I-Tinder ne-Dawn ye-"Dating Apocalypse", i-Vanity Fair (i-2015)

IMIBUZO: Yize lesi sihloko sikhuluma ngeTinder, izingcaphuno ezimbalwa ziveza ukufana kwethonya le-porn, kufaka phakathi ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okubangelwa ucansi.

Ngcaphuno

Imvula yehla kakhulu, futhi ihambela ngaphakathi ekamelweni lokuphumula, elinombhede, itafula lekhofi, kanye namathepishi aqoshwe kuwo wonke amakhaya. Inkulumo ibuyele ocansini futhi:

"Iningi labantu abatholakali kulowo mnyango," kusho uCatherineney. "Uyini i-orgasm yangempela? Ngeke ngazi. "

Bonke bahleka ngokungazi.

"Ngiyazi ukuthi nginginikela kanjani mina," kusho i-Courtney.

UJessica uthi: "Yebo, kodwa abantu abazi ukuthi benzeni," kusho uJessica.

"Ngaphandle kokuthi [isidlidliza] anginakho," kusho uCatherineney. "Akukaze kwenzeke" nomfana. "Kuyinkinga enkulu."

"Kuyinkinga," kusho uJessica.

Bakhuluma ukuthi akuyona into engavamile ukuba i-hookups yabo ilahlekelwe izikhwama zabo. Kuyinto eyenzekayo yezokwelapha, ukunyuka kwe-erectile kwabasebenzi abesilisa abasha, okuye kwabhekwa kuyo yonke into esuka kwamakhemikhali ekudleni okusetshenziselwa ukungena kobudlelwane obusondelene nobulili.

"Uma umfana engakwazi ukulukhuni, "kusho uRebecca," futhi kufanele ngithi, lokho kwenzeka kakhulu, benza nje njengokuphela kwezwe. "

"Ngehora lesine ekuseni lo mfana wayevutha kabi, futhi nganginjengokuthi, Dude, ngizohamba ngidlale-kulungile," kusho uSarah, i-21, ophethe izinwele ezimnyama ezinde. "Ngikhathele ngempela ukukhwabanisa."

Ngokwezifundo eziningi, abesifazane banamathuba amaningi okuba nezinhlayiya esimweni sobuhlobo kunezingxoxo ezingavunyelwe. Ngokucwaninga okwenziwe ngabacwaningi eN Kinsey Institute naseBinghamton University.

"Uma ngibona ama-dick ahlambazayo eza kimi, ngiyathanda, Oh Nkulunkulu wami, "Kusho u-Courtney, ebeka iminwe yakhe ngesibonakaliso somnqamlezo, njengokungathi ukugwema i-vampire.

Bahleka.

"Kungaba kuhle uma bekwazi ukwenza kuphela futhi bangangeni emizuzwana emibili," kusho uRebecca.

"Ngicabanga ukuthi amadoda anombono obhekene nalokho okwenzeka ngokobulili nge-pornography, "Kusho uJessica, ebuka phezulu efonini yakhe. "Ngoba ngezinye izikhathi ngicabanga ukuthi ubulili bobulili obucansi abukakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi-njengokushaya umuntu othile." Wenza ukunyakaza kwesandla sakhe, ecasuka.

"Yebo, kubonakala sengathi kubuhlungu," kusho uDanielle.

"NjengoJessica, "kusho uJessica," labo besifazane-akusikho, bathandeka, njengokungathi bahanjiswe izinwele noma badonswa noma bahlaselwa. Ngisho, noma ngabe ungenile, kodwa abantu bacabanga nje "-izwi elizwile-" 'Ngizoyidonsa,' futhi ngezinye izikhathi akuyona into enkulu. "

"Yebo," kusho uDanielle. "Njengobusuku obudlule ngangiya ocansini nalomfana, futhi ngingumuntu othobekile kakhulu, hhayi onobubi nhlobo-futhi lo mfana owelele ebusuku, wangiphatha kabi. "

Bathule umzuzwana.