Ngaphambi kokuqala uhambo lwami lweNoFap bengilokhu ngihlala kule ndawo isikhashana. Kuzo zonke izindawo ezivuse intshisekelo yami - amaSuperPowers asolwayo anamathela njengephuzu lokuheha ngokushesha.
Kudala ngibe ngumthandi wababhali bezempilo-abanjengoTim Ferris. Okungithakaselise kakhulu kube izinzuzo zokudla okunempilo, ukuzivocavoca, ukuzindla kanye nokufuna ukwazi wena. Isisusa sokuthola amaSuperPowers afana nohlobo oluthile lwempilo yangempela i-X-Man yagcina ingishukumisela esenzweni (noma ukuntuleka kwento ethize) futhi yafinyelela ku-107 day streak.
Leyo streak yaphela ngokudabukisayo futhi yahamba kancane kodwa ngokuqinisekile ngabuyela emuva ku-PMO yize nginemvamisa engaphansi kakhulu kunangaphambili. Manje sengikhona ngosuku lwama-37 we-streak yami yakamuva. Ngezansi kukhona imicabango yami nokuhlangenwe nakho kwami okungu-5 okuvame ukubhekiswa kuma-SuperPowers. Ngizophinda nginikeze imicabango yami maqondana nokugxeka engikufundile kulesi sigaba se-SuperPowers nokuthi kungani ungazizwa izinzuzo zabo ohambweni lwakho. Ngingumfana oqondile ongu-27 y / o ngakho-ke izinkomba zami zonke zingaphakathi komongo wezintandokazi zami zocansi. Ngingacabanga ukuthi into efanayo isebenza kuma-dudes angama-gay (mane ubeke esikhundleni Abesifazane nabesilisa kuma-ramblings angezansi)
I-1. Ukunakwa Okuningi Kwabesifazane
"Musa i-NoFap - beka ngaphezulu" Ukuthembeka njengesisekelo nesisekelo njengoba kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu kungenye yezizathu ezibalulekile engiziqalile futhi ulwazi lwami langiqinisekisa iqiniso lwalo kimi. Isikhathi eside kunazo zonke engihambe ngenkathi ku-NoFap ngaphandle kokubeka izinsuku ezingu-36. Okude kakhulu engihambile ngaphandle kokubekwa ku-ProFap (bona ukuthi ngenzeni lapho?) Izinyanga eziyi-6. Cishe mayelana nosuku lwe-30 kuNoFap ngibona abesifazane abaningi bengibheka. Manje mhlawumbe bebelokhu bekhona kepha bengikade "ngilele" kakhulu ukuthi ngingaboni. Izinzwa zami zibukeka zilungiswe kakhulu ukuthola izimpawu ezifihliwe abesifazane abazithumelayo ezibonisa intshisekelo yabo yezocansi. Ngiye ngabesifazane bangishaya kakhulu ku-NoFap kune-ProFap. Ngiphinde ngabhekelwa kakhulu ngabesifazane emsebenzini njll. Manje ngifunda abantu abaningi bethi lo mandla amakhulu akwenzeki kubo futhi uyakuzwa engikushoyo ngalokho.
- Ukunakwa kwabesifazane abaningi kakhulu ngeke kuqhamuka ku-NoFap kuphela. Hlanganisa i-NoFap ngokungena esimeni, ukudla okulungile, ukuzindla nokugqoka kahle futhi uzoqala ukubona umehluko omkhulu. Uma noma ngubani efuna ngibhale kumhlahlandlela osheshayo wokuya kwami kunoma yikuphi okungenhla nokuthi uNoFap uxhumana kanjani angazise.
