Ngesinye isikhathi ngilala nentombi yami futhi ngiye ngibe nobunzima bocansi lobucansi oluholela emithanjeni eminingi yemizimba ngaphandle kokujuluka. Ngezinye izikhathi ngangibanjwa yinjabulo yenyama futhi ngephutha ngabopha umsoco (mhlawumbe kabili ngonyaka owedlule). Ukuphefumula okujulile kungashukumisela amandla ocansi emgogodleni uma umuntu engakhathazeki ngokweqile ngokufuna injabulo.
Noma ngubani… Ngicabanga ukuthi nginonyaka we-1 weNoFap. Sekungunyaka selokhu ngasusa i-4GB ye-porn kwi-PC yami.
Lolu hambo lumayelana nokudlulisela amandla ocansi kube amandla noma izisusa zombili zingamandla e-AKA.
Ukucindezela imicabango yocansi akwanele. Ukucindezela kuholela kokungazinzi. Ukugxila ukunaka kwakho ungacabangi ngendlovu epinki kuzoqinisa umqondo wendlovu epinki.
Abantu bathi zixake. Iseluleko esihle. Noma lapho udinga ukuphumula ngokunganqobeki, imicabango yezocansi iyongena ngaphakathi futhi uzongena kuleliphupho, njengoba nginezikhathi ezingenakubalwa. Kodwa-ke, angikaze ngiqale ukufota. Ngakho-ke qaphela kakhulu ukuthi ukhuluma kanjani nalokhu ngokomqondo. Umzimba ulandela umqondo, i-fantasy yisinyathelo sokuqala sokugcwalisa ngakho-ke unake lapho uqala ukufisela imicabango.
Amandla owaphulukayo ayengaphezulu komzimba futhi kulabo abanombono ongaqondakali, uphenyo ku- "brahmacharya" luzokuholela ekuqondeni okuqhubekayo. Abanye bangathi amandla ethu abaluleke kakhulu okudala aqukethwe kuwo, hhayi izakhi zomzimba kuphela.
Kulabo abanengqondo enkulu ngokwesayensi, u-semen wakhiwa ngezinto ezifanayo uketshezi lwe-cerebrospinal esenziwe ngalo. Lolu ketshezi lomgogodla lunamakhompiyutha amaningi wokulandela umkhondo okungaba nzima ukubuthana ngobuningi obanele ngokudla okungalungile. Lolu ketshezi lungena ebuchosheni bethu ngesikhathi sokulala okujulile futhi yindlela yethu yobuchopho kuphela yokuqeda imfucuza. Ngokuzenzakalelayo, udaba lwethu olimpunga lwakhiwa ngezinto ezifanayo ezisemkhathini we-cerebrospinal fluid. Ngakho-ke uma u-A = B no-B = C bese kuthi u-A = C.
Ikakhulukazi kulabo abadla kabi, i-NoFap ibalulekile. Kulabo abasakhula futhi bakulinganise ngokudla okunomsoco noma "ama-elixir abuyiselayo", cabanga ukuthi ungaba ngcono kanjani ukube ubungadla kahle futhi ube no-NoFap streak omude.
Njengoba ngishilo phambilini, lapho ingqondo iya khona, umzimba uyalandela. Ngakho-ke ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ukuzitika ngamaphupho, njll kukusethela iphupho elimanzi uma umelana ngempumelelo nesifiso sokukhula (ukumelana nokufiphala kulula, ukumelana nephupho elingokoqobo lezocansi kunzima kakhulu akukho pun ehlosiwe…)
Ukulala ngemicabango yokuya ocansini noma ukukhonkotha umuntu othile uzibekela wena ngokwehluleka.
Amaphupho amanzi awuphawu lokuthi usenamandla angashintshiwe, akuhlangene nezinqubo "zemvelo". Ngenisa imbongolo yakho ejimini noma ugijime, ubhale incwadi noma iculo noma uzifake ohlelweni lwe-undergraduate noma lwe-masters futhi lapho-ke usazoba namandla angasetshenziswanga.
Kuyinselelo enkulu ukuhambisa WONKE amandla akho kwa-NoFap ezintweni ezinhle futhi uma ingqondo ingaqaphile ingavezwa ngezindlela ezingezinhle njengolaka noma umhawu noma isidingo sokuphakama. Amandla ocansi, empumalanga, kubhekiswa kuwo njengamandla enyoka (awusekho ihlaya) futhi ugeleza njengomfula, uyakwazi ukulawula ukuthi kuhamba kanjani kodwa amandla alowo mfula angaba mibi uma ukuvumela kube njalo. La mandla angasetshenziselwa okuhle nokubi.
