Ngiphenduke i-31 muva nje futhi nganginomlutha wokukhula selokhu ngayithola, eyayizungeze i-10 ngicabanga. Nginama-GF amaningi engangilala nawo njalo, kepha ucansi aluhlali isikhathi eside kakhulu (ama-5-20minutes max? Akukho senzo esisheshayo). Kwakungeyona inhlekelele, kepha uma ngibheka ukuthi yini abantu abangayenza ezithombeni ezingcolile, ngangizithola ngisesimweni sengqondo "esihlazekile".
Nganginobudlelwano obuvamile, lapho ngihlala khona ne-GF yami futhi ngiya ocansini olujwayelekile olujwayelekile, kepha ngangilokhu ngifaka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile phakathi. Ngeshwa bekuhlala kuphenduka ngemuva konyaka noma emibili, ukuthi ngikuthole kulula ukumane ngifake usuku lwami kude, kunokuba ngiyinike i-gf yami okuhle. Bekushesha nje ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile futhi uthole ukukhululeka okusheshayo, kunokwenza konke ukubonwa kwangaphambili nezinto… Manje lapho ngibheka ngokombono wesikhathi, konakalisa bonke ubudlelwano bami.
Ngakho-ke sahlukaniswa ne-GF yami yokugcina eminyakeni eyi-1,5 edlule. Ngithathe isikhathi sami ngenza nje izinto engizithandayo, esikhundleni sokujaha ama-GF futhi ngenze zonke izinkinga okulethwa yisiqhelo usual I-Offcourse ngalesi sikhathi ngifana nokuhlanya izithombe ezingcolile. Muva nje sengikhathele kancane ukuba ngedwa, ngakho-ke nginqume ukuzitholela i-GF enhle futhi. Kwakungelula kangako (sibonga uNeill Strauss, uyamangalisa) futhi ngangikulungele ukwenza isenzo seqhude. Kwavela ukuthi iqhude lami lalingekho.
Ngangimangele impela ukumthola engathandi ukushibilika emgudwini omuhle omnandi enganginawo phambi kwami. Ngabe sengicabanga ukuthi umnumzane we-WTF? Kungani ungeke ubambisane?! Muhle nakho konke, sukuma wenze lo msebenzi. Kepha akazange aphendule, acabalele njengamadoda afile i-EKG.
Ngikhathazekile futhi ngigxishwe imithambo ngathola sengathi ngikhala. Kepha ngabe sengiyikhumbula le nkulumo ye-TED, Ubuchopho Bakho Ku-Porn. Mayelana nokuthi saqala kabusha kanjani ukuthola injabulo esheshayo yokuthola abesifazane abasha njalo lapho sibuka i-porn vs isenzo sangempela sempilo. Ngakho-ke ngafika ngathola / i-NoFap futhi ngaqala ukufunda. Kwabonakala sengathi kuyikhambi cishe kuzo zonke izinkinga ebenginazo: I-PE ne-ED. Nginqume ukuyihambisa.
Ngemuva kwamasonto ambalwa, izinkuni zasekuseni sezibuyile, inkemba yami isebenza umlingo futhi ngithola imizwa ehlekisayo esheshayo ezansi lapho ngokubuka nje amantombazane ahamba emgwaqweni 🙂 Into engingazange ngiyizwe kusukela ngineminyaka engu-20 😛 Yebo!
Futhi kuba ngcono nakakhulu: ukusika i-Fap kuye ku-zero kubonakala kungashintsha inkinga yami ye-PE ibe ngcono. Ngenza amaKegles ukuhlehlisa i-O, kepha kwenza i-boner yami ihambe imizuzu embalwa ngakho-ke ngisafuna indlela enhle yokuqeda i-PE. Kepha ngisho nalesi sikhathi esincane sokungaphuzi singenze ngakwazi ukuhlala isikhathi eside. Kodwa-ke noma yisiphi iseluleko ngesihloko se-PE samukelwa ngokwengeziwe!
Ngakho-ke bafana, kusebenza ngempela, kuyasiza, kwenza i-dick iphakamise futhi ikhanye futhi! 🙂
I-TL; I-DR: Ngifakele impilo yami kude nesigaba sokuthi angikwazi ukuthola i-boner. Ngayeka ukufakela, izinto zabuyela kokujwayelekile.
LINK - Indaba ye-Fap eyacekela phansi iqhude lami, ne-NoFap ephetha eyabuyisa!
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