I-11 / 04 / 2018, uJesse Mulligan. Xhuma kusigaba se-TV se-3.5 yamaminithi (okulotshwe ngezansi)
QAPHELA: Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo lapha zithi siphakathi kwenkinga yezocansi.
Ngonyaka odlule isifundo se-Australia sathola amaphesenti angu-100 wabesilisa abacwaningiwe abonwe yizocansi, kanti amaphesenti angu-85 athi ayibheka nsuku zonke noma ngeviki.
E-US, izifunda eziyisithupha zimemezela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zinkinga yempilo yomphakathi. Ngisho I-New York Times ubiza izikhulu ukuba ziwuvimbele.
Kepha ngenkathi kulula ukutshela uhulumeni ukuthi kufanele ngabe kukhona akwenzayo, lokhu kungenye yalezi zinkinga lapho empeleni, yilokho okwenzayo okubalulekile.
Ngifuna ukukhuluma ngezithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
- Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zikhuthazwa ku-Instagram
- Indlela yokukhuluma nezingane zakho mayelana ne-porn
- Ingabe izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile zibhubhisa ubuchopho bethu?
Ngaphandle, kuluhlobo lwesihloko esingathandeki, ikakhulukazi ku-TV lapho izingane kungenzeka zibukele, ngakho-ke ngithole isisombululo.
Ngemizuzu embalwa elandelayo esikhundleni segama elithi 'porn', ngizosho igama elithi 'ummbila'. Tshela izingane zakho nje ukuthi sikhuluma ngombila.
Lapho ngisemncane, awukaze uwubone ummbila. Mhlawumbe enye ingane ibingaletha ummbila kayise wayo esikoleni bese uyidlulisa, kodwa beyiyinhle impela. Abanye babo bebesagqoke amakhoba abo.
Manje njengoba cishe uyazi, ummbila ukhona yonke indawo. Awudingi ngisho nokuwuthengisa kusuka ebisikolweni, uvula nje i-laptop yakho noma ifoni futhi yilapho ilungele ukuhamba.
Njengomfana kuyalingana futhi kulula - njengokuthatha ubhiya obandayo efrijini. Kepha yilobu lula engifuna ukukhuluma ngabo kulobubusuku.
Ngokuzayo lapho uqala ukuthayipha i- “cornhub” kubha yakho yekheli, thatha isikhashana bese ukukhumbula lokhu.
Uchitha kancane kancane ikhono lakho lokuba nobulili obuvamile nomunye umuntu ovamile.
Nakhu okushiwo ngudokotela wezengqondo uDkt Mark Thorpe, osebenza ngalezi zinto ngaso sonke isikhathi.
“Sisenkingeni. Kunenkinga eyeqile yezocansi nezinsizwa ezingaphansi kweminyaka engama-25 - futhi lokho kukhombisa ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile; ukubambezeleka kokubambezeleka; kunciphise i-libido nabalingani bempilo yangempela, hhayi isikrini; nokugwema ubudlelwano bangempela. ”
Kulungile, ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ungena ku-inthanethi ukuze wehle, wenza i-corncob yakho ibukeke kanjena.
Uma uwudla ummbila omningi, uzowudinga ummbila onzima kakhulu.
Nangu uDkt Thorpe futhi: “Ingqondo nobulili be-inthanethi benzelwe lokhu, ngakho-ke kukhona ukuthambekela okungokwemvelo kokungena ezintweni ezinzima ngokwengeziwe.
"Kufana ncamashi nalokhu okushilo ngezidakamizwa, udinga ama-hits amakhulu udinga izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene kakhulu ngakho-ke kuya ngokuya kube kokuqukethwe okunolaka, okunzima, nokujezisa."
Laba bangabantu bangempela kula mavidiyo.
Indodakazi yomuntu, udadewabo womuntu. Abanye babo benza umsebenzi omuhle wokubukeka kanjena kungumsebenzi wabo wokuqala wokuzikhethela, kepha ungazenzi ngokwakho.
Okungenani vuma ukuthi ngokusebenzisa ummbila sisiza ngempumelelo inkampani enkulu ukwenza abesifazane namantombazane benze izinto abangafuni ngempela ukuzenza, ukuze amadoda anjengathi azizwe kamnandi imizuzwana embalwa.
Thatha ubunikazi bokuthi lokhu kwenzekani kubantwana baseNew Zealand.
Kulinganiselwa ukuthi amaphesenti angama-88 ezithombe zocansi eziku-inthanethi anobudlova. Ngokusekela le mboni sisekela uhlobo lwethu lwakamuva lwemfundo yezocansi, lapho abafana befunda khona ukuthi ukushaya izimpama, ukuminyanisa nokulimaza izintombi zabo kuyindlela yokusondelana, futhi amantombazane akhula ecabanga ukuthi enzelwe ukwenza njengabesifazane kumavidiyo ngoba yilolo kuphela ucansi asebeke balubona.
Uma ukuzwa lezi zinto kukwenza ufune ukwenza ushintsho, bengisebenza noDkt Thorpe kusethi yamathiphu wokuqhubeka nokusuka ku-porn.
Kuvuliwe Ikhasi le-Facebook leProjekhthi. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthi izovela kumlando wakho, vele uvule isiphequluli sakho sangasese kuqala… uqinisekile ukuthi uyazi ukuthi kusebenza kanjani lokho.
Futhi bheka, angizukutshela okufanele ukwenze lapho amakhethini esevaliwe. Kepha ngiyakucela ukuthi ungazisebenzisi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngamehlo akho evaliwe.
I-intanethi ihlangana nathi ngezindlela esingasoze saziqonda ngokugcwele, kepha ukuthola enye indlela yokuzifaka esimweni sengqondo kuyinto eyodwa enkulu ongayenza ukuze ube nomthelela omuhle kuwe, ebuhlotsheni bakho nasezinganeni zakho.
UJesse Mulligan ungumethuli ku-Project
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