Lezi zimo zemicabango nazo ziyaguguleka lapho i-ego yakho ikhula. Noma yikuphi ukwanda kwe-ego kuzokhulisa izifiso zakho eziphansi futhi kwenze i-NoFap ibe nzima ngokwengeziwe. Impumelelo ku-NoFap yi-ego futhi izokucindezela kule ndlela, qaphela.
Lokhu kumayelana ne-DESIRE, uma nje ubona ukuthi izifiso zakho azisoze zeneliswe ngokugcwele noma unomphela, kufanele unqume ukuthi uzozinikela yini ufuna okuthile okuphezulu noma uqhubeke nokujaha ukwaneliseka okwesikhashana.
Kunamabhonasi okuhlala endleleni, kodwa futhi ayizicupho ze-egos yethu… Isibonelo, kulula ukuba nomzimba omzimba ngoba KUDINGEKA ukuthi uphume endlini ugijime amamayela ayi-5 ngaphambi kokuthi uqhume emandleni wezinzwa. Impumuzo ifika kuphela lapho uvivinya umzimba. Bengilokhu ngiphakamisa izinsimbi iminyaka emi-4 iqondile, futhi muva nje ngibonile ukuthi angikaze ngibe nokuzivocavoca “okubi” noma lokho ebengikubiza ngokuzivocavoca “okubi”. Mhlawumbe i-placebo, yiba yijaji.
Abantu ngokwemvelo bazokuthola uheha ngokwengeziwe ngokomzimba, bathande ukubheka emehlweni akho ngokwengeziwe, bazofuna ukuba seduze kwakho kakhulu…. zonke izinto zikuholele endleleni ye-ego futhi engaguqula amandla alowo mfula abe yinto engeyinhle.
Ukuzindla kuhambisa lawo mandla ezocansi kokungaziwa, indawo yonke noma uma ukhetha uNkulunkulu. Abanye bathi kuya ocansini noNkulunkulu futhi ngikuthole kuyindlela enhle kakhulu yokusebenzisa amandla ezocansi. Abanye bangathi kungumphumela we-placebo, mhlawumbe kunjalo, kepha lapho ngizwa amandla avela okhalweni lwami ngokusheshisa ngiphakamisa umgogodla wami futhi umzimba wami wonke uyazamazama ngenjabulo yenjabulo, angikwazi ukuzibamba kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi kungenye yezwe.
Uhlobo lokudla okudlayo luzothinta isimo sakho sengqondo. Ukudla okuphezulu enyameni kuzoletha izifiso zakho eziphansi ngaphezulu kokudla kwe-vegan. Ngiguqula phakathi kwezinsuku lapho ngidla khona inyama noma uma ngine-vegan noma imifino (ngalolo suku). Ngikhuthaza sonke ukuthi sizizamele le nto futhi sinakekele imicabango yethu ngokucophelela… ngakho-ke gcina lo mcabango noma uwulahlele ngaphandle uma kukude kakhulu
Sikufisela inhlanhla futhi ekugcineni, uma usuqede izifundo zakho kwiNoFap, isinyathelo esilandelayo yilokho abakubiza empumalanga ngokuthi “brahmacharya” okungagcini ngokugcina isidoda kuphela kodwa okuningi ngokuhambisa amandla nokuba msulwa emcabangweni futhi (okuningi engikhulume ngakho ). Kulo mphakathi wanamuhla mhlawumbe singakwazi ukuwubhangqa nobulili be-tantric ngezikhathi ezithile (ngaphandle kwe-ejaculation).
Umuntu wenza kanjani ucansi ngaphandle kokukhishwa ejaculation? I-Tantric Sex, ehambisa amandla avela ezinqeni phezulu umgogodla. Kunzima kithina basentshonalanga ngoba sinamathele kakhulu esicini senjabulo, kepha kungenziwa ngabayaliwe.
Ukukhuluma ngezinzuzo engizitholile kungangiholela endleleni ye-ego futhi ngingathanda ukukugwema lokho. Izinzuzo zomzimba, ezingokomzwelo nezingokomoya zikaNoFap noma engikubiza ngokuthi yi-brahmacharya ziningi kakhulu kangangokuthi kuzwakala zingenangqondo futhi kungenza ngibukeke njenge-egotist futhi ngincamela ukungayi lapho okungaba nomthelela kwabanye ukuthi bakubuke ngale ndlela.
Ukuba nguwe uqobo olungcono kakhulu kungaba umsebenzi owenzelwe umhlaba, hhayi wena.
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by Maharajji
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