Ku-Porn Bese kuthi Manje: Wamukelekile Ekuqeqeshweni Brain B ngibheka ukuthi kungani futhi kungani i-porn kusuka ku-inthanethi iyaphoqa, kunzima kangaka ukuyeka ukubuka.
Bona amazwana amaningi ngezansi kwendatshana.
"Ingabe siyisizukulwane sokuqala sokushaya indlwabu ngesandla sobunxele?"
Iphosta le-Reddit usanda kubuzwa, "Ingabe siyisizukulwane sokuqala sokushaya indlwabu ngesandla sobunxele ngoba izandla zethu zangakwesokudla ziphequlula izithombe zocansi?" Yebo, sonke isizukulwane sesiba "yi-ambi-wackstrous" njengoba kusho enye inqola.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ukushaya indlwabu kwakudinga umcabango omningi. Bekuzilolongela into yangempela: “Okokuqala ngizokwenza lokhu… bese….” Akusenjalo.
“Ngiyingxenye yesizukulwane sokugcina ukuqala ukushaya indlwabu ngaphambi kokuba babe ne-Intanethi. Angikwazi ukuqonda ukufinyelela kokubonwayo kokubona konke ukunambitheka kocansi ngaphambi kokuzwa isifiso semvelo sokukushaya. Ngenkathi ngiseyingane, sonke sasikulangazelela ukubheka ama-boobs, kepha leli thuba lavela kuphela ngesikhathi esisodwa noma ezimbili ezikhazimulayo ngonyaka [ngekhathalogi]. Ngempela ngiyazibuza ukuthi ukuthathwa kwamathinta kuzithinta kanjani izizukulwane ezizayo. ”
Kusho ukuthini lokhu kutshintsha? Ukusebenzisa i-inthanethi ye-porn ngokufanayo kufana nevidiyo ye-sexogaming kunokoqobo ngokobulili wangempela. Ihlanganisa izakhi zofuzo zakho eziza kuqala no-1 nomvuzo omkhulu wemvelo (ucansi) —nenkonxi
ukulethwa okushintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshashintshi Isandla sakho sobunxele sisebenzisa ingcindezi enkulu nejubane ukwedlula ukuya ocansini. Isandla sakho sokudla sichofoza kude “kumodi yokusesha,” njengoba amehlo akho ehla eskrinini esisodwa kuya kwesinye futhi ukububula kugcwalisa izindlebe zakho. Ayikho i-orchestration engacabangi edingekayo.
I-Porn, nendlela ehanjiswa ngayo ebuchosheni bethu, ishintshile. Maye, ubuchopho bethu abukaguquki, futhi lokhu kungadala izinkinga ezingalindelekile:
“Sekuyiminyaka ngisebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile. Ngithanda nje ukubuka abantu benza ucansi. Inkinga yami yanda cishe ezinyangeni eziyi-18 ezedlule lapho ngithola i-Intanethi enejubane elikhulu. Ngokungazelelwe, ngasuka ekubukeni izithombe ku-inthanethi, ngabuka amavidiyo nama-movie online ngokushesha. Angikaze ngicabange kangako, kepha ngemuva kokubuka cishe nsuku zonke-kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nokubhonga amahora amaningi ngibuka ama-porn-ngaqala ukubona ushintsho empilweni yami yezocansi nomkami. Ngangingakaze ngibe nezinkinga ze-ED nhlobo. Kodwa manje, noma nini lapho mina nomkami siqala ukuya ocansini, angikwazi ukuthola ukulungiswa. Kwesinye isikhathi ngithola eyodwa, kepha iqala ngokushesha ukuthamba. Ucansi cishe belungekho. ”
Ahh, izinsuku ezinhle zakudala:
Ezinsukwini zami zesikole, uzoba nenhlanhla yokubona i-porn kuvidiyo ye-VHS kanye ngesikhashana futhi bevame ukuba yikhwalithi yokukhohlisa. Lapho nje usuyithukuthele ngokushesha, kwase kubuyela ekucabangeni ngentombazane endala yakwamakhelwane. Izingane zidinga ukuvikelwa kusuka kule shit ye-inthanethi.
Omunye umfana:
“Kunomehluko phakathi kocansi lwe-inthanethi lwanamuhla nolwaminyaka embalwa edlule. Manje, ungaya kumawebhusayithi ahlukahlukene futhi uthole izithombe ezingcolile ezingaphezulu kwamahhala kunokuba ubungabuka uma uyeka umsebenzi wakho futhi wanikela impilo yakho kuwo — konke ngombala ophilayo. Ungakhetha nesisu sakho osithandayo, noma yini oyithola ishubile, futhi vele ubuke ividiyo ngemuva kwevidiyo yayo. Uma amandla ancipha imizuzwana embalwa, noma uba nesithukuthezi ngokubuka imizimba efanayo imizuzu emibili iqonde, ungagxumela kusethi entsha wenze izinto ezintsha. Inamandla okulimaza kakhulu ukwazisa kwakho into yangempela kunanini ngaphambili. ”
Ngokuqondile. Izithombe ze-intanethi zixhaphaza ngaphezu kwesifiso sobulili kuphela. Iqhuba abasebenzisi ngaphezulu i-libido yabo yemvelo: Abasebenzisi bangabuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kumawindi amaningi, baseshe ngokungapheli, babuke ubusha obusha njalo, badlulele phambili ngokushesha ezingxenyeni abazithola zishisa kakhulu, bashintshele ezingxoxweni zocansi ezibukhoma, bashise izibuko zabo ze-neurons ngesenzo sevidiyo noma i-cam-2-cam, noma zikhuphukele ezinhlotsheni ezeqile nasezintweni ezikhiqiza ukukhathazeka. Konke kumahhala, kufinyeleleka kalula, kutholakala ngemizuzwana, amahora angama-24 ngosuku, izinsuku eziyi-7 ngeviki, futhi kungabukwa kumafoni nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Kungakabiphi, izothuthukiswa ngamathoyizi ocansi alingisa ukuthintana komzimba.
Sondeza ebuchosheni
Yini ebangela lokhu kuxokozela okungekhona okwemvelo? I-Dopamine. Kuyinto eyinhloko ye-neurochemical ngemuva kokuziphatha okufuna umvuzo. Amaleveli e-Dopamine yi-barometer esinquma ngayo (futhi sikhumbule) ukubaluleka kwanoma yisiphi isipiliyoni. Akumangalisi ukuthi inkanuko yezocansi iphakamisa i-dopamine kakhulu kunenye imivuzo yemvelo.
Iningi labantu licabanga nge-dopamine njenge "buzz," "ushukela ophakeme," noma idrayivu ebheke kwi-orgasm. Empeleni, i-spikes ekuphenduleni inkuthazo ehambisana nezidingo zokusinda. Kuyinto isisusa. Lisitshela ukuthi yini okufanele sisondele noma sigweme futhi singabeka kuphi ukunakwa kwethu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusitshela yini okufanele uyikhumbule, ngokusiza ukubuyisa ubuchopho bethu.
Izithombe ze-intanethi zivele zenzeke ama-spikes we-dopamine konke kwesikhuthazo "esibalulekile" esashintsha saba ngaso ukuthi sibheke:
- Imizwelo enamandla: ukumangala, ukwesaba, ukuzonda, ukukhathazeka
- Novelty: imithombo entsha yokudla, izidalwa ezintsha, izihlobo ezintsha
- Seeking nokucwaninga: ukuhlola izindawo, ukudla noma amathuba okubambisana
- Anything okwephula okulindelekile: ama-bonanzas angalindelekile noma izingozi
Amagama ama-Erotic, izithombe namavidiyo ahlale isikhathi eside. Kanjalo no ukuqhuma kwezinzwa ezivela emakhayeni omusha. Kodwa ubuhle be-once-a-month Playboy ikhuphuka ngokushesha nje uma uvula amakhasi. Ngabe ubani ongashayela Playboy noma amavidiyo aphansi “ayashaqisa” noma “enza ukukhathazeka?” Ngabe kungaphula okulindelwe ngumfana ofundile nge-computer oneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-12? Akuqhathanisi "nokusesha nokufuna" kwethebhu eningi ye-Google prowl. Ucwaningo luqinisekisa ukulindela umvuzo kanye noveli kufinyelelana ukuze kwandiswe injabulo futhi kuvuselele ubuchopho bomzimba. (bona le thread reddit: Ngichitha isikhathi esiningi ngifuna ividiyo efanele ye-porn bese ngiyichitha ukufaka).
Inkulumo ethi “Okunhlobonhlobo iyisinongo sempilo” ivela enkondlweni kaWilliam Cowper (1785) ekhuluma ngomfana owathandana nentombazane ehlukile njalo ngesonto. Kepha i-Intanethi yenza kube nokwenzeka ukusakazwa okungapheli kwesoso weTabasco ngendlela ye- i-dopamine spikes. Usesho lwami ku-Google lwe "porn" luvele luthole cishe i-1.3 Izigidigidi amakhasi (ane "Porn for the Blind" ezingxenyeni zami eziyishumi eziphezulu). Ukugqugquzela njalo kungaphazamisa ifayili le- ngendlela esicabanga ngayo, noma ngaphandle kwesithombe esingesihle. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo selukhombisile ukuthi izimbangela zokusebenzisa i-Intanethi (i-videogaming) eziphoqelelayo ukuguqulwa kobuchopho obuhlobene nomlutha.
“Bekuqala ukuba kubi impela. Ngangithatha intshontsho ngiye ekhaya futhi kwesinye isikhathi angikwazi ngisho nokukhuphula i-d * ck yami ngoba i-porn yayisivuselele ubuchopho bami futhi yayilungiselela ukuthi ibe namantombazane ama-5-6 ngasikhathi. Enye intombazane, yize yayizibonele mathupha, yayingakwenzi lokho. ”
Kungani ukuvuselelwa kwe-dopamine njalo kungumlutha? Njengososayensi David Linden kuchaza, izingwegwe zokubhema iphesenti elikhulu kakhulu labasebenzisi kune-heroin, noma ngabe i-heroin iqhuma ukuqhuma okukhulu kwe-neurochemical. Kungani? Umbuzo wokuqeqeshwa kobuchopho. Njalo ukudonsa ngakunye kwalabo kagwayi abangama-20 iphakethe ngalinye kuqeqesha obhemayo ukuthi osikilidi banomvuzo. Ngokuphambene nalokho, umuntu angadubula kangaki? Ekuluthekeni okuyisisekelo “Ukufunda okufuywayo. "
Uma kwenzeka ucansi lwe-intanethi, cabanga ngesimo esivamile, izethulo ezishaqisayo noma ezikhathazayo, kanye nokuchofoza ekufuneni ukudubula okuphelele njengokugabisa, kanye ne-orgasm njenge into enamandla. Bobabili uqeqeshe ubuchopho. Kodwa-ke, sizwa kusukela kubafana ngaso sonke isikhathi nge-porn-edayiswa ED, ozoyeka ukushaya indlwabu ukuze azame ukuphulukisa kunokushiya izithombe ze-intanethi. Ngokuzenzakalelayo bayazi ukuthi i-dopamine yokudonsa ingukuthi:
“Ngijwayele ukucabanga ukuthi yizithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile ezikhuthaza ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile, hhayi ukushaya indlwabu. Into eyinqaba engiyitholayo mayelana nokuzama kwami ukuthi ngaphandle kwe-porn online, angizizwa ngithanda ukushaya indlwabu. Noma ngizama, angivuswanga ngokwanele ukushaya indlwabu. Ingqondo yami ayisacabangi njengakuqala lapho ngiseyingane ngezinsuku zangaphambi kwe-Internet. ”
Ukusetshenziswa kocansi kwanamuhla kukhulu ngokushaywa kwe-dopamine kunovuthondaba
I-Dopamine iyashayela konke ukuvusa, kodwa ukuqhuma okuqhubekayo kokuvuselela ukukhathazeka kuyisipiliyoni esinamandla kakhulu sokuqeqeshwa kwengqondo kunokwenqabela ukushaya indlwabu ngezikhathi ezithile. Yingakho i-eerotica e-inthanethi ingadala ukulutha okunamandla kwamanye ubuchopho.
