNyuvesi 'di Padova, uMasipala wasePadua kanye neHhovisi leSikole SesiFundazwe - iphrojekthi eyenziwe yiHlathi “Lapho uye wavumela ukutholwa kwezinkinga ezahlukahlukene kusenesikhathi, kodwa futhi nokuqonda ukuthi 'bashintsha kanjani ubulili' babancane kakhulu. ”

Futhi ngokusho kwedatha eqoqwe ngesikhathi socwaningo, izingqinamba ezifana nezinguquko ekusebenzeni kwe-erectile nokulahleka kwe-libido, zanda kakhulu eminyakeni eyishumi. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ngesikhathi sokuxoxa ngocansi ku-intanethi, ngokwesibonelo, abantu abasha "basabela" kangcono. Ngoba uProfessor Forest ubaluleke kakhulu "gwema lezi zinkinga ngokushesha okukhulu, futhi ukhuthaze abancane kakhulu ukuthi bangahlali bodwa nobunzima babo, kodwa babhekane nabo ukuzinqoba."


Teens and Sex online August 5 2014

Ukungasebenzi kahle kwezocansi kanye ne-pornodipendenza ngezinye zezingozi ezihambisana nokwanda okwethusayo kocansi "lokugula" kwentsha online. Kusuka emininingwaneni eqoqwe yi-Italian Society of Andrology and Medical medicine yezocansi (Siams) futhi eyethulwe eMkhosini Wolwazi, Wokufundisa, isithombe sivela ngokushaqisayo ngokuthembela kwabantu abasha kusuka ocansini ngocansi.
I-25% yabasha phakathi kwe-14 ne-16 iminyaka idlula isikhathi esiningi eqinisweni exhunywe kumasayithi we-porn engafaneleki izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-18, engozini yokuthuthukisa ukungasebenzi kocansi, njenge-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi ukunciphisa isifiso nokulutha kwengqondo.

Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi kusukela ngo-2005 inani lezinsizakalo ze-porno ezivamile liphindwe kabili: 5000000-8000000 e-Italy. Kulezi, i-10% ingabantwana.
UFederico Tonioni, umqondisi weCentre for psychopathology from web del Policlinico Gemelli in Rome, umbhali wencwadi ethi “Psychopathology mediated web, internet addiction, and new dissociative phenomena” (Springer), uphawule wathi: “I-80% yeziguli zethu zingabantu nje abafana abaneminyaka eyi-12 kuye kwengama-25, abasebenzisa izingosi zengevu, ukuxhumana nabantu kanye nemidlalo yokulingisa. Ku-web encane eyenzelwe ubudlelwano kungaholela ekuhlukanisweni kobudlelwano bomzimba womqondo. Ekusebenzeni kwe-cybersex okungekho esigabeni sokuqeqeshwa: ucansi ngeWebhu lususa imizwa, imizwa kodwa futhi nezinkinga zomhlaba wangempela. Kukhona lapho okhumula khona futhi enze ukuthumela imiyalezo ngokuthumela izithombe kanzima ukuthola ama-refills, kepha-ke lapho siphila khona sinamahloni ngoba akusona isipiliyoni sangempela. Lapha ingozi yileyo yokuvimba, ukuba namahloni okwedlulele nabanye abasenyameni, okuholela ekukhululekeni okusha kwezindiza kuwebhu. ”


 

Porn and Memory  April 1, 2014

… Kepha izinkinga ze-pornonauti zibonakala zingapheli lapha. Ngokuya ngocwaningo oluvela e-University of Padova, phakathi kwabantu abasha abasebenzisa kakhulu izithombe zobulili ezingcolile enetheni, oyedwa kwabane ubeka engcupheni yokulahlekelwa isifiso sobulili kanye nokukhishwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngaphambi kwesikhathi. “Izingane zanamuhla - kusho udokotela womchamo uCarlo Foresta, umbhali oholayo wocwaningo nomongameli weSociety of Andrology and Sexual Medicine - yisizukulwane sokuqala esike saba nokuhlangenwe nakho kwezocansi okwehlukile esizukulwaneni esedlule: i-internet, i-web cam, ingxoxo nemifanekiso bakha indlela entsha yokuxhumana ngocansi ethinta ngaphezu kwe-800,000 ngenyanga yabancane. Lesi sipiliyoni asiniki bufakazi bangempela futhi sakha ezokuxhumana nezocansi ezingacabangeli izinzwa kanye nokuthinta. ”

Imininingwane futhi ikhombisa ukuthi ngaphezu kwe-12% yesampula yabantu abasha ayibukeki ubuhlobo bangempela. U-25% umemezele ukuthi uhlushwa inzalo yangempela eyehlisiwe kanye ne-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi lokhu kuchaza i-Forest, kungenxa yokuthi ukuphuma kwe-ejaculation kwenzeka ngezikhathi zama-movie, ngokuvamile kwi-intanethi okungaphela emizuzwini embalwa.