I-YBOP COMMENTS: Lolu cwaningo lwabika okutholakala kokubili okuphikisanayo mayelana nokusetshenziswa kocansi:
- Isikhathi esiningi esichithwa ukubukela izithombe ezihambisana nocansi ukwaneliseka kocansi okuphansi
- Isikhathi esiningi esichithwa ukubukela izithombe ezihambisana nocansi Ngaphansi sa nezinkinga zobulili
Bekungeke yini kunengqondo ukwaneliseka kocansi okumpofu ukuhlala kuhlobene nokungasebenzi kahle kocansi? Kungenzeka kanjani Okuningi ukusetshenziswa kobulili kuhlobene kokubili Ngaphansi ukwaneliseka ngokocansi kanye Ngaphansi ukungasebenzi kocansi?
Impendulo enokwenzeka: Lolu cwaningo lusetshenziswa ASEX ukukala umsebenzi wobulili, hhayi umgomo IIEF. I-ASEX ayihlukanisi phakathi kokusebenza kocansi ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu (imvamisa kuya ocansini ledijithali) nobulili obuhlukanisiwe, kuyilapho i-IIEF ikhona kuphela ngezifundo zocansi. Lokhu kusho ukuthi eziningi zezihloko zazilinganisela ikhwalithi ye-orgasms yazo, ukuvusa nokuvusa ngenkathi kushaya indlwabu ocansini - hhayi ngenkathi benza ucansi. Eqinisweni, inani labantu libonisa ukuthi abaningi babephendula sengathi bashaya indlwabu ocansini:
- Isilinganiso sobudala sasingu-25
- U-90% wamadoda asebenzisa njalo i-porn
- Kuphela ngama-35% ezifundo ebezihlala ndawonye (ama-33% ebengashadile; ama-30% "ebethandana")
Abasebenzisi be-porn abasebenzisi be-intanethi bavame ukuvuswa kakhulu kocansi kanye nokukhishwa okungcono ngenkathi usebenzisa i-porn. Kuphela nje abantu abenza i-porn-abavusa i-ED balahlekelwa umsebenzi wezocansi ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu nge-digital porn (yize kumangalisa ngokwanele, abambalwa baba yilokho okungasebenzi kahle). Abasebenzisi abaningi ababoni ukwehla kokungasebenzi kwabo ngokocansi ngenxa yokusebenzisa i-porn uma bezithokozisa ngoba iningi likwazi ukuqhubeka nokuchofoza kokuthile okushisayo noma okwedlulele kuze kube yilapho "lingawenza umsebenzi."
Kungabalingani ukuthi abasebenzisi be-digital digital babone ukuthi izidakamizwa zabo ezihlobene nocansi zihlobene kanjani, futhi lokhu kwenzeka ngoba bakulungele ukuphendula kwabo ngokocansi ezikrinini, emithanjeni, ekufuneni njalo nasekuhloleni, nasezintweni ezingapheli. Hhayi ocansini obuhlukanisiwe. Ukuhlolwa kwe-ASEX (okusetshenziswe yileli thimba locwaningo) ngeke kuthathe ukungasebenzi kahle kocansi oluhlukanisiwe - ngaphandle kokuthi abacwaningi babatshele ukuthi bakusebenzise kuphela ubulili obuhlukanisiwe. Leli thimba locwaningo alikwenzanga lokho kulolu cwaningo. (Siyazi ngoba sihambisane nombhali.)
Lokhu kuchaza nokubonakala okusobala, okungukuthi lezi zihloko zibika Phansi “Ukwaneliseka ngokocansi” - lapho kunikezwa nohlu lwemibuzo lokho wenza ucacise imisebenzi yezocansi ehlangene. Abasebenzisi abaningi be-porn namuhla abakwazi ukwenza ucansi oluyimpumelelo nabalingani, noma i-orgasm nabalingani, noma babika ukuthi bazizwa be "dick numb" nabalingani - bobabili ngomlomo nangokobulili (kepha abanazo izinkinga ezinjalo uma besebenzisa i-porn yedijithali kuphela). Izifundo eziningi uxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kobulili ezinkingeni zocansi kanye nokwaneliseka kocansi okuphansi. Kuze kube manje i-3 yalezi zifundo ibonisa ukusetshenziswa kocansi kubangela ukungasebenzi kahle ngokocansi - njengoba ababambiqhaza beqeda ukusetshenziswa kocansi futhi belapha ukungasebenzi kahle kocansi okungapheli.