Ngokudabukisayo, inala ye-dopamine ayilingani ngokwanele. Umlayezo wayo uhlala uthi, "Ukwaneliseka kulele eduze kwekhoneni, ngakho-ke Qhubeka! ” Ucwaningo lokulutha ngokuziphatha kokudla, ukugembula kanye ne-inthanethi yevidiyo kukhombisa ukuthi i-dopamine eningi kakhulu Ihlukanisa ukuphendula okujabulisayo yobuchopho. Lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi izinqubo zokulutha ziyangena. Ubuchopho obundikindiki buholela ekulangazelelekeni kokuningi; ngisho nesibhamu esiphelele ngeke sanelise. Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zanamuhla azihlanganisi nje izidingo zakho; kuyabaphambukisa.
Kwami, umlutha wami wokufuna Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ku-intanethi zibukeka njengokulutha kokugembula. Ngithola inqwaba yezithombe eziku-inthanethi ziyisicefe noma ziyenyanyeka. Amaphesenti amancane kakhulu kuphela angivulayo, kepha kukhona izithombe ze- "jackpot" ezicindezela zonke izinkinobho zami futhi zenze amahora okusesha athi "akhokhe". Ngakho-ke isikhathi ngasinye lapho ngiya ku-inthanethi, ngiyagembula ukuthi ngizothola okuthile okuvusayo, futhi ngishaya i-jackpot kaningi ngokwanele ukungigcina ngifunisisa, yize ngazi ukuthi indlu iyawina futhi ngilahlekelwa yisikhathi esiningi.
Ukubuka ukushona kwelanga, ukufaka ikati, nokubuka ithimba lakho ozithandayo akufani nezinjabulo ezinkulu. Ngezinjabulo ezivamile, uthola izibonakaliso ze-dopamine bese ubuchopho bakho babuyela ekhaya. Ngokuphambene nalokho, eminye imisebenzi inekhono lokunciphisa i-dopamine isikhathi eside.
Ngempela odokotela bezokwelapha ze-American Society of Addiction Medicine maduzane ikhishwe isitatimende icaphuna ucansi, ukudla nokugembula njengezinto ezingalutha. Kushiya kungangabazeki ukuthi zonke izidakamizwa - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ziphuzwa utshwala, i-heroin noma ucansi — ngokufanayo ziyefana. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uPhilip Zimbardo, naye, uye wakhomba ezingozini zokuba “umlutha ovusa inkanuko.” (Inkulumo ye-TED I-Demise of Guys?)
Ngisho nezinsizwa ziyaxwayisana ngezocansi ze-Intanethi. Intambo yokwakha umzimba:Intambo ye-NO FAP yokuqeda yonke imicu ye-fap ” ; Intambo yeReddit: “Buza umfana owayeka izithombe zobulili zezinyanga ezingu-2 manje noma yini. ” Futhi bathola ukuthi i-porn ibangela ukwanda futhi idale okuthandwayo ngokocansi:
“Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zigcoba amahora angu-4-6 ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule. Ngasohlangothini oluhle, kwacaca ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili azihlobene nobulili bami. Ngemuva kokubuka amahora we-30 + ezinsukwini ezingama-5 ezedlule, izithombe zocansi zocansi zaqala ukuba yisicefe! Ngaqala ukufuna ezinye izinto, ezinengeka kakhulu nezishaqisayo. ”
Izimfanelo ze-inthanethi ye-Internet zithinta ubuchopho ngendlela ehlukile. Ngaphezu kokukhuthaza njalo, awukho umkhawulo wemvelo ekusetshenzisweni — ngokungafani nokudla noma izidakamizwa. Ukukhuphuka kuyenzeka njalo ngoba izindlela zobuchopho zemvelo zokusuthisa azingeni uma umvuthwandaba owodwa — okungenzeka kungabi amahora. Noma kunjalo, abasebenzisi bangachofoza kokunye okushaqisayo ukuze baphinde bavuswe. Futhi i-Internet ye-porn ngeke igcine isebenze uhlelo lobuchopho bemvelo lokuphamba (“Angikwazi ukubekezelela okunye ukuluma / ukuphuza / ukuhogela!”). Ngubani ongakwazi ukubekezelela ukubuka esinye isithombe esivusa inkanuko? Ukuzala kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kwizakhi zethu zofuzo.
NGAPHAMBILI: i-Virtual Reality porn
Imibiko yomsebenzisi:
Ngithole ukuthi [i-Virtual Reality porn] iyalutha ngokwengeziwe futhi yangibeka onqenqemeni, yangenza ngabona ukuthi i-Virtual Reality izobangcono futhi ibe ngcono futhi izitudiyo ze-Porn zizoba ngcono futhi kangcono ekukhiqizeni i-VR porn ngakho-ke mhlawumbe kungcono ngiphume manje.
Ngangiyisihlobo sokuqala sokutholwa kwe-VR (Oculus DK2 emuva ehlobo 2014) ngakho-ke ngangineminyaka engaba ngu-1 nohhafu yokusebenzisa i-VR ngaphansi kwebhande lami futhi ngesikhathi se-2015 ama-studio amaningi angena ebhodini futhi izinto zaqala ukusuka kodwa umlutha wami ngenxa yalokho. Futhi ngazithola sengizokhokha amasayithi okokuqala empilweni yami yonke futhi empeleni ngikhokhele izithombe zobulili ezingcolile esikhundleni sokuzihambisa nje! Ngoba bengingafuni ukulinda izifufula zitholakale!
Yazi izimpawu zokudlula
Inkolelo yokuthi "ukusetshenziswa kocansi akungalimazi" kwavela esikhathini senyanga nenyanga Playboy. Uthanda noma ungathandi, i-Internet ye-porn yehlukile kune-erotica edlule njenge- “Super Mario” ivela ku-tic-tac-toe. Ucwaningo nokuzibika ngokwakho kwenza lokhu kubonakale. Esikhundleni sokuba "yi-porn nje," i-porn ye-Intanethi yinto entsha, lapho ukuziphendukela kwemvelo kungalungiselanga ubuchopho obuningi. (Abafana abasebenzisa i-porn ye-Intanethi ngesikhathi sokuthomba kwabo badinga isikhathi eside ukubuyisa impilo yabo ye-erectile, bona - Abasebenzisi abasha abasha abadinga usizo olude ukuze babuyisele uMojo wabo. Indaba yesimo sezocansi nge-porn ye-Intanethi: Inkulumo kaSepthemba 2015 ye-TEDx yensizwa edinga isikhathi esingeziwe futhi ibuye ibuye / iphinde ibuyele ekunqobeni i-ED eyenziwe nge-porn ne-anorgasmia -
Okhokho bakho babengenayo i-intanethi noma izinkumbulo zemibono yezithombe zocansi. Uma beshaya indlwabu, i-libido ejwayelekile nemicabango yabo benze umsebenzi wenziwe. Uma ukuphendula kwakho kwezocansi kuncipha, noma udinga i-porn ukuvuthwa, khona-ke empeleni kweqa izindlela zesifiso semvelo sobuchopho bakho, kanye nokufaka umlutha wokulutha. Linda kuze ubuchopho bakho babuyele ukuzwela okuvamile. Ukuhoxiswa kungaba nzima, kodwa amathiphu nokusekela ziyatholakala.
Ubuchopho bakho abuzange buvele ukuze buphathe i-erotica-at-a-click yanamuhla. Akugcini ngokubona amavidiyo; liyabona amathuba okukhulelwa okungapheli, futhi izosebenzisa “isiswebhu” sayo se-dopamine ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ufaka umanyolo omningi ngangokunokwenzeka — noma ngabe kubiza malini kuwe. Esikhundleni sokuqhubeka nokuqhubeka nempilo, ababukeli banamuhla bavame ukuqhubeka inqobo nje uma behlala bephapheme — bengazi ukuthi bangaba sengozini yokuba umlutha noma izinkinga ukusebenza. Njengoba u-Eliezer Yudkowsky wake wabhala,
“Uma abantu banelungelo lokulingwa — futhi yilokho okushiwo inkululeko yokuzikhethela — imakethe izophendula ngokunikela ngesilingo esiningi esingathengiswa. Isikhuthazo semakethe siyaqhubeka nokudlulela phambili lapho i-superstimulus iqala khona ukonakalisa umonakalo kumthengi. ”
Funda izibonakaliso ezibonisa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn ngokweqile. (Funda imibiko yabanye.) Awukwazi ukuhamba ngokwenziwa ngabangani bakho, noma ngezeluleko zabasebenza ngezocansi noma odokotela. Iya ngalokho wena isaziso.
"Emuva ngosuku lokudayelwa, bengikwazi ukulanda isithombe esivela ngezikhathi ezithile (izithombe ezithambile kakhulu) ngenxa ye-Intanethi engalungile / ehamba kancane futhi bengazi ukuthi ngingabutholaphi bonke ubuqili. Kepha manje ngejubane elikhulu, ngisho nakumafoni omakhalekhukhwini, kungenze ngokuqhubekayo ngibuka kakhulu futhi ngokuya ngokulungiswa okuphezulu. Kwesinye isikhathi kuba yindaba yosuku lonke ukufuna ophelele okufanele aqede ngaye. Akukaze, kwanelise. "Udinga okwengeziwe" ubuchopho buhlala busho… amanga anjalo. ”
Thumela ku-r / NoFap - I-Evolution ye-Porn
Ukuboniswa kocansi kwakukhona ngaphambi kokuba ngisho nevidiyo ithathwe encwadini yekhulu lesithathu ye-Kama Sutra emidwebo edolobheni lasePompeii.
Kodwa sekuphele eminyakeni engamashumi ayisithupha edlule noma ngakho-ke ukuthi i-porn isiqale ukusabalalisa njengemoto yasendle. Owokuqala kwakuwumagazini we-Playboy owaqala ukubonisa abesifazane abangenalutho ngezithombe ezisekhona emuva ngonyaka we-1953. Khumbula ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi kwakuyisenzo sobugebengu ukushicilela ngisho nokushicilela lokho okushiwo yilabo abathweswe icala uSamuel Roth.
Kwaba kuphela lapho uLasse Braun nozakwabo ebhizinisini, uReuben Sturman eqala imibukiso emincane ngamalogo efilimu lapho kwaqala khona inkinga yangempela. U-Sturman waqala ukusetha ngaphezu kwe-60,000 peep shows ezazisethwe ngamadokodo angashadile abonisa i-porn futhi kwaphakanyiswa amabhokisi wezicubu. Ayaziwa ngokuthi amadokodo “okukhokha nokufafaza”. Kepha amavidiyo abengakafiki kakhulu ngenxa yesinqumo senkantolo nokungakwazi ukuwabuka ngasese.
Konke kwashintsha lapho i-VHS ingeniswa kanye nesinqumo senkantolo yaseMiller. Umphumela wawumangalisa, cishe i-75% yamateyipu e-VHC adayiswa e-US ku-1978 ayengcolile.
