Ukuphazamiseka Ngokobulili Ezingcolile Kuyinkinga Ekhulayo (2011)

Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-Intanethi zibonakala "zingenabulili" kubasebenzisi abaningi, kunciphisa ukusebenza.

izithandani eziyinkinga embhedeniInombolo ekhulayo yabasebenzisi abasha be-pornography abasha, abanempilo e-intanethi bayakhononda ngokukhipha ukuphuza, ukungakwazi ukushintshwa ngabalingani bangempela, futhi ukuphazamiseka okwenyukayo.

Abafana abaningi, ama-20s noma kunjalo, abasakwazi ukuphakama nentombazane yangempela, futhi bonke balandisa ngokuba nomkhuba omkhulu we-porn / indlwabu. Abafana abasoze baxoxa ngokukhululekile ngalokhu nabangane noma osebenza nabo, ngokwesaba ukuhlekwa ngaphandle kwedolobha. Kepha uma othile etshela indaba yakhe kwiforamu yezempilo, futhi kunezimpendulo ezingama-50-100 ezivela kwabanye abafana abalwela into efanayo, lokhu kungokoqobo.

Izinkinobho eziphathelene nalolu daba ziyasakaza yonke iWebhu ekwakheni umzimba, usizo lwezokwelapha kanye nezinkundla zokudweba zomculi, okungenani emazweni angamashumi amabili. Isaziso kusuka esinye isithangami esinjalo:

Ngenxa yama-imeyili ahlukumezayo nezicelo esizitholile mayelana nokulutha kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nokukhubazeka kwe-erectile, sanquma ukwakha intambo ehluke ngokuphelele. I-ED ngenxa ye-porn iyashesha ngokushesha, ikakhulukazi kubantu abasha.

Izinsizwa eziphelelwe yithemba ezivela emasikweni ahlukahlukene, ezinamazinga ahlukene emfundo, inkolo, izimo zengqondo, izindinganiso, ukudla, ukusetshenziswa kwensangu nobuntu bazo zifuna usizo. Banezinto ezimbili kuphela ezifanayo: ukusetshenziswa okunzima kwe-porn yanamuhla ye-Intanethi kanye nesidingo esandayo sezinto ezimbi kakhulu.

Abaningi phambilini bake baya kodokotela, bahlolwa okwahlukahlukene, kwathiwa “balunge” ngokomzimba. Abona noma abahlinzeki babo bezokunakekelwa kwezempilo ababheki ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwe-porn njengesizathu esingaba yinkinga yezinkinga zabo zokusebenza eziqhubekayo. Iningi laqinisekiswa ukuthi “ukushaya indlwabu akunakubangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile.” Ukuxilongwa kokugcina kwakuvame ukuthi "ukukhathazeka kokusebenza."

Ingabe ukukhathazeka ngempela imbangela? Nasi isivivinyo esilula: Zama ukushaya indlwabu (wedwa) ungasebenzisi i-porn futhi akukho fantasy-kuphela ukuthinta inkanuko. Sebenzisa isivinini nengcindezi efanayo njengoba ubuzokwenza ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini. Imile kanjani ipipi lakho ngaphandle kocansi? Uma ipipi lakho lingamile kahle, noma kudinga umzamo ukuze ume, ke amathuba ukuthi ukukhathazeka akuyona imbangela yezinkinga zakho. Izinkinga zokusebenza eziqhubekayo ngokuqinisekile zingakwenza holela ukukhathazeka, noma kunjalo. Njengoba indoda eyodwa yathi ngemuva kokubuya ngemva kwezinyanga ezintathu ngaphandle kokushaya indlwabu noma i-porn,

Kunzima ukusho ukuthi umlutha uphela kuphi nokukhathazeka kuqala. Ngicabanga ukuthi inhlanganisela yalokhu kubandakanyeka ezimeni eziningi.

Esikhathini esidlule, iziguli ze-urologists zase-Italy ziqinisekisile u-erectile ukungasebenzi-uxhumano lokusebenzisa i-porn nge- inhlolovo enkulu. Lapho bexoxwa ngalolu cwaningo, urologist uCarlo Foresta (inhloko ye-Italian Society of Andrology kanye neMithi yokwelapha kanye noProfesa eYunivesithi yasePadua) yatsho ukuthi amaphesenti angu-70 alabafana abesebenza ngemitholampilo yakhe ngenxa yezinkinga zokusebenza ngokobulili basebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi kakhulu. (I-Foresta manje ibonakala ngokusobala wenza ucwaningo.)

