Sitholaphi umklomelo phakathi kokusebenzisa ngokweqile nokulutha ngokweqile kumasiko e-intanethi? UCharlotte Loppie, uprofesa we-UVic eSikoleni Sempilo Yomphakathi, Inqubomgomo Yezenhlalakahle, kanye noHlelo LwezokuPhepha kwezeMpilo yaseMakhaya, kanye ne-Community-based Based Aboriginal Health Research, usanda kubona ukunyuka okukhulu kwenani labafundi besilisa abafuna izeluleko mayelana nokuhlukunyezwa kwe-erectile ebuhlotsheni ngenxa yokubuka kabanzi kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile .
I-porn ye-intanethi ingaba "ekugcineni isenzo esiyingozi," kusho uLolpie, ngoba "ukuvuselelwa ngokushesha komlilo" kokuqukethwe okungacacile okushiya umbukeli akakwazi ukuvuswa ubulili nomuntu wangempela.
Esinye isenzakalo salesi senzakalo sizibiza ngokweqile umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye no-Spencer Thompson, oneminyaka engu-4 eyinhloko yokubhala ngobunikazi, owakhuluma noLolpie ngesipiliyoni sakhe somlutha ngonyaka odlule. U-Loppie uthi uTh Thompson uhlangana naye ngokuqala ngo-Thompson kodwa uyanezela, "Ngiye ngabafundi abakhuluma nami iminyaka eminingi ababhekana nalokhu."
U-Thompson uchaza ukuthi isithakazelo sakhe ekuziphatheni zobulili ezingcolile saqala eBangeni 10 nokuthi uyaqhubeka ehlupheka ngenxa yokulutha. Uthi: "Ngisahlukana," usho kanje. "Ayikho ikhambi."
"Ngesinye isikhathi ngifisa sengathi ngiseyingane kusukela eminyakeni engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye. Kwakungadingeki ukuthi babhekane [namakhompyutha]. "
Kumqulu we-2015 we- Ukubuyekezwa kweTexas yoMthetho nezepolitiki, U-Alexandra Harrison uyabhala: “Ukuba umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-Internet kunezici zombili zokulutha ngokocansi nokulutha nge-Inthanethi, okwenza kube nobuthi obukhulu kunezinye izidakamizwa. I-American Bar Association (i-ABA), ichaza ukulutheka ngokocansi 'njengokuncika okuphoqelekile kunoma yikuphi ukuziphatha kocansi okubamba umlutha, oqhubeka nokusebenza ngokucindezela njengoba imiphumela ikhuphuka futhi ohlangabezana nokuphoqeleka ngaphezu kwamandla akhe okumelana, ukulawula, noma uyeke. '”
Ezinsukwini zakhe "ezinzima kakhulu," ukubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwakunikeza injabulo kuphela ekuphileni kuka Thompson. Wayejwayele ukweqa isikole ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezitholakala kuyi-intanethi, futhi ekugcineni akazange akwazi ukuxhuma ngokobulili nangokomzwelo ngezintshisekelo ezingase zithandane. "Uma nginenkinga, ingqondo yami evele isuke futhi ngisonke ishukunyiswa umzimba," kusho uTh Thompson.
UHarrison uyaqhubeka Ukubuyekeza kweTexas: "I-ABA iphawula ukuthi ngenkathi 'umlutha uqala, umlutha kudingeka ahlanganyele ekuziphatheni okuvamile noma okukhwabanisa ukukhiqiza ukugijima okufanayo kwezinto eziphilayo,' nokukhathazeka, ukuphikelela, nokucindezela okudingekayo ukuqhubeka, 'kunokuba kwenziwe izenzo ezithile, phawula ukulutha. "Ngakho ukuthokoza akusekho mayelana nezocansi nge-se kodwa kodwa ngomsebenzi othize wokubuka i-porn inthanethi.
"Uqhubekela phambili ezintweni ezingaphezulu kakhulu ngoba [uhlobo oludlule] alukwenzi lutho kuwe. . . kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, unembeza wakho uthi [okuqukethwe okubi], "kuchaza uT Thompson.
Ngokusho kuka-Emma Carter we-Centre for Addictions Research of BC (CARBC), akukho cwaningo olwenziwa ngokuphathelene nokulutha kobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi. Njengoba ucwaningo olwanele luya ngemuva kwezinkinga ezintsha ezithombeni zobulili ezingcolile, imibono yezokwelapha ehluke kakhulu. Okusekelwe kahle ukuhlukana phakathi kokuhlangenwe nakho kwamadoda nabesifazane abanezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi. "Kuyo yonke iminyaka yami [esebenza empilweni yezocansi], angikaze ngizwe owesifazane ethi [ubheke] izithombe ezingcolile zobulili kangangokuba [akakwazi] ukuzijabulisa nomlingani wangempela," kusho uLippie.
Incwadi ye-2007 uDkt Daniel Linz Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ku-intanethi: Imibono ephikisanayo uthi "amalebula afana 'nesidakamizwa socansi' noma 'umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile' angase asitshele okwengeziwe ngomphakathi wethu kanye nezindima zobungqingili kunokuqeda noma yisiphi isifo esisha." I-Linz ikhombisa ukuthi kusukela labo ababhekwa ngokuthi "izidakamizwa zocansi" abanamaphutha abantu, abanye abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukulindela komphakathi kubantu abesilisa abanesifo socansi kungabangela amadoda ukuba aveze ubukhulu babo besilisa ngokudlwengula.
Ngokusho kukaHarrison, i-"Coolidge Effect," echazwe njengento efuna ukuvelisa ubulili besilisa, isho ukuthi igumbi elingenamkhawulo le-intanethi elisha elihle lingcono ekunakekeleni umlutha wesilisa.
Noma kunjalo, iLoppie iyabuza ukuthi ukulutha umlutha kuyisikhathi esifanele. "Ngicabanga ukuthi yini esiyibonayo [okuthiwa i-inthanethi yokulutha kwe-porn] isebenzisa ngokweqile uhlobo oluthile lwe-stimuli."
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi, eminye imiphakathi e-intanethi isebenza ukubhekana nalabo abahlukunyezwa yi-pornography e-inthanethi ngokweqile noma ekugqilazweni. Ku-2011, i-subreddit ebizwa ngokuthi i-NoFap ikhulile futhi ekugcineni itholakala njengenhlelo lokusebenza. Enye iwebhusayithi ebizwa ngokuthi i-YourBrainOnPorn.com ifundisa abasebenzisi ngemiphumela yesayensi ye-porn futhi ikhuthaza inqubo ebizwa ngokuthi i-Reboot lapho abasebenzisi bebalekela khona ukushaya indlwabu kanye nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezinsukwini ze-90. U-Thompson uqinisekisa ukuthi inqubo yokubuyiselwa kabusha isebenza ngempumelelo ekuqondiseni ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okubangelwa i-porn inthanethi.
U-Thompson unikeza iseluleko kulabo abakhathazeka ukuthi bangase badlulele ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi: "Ngisho noma ubona ezinye izinto eziyinqaba [ku-intanethi], [futhi] ucabanga ukuthi yilokho. . . ungene ngempela, ngeke ngenze leso sahlulelo kuze kube yilapho usuhambe. "
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungase ube umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile zakwa-intanethi, abacebisi be-UV bayatholakala ukuze basize. Vakashela ibhulogi ka-Thompson ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe: spencerthomp.wordpress.com
By Cayden Johnson February 4, 2016
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