Ukusheshisa kwe-1991 kanye newebhu lonke jikelele kwasungulwa. Noma kunjalo izithombe manje zingeniswa ekuboniseni kwakho ngesikhathi esisodwa ngaphandle kokuphuma kwenye yalezo ziboniso ze-peep. Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva futhi i-intanethi yaqhubeka isakazeka futhi ikhula ngesivinini sayo. Lokhu kuholela ekukhuleni okusheshayo kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nokwandiswa kuzo zonke izinhlobo. Ngokungazelelwe, yayifinyeleleka, iyimfihlo futhi akukho mali esetshenziselwa umsebenzisi.
Yonke imigomo yokulutha ngokweqile yagcwaliseka. Kepha akuphelelanga lapho lapho ukukhula kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwaletha khona, kwaphinde kwathinta nabezindaba futhi kwaphazamisa umbono wabantu ngalokho okubhekwa njengezocansi.
Emuva ngawo-1960, abesifazane abangenalutho noma ababonisa isikhumba esithile babebhekwa njenge-porno ethambile. Bheka okuzungezile futhi ikakhulukazi kumbuthano wakho wezokuxhumana. Okuphakelayo kwakho ku-facebook kusuka kubangani kuya kuzikhangiso kumane kwaba yi-softcore porn yama-1960s. Amagama azoqhubeka nokusabalala futhi kungekudala noma kamuva i-porn ingaba yinto ejwayelekile ezizukulwaneni ezizayo. Esinye isici okufanele sicatshangwe yizibonelo zanamuhla ezivela ku-kim kardashian kuya ku-miley cyrus.
Ngisho nevidiyo yomculo namuhla ayinakuduma ngaphandle kokuthi kube nokuchitheka kwesikhumba noma kunabesifazane abanezembatho ezivezayo abenza ngezindlela eziyichilo. Isithunywa sakho kwesinye isikhathi sihlaselwa ngamatheksthi ukuze sithenge izithombe zocansi kwabesifazane abasebasha. Abantu kumele bavuke kulolu sizi olubi kangaka bathathe izinyathelo. Uma siqhubeka nale ndlela yokuziphendukela kwemvelo, isilo sizoqhubeka nokukhula futhi mina ngokwami angizenzi lezi zizukulwane zethu ezizayo.
Amanye amaqiniso okufanele acabangele ngezithombe zobulili ezingcolile:
Ngo-2012, ama-Xvideos abe yisayithi elikhulu kunazo zonke ezingosini zewebhu ezinokubukwa kwekhasi le-4.4 yezinkulungwane zezinyanga ngezinyanga. I-Xvideos yaba kathathu ngobukhulu be-CNN noma i-ESPN, futhi kabili ubukhulu be-Reddit. I-Pornhub inamasayithi avamile futhi ahlala eceleni kwe-Google ngokusetshenziswa kokugcina. Namuhla, ama-Xvideos yiwebhusayithi ye-43rd ethandwa kakhulu emhlabeni.
Ngakho-ke, ukuze ucubungula, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zikhula futhi ziguquguquke kanye nama-technology (eg. Virtual Reality), noma ngabe ubuchwepheshe bungasetshenziselwa nokwandisa ukuqwashisa kwethu futhi kusishukumisele ukuba sishiye imikhuba enjalo yokulutha.
Thumela ku-r / NoFap - Kuyamangaza ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi akuyona neze ku-radar yabazali bethu abaningi
Ngibe ngumuntu oshaya indlwabu engapheli kusukela ngisemusha. Angibonanga isihogo sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile eziningi esikoleni esiphakeme ngenxa yokusebenzisa i-computer yomndeni kodwa ngabona isabelo sami esifanele, ngibe ngongcona futhi ngifaka kamuva ezithombeni ezishiswe ebuchosheni bami. Kepha lapho sengiphumile esikoleni esiphakeme futhi ngine-laptop yami ngahamba ngamantongomane. Amahora namahora we-porn nsuku zonke kanye nemikhuba yami yokushaya indlwabu kabili ngosuku iqhuma izikhathi ezinhlanu ngosuku. Ngakhetha ukuhlala ngedwa futhi ngishaya indlwabu futhi ngibheme ukhula ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngokusobala impilo yami yengqondo yawohloka kakhulu.
Kamuva ngabuyela endlini yabazali bami kepha angivumanga lokho kwangivimba ekubeni kwi-laptop yami ye-porn ngangokunokwenzeka. Abazali bami bebengakimi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokungabi namkhiqizo. Kepha empeleni bacabanga ukuthi ngangilele embhedeni wami ngibuka amavidiyo we-YouTube nokunye okunjalo. I-Porn yayingekho ku-radar yabo nhlobo.
Njengoba ngithole i-nofap ngiyekile ukushaya indlwabu kanye ne-porn futhi ngizizwa ngincono kakhulu ukuthi ngitshele cishe wonke umuntu engimaziyo ngokushaya indlwabu okungapheli nokusebenzisa i-porn nokuthi ngikuqede kanjani. Kubandakanya nabazali bami. Ngangihlala ngicabanga ukuthi bayazi ukuthi ngingumlutha wezocansi futhi bengingafuni nje ukukuvuma. Kepha kuvela ukuthi bebengenalo nhlobo icebo! Kufana nokuthi abawuqondi umkhuba we-porn ngoba bakhule ngokuyisisekelo ngaphandle kocansi. Abakaze baxhume amachashazi futhi empeleni bacabange nje ukuthi ngiyavilapha. Ngangingenqena, ngangiyimilutha futhi ubuchopho bami babungu-mush kusuka ekushayeni indlwabu njalo.
Njengoba ngiyeke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ne-MO, anginaso isifiso sokuvele ngilale njengoba ngangivame ukwenza. Angikaze ngikwenze lokho ukube kwakungeyona eye-porn. Umama ubekhuluma ngendodana yomngani wakhe eneminyaka engama-29 futhi engenzanga lutho ngempilo yakhe, usahlala ekhaya futhi uchitha ubusuku bonke kukhompyutha. Futhi, abazali bakhe abaxhumananga nokusetshenziswa kocansi, bacabanga nje ukuthi uvilapha futhi unamathele kukhompyutha. Bengithi "sawubona ?! Kuyizocansi !!!! ” futhi umama wami wayefana nokuthi "ngempela? Ucabanga kanjalo?"
Ngamafuphi, iningi lesizukulwane esidala asinalwazi nhlobo ngemikhuba / ukulutha kocansi. Izingane zabo ziyisigqila sayo futhi abazali abazi nakancane ngoba abakwazi nje ukusonga amakhanda abo ngayo yonke le nto yocansi. Abekho ekuphikeni, empeleni abakaze bacabange ngakho. Okuwukuphela kwabo abaqondayo yilabo abanolwazi lokusebenzisa i-porn futhi lokho akuvamile ngesizukulwane esidala. Kungenzeka ukuthi bathenga isikhumba esingajwayelekile emuva osukwini kodwa lokho akulutho uma kuqhathaniswa nomthala wezithombe ezingcolile izingane zabo ezibukelayo, mhlawumbe nsuku zonke. Kuyadabukisa ngoba baningi abazali abakhungathekile ngaphandle lapho abaxakwa ngamadodana abo angakhiqizi. Uma beqonda ukwakheka komkhuba we-porn kungasindisa imindeni eminingi osizini oluningi.
Okuthunyelwe okuhle kakhulu - Ukwehla kokwehla kocansi ekuziphatheni okonakele (noma kungani ngishiya ukuhlenga ingqondo yami yengqondo futhi nawe kufanele)
(Ukusebenzisa i-akhawunti yokuphumula ngenxa yezizathu zomuntu siqu, futhi uxolise lokhu kufundwa isikhathi eside)
I-CW: ingxoxo ye-PMO, ukudlwengula, ukushada, ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane, izintwana ezihlukahlukene
Ukhona omunye okubonile lokhu? Nginomlutha we-PMO iminyaka eminingi, ngokwanele ukuba ngijwayelane ne-porn kunokuba ngikhululekile. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, ngike ngabuka i-porn eqonde ngqo phambili, i-vanilla, indoda / nowesifazane futhi ngagwema izinto ezifakwe ngempela. Ngokujabulisayo angikaze ngithole noma yiziphi izibungu ezesabekayo noma eziyinqaba futhi bengilokhu ngizithola ngizizwa nginengeka kakhulu nganoma yisiphi isikhathi lapho ngivezwe kancane kunoma yini engavamile. Ngiphinde ngihlushwe yimicabango engathandeki futhi ngenze umzamo osebenzayo wokugwema noma yini engagqugquzela le micabango eshushisayo.
I-Pornhub sekuyiyona webhusayithi yami engiyithandayo isikhathi eside manje, futhi ngiye ngakubona kancane ukujika okucijile kokuqukethwe okumnyama kakhulu kumavidiyo amaningi akhiqizwa izinkampani ezinkulu kanye namavidiyo athunyelwe ku-FrontPage (ikakhulukazi ku- “ethandwa kakhulu” ingxenye).
Ngibheke phezulu ekhasini lokuqala le-pornhub izikhathi ezanele futhi isikhathi eside kangangoba ngikubonile kwenzeka okokuqala: lapho kwakukhona amavidiyo e-vanilla indoda / nowesifazane aqonde ngqo, ama-video angazelelwe abhekane ngokujulile imiqondo yama-fetishit kanye namathebhu afana nokulala nesihlobo, ukubusa noma ngisho ukudlwengulwa kwamanga kuphakathi kwamavidiyo athandwa kakhulu futhi aphromothwayo athatha indawo yawo ngaphambili kwewebhusayithi. Ukugwema lolu hlobo lokuqukethwe sekuwumsebenzi onzima, ngisho nezithonjana zibonakala zigcizelela ukukhulisa imvelo yokuncishwa kwalawa mavidiyo.
Izikhangiso ezikule webhusayithi ziba zimbi ngokwedlulele ezinemilenze yokubeletha nezithombe zocansi zabalingiswa bekhathuni futhi futhi kaningi akunakwenzeka ukugwema ukuvezwa kulokhu ngenxa yezikhangiso ezizidlalela eceleni kwamavidiyo futhi ziyavela njalo uma umisa isikhashana ividiyo. (Empeleni, ngezindlela eziningi izikhangisi ziyisici esibi kunazo zonke, esenzelwe ukubonisa lezi zingubo ezingamathebhu ngendlela enesibindi futhi ebamba ukunakekela ukuze kudonswe intshisekelo yabasebenzisi abanentshisekelo futhi kuvuse izibungu ezisanda kwenzeka umsebenzisi angazi kuze kube manje).
Ngiphinde ngabona ukuthambekela okuphathelene nezinkampani eziningi ze-porn ezaziwa kakhulu lapho izinkanyezi ezintsha ze-porn zibonakala ziqala ukubukeka njengezintsha. manje, lokhu kungaba umphumela wokukhula kwami (ngaqala i-PMO lapho ngisemncane futhi ngangiqhubeka ngaya phakathi neminyaka engama-20) kodwa ngikholelwa ngokweqiniso ukuthi kunomzamo wezinkampani ezingcolile ukubhekisa omncane- ngifuna, abesifazane abaningi abancane ukuze banxenxe fetishophilia we-ephebophilia nokuthi bayakuqonda noma cha ngiyakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kuzoholela abaningi endleleni emnyama nengakwazi ukuhlengwa yezocansi zocansi zezingane / intsha okusho ukuthi i-pedophilia / hebephilia.