AmaNtaliyane awayedwa. Amanye ama-profesional wezokwelapha aqala ukuphatha abantu abasha abanempilo abaye bahlakulela ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi okubangelwa ucansi:

Ukubuyiselwa kubonakala kuthatha amasonto e-6-12, futhi ihlala ngokuyinhloko kwisici esisodwa: ukugwema ukugqugquzelwa ngokweqile kwe-Internet eerotica. (Abaningi baphinde bagweme ukushaya indlwabu isikhathi esithile, mhlawumbe ngoba ekuqaleni bangakwazi ukushaya indlwabu ngaphandle kwefantasy, noma ngenxa yokuthi ukuqhuma komzimba kuyabangela ukubhaphala.)

Phakathi kwalabo abalulamayo, ukuqhubeka kuyafana ngokumangazayo. Abesilisa bajwayele ukubika ukuthi ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa zokulangazelela okukhulu ubulili, i-libido yabo yehla kanye nepipi labo kubonakala ngathi "akunampilo," "kunciphile," noma "kuyabanda". Lezi zimpawu "ze-flatline" zivame ukuqhubeka kuze kufike amasonto ayisithupha Ngokwesilinganiso, kuncike ekutheni ubukhulu bezintandokazi zokusetshenziswa kwezingcingo.

Kancane kancane, ukubuyiswa kwekusasa kubuyele emuva, kulandelwa yi-libido futhi, mhlawumbe, ukuvinjelwa ngezikhathi ezithile. Okokugcina, ukutholakala okuphelele kwezempilo erectile, isifiso sobulili sabalingani bangempela, ubulili buba mnandi kakhulu, futhi ukusetshenziswa kwekhondomu akusekho inkinga.

  • Ngingowesilisa oneminyaka engu-25 ubudala, ngishaya indlwabu kakhulu kusuka ku-13 futhi ngisebenzisa i-porn kusuka ku-14. Kancane kancane, kuthathe okuningi ukungivula: imicabango emikhulu noma i-porn enzima, futhi ngayeka ukuqina ngaphandle kokuthinta. Ngesikhathi socansi ngangizabalaza ukuthola ukwakhiwa noma ukukugcina, ikakhulukazi kwezocansi. Eminyakeni eyi-7 eyedlule angikaze ngibambe ubuhlobo. Isizathu esikhulu kimi kube yile nkinga. Manje izindaba ezimnandi: Lapho ngibona imbangela, ngayiyeka masinyane i-porn. Emasontweni wokugcina we-6 ngiyeke ukushaya indlwabu ngangokunokwenzeka. (Irekhodi lami elihle kunazo zonke kwakuyizinsuku eziyi-9!) Konke kwaba nomvuzo. Ngavele ngahamba nentombazane ngempelasonto futhi kwaba okungcono kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, angicabangi ukuthi ngiphumile ehlathini okwamanje. Ngisakhathazeka kakhulu kuzo zonke izinto ezimbi ezenzeke eminyakeni edlule. Kepha bengifuna ukukutshela konke ukuthi kungasebenza, futhi kukufanele lokho!
  • Isonto 12, iminyaka engu-36 - Ngihlabeke umxhwele ngokuphelele ukuthi ngithola kangakanani. Kube nzima ukukuziba. Ngisho, ama-erections ami yi-ROCK HARD futhi ENORMOUS. Ngikhumbula ngibuza abanye abantu abahamba ngaphambi kwami ​​ukuthi babone nini ukubuya kokuqedwa kwabo okugcwele. Hhayi-ke, ngicabanga ukuthi ngiyitholile eyami.

Ngabe i-porn ingadala kanjani inkinga ngokusebenza kocansi?

