Xhumanisa esihlokweni sokuqala
By UMike Huynh
Amahora we-5,517,000,000 we-porn adliwe ku-2018 yodwa ... kwenye indawo eyodwa.
Uma ungazange uphonse ngaphambi kokuba udinga manje. Umlutha wezinsizi kuyinkinga ekhulayo phakathi kwamadoda wanamuhla. Okubi nakakhulu, kungonakalisa ubudlelwane bakho, umsebenzi wakho kanye nokuthungatha ngekhampasi yakho yokuziphatha.
Kuhle kakhulu, uma ukholelwa izibalo. Ngokusho umbiko we-2017 ovela ku Huffington Post, amasayithi we-porn athola imoto ejwayelekile ngaphezu kwe-Netflix, i-Amazon ne-Twitter kuhlangene ngenyanga. Futhi amahora esichitha ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile? I-Pornhub Analytics uliphazamise ngamahora angu-5,517,000,000 ku-2018 yedwa kulabavakashela kwisayithi yabo. Ngamanye amazwi landa.
Ngonyaka odlule sithole ithuba lokuhlola umlutha wezocansi nomphathi wezokuxhumana we-Channel 10, uSamantha Jayne. Lesi sikhathi sithatha indlela engokwengqondo ngaphezulu (izimpawu, izimbangela nemiphumela) ngosizo lwesazi sengqondo ULuka Vu onguchwepheshe bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nomlutha we-intanethi.
"Intsha yanamuhla namadoda angomuso bayofunda ukuzisebenzisa-ukuphatha ukusetshenziswa kwabo kobulili ngenxa yokuthi izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile zifinyeleleka ngokushesha."
Okwenza Ukubheja Ngokweqile Kuyinkinga Yangempela
Ngokuyinhloko, ukubheja kwezidakamizwa kuye kwaba yikhiqiza ye-intanethi futhi akuyona ifa ngokwemvelo. UVu uthi ukwanda kwezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi kubangelwa ubuchwepheshe obukhulu.
"I-free it, itholakala kalula futhi kunomqondo wonke othi 'akekho owaziyo ukuthi uyayisebenzisa'," kuchaza. Le ntsha engapheli kanye nenkululeko yokuhlola ngokuchofoza kwegundane yisona isizathu sokuthi kungani amadoda amaningi asebexhomekile ku-porno yokuvusa.
"Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ku-1990 nakwa-2000 zakuqala zaziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ukuthola - kuzodingeka uye esitolo sevidiyo noma uthenge i-DVD - lokhu kusho ukuthi uzodinga ukuphatha iziphakamiso zakho zokuthola ubulili."
Lezi zinsuku kuyacaca ukubona indlela ezobuchwepheshe ezishintshe ngayo indlela umphakathi odla ngayo okuqukethwe kanye nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, kodwa uVu uthi kunenkinga enkulu kunazo zonke ekugcineni.
"Ngicabanga ukuthi intsha yanamuhla namadoda asekusasa bayofunda ukuzisebenzisa-ukuphatha ukusetshenziswa kwabo kobulili ngenxa yokuthi i-porno yangempela (VR) porn isheshe ifinyeleleke."
Uyazi kanjani ukuthi ungumlutha wazo?
U-Vu uchaza ukuthi 'ukulutha' kungase kusho izinto ezihlukile emphakathini nasengqondweni. "Ukuthola ukuthi unesidakamizwa kudinga ukuhlolwa okusemthethweni ngophrofayili wezempilo yengqondo njengokwengqondo kwengqondo noma umqondo wezifo zengqondo. Kubuye kube nengxabano ngoba kusekhona indawo esebenzayo yokucwaninga. "
Noma kunjalo, lezi yizibonakaliso ezine ezivame kakhulu ukuthi ungaba umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile:
- Uhluleka ngokuphindaphindiwe emizamweni yakho yokulawula ukusetshenziswa kwakho kwe-porn
- Usebenzisa njalo izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile (noma izithombe ezingcolile kakhulu) kunalokho okuhlosiwe
- Usebenzisa i-porn njengendlela yokugwema imizwa noma izinkinga ezimbi
- Ukusebenzisa kwakho i-porn kuyaphazamisa impilo yakho yansuku zonke ie umsebenzi, isifundo,
ubudlelwano nempilo
Uma uphendule ngokuthi 'yebo' ezimbalwa zalezi, kungase kudingeke ukhulume nochwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo.
Kungani Kunzima Ukulawula Umlutha Wezinsongo?
Kulula njengokucindezela 'ukumisa' nokuvala isikrini sakho akunjalo? Akunjalo ngempela.