Ngemuva kokukhathala yi-pornhub (noma amanye amasayithi we-porn asetshenziswa kakhulu) bengicabanga ukuthi ngizojikela kuma-reddit gifs. I-reddit ibonakale iyindawo elawulwa kakhudlwana kepha angikwazi ukubala inani lezikhathi manje lapho ngichofoze i-gif yokuqukethwe kocansi okubonakala nge-vanilla ukuze ngisheshe ngiphuthume inkinobho yangemuva ngemuva kokubona i-watermark yenye yalezi zinkampani egxile lolu hlobo lokuqukethwe kwamathebhu nokuqaphela ukuthi ngisanda kubuka isiqeshana kusuka kwelinye lalawo mavidiyo wokulalana kwezihlobo noma wokubusa. Noma okubi kakhulu, i-gif iqala ngokujwayelekile kepha kungekudala iveze umthombo wayo njengevidiyo yokubusa futhi ikhombisa owesifazane ehlukunyezwa ngendlela esabekayo.
Manje-ke, angikholwa ukuthi isizathu salokhu luhlobo oluthile lwetulo elibanzi elenzelwe ukuhlanekezela ubunikazi bobulili besizukulwane sonke samadoda (noma mhlawumbe kunjalo, ngubani owaziyo?) Kepha kubalulekile ukukhumbula lezi zinkampani ezingcolile angamabhizinisi futhi ibhizinisi lawo elithile alikho emthethweni. Ukuze kugcinwe ukuchofoza nobulungu nemali kuza, badinga ukuzilungisa njalo nokugcina abasebenzisi be-porn bethembele kokuqukethwe kwabo. Kubo lokhu kufaka ukwehlela ezimfitshini ezimnyama kakhulu kanti ngasikhathi sinye kuhamba umugqa omuhle wokwamukeleka komphakathi (ngezindlela eziningi kukhombisa ukwehla okwenziwa abasebenzisi abaningi be-PMO ukuze banelise inkanuko yabo engalawuleki, ukwehla kwezinsana ezincishwa kakhulu) .
ngithola lokhu kukhathaza ngokujulile, nangokujulile. Kubukeka sengathi lolu hlobo lokuqukethwe lwake lwafakwa ezingxenyeni ezimnyama ze-intanethi nakuwebhu ejulile futhi manje luthola kancane kancane kumawebhusayithi ajwayelekile, asetshenziswa kabanzi. Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile engangiziveze ngisemncane zivele zibukeke ziqhathaniswa nokuqhathaniswa nentsha ekuthombekeni kwasekuqaleni evezwa manje. Lapho ngicabanga umthelela omubi we-porn oye waba nawo empilweni yami, ngikhathazeka ngomphumela wezengqondo ozoba nawo kwabesilisa abaningi abasebasha, abasathuthuka (nabesifazane nabo). Ngize ngafunda i-athikili isikhashana emuva mayelana nengane encane eyadlwengula udadewabo ngemuva kokuqhubeka nokuchayeka kumuntu ongamzali / oshonile futhi ngangethuka kakhulu ngaphandle kokukholelwa, kimi lokhu kungumphumela ongavela kubulili obuhlanekezelwe obudalwa yilokhu okuqukethwe abantu abasha.
Ngenxa yokuba umlutha wami (futhi KULULA ukuba umlutha) nokuthi ngihlushwa imicabango engathandeki, ngizamile kaninginingi ukusungula izindlela ezintsha nezandayo zokugwema ukuvezwa yilokhu okuqukethwe okungajwayelekile, kepha ngaso sonke isikhathi kubonakala kungumbungu ku-psyche yami futhi sengiyabona ukuthi izindinganiso zami zokuziphatha azihambisani nezezithombe zocansi (futhi lokhu kuyinto enhle engiyicabangayo).
Sekuyiminyaka eminingi ngikwazi ukuthethelela ukusetshenziswa kwami kocansi kimi kakhulu ngoba engangikubuka kwakungeyona "embi kakhulu", noma ngiziqinisekisa ukuthi "wonke umuntu ontanga yami uyayibuka ngakho kungani ngingafanele?" kepha manje sengiyabona ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zisebenza ngendlela efanayo "nomuthi wokungena esangweni", i-porn kuphela eyisango lokukhohlakala nokwehla kwengqondo nomphefumulo.
Uma ubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, yonke into ilahlekelwa ubumsulwa bayo, yonke into yehliselwa ekuziphatheni okubi ngokobulili futhi lokhu kuvula indlela eya esikhaleni esingapheli sokukhohlakala nosizi. Yonke leyopopayi obuyithanda useyingane futhi uthathe inani nencazelo evela kuyo manje isetshenziswa njengophethiloli wokuvuka kwakho okungenalutho. Wonke umuntu wesifazane ohlangana naye noma odlula naye emgwaqweni kungenzeka abe yisifebe. Ngisho nabathandekayo bakho bangehliswa kube yizinto zocansi ezikhuthazwa ngumthetho owenqatshelwe. angikwazi ngisho nokubheka izinyawo zomuntu manje ngaphandle kokuzizwa nginengekile, ukuzishushisa kanye nokuphazamiseka okukhubazayo okungenzeka ngandlela-thile ngivuswe yibo, ukuze ngibe kude kakhulu ukuthi ngiwele kulokhu okungenalutho ukuzitika ngamanyala.
Njalo lapho ngivezwa okuthile okufana nalokhu manje, ngenxa yemicabango engangeneki, ngizwa sengathi ngidlwengulwe ngokwengqondo ngandlela thile (futhi ngiyazi ukuthi lokho akuhloniphi ngendlela emangalisayo futhi mhlawumbe akusikho ukuqhathanisa okulungile ngakho ngiyaxolisa kakhulu uma kukhona ngicasukile kodwa angikwazi ukucabanga ngegama elichaza ubuze nokungazethembi ngokwanele) Ngiyagula ukuzizwa nginjengomlingisi ophambili wendaba emfushane kaLovecraft njalo lapho ngiqeda ukushaya indlwabu, sengathi ngivezwe engachazeki ukwethuka (futhi okuningi KAKHO akuchazeki, ungakuchaza kanjani noma yikuphi kwalokhu okuyinkimbinkimbi, okuqukethwe okuphathelene nocansi kakhulu kumzali noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esingenalo ulwazi nge-inthanethi, ngokwesibonelo?)
Ngokujabulisayo, nginqabe ukuvezwa kwami okuningi kulokhu okuqukethwe okunengekayo, kepha ngiyazi ukuthi mhlawumbe kukhona labo abangakwenzanga. Ngifuna ukukwazisa ukuthi akukephuzi kakhulu. ukwamukela njengenkinga isinyathelo sokuqala futhi ukusuka lapho ungasebenza ekulungiseni umonakalo ongokwengqondo obangelwe yikho futhi wenze izindlela zokuphila impilo egculisayo nenenjabulo.
Ngicabanga ukuthi iningi labantu ababa abasebenzisi be-PMO banesifiso seqiniso, esilungile sokufudumala nokuzwela kodwa izimo ezihlukahlukene zisenza singabi nalutho, sishiye ize futhi sizama ngamandla ukuyigcwalisa ngezithombe zobulili ezingcolile noma izinto ezihlukahlukene esizicabangela ukuthi zizosebenza. Akukaze kwenzeke kodwa asikho usizo, kukhona indlela yokuphuma.
I-tbh, ngifuna nje ukukhuluma ngendaba eyangilimaza kakhulu nokuthi, ngikholwa ukuthi iningi labalimala.
uma ukufundile konke lokhu, ngiyabonga, ngiyethemba uthole okuthile okuyigugu kukho.
tl; dr: Ngikholelwa ukuthi i-porn ihamba phansi endleleni emnyama yokuzikhohlisa futhi ihudula phansi nabanye abaningi.
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Izinto ezibonakalayo ze-YBOP
- Ukulutha kobulili / ucansi? Leli khasi libala Ucwaningo lwe-40 lwe-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikeza ukusekela okuqinile ngesimodeli sokulutha kwezidakamizwa njengoba iziphumo zabo zibuyisa ukutholakala kwezinzwa ezibikiwe ezifundweni zokulutha izidakamizwa.
- Imibono yangempela yezobuchwepheshe ekubhekaneni nocansi / ucansi? Lolu hlu luqukethe Ukubuyekezwa kwezincwadi ezingama-18 zakamuva nezincazelo ngezinye zezazi eziphezulu zezinzwa emhlabeni. Bonke basekela imodeli yokulutha.
- Izimpawu zokulutha umlutha nokukhula kwezinto ezimbi kakhulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokubika okutholakele okuhambisana nokwanda kokusetshenziswa kocansi (ukubekezelelana), ukujwayela i-porn, kanye nezimpawu zokuhoxa (zonke izimpawu nezimpawu ezihlobene nokulutha).
- Ukuxilongwa okusemthethweni? Umbhalo wezokwelapha wezokwelapha osetshenziswa kakhulu emhlabeni, I-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), iqukethe ukuxilongwa okusha efanelekile ukulutha izidakamizwa: "Ukucindezeleka kokuziphatha ngokocansi. "
- Ukubheka iphuzu lokukhuluma elingasekelwa ukuthi "isifiso sobulili esiphakeme" sichaza ukulahla ucansi noma ukulutha ngokobulili: Okungenani izifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa isimangalo sokuthi ubulili nemilutha ye-porn "banesifiso esiphakeme sobulili"
- Izinkinga zobulili nezinkinga zobulili? Lolu hlu luqukethe izifundo ze-27 ezixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn / ukubheja kocansi ezinkingeni zobulili kanye nokuvusa okuncane ezenzweni zobulili. I fiziqu ze-5 ezingekho ohlwini zibonisa ibangela, njengoba abahlanganyeli beqede ukusetshenziswa kwezingcolile kanye nokuphulukisa okungavamile kocansi.
- Imiphumela yocansi ebuhlotsheni? Ucwaningo oluseduze lwe-60 luxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kuya ekungeneni kocansi nokuzaneliseka komndeni. (Njengoba sifana nathi konke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zabika ukusetshenziswa okuningi kocansi okuxhunyiwe abampofu ubulili noma ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano.)
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta impilo engokomzwelo nengqondo? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-55 zixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kocansi nezimpofu ezingokwengqondo-ezingokomzwelo nemiphumela empofu yokuqonda.
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta izinkolelo, isimo sengqondo nokuziphatha? Hlola izifundo ngabanye - ngaphezu kokuqukethwe kwe-25 ukuxilongwa kwe-porn ukuze "isimo sengqondo esingafani" kubesifazane kanye nokubukwa kobulili - noma isifinyeto kusuka kulolu cwaningo lwe-2016 meta: Imidiya nezocansi: Umbuso woPhando lwezobuciko, i-1995-2015. Umbhalo:
Umgomo walokhu kubuyekezwa kwakungenxa yokwenza umsebenzi wokuhlola uphenyo wemiphumela yokuhlolisisa imidiya. Okugxile ekucwaningweni okushicilelwe ezincwadini zamaphephandaba ezibukezwa kontanga, phakathi kwe-1995 ne-2015. Isamba sezincwadi ze-109 eziqukethe izifundo ze-135 zibuyekezwe. Ukutholakala kwahlinzeka ngokufakazela okuphelele ukuthi kokubili ukuvezwa kwelabhoratri kanye nokwehliswa kwansuku zonke, okuqukethwe kwansuku zonke kulokhu okuqukethwe kuhambisana ngqo nemiphumela eminingi, kufaka phakathi amazinga aphezulu okunganeliseki komzimba, ukuzethemba okukhulu, ukwesekwa okukhulu kwezinkolelo zobulili kanye nezinkolelo zobulili ezingathandeki, futhi ukubekezelela okukhulu kobudlova ngokocansi kubesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuvezwa kokuhlolwa kwalokhu okuqukethwe kuholela kokubili abesifazane nabesilisa ukuba babe nombono owehlisiwe wokufaneleka kwamakhosikazi, ukuziphatha nokubambisana kwabantu.