Isizathu sibonakala siyinto ngokomzimba, hhayi ngokwengqondo, ngoba amadoda ahlukahlukene anjalo ashintsha ukuguquguquka okukodwa (ukusetshenziswa kocansi), kepha abike iphethini efanayo yokutakula. Kulaba bantu, ukukhathazeka kuyinto yesibili. (Qaphela - ukuthambekela okuphazamisayo kuyavela. Abafana abasebenzisa i-porn ye-Intanethi ngesikhathi sebusha babo badinga isikhathi eside ukuze babuyise impilo yabo ye-erectile, bona - Abasebenzisi abasha abasha abadinga usizo olude ukuze babuyisele uMojo wabo)

Ucwaningo lwakamuva lokuluthwa kokuziphatha lubonisa ukuthi ukulahleka kwe-libido nokusebenza kwenzeka ngoba abasebenzisi abasindayo babamba impendulo evamile yobuchopho enjabulweni. Iminyaka yokweqa imingcele yemvelo ye-libido ngokukhuthaza okukhulu yenza impendulo yomsebenzisi ku-neurochemical called i-dopamine.

I-Dopamine ingemuva kwesisusa, "ukufuna" nakho konke ukulutha. Ishayela ukufunwa kwemivuzo. Sithola izinhlamvu zalo ezincane njalo lapho sihlangana nanoma yini engaba nomvuzo, inoveli, isimanga, noma ikhiqize ukukhathazeka.

Izinhlobo zezilwane zisungule ukuthi zombili izifiso zocansi kanye nokwakhiwa kuvela kwizimpawu ze-dopamine. Imvamisa, amaseli wezinzwa akhiqiza i-dopamine kumasekethe womvuzo enza kusebenze izikhungo zocansi (libido) ze-hypothalamus. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukuthi kusebenze izikhungo zokwakha entanjeni yomgogodla, ezithumela imizwa yezinzwa esithweni sangasese. Ukusakazeka okungaguquguquki kwemizwa yezinzwa, ekhipha i-nitric oxide iye epeni nasemithanjeni yayo yegazi, kugcina ukwakheka.

I-oxide ye-nitri ivuselela i-blood vessel dilator cGMP, i-on / off switch ye-engorgement ne-erection. I-cGMP eyengeziwe iyatholakala ukuthi i-erection ihlale ihlala njalo. Ngakho, indlela esuka ebuchosheni eya e-erection yilezi:

Ukujikeleza komvuzo (i-dopamine)> i-hypothalamus> umgogodla> izinzwa> umthondo

Izilungiso ziqala nge-dopamine bese ziphela nge-cGMP. Izidakamizwa ezithuthukisa ngokocansi zisebenza ngokuvimbela ukuwohloka kwe-cGMP, ngaleyo ndlela ikuvumele ukuthi iqoqane endondeni. Kodwa-ke uma ubuchopho besiguli bungakhiqizi amasiginali anele kwasekuqaleni, izidakamizwa ze-ED ngeke zenyuse i-libido noma injabulo noma ngabe (kwesinye isikhathi) zikhiqiza ukwakhiwa.

I-ED yami nakanjani ihlobene nocansi ngoba ngisho namaphilisi wokwakhiwa enza okuncane kepha kwesinye isikhathi asiza ngokwanele ukungena noma ukuthola ukwakhiwa. Kodwa, AKUKHO neze umuzwa omuhle… ngoba angikazizwa lutho. Ngilahlekelwe kakhulu, uma kungenjalo konke ukuzwela kwami.

Endabeni yokukhubazeka erectile ehlobene neminyaka, izimo zenhliziyo noma isifo sikashukela, isixhumanisi esiyinhloko esibuthakathaka sivame ukuba yizinzwa, imithambo yegazi kanye nephutha. Kodwa-ke, kumadoda ane-erectile ukungasebenzi komzimba, ukuxhumana okubuthakathaka akuyona ipenisi, kodwa kunalokho isistimu ye-dopamine enomqondo ebuchosheni.

Ukubaluleka kwesayensi yesayensi yokulutha kwengqondo yakamuva

Eminyakeni eyishumi edlule noma kunjalo, abacwaningi bemilutha bathole ukuthi ukugqugquzela kakhulu i-dopamine kunomphumela odidayo. Ubuchopho buyanciphisa amandla ayo okuphendula kwizimpawu ze-dopamine (ukungafuneki). Lokhu kwenzeka ngazo zonke izidakamizwa, zombili zamakhemikhali nezemvelo. Kwabanye abasebenzisi be-porn, impendulo ku-dopamine yehla kakhulu kangangokuba abakwazi ukufeza ukwakhiwa ngaphandle kokushaywa njalo kwe-dopamine nge-Intanethi.

