Ngiphulukiswa ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyi-13. Mayelana nami nendaba yami ungafunda kubhulogi yami:http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=188.0
Imilando embalwa nje enginganikeza yona emaphutheni ami engasiza abafana lapha:
I-1) Akukhulunywa ngocansi noma ukushaya indlwabu kumayelana nokuthuthukisa impilo yakho nokuyiguqula. Ngicabanga ukuthi iningi lapha alibheki isithombe esikhulu futhi ngendlela yokuthi "bafune ukufuna" ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kanye / noma ukushaya indlwabu nokho baqhubeka bephindelela.
Okungisizile futhi kwangenza ukuthi ngingabuyeli emuva kwaba ukubona ukuthi ngilahlekelwe kangakanani ngenxa yeMo'ing ne-Porn. Ngilahlekelwe yiminyaka eyi-10, inqwaba yamantombazane, ngalimala kaningi futhi ngangiphila njenge-zombie. Leyo yinto engiyibone kuGabe ivids nayo lapho ekhuluma ngayo. Uma uqaphela ezingeni elijulile ukuthi ulahlekelwe kangakanani ngenxa yakho konke lokhu ngeke uphinde ubuye.
I-2) Ukuphinda futhi ukucaphuna i-porn nokuhleka kufanele kube yingxenye yesenzo esikhulu kakhulu. Kulula ukuqhubeka uhamba noma ngabe izinto zimbi uma uqhubeka nokwenza impilo yakho ubone imiphumela.
Ngilahlekelwe yi-15kg, ngabona amazwekazi e-2 enza abangane abasha, akopele intombi ukuthi yaba nokuya ocansini namantombazane a-sever. Futhi cishe kungokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi kuneminyaka yempilo yami edlule ye-28.
Mane uthathe isinqumo sokumisa le nkinga nokuthi “Angifuni impilo yami ibukeke kanjalo impilo yami yonke” bese uzama ukuyithuthukisa usuku nosuku.
I-3) Ukulahla akusona isisombululo
Ngibona abantu abaningi lapha bezama ukuyeka isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuba baphulukiswe. Ngeke kusebenze udinga ukuthola intombi futhi ukholwe ukuthi ngiyazi ukuthi kunzima. Kepha kungenzeka. Ngikwenzile lokho. Iningi labafana lenze lokho futhi. Owesifazane akazona umfokazi futhi uma uzenza okungenani uthakazelisa kubo kuzosebenza. Nginesiqiniseko salokho. Kepha kufanele udale umzamo ongaguquguquki nezenzo ezinkulu.
Uma uqhubeka nokuzama futhi uqhubeka nokufunda ngokusekelwe kulwazi lwakho uzokwenza.
4) Le kuzoba nokuphikisana. Ngicabanga ukuthi kubafana abaningi kufanele ngesikhathi esithile bazame izidakamizwa ze-ED. Ngisho ukuthi ngilahlekelwe mhlawumbe izinyanga ezimbalwa ngoba bengingafuni ukuzama. Uma une-ED kunethoni lokukhathazeka nabantu abanjengami ababeyintombi abangenalwazi. Kunzima ukwenza i-rewire lapho ungakwazi ukuya ocansini futhi ulahlwa ngamantombazane ngenxa yalokho.
Noma kunjalo akuyona usizo lwebhendi. Udinga nje ukuyisebenzisa ukuthuthukisa futhi usheshise inqubo yakho yokuphulukisa ngenhloso yokunciphisa umthamo noma ukuyeka ngokuphelele i-ASAP.
Ngabona abantu (isib. UJohn) besesimweni esifanayo nami bezilapha ngokwabo ngokushesha (njengasezinyangeni ze-6) ngoba ngezidakamizwa zakwa-Ed bezingabuyela emuva ngokungaguquguquki futhi ngokushesha.
Ngicabanga ukuthi ngangihambela kwelinye izwe kodwa ngingaboni i-GF yami nokuvuselela umkhawulo ngenxa yobudlelwano obude bekubambe iqhaza.