- Kuthiwani ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili nokusetshenziswa kocansi? Okunye ukuhlaziywa kwemeta: Ukuhlaziywa Kwemifanekiso Yezingcolile zobulili kanye Nemisebenzi Yezenzo Zokuhlukunyezwa Ngokobulili Ezingxoxweni Ezivamile Zabantu (2015). Umbhalo:
Ucwaningo lwe-22 oluvela emazweni ahlukene we-7 luhlaziywe. Ukusetshenziswa kwakuhlotshaniswa nokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili e-United States nakwamanye amazwe, phakathi kwamadoda nabesilisa, nasemifundweni engezansi kanye neyesikhathi eside. Izinhlangano zaziqinisile kunomlomo ngaphezu kokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, nakuba zombili zazibalulekile. Iphethini elijwayelekile lemiphumela lisikisela ukuthi okuqukethwe okubudlova kungase kube yinto ekhudlwana.
- Kuthiwani ngokusetshenziswa kocansi kanye nentsha? Hlola lolu hlu ngaphezulu kwezinguquko ze-200 kwentsha, noma lokhu kubuyekezwa kwe-2012 yocwaningo - Umthelela Wezithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Ze-Intanethi Kubantwana Abasha: Ukubukezwa kocwaningo (2012). Kusuka esiphelweni:
Ukwanda kokufinyelela kwi-Intanethi okwenziwa ngabasakhulayo kudale amathuba angakaze abe khona emfundo yezocansi, ukufunda nokukhula. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubungozi bokulimala okubonakala ezincwadini kuholele ekutheni abacwaningi baphenye ngokuvezwa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile zobulili online ukuze bazame ukucacisa lobu budlelwano. Ngokubambisana, lezi zifundo ziphakamisa ukuthi osemusha ophuza izithombe zobulili ezingcolile angahlakulela izindinganiso nezinkolelo ezingezona ezocansi. Phakathi kokutholakele, amazinga aphakeme wezimo zobulili ezivumayo, ukuzibandakanya ocansini, nokuhlolwa kwangaphambilini kobulili kuhlobene nokusetshenziswa okuvame kakhulu kwezithombe zocansi…. Noma kunjalo, okutholakele okungaguquki kuvelile okuxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwentsha kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile okubonisa ubudlova nezinga elikhuphukile lokuziphatha ngokobulili.
Izincwadi zikhombisa ukuhlangana okuthile phakathi kokusebenzisa kwentsha kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye nokuzazi. Amantombazane abika ukuthi azizwa ephansi ngokomzimba abesifazane abababheka ezintweni ezibonakalayo zobulili, kanti abafana besaba ukuthi kungenzeka bangabi yigciwane noma bakwazi ukwenza njengamadoda kule mithombo yezindaba. Intsha futhi ibika ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwazo kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwehlile njengoba ukuzethemba kwabo nentuthuko yezenhlalo ikhula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucwaningo libonisa ukuthi intsha esebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ikakhulukazi ezitholakala kwi-Intanethi, inamazinga aphansi wokuhlangana komphakathi, inyuka ezinkingeni zokuziphatha, amazinga aphakeme okuziphatha okukhohlisayo, izehlakalo eziphakeme zezimpawu ezicindezelayo, futhi inciphise ukubopha okungokomzwelo nabanakekeli.
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Njengomunye umuntu wathi:
Omunye umfana wathi:
Okuthunyelwe okuvela eMedHelp kuqhathanisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-Inthanethi ne "porn zakudala"
Kuthathwa kulolu chungechunge lwe-ED ne-Inthanethi ye-Porn.
Broadband iholele ekuluthweni kocansi
Kusuka kwesinye isithangami:
Amazwana wesilunga lesithangami:
Enye imibono ngokuziphendukela kwezingcolile zobulili
Kuthunyelwe kwenye indawo kule sayithi
Amazwana avela ku-Reddit
Amazwana avela ku-Psychology Today
U-YankieWankie ubeke amazwana ku: “Isibhakabhaka Awuwi”
Beka amazwana mayelana nesidingo sokwaziswa
Kuthunyelwe ku-reddit.com NoFap
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Ulwazi olubalulekile njalo
Hentai
Kusuka kwesinye isithangami - iminyaka engu-38
Ukuthinta ekolishi
Uvame Kanjani Ukuhamba Ngaphambi Kokuqala?
Abazali bami bayazi, kodwa akakaze akhulume nami ngemikhuba yami
Kuhlanekezelwe, Horny Bastard Umlutha Wezithombe Ezingcolile, Usuku 3 Futhi Ukubala…
Kusuka ku-reddit - NoFap
Kuyamangalisa ukuthi ubulili buye bunqabela kanjani
I-Porn kanye nokungabi nhlobo
Isixwayiso esivela kumuntu ngokushintsha i-30
Umbhangqwana wamazwana.
Ingabe usho ukuthi
Ingabe usho ukuthi abantu abathi babebe izithombe ezingcolile zobulili?
Isoka lami alikhulumi
I-Porn njenge-Hyper-Reality
Noma ubani oqaphele ukuthi umhlaba uguquke kangakanani eminyakeni embalwa edlule
I-GUY 2)
kusuka ku-reddit nofap -
ukulungiswa njenge-barometer- kusuka ku-reddit
waqaphela manje ukuthi ngabe abezindaba nezithombe ze-porn zithinte kangakanani
I-Porn Akuyona Engokwemvelo
ukuxhuma ngaphakathi kowesifazane, manje sekubhekwa njengengane ekhethekile
Osebenza naye usanda kuthola i-porn eneminyaka engama-37… impilo yakhe iyabhidlika
Osebenza naye usanda kuthola i-porn eneminyaka engama-37… impilo yakhe iyabhidlika phambi kwakhe. Ukushaya indlwabu emotweni yenkampani ngenkathi ushayela.
Iningi lethu libhekana nalokhu
Ngingasho ukuthi i-porn "yimbi" kunokukhula
Umngane wami uhlambalaza njengezikhathi ezingu-10-15 ngosuku.
Ingabe ikhona ngempela inkinga noma i-porn?
Angikaze ngibe nenkinga kuze kube yilapho ngineminyaka yokuqala yokuqhuma i-internet
Ukuxhumana okungalungile
Ngizamile kokubili futhi ngiza
Izithombe ezingcolile zimbi kakhulu, futhi ngicabanga
Bafana, ilungu elisha ku
Hey bafana, ilungu elisha emaqenjini lapha.
I-GUY 2)
OP)
I-GUY 3)
I-GUY 4)
Ingozi mhlawumbe lapha
lesi yisizukulwane sokuqala lapho kuqale khona i-intanethi
Ngizoqala ngokusho ukuthi mina
Ingabe kukhona? Cha, kuyisiqalo nje lesi.
I-Pornfree inzima kakhulu kune-nofap
ayikwazi ukubuka ngaphezulu kwemizuzwana engama-30 yanoma yisiphi isiqeshana
Ubona amangaki ama-vaginas?
Yeka ukuthi ukubola kwonakaliswe kanjani impilo yezenhlalakahle yeminyaka yobudala ye-16
Ngifunde okuthunyelwe mayelana nokuthola izilonda ku-dick yakho futhi ngempela
Ubani omunye ozwa imizwelo encane ngenxa yocansi?
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zenze ukuthi ubulili bube ngokwengeziwe ngama-theatrics
Ubulili bangempela abuzange buhambisane nokuhlangenwe nakho kwami njengomfana we-porn
I-NoFap ingenza ngicabange ukuthi kudabukisayo kangakanani ukuhlala ezikhathini zethu.
Ufeze impilo enkulu futhi
Ngishiya amaviki angama-2 amasonto adlule futhi ngizizwa ngijabule.
Umbiko we-75 Day: Umlutha wami we-Porn
Ukulutha (njengami) P-mahhala
Ngibe ngicabanga ngale ndaba (intuthuko kwezobuchwepheshe
Umnikazi we 'porn cartel' ubelokhu esebenzisa i-porn kusukela eminyakeni eyi-10
I-porn ekusakazeni ephezulu kakhulu iyakhuthaza kakhulu kunokuya ocansini
I-PORN: Ukuyibeka kanjani kushintshe impilo yami (Ibhulogi)
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Isifiso sami sokushaya indlwabu sinamandla kunokuba ngifune ukubuka i-por
Ngithola ukushaya indlwabu ngokwayo ngokwedlulele kakhulu.
Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zihlambalaza futhi ziqhekeze umbono wakho wokuthi "ujwayelekile"
Ukubuyela emuva ezweni lanamuhla eminyakeni ethile edlule kwakusabisa
Umbono omusha ku-Porn
Ukwandisa Ukuqwashiswa Komphakathi
ikakhulukazi uma kungezona zonke izimpinda zami ezaqala ngohlobo olunjalo “lokufuna
Bengingacabangi Ukuthi Ngingumsebenzisi We-Porn-Compulsive…
Ukusesha facebook iminyaka eminingi kwenza izinto ezingajwayelekile
Ngingazi ukuthi nginenkinga ngaze ngazama ukumisa….
Amantombazane amane avumile ukuthi eziningi zezocansi zabo
cabanga eminyakeni ye-5-10 abantu bazoqala ukuqaphela ukuthi i-ha ha porn
Ubudala 50, obuthakathaka besifazane ngemuva kokufakwa kwi-Internet ye-Porn
(I-Porn Manje) Ngisebenzisa amasayithi anokukhetha okukhulu kwamavidiyo… ..
I-GUY 2)
Ayikho isifiso sokuba fap ngaphandle porn.
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Ukuqhathanisa umlingani ovamile kuya ezinkanyezini zezingcingo kufana
Angikaze ngitshele muntu ukuthi ngizokutshela ngani. Sicela uvumele
uma umlutha wakho wezocansi ufinyelela ngokweqile lokho
qhubeka ngezinye izikhathi amahora ngaphambi kokuba ngithole isiqeshana esiphelele ukuze sifinyelele
Ngingasesha futhi ngisesha futhi ngisesha isikhathi ngasinye ukuze ngithole
impilo yami yokuphila ihle kakhulu umlando we-porn.
wahleka ebuchosheni bami ebusuku ebusuku ngoba wanginika isizathu esingaqondakali
Imibuzo yabantu abashintshe kusuka kuNoFap kuya ku-PornFree
I-GUY 2)
Ngicabanga ngobuqotho ukuthi i-PMO ingenye yezidakamizwa ezinzima kakhulu
Konke engangikuzondayo ngokufaka izithombe ezingcolile
Yilokho okungikhathazayo ngabantu ababukela izinto ezifana neHenta
Amathebhu we-17 we-porn kusiphequluli sami.
Ngingeke ngisindiswe ukukhula nge-broadband / google / fac
Ngifuna ukubuza umbuzo mayelana nefomethi yevidiyo njenge-FullHD
Kuwo wonke amalungu amancane avela kumdala omdala
Ukuphawula kukaGuy esithangamini
Ngimncane kunawe, futhi
mhlawumbe i-OP nayo. Ngisemdala ngokwanele ukuthi ngingaqala i-PMO nge
amamagazini we-softcore abese-VHS nabomagazini be-hardcore. Kubi njengalabo
babe (futhi babesabeka), akukho lutho olungilungiselela ukuqhuma
i-cocaine ye-inthanethi engenantambo, i-laptop ne-tube tube ye-porn. Okusheshayo
ukufinyelela ezihlukahlukene ezingapheli ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile akulungile ubani kodwa kubi kakhulu kubantu asebevele benomlutha we-porn / ubuntu bomlutha ngokujwayelekile.