- Kumqondo kaPick Up kunokuthile okubizwa nge- “Inner Game” - le nto kuphela engake ngayithatha kubabhali abanjengoNeil Strauss noMark Manson. Yonke leyo migqa yokufunda nezinto "zokunganaki" yi-poppycock. Uma imicabango yakho ngabantu besifazane imi kanjena ”Angikwazi ukujabula ngize ngibe ne-GF” noma “Ukube nje bengingayifakela leyo ntombazane ngingajabula” usuvele uwulahlile umdlalo. Umthombo wenjabulo yakho udinga ukususelwa kumongo wobukhona bakho hhayi ezintweni ezithokozisa izinkanuko ezidlulayo umhlaba ongakunikeza. Uma injabulo yakho incike entweni edlulayo emvelweni uzibekela usizi. Ngemuva kokuthi ukwangana okufudumele kuhlakazekile noma ubuhlobo buncibilikile - kuthiwani-ke? Zijabulele izikhathi njengoba ziza zombili zizinhle futhi zimbi futhi uqaphele ulwazi lwakho lomhlaba futhi imizwa yakho inamathele kumgomo wobumbano. Injabulo ayinakubakhona ngaphandle kosizi. Yazi lokhu futhi umdlalo wakho "wangaphakathi" uzoqiniswa futhi ngeke ube ngunkulunkulu omkhulu ngokungathi sína nokuphishekela i-pussy. Okuthi uma ucabanga ngakho ngaphakathi komongo we-cosmic kuncane kakhulu!
I-2. Ukuqiniseka
Ukuzethemba kungenye yezici ezikhanga kakhulu umuntu angazikhombisa. Kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami iNoFap iyenzela izimangaliso. Inkundla lokhu kubonakala kakhulu kimi isemhlabeni wobungcweti. Ngisanda kuthuthela emsebenzini odinga ukuthi ngiphathe iqembu labantu - iningi labo ebelisenkampanini ngaphambi kokufika kwami futhi mhlawumbe bebezizwa bekufanele ukukhushulelwa esikhundleni. Manje lokhu kungokwemvelo yaso yisimo esidinga umusa ocashile egunyeni lokugomela ngendlela engeyona eye-dickhead. Ku-NoFap angicasuki kakhulu futhi ngithule ngokwengeziwe ngaphansi kwengcindezi futhi ngenxa yalokho ngikwazi ukuzulazula ezindaweni ezintsha kalula. Esikhundleni sokufaka isandla sami ezintweni zokufakelwa ze-pixelated porn ngenza uthando kule nselelo ngayinye impilo enginayo. I-NoFap inginike lokhu kuzethemba futhi okungezansi kungukuthatha kwami i-pseudoscientific ukuthi kungani kunjalo.
- Ezinsukwini ze-caveman nanamuhla - indoda enezinsiza eziningi (ukudla & indawo yokuhlala / imali namandla) inokukhetha kwabesifazane. Abesifazane bazokhangwa abesilisa abanamandla nemali njengoba bekwazi ukubondla bona nenzalo yabo kangcono kunaleyo engenabo. Amadoda ngokwemvelo yethu afuna ucansi. Ngakho-ke lapho sithwebula izithombe zobulili ezingcolile sikhohlisa ubuchopho bethu ukuthi sicabange ukuthi siya ocansini sonke lesi sikhathi sinciphisa isisusa sethu sokuthola zona kanye izinto abesifazane abakhangwa zona: Amandla Nemali. I-NoFap ibuyisa ukuzethemba kwakho kwemvelo futhi ushayele ukuphumelela empilweni njengoba ubuchopho bakho buzobe bufuna izindlela zokuheha abesifazane.
Ukuzikhulula: Amandla Nemali kuyizibonelo nje - uma uhlala emphakathini noma kumbuthano obeka inani ekukhanyisweni okungokomoya noma ku-Owning Nice Shoes lapho ukutholakala noma ukuphishekelwa kwangaphakathi kwalokhu kuzodonsela abesifazane kuwe. Mhlawumbe i-gig yakho ingukushintshwa kwezocansi futhi uvele nje uhambe ngendlela yokungashadi yokuhlanzwa ngokomoya - nakho lokho kupholile. Umqondo oyinhloko ngukuthi uba yindoda eqotho nenhlonipho ngeNoFap kunalowo ogijimela ekhaya ngemuva komsebenzi ngamabala e-takeaway curry ehembeni lakhe elishwabene ukuze azishaye engaboni ngezocansi ngaphambi kokulala futhi aqale umjikelezo wonke wokuzisola futhi ngosuku olulandelayo .
