Ubudala 29 - Ukukhathazeka okukhulu kwezenhlalo: Ukwenza ngcono amakhono omphakathi, Zizwe ukhululekile phakathi kwabesifazane, Zizwe uxhumeke kakhulu kwabanye, Ingqondo ehlanzekile

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Mangiqale ngokuthi indaba yami izohluka kancane kunabaningi. Kimi konke kwaqala ngokuba namahloni amakhulu nokukhathazeka komphakathi kukhula. Ngokuyisisekelo, ngaba ngumuntu oqhelelene kakhulu ongacabanga ngesikhathi ngilahlekelwa ngabangane abambalwa enganginabo lapho ngenqaba ukuphuma ngiphile impilo njengawo wonke umuntu wobudala wami owayekwenza.

Ngaleso sikhathi empilweni yami ngathola ukuphunyula okuphelele. Ukuthwebula izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kwaba umkhuba wami omusha futhi ekugcineni kwaba umlutha onzima owangihlukanisa nezwe langaphandle. Ngaphandle kokusho ukuthi inkinga yami yokuxakeka kwezenhlalo yaqala ukuba yimbi, futhi kwangithatha iminyaka eyishumi ukuthola umonakalo owenziwe umlutha wami omusha empilweni yami.

Ekugcineni ngavuka ezinyangeni ezimbili ezedlule futhi ngabona ukuthi ngineminyaka engama-29 ubudala, angikaze ngibe nentombi futhi angikaze ngiqabule intombazane phambilini. Ngimoshe iminyaka emnandi kakhulu yempilo yami ngendlela edabukisa kakhulu. "Akukho fap" kimi yanginika isiqalo esisha. Ngiqale ngathola amavidiyo ku-YouTube futhi ekugcineni le subreddit.

Izikhuthazo zami ezinkulu kuloluhambo kube ngu-Anthony Nquma noMikkois kusuka ku-You Tube. Manje ake ngitshele ukuthi kungihambele kanjani izinsuku zokugcina ze-60:

  • Angikaze ngibe nezikhalazo kuze kube manje
  • Nginenamba emangalisayo yamandla
  • Ukuthuthukisa amakhono omphakathi njalo (kimi okubaluleke kakhulu)
  • Ishukunyiswe kakhulu
  • Zizwe ukhululekile kakhudlwana nabesifazane
  • Zizwe ukhona futhi okwamanje
  • Zizwe uxhumeke kakhulu kwabanye
  • Ingqondo ehlanzekile
  • Izinhloso ezicacile nohlu lwezinzuzo luqhubeka nokuqhubeka… ..

Ngingancoma kakhulu ukuthi noma ngubani ongakholelwa izinzuzo ze- "no fap" azame okungenani izinsuku ezingama-30 futhi ngeke udumazeke. Ungahle uthole isiqalo sakho esisha.

LINK - Izinsuku ze-60-Indaba yami

by DaveBarillas