Ngithole i-laptop yami yokuqala mayelana neminyaka engu-6 edlule. Izingosi ze-tube tube zisha
umqondo ngaleso sikhathi. Ngangiqede i-P2P iminyaka eminingi (kusukela ngo-1999
noma kunjalo, noma yikuphi ukusetshenziswa kobuchwepheshe obusha kuqala kuyi-porn). Futhi, kubi njengalokho
kwakungamanje amazambane amancane uma kuqhathaniswa namashubhu e-porn. Izifufula
thatha isikhathi sokulanda, futhi amafayela mkhulu. Okusheshayo
ukuzithokozisa kanye nesimo esingenamkhawulo se-tube tube sites kwenza umonakalo omkhulu kuwo
ubulili bami eminyakeni engu-5-6 kunezo zonke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezenzile kule
eyedlule i-20.
Nginenkinga yokulutha umlutha wezocansi iminyaka. Ngayeka ukubanda okubandayo
ekuqaleni kwe-2012 futhi kususwe i-400 + GB ye-porn. Ngiphonsa inqwaba enkulu
bashiswa ama-CD nama-DVD. Ngaya ezinsukwini ze-90 + ngaphandle kwe-PMO, kodwa ekugcineni ngawa
off the wagon.
Sengizame kaningi ukuphinde “ngihlanzeke”, kepha ngehlulekile
noma noma nini njalo. Ngokungahambi kahle, ngiphindela emuva ku-PMO okungenani kanye a
usuku, ngokuvamile ngaphambi kokulala (kodwa ngokuvamile ngezinye izikhathi futhi.)
Lesi sikhathi sakamuva sihlukile. Okokuqala, ngenza kanzima
imodi. Kunzima kakhulu, umzuzwana wesikhashana. Ngokuxakile, kulula
jikelele. Nginezinye izifiso ezimbi zokubuka izithombe ze-porn kanye / noma
ukushaya indlwabu, okujule kakhulu kunanoma yini efana nayo enginayo
wazizwa esikhathini esidlule. Noma kunjalo, inqubo ibilokhu, kahle, hhayi
kulula, kepha ngizwe umuzwa onamandla wokuqondisa. Nginokuningi
wakha ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, mina babe ukuyiqondisa endaweni ethile
okunye. Sengiqale ukuzivocavoca futhi. Lokhu kulungele inqwaba ye
izizathu. Ngithole ukukhuluphala impela eminyakeni yami yakamuva kepha futhi
I-endorphins yokuzivocavoca inikeza usizo oluphikisana nesidingo se-PMO.
Kube nokuthunyelwe lapha ngenyanga noma ngaphezulu edlule, bethi ayikho i-Fap engekho
ukuphela-konke ukuphela-yonke impendulo, futhi lokho kwashaya ngempela intambo nami.
Ukuyeka i-PMO yisinyathelo sokuqala sokulungisa izinkinga eziningi. Buka njengokuthi
ukubuyela emuva ku-square eyodwa, kodwa kusuka lapho ungaqala ekugcineni
Shona phambili.
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“Indawo Yomshini: Yilapho Uyakhona Lapho Uhluleka Ukuma
Uma i-Facebook nezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza kuyilutha, zicabange ukuthi i-The Machine Zone Internet porn ingakuthwala kangakanani….
Indawo Yomshini: Yilapho Uya Khona Lapho Ungasakwazi Ukubuka Izithombe ku-Facebook - Atlantic Mobile
“Abantu bayayithanda i-Facebook. Bayayithanda ngempela, ” UBiz Stone wabhala ekuqaleni kwalenyanga. "Umkhwekazi wami ubukeka ethambekile lapho ethatha isinqumo sokufaka isikhathi kuFacebook."
Akuyedwa kuphela. I-ComScore iqikelela ukuthi i-Facebook idla amaphesenti angu-11
sonke isikhathi esichitha ku-Inthanethi e-United States. Abasebenzisi bayo babelokhu
owaziwa ukuchitha i isilinganiso semaminithi we-400 ngenyanga kusayithi.
Ngiyayazi i-hypnosis, njengoba ngiqinisekile ukuthi nawe uyazi. Uqala ngokuchofoza
izithombe zabangani bakho abangani kanye nento elandelayo wazi ukuthi ihora likhona
kudlule. Kuyathandeka ngokungajwayelekile, kepha akunelisi. Uma isiphonso sesi
ephukile, ngizizwa sengathi ngichithe nje isikhathi esiningi. Kepha ngenkathi kunjalo
okwenzekayo, ngibanjwa ngaphakathi komshini, i-animated GIF yomuntu: I. Vele.
Ayikwazi. Ima.
Noma mhlawumbe kuzofika lapho ngiphenya ama-tweets ebusuku ngaphambili
umbhede. Angichofozi ngisho izixhumanisi noma ngiphendula abantu. Nginjalo nje
ukupheqa phansi, noma okubi kakhulu, ukudonsa phansi ngesithupha sami, ukulayisha kabusha,
ilayisha kabusha.
Noma kwesinye isikhathi, ngiyabanjwa emsindweni wokuncipha okungapheli kukaTumblr.
Ingabe lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho, njengoMatshe bekuyoba nakho, uthando? Izwe le-tech
ngokuvamile ulinganisa ukuthi uthanda kangakanani umsebenzi ngezinga elingakanani wena
uchithe kuso. Ngakho isikhathi esiningi silingana nothando.
Engikwaziyo ukuthi lolu akulona uthando. Kuyinto ethize ethe xaxa kwezobuchwepheshe ukuthi i-MIT anthropologist Natasha Schüll izingcingo "indawo yomshini. "
“Akukhona Ngokuwina, Kumayelana Nokungena Endaweni”
USüll wasebenzisa iminyaka engaphezu kweyishumi eya Las Vegas futhi ekhuluma naye
abagijimi kanye ne-casino opharetha mayelana nemishini ye-slot, eye yaqhuma
ekuzuzeni ngenkathi yedijithali njengoba abadlali begeyimu behlelwe ngcono
ukugcina abantu bedlala.
Lokho akutholile yilokho kuningi
abantu abadlala imishini abekho ukwenza imali. Bayazi
ngeke bashaye i-jackpot bese begoduka. Njengoba i-Roman Mars ikubeka
in isiqephu sakamuva sesipodcast yakhe esabekayo, 99% Okungabonakali, ocwaningweni lukaSchüll: “Akusikho ukuwina; kumayelana nokungena endaweni. ”
Ini
ingabe indawo yomshini? Isigqi. Kuyimpendulo kulungiswe kahle
iluphu yempendulo. Kungukuhlanekezelwa okunamandla kwesikhala. Ucindezela inkinobho.
Kukhona okwenzekayo. Uyishaya futhi. Okufanayo, kodwa hhayi kahle
kwenzeka okufanayo. Mhlawumbe uyawina, mhlawumbe awuphumeleli. Phinda. Phinda.
Phinda. Phinda. Phinda. Kuyintokozo yokuphinda, ukuphepha kwe-
loop.
"Konke okunye kuyawa," kusho uSchüll kuMars. “Umuzwa wemali
ukubaluleka, isikhathi, isikhala, ngisho nomqondo wokuziqhenya kubhujiswa ngokweqile
ifomu lale ndawo oyingenayo. ”
Encwadini kaSchüll, Umlutha we-Design, umgembuli ogama lakhe linguLola uyamtshela: “Ngicishe ngiluthiswe ngokuba lowo mshini. Kufana nokudlala ngokwakho: Nguwe umshini; umshini nguwe. ”
Kukhona lelo gama futhi: ukuluthwa, njengogogo kaStone. Abaningi
abagembuli basebenzise ukuhlukahluka kumshwana. "Ukubeka indawo ngamagama,"
USchüll uyabhala, “abagembuli engikhulume nabo bangezezela okungajwayelekile,
Izwi lesishiyagalolunye lekhulu lesishiyagalolunye le-hypnosis ne-magnetism
izikhombo zekhulu lama-20 ekubukeni kwethelevishini, ikhompyutha
ukucubungula, nokushayela imoto. ”
Baye basho izinto ezinjengokuthi, “Usenkingeni, usezandleni zomuntu ozihambelayo. Indawo ingu
njengezibuthe, ivele ikudonsele ngaphakathi ikubambe lapho. ”
Kungani la mazwi, lezi izingathekiso? Asazi ukuqonda ngokuqonda
isimo esiwela kuso - sizwa kuphela ukusibamba kwayo - ngendlela esivele ngayo
ihlangene nezifunda ezingenalutho. Wena umshini; umshini nguwe.
Futhi kuyezwakala… amagama ayahluleka. Eqinisweni, kuzwakala sengathi amagama ahlulekile
ngoba kuphezu kokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu, ukuphaphaza ku-a
indawo ye-cybernetic evezwe kahle ku-data kanye nekhodi.
Indawo yomshini uhlangothi olumnyama lwe- “flow, "
isimo sengqondo esiconywa nguMihály Csíkszentmihályi. Ukugeleza
isimo, kunomgomo, imithetho yokufinyelela emgomweni, kanye nempendulo
kuhamba kanjani. Okubalulekile, umsebenzi kufanele uhambisane namakhono akho, ngakho-ke
kunomuzwa wokuthi "ukulawula kanye nenselelo kanyekanye."
Esikhulumweni esibucayi se-1996,
UCsíkszentmihályi wachaza izwe kanjena: “Ukuba ngokuphelele
ehileleke kulo msebenzi ngenxa yaso. I-ego iyawa. Isikhathi
izimpukane. Yonke into, ukunyakaza, kanye nomcabango kulandela ngokungazelelwe kusuka ku
owedlule, njengokudlala i-jazz. ”
U-Schüll ubona ukuphikisana nalokhu
isenzakalo phambi kwemishini entsha ye-slot ye-Vegas, ehlanganisa
Izikwele ezincane zokubonakala zilawula ukukhulisa izimpendulo zabo. Kodwa
esikhundleni sokuzigcwalisa kanye nenjabulo ukuthi uCsíkszentmihályi
ichaza ukuthi abaningi abagijimi bazizwa behlukumezekile futhi bebuhlungu ngesikhathi sabo
izintambo.
Le midlalo isebenzisa isifiso somuntu sokugeleza, kodwa ngaphandle
incazelo noma ubuciko obanjwe kuhulumeni. Indawo yomshini yilapho
ingqondo ihamba njengoba umzimba ulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi. “Ungayisula
konke emishinini, ”umgembuli utshela uSchüll. “Ungasula ngisho
wena. ”
Ungahamba kuwo wonke endaweni yomshini, kodwa uma nje uhlala lapho.
I-Facebook Zone
Uma sifakwa emisebenzini ephindaphindiwe kumakhompyutha ethu, ngicabanga ukuthi thina
ingafaka uhlobo oluthile oluthambile lwendawo yomshini. Ngokusobala, uma
ubandakanyeka kubanter nabangani noma uthumelela umama wakho imiyalezo ku-Facebook,
awukho kuleyo ndawo. Uma ufunda ngentshiseko futhi ubhala izinkondlo
ku-Twitter, awukho kuleyo ndawo. Uma wenza ubuciko ku-Tumblr,
awukho kuleyo ndawo. Indawo yomshini iphikisana nomphakathi, futhi kunjalo
ebonakala ngokungabi nokuxhumana kwabantu. Ungase ubheke
abantu uma ubheka izithombe, kepha ukuxhumana kwakho nabo
Izingosi ze-digital ziyimishini, ziphindaphinda futhi ziqiniswa
impendulo yekhompuyutha.