Amagama akhangayo, izithombe namavidiyo sekuyisikhathi eside, kepha i-Intanethi yenza ukusakazeka okungapheli kwama-spikes e-dopamine. Abasebenzisi banamuhla bangaphoqa ukukhishwa kwayo ngokubuka i-porn kumawindi amaningi, basesha ngokungapheli, bathumele ngokushesha izingcezu abazithola zishisa kakhulu, bashintshele ezingxoxweni zocansi ezibukhoma, bebuka ubusha obusha, bedubula izibuko zabo ze-mirror ngesenzo sevidiyo nange-cam-2-cam , noma kukhuphukela ezinhlotsheni ezeqile nasezintweni ezikhiqiza ukukhathazeka. Konke kumahhala, kufinyeleleka kalula, kuyatholakala ngemizuzwana, amahora angama-24 ngosuku, izinsuku eziyi-7 ngeviki. Ukwanda ngokweqile kwemijikelezo yomvuzo ebuchosheni kungenzeka kakhulu namuhla.

Amadoda amaningi awazi ukuthi ukuzwela kobuchopho bawo kuyancipha ukuya ocansini olujwayelekile ngoba i-Internet erotica iletha ukushaya okungapheli kwe-dopamine-okwenza ukwakhiwa nomvuthwandaba kwenzeke lapho ukuhlangana okujwayelekile kungenzeki. Lapho bezama ukuhlangana ngokoqobo futhi bengakwazi, kuyaqondakala ukuthi batatazela.

Ubuchopho buyashintsha obangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okubangelwa ucansi kuvela ezinqubeni zangempela zokulutha ngokomzimba. Phakathi kwazo kukhona ukuphelelwa amandla kwempendulo yenjabulo yobuchopho. Ukuyeka-ke kungaba yinselele impela. Ngaphezu kokwehla okwesikhashana okwethusayo kwe-libido, amanye amadoda aba nezimpawu zokuhoxa: ukuqwasha, ukucasuka, ukwethuka, ukuphelelwa yithemba, izinkinga zokuhlushwa, kanye nezimpawu ezinjengomkhuhlane. Ukuthola umeluleki omuhle ngubani oqonda umlutha, futhi kungani i-porn yanamuhla inemiphumela ehlukile ekubukeni i Playboy umagazini, kungaba usizo kakhulu.

Ubuchopho budinga ithuba "lokuqalisa kabusha," okungukuthi, ukubuyela ekuzweleni okuvamile kwe-dopamine. Lokhu kungathatha izinyanga ezimbalwa. Ukuchazwa kothisha wesayensi ngesayensi ngemuva kokungasebenzi kahle okuhlobene nocansi, bheka le nkulumo yevidiyo: Ukukhubazeka kwe-Erectile ne-Porn.

Amadoda amaningi amangala lapho ezwa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi kungaba umthombo wezinkinga zokusebenza ngokocansi. Esikhundleni salokho, abaningi bayaqiniseka ukuthi i-ED emashumi amabili-into evamile. Bayamangala ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn esindayo kungabathinta kabi, ukuthi akekho owabatshela ukuthi kungabathinta. Futhi ukuthi abantu empeleni bashaya indlwabu ngaphandle kocansi. Cishe kukhona ukungazi ngokuphelele ngokubaluleka kwabasebenzisi be-porn be yamuva ukutholakala kokulutha kwezidakamizwa.

Uma uhlangabezana no-ED osemusha, futhi ufisa ukubuyisela amandla akho, yiba nethemba. Njengoba indoda eyodwa yathi emva kokuhlolwa kwakhe kwezinyanga ezimbili eziphumelelayo:

Amaqiniso ambalwa:

I-1. Lokhu kungu-100% okulungiswayo.

2. Kungaba ngenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu owake wazenza.

3. Uma uphinde ufune impilo ejwayelekile yocansi, awunakukhetha okunye

4. Uma uqale i-porn ye-Intanethi usemncane inqubo ingathatha isikhathi eside (bona - Kwaqala nge-inthanethi ye-porn nokuvuselela kabusha kwami ​​(ED) kuthatha isikhathi eside kakhulu)

Ukuze uthole ulwazi nolwazi lokubuyisela ama-akhawunti, bheka: Ingabe ukungasebenzi kwami ​​kwe-erectile kuhlobene nokusetshenziswa kwami ​​kocansi?

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