Nayi eminye imibhalo ephathelene nobudlelwano nezocansi. Iningi lama-athikili ethu ligxile kumsebenzisi we-porn, kunokuba kube nemiphumela yokusebenzisa i-porn ebudlelwaneni obuzibophezele. Lokhu sikwenza ngoba iningi lamadoda esizwa kuwo lineminyaka eyi-16-28 hhayi ebudlelwaneni bokuzibophezela.
Ingabe I-Porn Ingenza Umlingani Wakho Akhangele Ukuncane?
Kubhalelwe umagazini oku-inthanethi “I-Good Men Project, ”Lesi sihloko sibheka izizathu ezingokwemvelo zokuthi kungani izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-Internet zanamuhla zinganciphisa umdlandla wokuya ocansini nomlingani.
Ngabe i-porn idayela phansi uhlelo lokuhlanganisa abantu?
Ukuyeka ukuba ndikindiki, lapho kuphela izithombe zobulili ezimbi kakhulu nezishaqisayo ezenze ukuba ngiphendule, ngithole umuzwa omuhle kangaka ngokumamatheka okulula nokuhlangana kwamehlo… yilokho okwenza yonke le nqubo ikufanele. ”
Qonda inselelo yocansi lomlingani wakho nokuthi ungasiza kanjani
Awunazo ukuphikisana okukhethekile kwi-porn, kodwa uyamthanda umlingani wakho futhi unqume ukuyiyeka ngemuva kokusebenzisa kakhulu iminyaka. Nazi izindlela ze-5 ongayisekela umzamo wakhe.
Ukuzilibazisa kwanamuhla okukhahlela inkanuko kungadala izimpawu eziyindida
Ukusetshenziswa kakhulu kwezinsizakusebenza zocansi noma zocansi (izidlidliza, ucansi lwe-cyber) kungadala abasebenzisi besilisa (nabesifazane) ukuthi bakhethe lezo zinto kunocansi lwangempela. Kungadala nezinkinga zokusebenza, okwenza abashadile bangabaze ukuheha kwabo nokusetshenziswa kwekhondomu kungaqiniseki. Ekugcineni, kungadala ukungqubuzana kobudlelwano okubonakala kungahlobene nokuqisa ngokweqile… kepha okuyikho.
Ingabe ukudlula ngokweqile ukushayela ubulili eceleni?
Lo mbhalo ubheka ukuthi amathoyizi ocansi anamuhla akhuthaza kanjani abathanda abancane ngaphandle.
Uzogcwalisa kanjani umgodi wakho weziboshwa? "
Iningi lezeluleko zanamuhla zocansi ngeke zisebenze kahle kubathandi abafuna ukuhlala bebhangqiwe. Kususelwa kucebo le-dopamine-cranking "novelty-as-aphrodisiac" isu: ukuzama ithoyizi elisha locansi, ukubukela i-porn, ukushintshanisa abalingani, ukwenza iphupho le-kinky, ukuzibandakanya ocansini olunesibindi noma olubuhlungu, njalonjalo. Inoveli nokwesaba kuyavusa impela. Noma kunjalo i-novelty-as-aphrodisiac inezingqinamba.
Ingabe ubuchopho obuthandana buzwela kakhulu?
Kuphela u-3% wezilwane ezincelisayo ezingama-pair bonders. Lokho kusho ukuthi bahlala ndawonye ukukhulisa inzalo. Ezinye izilwane ezincelisayo zingenasimilo. Futhi akuzona izindlela zokuziphatha ezifundwayo; yizinhlelo zobuchopho. Ukubhangqa ngababili, noma uthando, empeleni “kuwumlutha” ohleliwe. Ukuhlolwa kukhombisa ukuthi izilwane eziwela “othandweni” zithambekele ekubeni umlutha. Nabantu?
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