Angisho ukuthi abantu "bayimilutha" ku-Facebook. Ezinye ze
abagembuli abacashunwe ocwaningweni lukaSchüll empeleni banezinkinga ezinkulu.
Kepha ngisebenzisa izindaba zabo njengoba kwenza uSchüll - njengemithombo yolwazi ku
indawo, ukungasho ukuthi isipiliyoni sabo slot machine ncamashi
njengesikhathi somsebenzisi wakho omaphakathi ku-Facebook.
Ngikukhomba lokhu ngoba kukhona ukuthambekela kokugxila emhlabeni wonke
umlutha wobuchwepheshe obuhlukahlukene njengokuthi akuyona into enkulu. Kepha kunjalo.
Konke lokhu ukusho: Angenzi mpikiswano mayelana nokuphelele kwe-
izinsizakalo ezifana ne-Facebook. Lokhu ukugxekwa kwamacici okuziphatha okuqondile
okungaba khona ngaphakathi kwabo.
Isibonelo esihle kakhulu sokungena emkhakheni womshini ngokuchofoza
ngokusebenzisa ama-albhamu ezithombe ku-Facebook. Akukho lutho oluvuza kakhulu
noma okuthakazelisayo ngakho. Futhi nokho, ngikhombise umsebenzisi we-Facebook ongazange
wachitha amahora namahora enza lokho nje. Kungani? Ungathola indawo.
Chofoza. Isithombe. Chofoza. Isithombe. Chofoza. Isithombe. Futhi mhlawumbe, endaweni ethile ku
lapho, uthola okuthile okupholile (“Umngani wami uyazi umzala wami.”) noma muhle
("Kitten."). Kuhle. UJackpot! Chofoza. Isithombe. Chofoza. Isithombe. Chofoza. Isithombe.
I-Facebook iyona inkonzo enkulu yokwabelana ngezithombe emhlabeni wonke. Ngaphakathi 2008, lapho isayithi linezithombe ze-10 ezigciniwe ezigciniwe, abasebenzisi bakhuphuka Izithombe ze-15 billion ngosuku. Inqubo yenzeke ku-300,000 ngomzuzwana. Chofoza. Isithombe. Chofoza.
Ku-2010, i-Facebook ilayishe izithombe ze-65 ezigidigidi, futhi zahanjiswa izinga eliphakeme le-1 million ngomzuzwana. Ngo-2012, abasebenzisi be-Facebook babefaka Izithombe ezingu-300 million ngosuku. Futhi ekuqaleni konyaka, i-Facebook yamemezela ukuthi abasebenzisi babanikezele Izithombe ezingu-240 zezigidigidi.
Uma sicabanga isilinganiso sezithombe ezilayishwe ezithombeni ezibukwayo azizange ziyeke ngokushesha, kungenzeka ukuthi abasebenzisi bayadonsa izigidi zama-Facebook izithombe ngosuku ngesilinganiso sezigidi ngesigamu. Chofoza. Isithombe. Chofoza.
Konke kuhlanganisa isikhathi esiningi esichitha ku-loop. Ngokusho a
Umbiko we-2011 ComScore, abasebenzisi basebenzisa amaphesenti angu-XNUM of isikhathi sabo kusayithi
izithombe kuphela zokuphequlula (okuphi njengaphakathi ngaphakathi kwe-Facebook amanothi, akubandakanyi “isikhathi esichithwa kufundwa izindaba zokuphakelwa kwezindaba nezaziso ezikhiqizwe ukulayishwa kwesithombe”).
Ukubeka lezi zinombolo ngendlela efanele, iComScore's 2013 Digital Focus
Umbiko wathola ukuthi i-Facebook yathatha amaphesenti angu-83 isikhathi esichithwa ngaso * konke *
ukuxhumana nomphakathi kuwebhu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kuzo zonke isikhathi esichithwa
amanethiwekhi omphakathi, amaphesenti angu-XNUM ayenzeka ngaphakathi kwalokhu kuziphatha okulodwa
iluphu. Lokho kungaphezu kwesikhathi sonke esichithwa kuTumblr, Pinterest, Twitter,
kanye ne-LinkedIn kuhlangene!
If
yonke imisebenzi yobuchwepheshe iqukethe "imiyalo" ethile ngaphakathi
kubo, uma abaqambi bangabhala izinhloso ezintweni abakhayo, njengakumcabango wesazi sezenhlalo uBruno Latour, khona-ke singasho ukuthi ezinye izindlela zokuzibandakanya zichazwe kakhulu kunabanye.
Ini
I-Facebook ne-slot machine share share ikhono lokunikeza ngokushesha
impendulo ezenzweni ezilula; ziletha imivuzo emincane ngokungaphelele
ishejuli “yenkokhelo” eqagekayo. Lezi izihibe eziphoqayo, ezihlanekezelwe
noma ngabe yayiyini inhloso yangempela yomsebenzisi. Okuqale ngokuthi “Bheka i-
isithombe somuntu X ”siqhubeka" ukubona izithombe eziningi. " Umshini
ngokwayo iba iphuzu.
Abaqambi begeyimu-game, ngokwengxenye yabo, kuye kwadingeka balwe no
izinkinga zokuziphatha eziphakanyiswe ngokusebenzisa indawo yomshini. Futhi lokho kuthinta
akuzange kube muhle.
U-Schüll ukhuluma ngomklami oyedwa, uRandy Adams. Ekuqaleni, uyamtshela
ukuthi "ngokuziphatha" uphikisana nokuba yimishini evumela ukuphoqelelwa
ukuziphatha, okuwukuvuma ukuthi kungenzeka ukwenza kanjalo. “Kodwa
kulokhu u-Adams ubengahambisani, ”kubhala yena. “U- [Adams] waqala ngo-
ukuthola ukuluthwa ngaphakathi kumuntu, usho ukuthi 'abanye abantu abakwazi
lawula ingxenye ekuguqula kube mnandi kube umlutha. ' Lapho ucindezelwe ku
ucacise 'ingxenye ekuguqula kube mnandi kube umlutha,' uphendule wathi:
'Ukwakhiwa komdlalo, ”bese wengeza ukuthi lesi sici
lokuklama "kwakungahlosile ngakithi, ngendlela nje okwenzeka ngayo
ziphenduke. '”
Ngabe kusho ukuthini ngomsebenzi wezindaba zenhlalo uma siyiqonda
ukuze kuvezwe okufanayo kwengqondo kumdlalo wokugembula?
Ngabe abasebenzi baseSilicon Valley babezohlukana nomkhiqizo wabo ngendlela
abaklami bemishini yokuphaka bayayenza? Ngazi amakhodi amaningi nabantu abake
usebenze ezinkampanini ezahlukahlukene zomphakathi; impela abaziboni
njengobunye ibhizinisi elifanayo njengekhasino. Abaningi babo bacabanga
“ukwenza kahle ngokwenza okuhle. "
Njengomzamo wokucabanga, cabanga ukuthi kwakukhona ubufakazi obungenakuphikiswa
ukuthi imiklamo ethile yezinsizakalo zewebhu yenza abantu bangena kumshini
indawo, isikhathi sesishiyagalombili kwisayithi se-subset yabasebenzisi. Ingabe bazoklama
ukuphulukisa ukusetshenziswa kwabo noma ngabe bonke bayothatha amacebo abo
ukuqala?
Izinto zingahle zihluke. Isayithi lingakhuthaza a
ukuziphatha okuhlukile kokusetshenziswa. Ukuze ube ongenangqondo encane: Kungani ungathumeli
sayina ngemuva kokuthi umuntu ebuke izithombe eziyi-100 ezithi, “Kungani kungenjalo
bhala umngani noma ilungu lomndeni inothi esikhundleni salokho? ”
Akufanele yini lezi zinto zibe yingxenye yezinkampani zewebhu ezicabanga ngazo? Akunjalo
ukukhuthaza abasebenzisi ukuthi basebenzise okuningi, kodwa babasize bayeke.
Inkinga "Yokunika Abantu Lokho Abakufunayo"
Ungaphikisana ngokuthi abadwebi bamane nje ukunikeza abantu lokho abakufunayo. Idatha ithi abantu bachitha isikhathi esiningi bebuka izithombe; ngakho-ke, i-Facebook isebenza ngezithombe. Simple njengoba lokho.
Ukuzibophezela ngokuvamile kuyimali yenethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu. Kusukela
Kunzima kakhulu ukukala ukuthi ngabe umuntu uthokozela i
okuhlangenwe nakho kunokukala inani lamaminithi umuntu achitha
okwenzayo, ukubandakanya kuvame ukulinganiswa nesikhathi. Futhi-ke, i-Silicon
I-Valley iye yenzele icala ngokwayo (nakubasebenzisi beofthiwe yayo)
ukuthi sivota ngokuchofoza kwethu.
Kepha kunenkinga. Incazelo yokuthi "abantu bafuna ini" ishushumbiswe
ngedatha. Incazelo iqala ngokuqondile: Abantu baya kumasayithi
bayathanda. Kodwa-ke ithola umbala. Bathi isikhathi esiningi wena
sebenzisa isayithi noma ingxenye yesayithi, uma uthanda kakhulu. Yiqiniso, lokho
iqeda ngokuphelele indima yenkampani ngokwayo edlala ekubunjeni umsebenzisi
ukuziphatha ukwandisa ukusetshenziswa. Futhi liyazinaki abantu ngezinye izikhathi
(imvamisa?) bazenzele izinto abangazithandi. Ngubani "othanda"
ukuchitha amahora uphenya iziteshi - kepha kube yingxenye eyinhloko ye-
Ukuhlangenwe nakho kwamaMelika amashumi eminyaka
Kuthiwani uma imizuzu ye-400 ngenyanga echitha i-Facebook iningi
(noma ngisho nenye ingxenye) esetshenziselwa indawo yomshini, ekhonjwe, eqoqa isikhangiso
ukubonakala kwenkampani?
Nayi impikiswano yami: Ukucabanga ngakho
indawo yomshini kanye namalokhi aqinekile aqalayo ahle kakhulu
amandla okuchaza. Kuchaza umuzwa "wesikhathi esilahlekile" engibe nawo
amanethiwekhi wokuxhumana ahlukahlukene, nokuthi ngizwe abanye abantu bekhuluma. It
uchaza ukuthi i-Facebook eyengeziwe ihanjise kanjani amasevisi ayo, abantu abaningi
Kubonakala sengathi abakuthandi okuhlangenwe nakho abanakho, yize bengakushiyi
kubo. Kuyasiza ukuchaza ukuthi kungani abantu bebuyela emuva ezinsizeni ezondayo
kubo, noma bethi abafuni.
Kuyangisiza ngiqonde ukuthi kungani umphakathi wezokuxhumana, owaqala ngokuhle
Inhloso yokuxhuma abantu, isiba indaba enjalo. Phakathi
i-tech savvy, kubhekwa njengesenzo sesibindi ukusho, “Ngithanda i-Facebook. "
Ngoba
abaklami nabathuthukisi bahumushe ukukhulisa "isikhathi esizeni,"
“Ukunamathela,” “ukuzibandakanya,” njengokunikeza abantu abakufunayo, bona
wakha uhlelo olufaka izimpendulo eziphoqelekile kubantu
kamuva uzisola.
