Ngithole i-PMO 10 eminyakeni edlule, bezama ukuyiyeka nge-7 edlule. Kutholwe ubomvu futhi r / nofap Eminyakeni engu-4 edlule futhi kuvinjelwe futhi kwasiza uhambo lwami. Angazi ukuthi ngithini okunye, yingakho ngizokwenza le AMA; ngethemba lokuthi ngisize labo abasesikhundleni lapho bengingekho khona kudala.
Hlela: Ngemuva kokuphendula imibuzo ethile, angikholwa ngempela. Bekuyimina, obejwayele ukubheka lolu hlobo lokuthunyelwe, abuze imibuzo futhi abheke phezulu ngokwesaba kule poster bese ecabanga ukuthi bakwenze kanjani. Futhi… manje sengilapha.
Ngizozama ukugcina lo mfushane njengoba ngingaqhubeka kuze kube phakade.
Kumele uqale uqonde ukuthi kuzothatha isikhathi ukushintsha, ikakhulukazi uma usunesikhathi eside uluthwa. Uma ubungumlutha iminyaka embalwa, ungalindeli ukuyeka usuku / isonto / inyanga. Kuzothatha isikhathi ukubuyisa umonakalo nemikhuba osuyifakile manje. Uzowa futhi kulungile, udinga nje ukuqhubeka uqhubekele phambili futhi uthuthuke kunoma iyiphi imethrikhi oyisebenzisayo ukuyikala. Kufanele uwuzonde umuzwa wokubuyela emuva ngokwanele ukuze ube yisikhuthazo sokungaphinde uwe futhi lokho kuthatha isikhathi ukuthola.
Ngokuya ngamathiphu awusizo, ngizobhala ngezansi:
- Zama ukususa yonke imithombo yezokuxhumana empilweni yakho, ngethembe kulokhu. Kuyihlazo, ukuthi izinhlobo zemidiya ezinocansi ziye zaba kanjani, noma ngabe awuzifunisisi ngenkuthalo. Ngemuva kokuthi usululame-ke ngithi ungakhululeka ukuyisebenzisa, kodwa ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzobona ngemuva kokuthi kukungeza okuncane kangakanani empilweni yakho nokuthi kususa malini.
- Njalo zama ukuzigcina umatasa futhi ugcine ingqondo yakho isebenza ngemisebenzi ekhiqizayo. Kungaba yinoma yini, kusuka ekupheleliseni amanye nasekutholeni amakhono amasha kuya ekuzinikelweni kwendawo ethile nokusiza abantu ukuphuma.
- Ukuzivocavoca umzimba! Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uye ejimini, futhi futhi kungaba yinoma yini oyithandayo! (Amaphuzu 2/3 aphathelene nokuthola izinto ezikhiqizayo ukuze usebenzise isikhathi sakho futhi usebenzise amandla akho ensalela obekungenziwa ngenye indlela ukuthi achithwe futhi achithwe nge-PMO.
- Ukuba nomlingani ozolandisa (ofana nawe) nokuxhumana njalo kungakusiza ukuthi uhlale uthrekhi. Njengomlingani wokuzivocavoca, kwesinye isikhathi noma ngubani kini angazizwa ekhuthazekile futhi enesibindi futhi omunye uyohlale elapho ezokuthatha futhi akugcine uqhubeka!
- Setha ikhawunta yakho bese ukhohlwa ngakho, ekugcineni akusho lutho, njengoba uhlose ukuyeka impilo yakho yonke (engikushoyo lapha ukuthi ungakhathazeki ngakho usuku nosuku). Enye indlela yokucabanga, kumane kuhloswe ukungabi yi-PMO namuhla futhi ungakhathazeki ngekusasa; thatha usuku ngalunye (kepha ungagxili kwikhawunta yakho, ngiyethemba ukuthi lokhu kunengqondo)
- Kungakuhle ukusetha okuhlosiwe kanye nemivuzo yakho ngokwakho, isib. Uzithengele into enhle ngokushaya izinkulungwane. Kodwa-ke, isipho sendlela ozizwa ngayo sizokuvuza.
- Ungalindeli ukuthi i-nofap izelaphe zonke izinkinga zakho empilweni, kepha ngokuqinisekile izokusiza ukubhekana nazo ngendlela engcono.
- Umthetho olula, kepha ngiwufunde lapha futhi ngizikhumbuza ngawo ngokuqinisekile usizile. empeleni awuthinti imfucumfucu yakho ngaphandle kokuthi udinga ukuchama / ukugeza.
Yilokho ngempela. Ngiqonde ukuthi kulula impela okumele sikwenze, yize kunzima kakhulu ngasikhathi sinye. Ukhiye omkhulu wempumelelo ukuguqula imicabango yakho, nokuyilapho iningi lamaphuzu angenhla ligxila khona. Ngesikhathi sokugcina ngibuyele emuva, ngabheka ngokoqobo izandla zami ngacabanga; Ngiyazilawula, kungani ngenza into ebengingafuni ukuyenza. Lokho kubona kwangisiza ngempela.
Kunzima ngempela ekuqaleni. Kepha, kulapho imizwa emibi evela ekubuyeleni emuva isha (ngakho-ke ilinganisa ibhalansi) ngomqondo othile. Mayelana nokuhoxa; kufanele uzigcine uphazamisekile futhi umatasa ngezinto zokuzilibazisa ezikhiqizayo.
Benginokungabaza okuthile, kodwa okucacayo ukuthi lapho ngizwa nge-PMO ngizwa kabi (njengokubi kabi), ngakho-ke noma ngabe i-nofap inganginiki izinzuzo, ngaphandle kokuzenza ngizizwe ngingesibi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ngiqala ukubuyela emuva ke nakanjani impumelelo kanye ne-100% ezuzisayo.
Usazoba nezinsuku ezimbi, izikhathi zokucindezelwa, izinkinga njll. Ukungazibandakanyi ne-PMO kunciphisa inkinga yakho nge-1 futhi kukusiza ukubhekana kangcono nezinye izinkinga sonke esinazo.
Nakanjani ngiyasho ukuthi ngiyazethemba futhi ngizizwa ngiphilile (ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo) ngokujwayelekile ngaleso sikhathi engangiyenza. Ngingasho nakanjani ukuthi nginamandla futhi ngine-100% ngibonile ukuthi ngibambelela emisipha eminingi lapho ngiku-nofap. Ngiyazethemba kakhulu kunangaphambili futhi sengibonile nezinguquko ezithile ezinhle zomzimba.
Ukugxila / ukugxila kwami kuthuthukile nge-100%. Lokho engikuzwayo kukwenza kubi kakhulu ngaphezu kwe-PMO, ukuchitha nje isikhathi kwi-inthanethi nakwezokuxhumana, okwehlisa ukunaka kwethu. Ukususa ama-2 koku-3 nakanjani kuthuthukise ukugxila kwami nokugxila kwami. Futhi, iphuzu lakho lesibili futhi yinto engiyibonile, yize ngingakaze ngibe nokuzethemba impela; Ngokuqinisekile senginokuzethemba okukhulu manje kunangaphambili. Inkulumo yami ibuye ilinganiswe futhi ikhulume kahle.
Kunzima, kepha kufanelekile. Ngeke yenze impilo yakho iphelele, kepha izoyithuthukisa 🙂
Ngisanda kubona ukuthi ngilawula (ngokomzimba), uma angifuni ku-PMO, leso yisinqumo sami futhi akudingeki ngikwenze.
Akukaze kwenzeke i- [PIED] 🙂
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