Ngisanda kuphuma kuseshini enkulu yokuphakamisa futhi ngicabanga ukuthi ngingahle ngifune ukuxoxa indaba yami yesikhathi eside lapha ethembeni lokukhuthaza abanye ukuthi bafinyelele amakhono abo. Lesi sisekelo sashintsha impilo yami ngezindlela ebengingakaze ngicabange ngazo futhi ngithemba ukuthi le ndaba emfushane (kodwa ende) iqala uhambo lwami lokuyidlulisela phambili.
Eminyakeni engu-4 eyedlule ngangingumuntu ophinde abe ngumphakathi ngonyaka wakhe wokuqala eyunivesithi yaseningizimu-mpumalanga eyayinezifiso zika-Elon Musk, kepha amakhono okuhlanganisa nokufikelwa ngumbethe. Bengilokhu ngididekile kusukela ngasesikoleni samabanga aphansi futhi ngangithanda ukuthwebula izithombe zocansi okungenani kanye ngosuku. Bengazi ngeNoFap ngaleso sikhathi ngenxa yemikhuba yami yeReddit kodwa ngayiyeka njengoba isayensi ethile ye-bro-science ingenasisekelo kunoma yimiphi imithombo yangempela.
Ngemuva kokuqeda unyaka wami omusha ngizizwa ngiphatheke kabi ngokobuntombi bami, nganquma ukwenza ushintsho futhi ngazama uNoFap ukuba azame. Amaviki ambalwa okuqala abelukhuni kusukela angikaze ngizizwe nginobunzima kangako empilweni yami. Ngangiyobheka cishe yonke intombazane ekhangayo engiyidlule phakathi nonyaka we-sophomore. Ukutadisha emtapweni wezincwadi kwakunzima kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, amandla amasha we-testosterone akhulayo angokoqobo, kanye nawo wonke amaflatlini achazwe ku-subreddit. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ufunda ukuphatha izifiso zakho zobulili futhi ekugcineni ufunda ukukugxilisa ngokungagxili kunoma yini enye oyenzayo, njengokutadisha. Eminyakeni elandelayo ye-3 engithembise ukuyithobela kuNoFap Hardmode, ngikwazile ukuthola amaphuzu aphezulu kakhulu ku-120-day streak.
Ngibe nezinkinga ezithile ze-PE ne-ED ngaphambi kokuqalisa kabusha. Zihambile manje yize sibonga kuNoFap.
Endleleni, ezinye izinto ezipholile zenzekile:
• Amakhono ami kwezenhlalo athuthuke kakhulu. Kwakungeyona into esheshayo kepha eyaphambili nangemuva ibonakala kalula. Ngaba khona okuningi ngaphezulu kwabangane namantombazane. Kukhulunywa ngamantombazane ..
• Ngilahlekelwe ubuntombi bami. Futhi waba nezinsuku kanye nokuya ocansini nenamantombazane ambalwa. Ikakhulu amantombazane obuthakathi. Ukukhathazeka kwami emphakathini kwakuyi-shrimp eqhathanisa nenyoka ye-testosterone engishukumisela ukuba ngithathe izinyathelo ngaphandle kwendawo yami yokududuza.
• Wenze izinzuzo ezinkulu zokuzivocavoca.
• Amaphuzu wokuncintisana ambalwa.
• Wafundelwa phesheya.
• Ekugcineni ngakhishwa imbongolo kumdlalo wokuncintisana / umdlalo wokuzithokozisa engiwuthandayo (League of Legends). Kulabo nina bafana abajwayelene nomdlalo, ngakwazi ukusuka eSilver 4 ukuya ePlat 3; ngaphambi kwe-hardmode futhi manje, ngokulandelana.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, umsebenzi wami uguquliwe. Ngiye ngaphuma ekubeni ne-sub-3.0 GPA encane kwi-Accounting ngathola uhla lwe-dean kuma-semiest alandelanayo. Ngazibandakanya kakhulu ezinhlanganweni zabafundi ngaze ngaba ngumongameli wenhlangano yamabhizinisi esikoleni sami. Ukuvezwa kokufezekiswa kweNoFap kufike lapho ngikwazi ukuthola i-internship, nokunikezwa umsebenzi ekugcineni, enkampanini ebhekele ezokubika iBig 4 eSilicon Valley. Lokhu kungemva kokuba kwenqatshwe cishe amanye amafemu ezinkampani ezweni lonke, kufaka phakathi amanye ama-16 amafemu ama-Big 3. Njengomfundi wasekolishi eningizimu-mpumalanga ye-US, angisoze ngacabanga ukuthi kungenzeka. Kepha ngikwazile ukukwenza, naphezu kwazo zonke izingqinamba nokuncintisana. Futhi ngiyaziqhenya ukusho ukuthi i-4% yayo ibonga isinqumo sami sokuphishekela i-NoFap. Yebo, ukwenza i-NoFap kuphela ngeke kukhubazeke uma nje ungasho ngaphakathi kwendlu yakho usuku lonke udlala i-League of Legends. Kodwa-ke, uma usebenzisa amandla akho amasha ukuya ngaphandle nsuku zonke futhi usebenzise iningi lamandla osuku lwakho ukwenza izinhloso zakho zempilo, uzobona inqubekela phambili. Intuthuko enkulu kakhulu yokuthi uzobanjelwa kuyo. Inqubekela phambili yokuphelela.
Ngingathanda ukungena emininingwaneni yezindlela namasu engiwahambile ukuze ngikwenze kube kude kuma-NoFap wami, kepha lokhu okuthunyelwe kuhamba isikhathi. Sicela ubeke amazwana noma ungithinte uma ungathanda ukufunda okuningi.
Hlala ama-Fapstronauts aqinile.
Ngineminyaka engama-22 manje.
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