Ubudala 19 - Ukwanelisa ucansi nomlingani omusha, ukukhathazeka sekuphelile

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Le ndaba ingeyoma ngubani ongabaza izinzuzo ze-nofap ebudlelwaneni bakho nempilo yezocansi. Le ndaba iqokomisa ukunqotshwa okukhulu kokukhathazeka, ukukhuphuka kocansi, nokukhula okukhangayo ngenxa yeNoFap.

Umngane wami osondelene nami nginqume ukuqala kancan mayelana ne-2 ezinyangeni ezedlule, futhi sidlule emijikelezweni embalwa yokuphinda sibuye. Manje ngusuku lwe-35 olude kakhulu kunodaba lwangaphambilini lwezinsuku ze-6. Le ndaba yenzeka ngoSuku 35.

Cishe ngo-Day 15, ngifane nale ntombazane enhle kakhulu ku-Tinder (akuyona into ejwayelekile kimi futhi futhi ungasebenzisi iTinder kaningi). Angizange ngicabange kakhulu ngakho, ngakho-ke ngamthumela umyalezo ngimtshela ukuthi muhle futhi waqhulula ihlaya nge-bio yakhe.

Into eyodwa eholele kwenye, yahamba isuka ekuthumeleni imiyalezo i-Snapchat futhi lapho ngixoxa nale ntombazane ngizwe ukuthi ukwenza izingxoxo ezisezingeni kwakungu-10x kulula kunakuqala r / nofap. Ngikwazi ukuhambisa kalula ingxoxo ngenombolo efanelekile yokuhlekisa.

Ngiyi-pussy (noma ebengijwayele ukuba yiyo) mayelana nokukhuphuka kwamantombazane, ngakho-ke kwathatha isikhathi ukuthi ngimcele ukuthi ahlanganyele. Kwangimangaza ukuthi wamukela ngenjabulo yize ehlala kude nehora kude nami.

Wafika sekuhlwile impela, futhi ngathatha isinqumo sokuthi sihlale epaki yize kwakucishe kube phakathi kwamabili futhi engenandaba. Ngikwazi ukukhuluma naye ngaphandle kokukhathazeka, futhi ngimgcine ekhanga sonke isikhathi (into engingakaze ngikwazi ukuyenza). Siphume epaki ngo-4 ekuseni ngemuva kokukhuluma ngokungapheli ebhentshini futhi sagcina sizibandakanya ocansini izikhathi eziningi kuze kube ngakusasa ekuseni.

Ngingabonga nge-NoFap ngalolu lwazi olumangazayo ngoba ngaphambi kukaNoFap bengizoba nokukhathazeka okukhulu kangangoba bengingeke ngithuthe, mhlawumbe bengingeke ngisho ngimmeme, futhi bengingeke ngikwazi ukwanelisa ucansi nentombazane eyayiyinhle kangako.

tl; dr - wayengenakho ukukhathazeka ebusuku kakhulu nentombazane futhi wakwazi ukukhuphuka waya ocansini, kaningi, ngenxa ye-nofap.

LINK - Umbiko we-Day 35, kwenzeke okuthile okumangazayo.

By infinitytheparadox