Okungenani, isimo se-machine zone kufanele sibe
ingxenye yendlela esibheka ngayo ngenjabulo ye-intanethi. Mhlawumbe,
ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lezi zinkinga zizozilungisa ngokwazo. Angiqinisekile kangako,
Noma kunjalo: Amandla wezomnotho enhliziyweni yamanethiwekhi omphakathi asekelwa ngokusekelwa
ngokuyinhloko kudinga ukukhulisa isikhathi esiningi abantu abasichitha kwisayithi,
ekhiqiza ukubonakala kokukhangisa.
Kuvele nje ukuthi umsebenzisi
imikhuba yokuziphatha ezuzisa kakhulu i-Facebook nezinye
amanethiwekhi omphakathi yilawo maphethini abawahumushele wona
kusho ukuthi abantu bayabathanda. Kucishe kube sengathi banquma ukuthi yini engaba khona
babe nenzuzo enkulu bese bethola indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuthi njengokhonza
izidingo zomsebenzisi.
Kepha empeleni angikukholwa lokho. Ungasho abaningi
izinto mayelana nabanomabhizinisi, abaklami, namakhodi abakha umphakathi
izinkampani zokuxhumana, kodwa bayakholelwa kulokho abakwenzayo. Bangaphezulu
okungenzeka babe yizinkolelo ezingaphezu kwezinguquko ze-triangulators zezimali. Futhi
sebenzisa usuku lonke ku-Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, naku-Pinterest,
futhi. Ngibheja ukuthi bayayazi indawo yomshini, futhi. Futhi yingakho nginethemba
bangase bayeke ukuklama izicupho.
Kunoma ikuphi, ukulwa
ukungabi nalutho okukhulu enhliziyweni yalezi zinki eziphoqelekile kufanele kube yinye
imigomo yokwakha ubuchwepheshe, ukusetshenziswa, nokugxeka.
Ngokwesiko elikhulu laseSigodini, sizokwenza isikibha: Vele Ungathi Cha Endaweni Yomshini.
izinto ze-amateu kuphela futhi angikwazi ukubhekana nobunzima be-porn befor
Re: umonakalo wezinhlobo ezahlukene ze-porn?
into engifuna ukuyisho mayelana nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile
UMTHETHO WOMTHETHO. Dinga usizo.
I-Porn akuyona ubuciko.
Esihlokweni sokungabonakali. (kancane kancane isihloko)
izithombe zobulili ezingcolile zishaya ingqondo yakho. Ngiyazi ngoba ngilapho. Ngizizwa ngingedwa
i-sexologist yethu ehamba phambili etshela bonke abasha abasebasha
Ukuphela kwe-ED, sengivele ngiyazi ukuthi angisoze ngabuyela emuva
Le ndawo iyoba mkhulu kunawe
nanku umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwezithombe zocansi eziphrintiwe
Ingxenye yesithathu (33%) yamadoda phakathi kweminyaka yobudala ye-18 ne-30 ingacabange ukuthi iwumlutha noma ayiqiniseki uma igxila ezithombeni ezingcolile
Ukushintsha okukhulu ekubukeni kwezingcolile kusuka ku-1980es kuze kube manje.
Ukushintsha okukhulu ekubukeni kwezingcolile kusuka ku-1980es kuze kube manje.
walala nochungechunge lwe-porn futhi akakwazanga ukuwugcina
walala nochungechunge lwe-porn futhi akakwazanga ukuwugcina
Angifuni ngisho nokufuna ukwenza kahle, ngifuna nje ukuthi amathebhu avuleke,
Ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu ngidla ubuchopho bami noP.
Lezi zigaba engizidlule phakathi neminyaka yokugcina ye-30 +. (Ngo-Ephreli, i-2015)
ISIGABA 1 - Imibono emikhulu
Phindela ku-1981. Konke kwaqala kuhle kakhulu. Ithole izithombe ezivusayo lapha naphakathi lapho ngineminyaka yobudala be-11. Ngesikhathi ngisekhaya ngedwa kwakwanele ukuzithokozisa ngokwami. Ubonwa izigcawu zesikhashana njalo ngezikhathi ezithile kuthelevishini, izinkumbulo ezanele zokuqhubeka isikhathi esithile 🙂
ISIGABA 2 - Amamagazini
Ngesikhathi lapho uhlolwe khona njengama-pussy uma ungenayo okungenani amamagazini ambalwa we-Playboy. Ngaze ngabeka ezinye izingxenye ezidongeni lwami nodade wami evunyelwe, ngibona njengomfana onempilo 🙂
Usazibuza ukuthi lezi magz zaba kanjani: zihlwabusile: - lol
ISIGABA 3 - Iziteshi ezivusa inkanuko ne-VCR
Manje phambili ku-1985. Isikhathi sokuqala engangeniswa kuma-movie we-porn ayesenkathini edumile yaseDutch FilmNet Night Club. Kusukela ku-23: i-00 kuze kube sekuseni lokhu kwakuyindawo okufanele ube khona uma ufuna ukubona isenzo esinzima. Sithumelele kuzo zonke iziteshi. Ngomfana oneminyaka engu-15 ubudala, lokhu kwakungcono kakhulu ukuthi kungabi yiqiniso. Ukulala okuningi nobusuku obuningi bamathawula amanzi 🙂 Kwaba ngcono nakakhulu uma ngithola i-VCR yami yokuqala yokuqopha. Lokhu kwangivumela ukuba ngibhale izinkanyezi engizikhonzile futhi ngidlale emuva emini lapho ngisekhaya ngedwa. Ngicabanga ukuthi i-50% yazo zonke amateyipu wami ayinguP ngaleso sikhathi. Ifihlwe ngokucophelela ebhokisini noma ibhalwe ngokuthi "I-Universe" nezinto 🙂
ISIGABA 4 - I-inthanethi ne-DVD
Ngemva kweminyaka engu-10. I-1995. Ukuphila kwakuhle, intombi enhle, inqwaba nokulala okuningi. Kodwa phakathi nobuhlobo engangikutholile online porn. Uqale ngezithombe eziqinile. Lapho esebenza futhi i-libido yami yabuye yaphindaphindiwe, ngizohamba nge-intanethi (kwadingeka udilize khona ngaleso sikhathi :) futhi ulande ezinye izinto ezintsha. Amabhayisikobho lapho kusenkulu kakhulu ukulandwa okusheshayo, ngakho ekuqaleni ngizigcina ezithombeni eziqinile. Iqashise izinto ezithile ezingathandekayo nentombazane njalo ngesikhathi esisodwa, kepha ayizange ingiphendule njengezinto engizilandelwe kusuka kumaqembu wezindaba.
ISIGABA 5 - I-Intanethi esheshayo
Phindela ku-2005. Umshado. ULibido waqala ukuvumelanisa nomkami. Ukuzalwa kwezindawo ze-intanethi. Iqala ukulanda ama-movie manje. Bamba, abesifazane abaningi abashisayo, isikhathi esincane kakhulu. Uqale ukuqoqa izintandokazi, uthole ukudala ngempela ekutholeni i-ejac ephelele, ogulayo 🙂
ISIGABA 6 - Okuningi, okusha, okusha, induduzo, umhlaba omnandi
Ngu-2010. Isehlukaniso. Nginamathele ezweni lami elincanyana, ngilahle abangani, nginciphise ukudla kwe-P 🙂 Gigabytes kanye namaGigabyte wezinto ze-HQ, kuhlelwe kahle ngu "actress", PMO cishe nsuku zonke, imisebenzi yomphakathi ibe mincane. Ukusuka embongolweni kuya kumuntu we-boobs-man futhi ubuye futhi. Ngisho nobuchopho bami abusazi ukuthi yini engiyithandayo. Uma ngifika ekhaya lingenalutho, utshwala kanye ne-PMO kungenza ngikhululeke. Ngosuku olulandelayo, konke futhi.
ISIGABA 7 - Ukuningi kakhulu kwanoma yini akulungele wena
Manje se-2014. Ngisho namantombazane ashisa kunazo zonke kumavidiyo angazami ukubuyela kimi. Kumele babe sesimweni esithile, babe nobukhulu obuthile nokubukeka okubhekayo ukuvusa. Zonke ezinye "izinto" zikhona nje ukuze zisebenze isikhala kunethiwekhi yami (ikhulile ibe yizici eziningana).
ISIGABA 8 - Ngani? Misa lokhu kwehla!
Jan 2015. Ngibuye ngiphinde ngibheke i-PMO binge. Izikhathi ezintathu ezinsukwini ezimbili. Umzimba wami nobuchopho buyaphelile. Esikhundleni sokuphuma nokuxosha abesifazane, ngidlula iqoqo lami lamanje ukuze ngithole noma yini engaphilisa ubuhlungu obungaphakathi. Lapho ngifika i-ejaculate ye-i-dont-know-ye-1000th-isikhathi, into iphuka. Kungani? Kungani?
Futhi ngesikhathi sokufuna abantu abanezinkinga ezifanayo ngithola iNoFap. Funda izindaba. Zizwa ubuhlungu futhi ulwa nomuntu wonke. Lurk amasonto ambalwa bese ngidala i-akhawunti, thumela abanye. Drop it again coz Ngizizwa nginamahloni. Dala enye. Yehlisa.
Futhi-ke ukuzama kwangempela kwami kwangempela. Ibheji nakho konke. Amaviki amabili. Kwabe sekunye amasonto amabili. Futhi-ke elinye isonto. Njengamanje ku-4th zama, kodwa ukukhula. Phela, ama-3 MO mayelana namasonto e-6 ahle kakhulu kumuntu oqalayo we-NoFap.
Ngakho, ukwenza le ndaba ende kakhulu kakhulu ifushane. Izoba zimbi nakakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuyeka isikhashana.
I-TL; I-DR: Ngisanda kukhula nge-P kule minyaka engu-30 + yokugcina, ngazi cishe zonke izinkanyezi / umdlali wezithombe, kodwa manje sengiphelile ngalokhu shit
LINK - Ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu ngidla ubuchopho bami noP. Almost prehistoric, ngakho ungibize uFapster Erectus
ngo -h2o-
Amahora angu-10 weholide lami asele ngenxa yezinsizi ze-porn.
Amahora angu-10 weholide lami asele ngenxa yezinsizi ze-porn.
Yingakho ukuvuselela okufakwayo f *** s ubuchopho bakho phezulu !!!
Yingakho ukuvuselela okufakwayo f *** s ubuchopho bakho phezulu !!! UKUPHILA
Angizange Ngiqaphele Ukuthi Ngithonywe Kangakanani I-Porn
Angizange Ngiqaphele Ukuthi Ngithonywe Kangakanani I-Porn
I-Cuckolding inhlekelele.
[Cuckolding] inhlekelele.
Isiko sethu sinezinguquko NGOKUKHASHA kakhulu uma kuziwa nge-porn
I-taboo ngokumelene ne-porn-free; Okwenza abantu bacasuke kakhulu lapho ukhuluma ngokubi kwezingubo zobulili ezingcolile, futhi ubhubhane lokhu kubangela
Ekugcineni walahleka ubuntombi bami, futhi phakathi naleso sikhathi ngangicabanga nge-porn
Ekugcineni ngilahlekelwa ubuntombi bami, futhi phakathi naleso sikhathi ngangibheka izithombe ezingcolile ekhanda lami
I-Porn eminyakeni embalwa edlule isibe kakhulu, inamandla kakhulu, inamandla, futhi anelutha.
https://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/9oabha/sex_helps/
I-6 iphakamise imibono mayelana nezocansi ukuthi i-Porn isinganiselwe