Kulungile bafo. Uzinakekele. I-GL isendleleni yakho.
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Imininingwane emincane ngami
Ngineminyaka engama-28 ubudala. Ngaqala ukushaya indlwabu kakhulu njengeminyaka eyi-11 eyedlule futhi ngathola i-ED ngokushesha okukhulu (Ngezindlela eziningi ngangivame ukuba "nobuntu obuluthayo" futhi angikaze ngizame lutho; ngokushesha nje lapho ngithola ukushaya indlwabu kanye nezocansi ngangishaya indlwabu izinsuku ezingama-4 izinsuku nalapho konke umzimba uthi cha bengisazozivuselela ngesandla sami bese ngiphoqa i-orgasm…
Ngakho kube kubi impela futhi ngazizwa sengathi angikwazi ukuyeka. Kimina ukungashayi indlwabu ngosuku olulodwa ngangizizwa kuyinto engenakwenzeka ukuyenza. Ingxenye embi kunazo zonke kwakungeyona into yethemba, kwakungekho noyedwa ongabelana ngezinkinga zami futhi akukho nosizo lwangempela ngoba yonke indawo lapho ubheka khona kwakukhona le nkunzi yokuthi ukushaya indlwabu kanye ne-porn kukhulu kangakanani, nokho lapha ngangiphukile futhi ngidangele.
Ithemba Kimi ukuthola i-yourbrainonporn nokufunda izindaba zabafana bekukuhle. Ekugcineni ngithola izimpendulo ngokwenzekile nokuthi kungani kwenzeka. Lapha kwakunabafana abanjengami abafika ezingeni lokuthi bangabuye baphumelele ocansini futhi ngemuva kweminyaka yokuhlukaniswa nesizungu. Kimi kwakuyinto eyodwa engangiyidinga ukuqala ukushintsha impilo yami-ngethemba lokuthi ngingalulama.
Qala kabusha
Ngiqale kabusha ukuqala kabusha kusukela ngoJanuwari kulo nyaka. Ngaya kubanda turkey ngoba "ama-neurons ahlanganisa ndawonye umlilo" futhi kimi i-porn nokushaya indlwabu kwakuxhunyaniswe kakhulu komunye nomunye. Angikaze nje ngibuke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ngangihlala ngihamba. Futhi ngemuva kokubuka izindaba kafushane kuyacaca ukuthi uma une-ED kufana ukuphela kwendlela yokuba ngcono.
Ngemuva kwalokho indaba yokuthi "ukubuyela emuva okuyisiphukuphuku kakhulu emlandweni wokululama" iyenzeka.
NgoFebhuwari ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingama-30 ezingenazo i-porn akukho ukushaya indlwabu ngizihlole. Fuck ngangazi ukuthi ngine-ED futhi ngine-ED enzima kepha ingxenye yami yayingafuni ukuyivuma. Ngifunde ku-yourbrainonporn ukuthi "uma ungakuthola kumnandi wedwa awunayo i-porn eyenze u-ED" futhi ngemuva kwemizuzu eminingana yokuvuselela ngazibandakanya ekuthinteni kwami… .Umphumela weChaser walandelwa kungekudala ngemuva kwalokho futhi ngathanda izinsuku ezintathu ze-streak lapho ngangizoshaya indlwabu nsuku zonke. Ngitshele ngokubuyela emuva ngendlela ebuyela emuva kakhulu…
Masinyane phambili ku-1 Ephreli. Zizwe okuhle kakhulu empilweni yami ngemuva kwezinyanga cishe ze-2 zokungashadi ukushaya indlwabu akukho porn. Wazizwa emuhle futhi enesifiso esihle sokuhlangana namantombazane futhi ajabule. Okokuqala ngqa empilweni yami ngingaqabula amantombazane ama-French (amantombazane ama-2 angiqonde ngqo 
) wayenamathani we-rewiring futhi azizwa emuhle. Angizange ngime ngokuphelele kepha kwakukhona ukunyakaza okuthile phansi lapho okufana ne-50-60% kwakuma isikhathi esiningi ngakho-ke ngathatha intombazane ngazizwa ngiya efulethini lami ngethemba lokuthatha isinyathelo esibaluleke kunazo zonke futhi ngizame ukuya ocansini. Iphutha elikhulu ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi kangaka yokushaya indlwabu kwakungelona iqiniso ukucabanga ukuthi ngiphulukisiwe. Yilapho i-drama iqala khona lapho sasiqabulana khona-ke ngangimkhotha isibumbu bese ngimnaka (okwakubonakala sengathi uyakuthokozela) kepha udokotela wami ufile. Zero arousal, limp dick. Wazama ukungisiza kepha akukho lutho olwangisiza ukuthi ngibe nesifiso sokuya ocansini ngomlomo futhi akuzange kungenze ngavuswa nhlobo. Kuyafana nokukhuthaza isandla. Qeda ukubuyela emuva lapho ngizama ngamandla ukukuphakamisa ngesandla sami. Angizange ngime ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwe-2 sec ngaphambi kokuba ngichichime… Inhlekelele ephelele futhi futhi enye ibuye ngendlela ewubuwula.