- Futhi uma ukungazizwa kwakho ukwanda kokuzethemba kubheka eminye imikhuba empilweni yakho ngokuthembeka okuphelele. Uma uyekile ukuzitika ngezocansi kodwa usadla ukudla okungenamsoco futhi udlala imidlalo yevidiyo kuze kube yilapho izithupha zakho sezindikindiki ungasho ukuthi nguwe owezinsuku zakho kule planethi!
3. Ubuciko nobukhona
Uthando lwami umculo. Ukubhala nokwenza izingoma nokukhiqiza amathrekhi. Ngibe nenhlanhla yokuvulela abanye abaculi abaziwayo eminyakeni embalwa edlule. Ngiye ngaba nabantu baphawula ngokuthi ubukhona bami besiteji bungasuka ku "magnetic" buye nje "ok" - INoFap ibhekele okwedlule. Emsebenzini futhi ngiqhamuke nemibono engcono futhi nginesibindi sokuyisebenzisa noma ngiyilethe kubaphathi bami. Lokhu kubangele ukukhushulwa nokuphakama esikhathini esidlule!
I-4. Ukuzwela Okungezelelweyo
Ngempela ngizizwa ukwehla kwe-flatline ngokujulile kakhulu njengoba ngizwa ukuphakama kokuphila ngenjabulo enkulu. Yonke ingxenye yomdanso. Umdanso "obhuqa ubhanana" kaningi kakhulu ukushiya ungazi ukuthi uzodlalela ini.
I-5. Okuningi Komphakathi
KuNoFap ngifuna inkampani yabangane kaningi. Kunxusa njengoba sazi ukuthi kungaqina ngendlela emangalisayo. Ngizulazula nesixuku sabantu abangangicabanga njenge-oddball uma ngiqala "ukucwilisa i-shank" esidlangalaleni. Phuma endlini !!! Manje sengifunde abantu abaningi kulokhu bethi kungenzeka bangabi nabangane abaningi. Unozwela lwami kulokho - ukuba senhlalo kuza kalula kwabanye abantu kunabanye. Sengikushilo lokho ngezansi into engikholelwa kuyo ngokuqinile. - Thina njengabantu sibekelwe isimo sengqondo sokucabanga kwethu. “Angiyena umuntu othanda ukuzijabulisa” “Anginabo abangane” njll uhlu lwemicabango ebekelwe imingcele esiyakhayo futhi engahlosile yenza ingxenye yokuzibona kwethu ukuthi singobani alupheli. Yazi awuyona ingqondo yakho. Kahle ingqondo yakho njengeChihuahua engalawuleki. Buka imicabango yakho futhi uzokwazi ukucashisa lezo ezingakusizi ngokushesha lapho zivela. Yazi lokhu. Ungubani 100% kuze kuwe. Dala lokho ofuna ukuba yikho. Akunandaba ukuthi ngabe u-17 noma 70 wakho. Chip kude nemabula ukuze uqophe ubuciko obuhle.
Ukufingqa amandla amakhulu okutholwa kumane nje kungukubuyiselwa kwezici ze-alpha okuyizibulo lakho. Babize ngemibuso emikhulu noma ube yindoda obekufanele ube yiyo - lokho esikubeka njengokuthi akubalulekile. Yazi nje ukuthi kunezinzuzo. Futhi yazi ukuthi iNoFap ingenye yezinto ekuvuneni izinzuzo ezishiwo. Yazi lokhu ngazo zonke izikhathi, ezimbi nezikahle futhi hlala uhambelana nenkambo ye-fucking.
Kuyini okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho nemicabango yakho “emandleni amakhulu”, noma yimiphi imibuzo engenhla. Ngazise ngezansi futhi ngizokwenza konke okusemandleni ukuphendula ”?
LINK - 5 “Amandla amakhulu” Kuhlolwe
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