"I-Porn iyisisusa esingavamile. Kuyisisusa esenza impendulo ibe namandla kunalokho abantu ababekulungiselelwe ukuziphendukela kwemvelo. Izinhlobonhlobo ezingapheli zabalingani bocansi, izenzo zobulili kanye nokuxhuma kwayo ezikhungweni zethu ezibucayi ngokuqashelwa ngokugcwele izinhlelo zethu zokuvuza futhi kushukumise ukusetshenziswa, "kuchaza uVu.
Futhi-ke kukhona ukufinyeleleka. Lezi zinsuku zobulili ezingcolile zikhululekile, zingenamkhawulo futhi ziyadingeka, okusho ukuthi kunamathuba amaningi okubuyela emuva emikhubeni endala ngisho nalapho ezama ukuyeka. Isizathu sokugcina ukuthi i-porn ejabulisa ukuzidla. Ivumela abasebenzisi ukuba bazibandakanye emibonweni yabo yokucansi kanye nomqondo wokunikeza lokho ngakho-ke kuvame ukuba nzima kakhulu.
Kwenzekani Uma Ushiya Kungenakuphikiswa?
Njenganoma iyiphi inkinga eshiywe ingalashwa ingase ibe yimbi kakhulu. Labo abasebenzisa i-porn ngokweqile bangase banganaki ubuhlobo babo siqu njengoba befaka ukuxhumeka kwangempela kocansi. Lokhu ukunganaki okuholela ekuhloleni ukuhlukana noma isehlukaniso.
Ngaphambili, i-Vu ithi ingathinta ukusebenza komsebenzi uma uchitha amahora amaningi nobusuku ekufuneni isicoco se-porn "esiphelele" - ukuxoshwa ngokulutha kwezilonda ezingcolile kuyizingokoqobo kulezi zinsuku. Ngakolunye uhlangothi ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kokusebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile kunemiphumela ehlukile. Kwabanye, izithakazelo zabo zobulili zishintsha. Akuyona into embi kodwa kungabi kubi. U-Vu uthi uzothola ukufuna izithombe ezingcolile ezingahambisani namagugu akho noma okubi kakhulu, okubhekwa njengokungekho emthethweni.
Izindlela Eziningi Eziyingozi Ezintweni Zobulili Ezingcolile
Enye yezindlela ezikhathazayo kakhulu zokulutha kocansi kuyi-detachment ezweni langempela. Iziguli zingase zibhekane nobunzima ngokuvuswa kwengqondo nangokwenyama ngokuhlangana kwabo ngokoqobo ngokocansi - isimo esivame ukubhekwa ngokuthi yi-Pornography Ekhishwe Ngokwehluleka Kwe-Erectile.
"Ngezinye izikhathi ukukhubazeka ngokocansi kungenxa yokukhathazeka nokuqhathaniswa kwengqondo njalo nezingane ezingcolile. Kwabanye kungenxa yokulahla okungapheli kwamasu okushaya indlwabu - okubizwa ngokuthi 'ukufa-grip syndrome'.
Enye yezintandokazi ezihamba phambili yilapho imikhuba yezocansi iqhubekela phambili ekuhlanganiseni ukuvuswa kobulili nezihloko ze-'ababoo '. "Amanye amaklayenti adidekile futhi azikhathazekile ngokwabo ngemva kokuzindla ngalokho abaye bakudla."
Indlela Yokuqeqesha Ubuchopho Bakho Ukuyeka Ukubuka I-Porn
Ukuvuselelwa kokulutha kabi kwezilwane kuhlale kunokwenzeka ngokusho kweVu. Uthi: "Amaphethini obuchopho ashintshe futhi ungakwazi njalo ukuyeka imikhuba endala futhi udale imikhuba emisha nempilo," esho.
Labo abathintekayo ngemikhuba yabo yezingcingo bangasebenzisa lezi zinyathelo ukuvimbela ukusetshenziswa.
- Qaphela ukusetshenziswa kwakho - ikakhulukazi uma kudlula amahora ambalwa futhi uqala ukuyibuka emsebenzini noma ngesikhathi sokuphumula
- Qondisisa ukusetshenziswa kwakho nezizathu zokuthi kungani ungayisebenzisi
- Hlola ukuthi yiliphi inani lakho elifanele / eliphathekayo
- Yenza ngamabomu ngokusebenzisa kwakho - usethe isikhathi, usethe izigaba eziphephile bese uchaza lokho okubomvu
amafulegi ayenjalo - Yamukela futhi ufunde ukubhekana nezikhalo njengoba uzama ukunciphisa - cabanga ngemiphumela noma usebenzise iziphazamiso ezifana nezemidlalo noma ezinye izinto zokuzilibazisa ukuze uthathe indawo ye-porn
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