Namuhla Kuze kube yilapho u-Ephreli wami ephinda ebuyela esikhathini esiningi bengizizwa ngimuhle impela. Bengingacabangi ngempela ngangifana nodick omkhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi kungekho zinkuni zasekuseni kepha kwakukhona lapho lapho ngangifana ne-40-50% emise izikhathi ezimbalwa ngosuku ngezinye izikhathi. Ngeshwa akusenjalo. Ukuphindaphinda kokugcina kwangishaya kanzima. Ngicindezeleke ngokushesha, u-dick wami wehla futhi uzizwa efile. Ukuqagela manje ngiyazi ukuthi igama le-flatline lisho ukuthini manje. Zizwe kabi kamuva nje ikakhulukazi ukuthi iphele kabi kanjani. Ngakho-ke okwamanje ngiyizinhlobo ezinamathele kuze kube yilapho i-flatline iphela. Ngifisa sengathi angizange ngibe ne-orgasm ngoba izinyanga zokugcina ze-3 noma kunjalo zazifana neziphambili empilweni yami yonke zinikezwe amandla angakanani ebenginawo nokuthi nginamandla futhi ngisebenza kanjani. Manje akusekho. ngethemba hhayi kuze kube phakade.
Qhubekela phambili Zizwe unamathela kinda futhi awazi ngempela ukuthi ungaya kanjani phambili. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngizozama ukugcwalisa kabusha i-orgasm okungenani izinsuku ezingama-120 futhi ngizovele ngenze okunye okuyisisekelo okuvuselela amantombazane. Ngiyesaba ukuzama ukuphinda ngilale futhi ngemuva kwenhlekelele edlule. Vele ngidinga ukubuyisa ukuzethemba kwami ngakho-ke kufanele ngilinde ukuphela kwe-flatline ngoba manje anginaso ngisho isibindi sokubheka amantombazane emehlweni.
Kuze kube yileso sikhathi ngizozama ukuzibeka esimweni esingcono futhi ngithele ngandlela thile. Uma ngemuva kwezinsuku ezilandelayo ze-120 kungenayo i-orgasm engisazokwazi ukuyivusa ngizovele ngiye kudokotela ngiphuze amaphilisi e-ED. Ngifundile ukuthi azisebenzi ekuqaleni kepha ngemuva kwesikhathi abafana bakwazile ukuzisebenzisa. Ngiyethemba ukuthi kukhona okuzosebenza. Kuze kube yileso sikhathi ngidinga ukunamathela kuhlelo lwami.
Ngizothokoza ngeseluleko esivela kini nina bantu ukuthi singathuthukisa kanjani uzwela nokuthi yini ekusizile kakhulu ngesikhathi sokubuyiselwa emuva ngakho-ke ngizokwakha icebo elingcono lokuthi ungathuthukisa kanjani.
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