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Ukuthola okuhambisana ne-Grubbs CPUI
Lolu cwaningo luye lwathola nokuthi ukulutha kabi kocansi, njengoba kulinganiswa yi-Grubbs's CPUI, kwakuhlobene kakhulu nenani le-porn elibukwayo. Izindatshana eziningana ezibekiwe mayelana nezifundo zikaJoshua Grubbs ("izifundo zokulutha umlutha") ziye zathi inani lokusetshenziswa kocansi belingukuthi ahlobene kuya izikolo ku-CPUI. Lokhu kanye nezinye izimangalo ezizungezile izifundo ezibonakalayo zokulutha izidakamizwa zihanjiswe ngu lokhu kuhlaziywa okubanzi.
Isendlalelo esincane. Ku-2010 Grubbs yakha uhlu lwemibuzo lokuhlola ukubheja kocansi: i-CPUI. Ku-2013 Grubbs washicilela isifundo esithi imibuzo yakhe yangempela yokulutha umlutha wezocansi ishintshiwe ngomlingo yaba yimibuzo "eyaziwayo yokulutha kocansi" (okuningi okuningi lapha). Akukho okufana nokuhlolwa okubonakalayo "kokulutha" - kwanoma yikuphi ukulutha, kufaka phakathi umlutha wezocansi, futhi ukuhlolwa kwakhe akukaze kuqinisekiswe kanjalo. Noma kunjalo, imibuzo 1-6 ye-CPUI-9 ihlola izimpawu nezimpawu ezivamile kuzo zonke izidakamizwa, kuyilapho imibuzo 7-9 (Ukukhathazeka Ngokomzwelo) ihlola icala, amahloni nokuzisola. Ngenxa yalokho, "okwangempela umlutha wezocansi ”uqondana kahle nemibuzo engu-1-6 (Ukuphoqelelwa Nemizamo Yokufinyelela).
Ukuphoqeleka:
- Ngikholelwa ukuthi ngiyisidakwa sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi.
- Ngizizwa ngingakwazi ukuyeka ukusebenzisa kwami izithombe ezingcolile zobulili.
- Ngisho nalapho ngingathandi ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi, ngizizwa ngidonsela kuso
Imizamo yokufinyelela:
- Ngezinye izikhathi, ngizama ukuhlela isimiso sami ukuze ngibe ngedwa ukuze ngibheke izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
- Ngenqabe ukuphuma nabangani noma ukuya eminye imisebenzi yomphakathi ukuze ngithole ithuba lokubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile.
- Ngiye ngaqeda izinto ezibalulekile ukuze ngibuke izithombe ezingcolile.
Ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo:
- Nginamahloni ngemva kokubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi.
- Ngicindezelekile ngemva kokubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi.
- Ngizizwa ngigula ngemva kokubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuyi-intanethi.
Ucwaningo lwamanje luthole ukuthi inani le-porn elisetshenzisiwe belihlobene ngokuqinile nemibuzo 1-6, kepha ayihlobene neze nemibuzo 7-9. Lokhu kusho ukuthi inani le-porn elisetshenzisiwe liyisici esinamandla kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni ukulutha kocansi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amahloni nokuzizwa unecala kwakungahlotshaniswa nokusetshenziswa kocansi, futhi akuhlangene nakancane nokulutha kocansi. Ngamafuphi "umlutha obonakalayo" njengomqondo awusekelwa lapho umuntu ebukisisa.
I-Cyberpsychol Behav Soc Netw. 2016 Nov;19(11):649-655.
Blais-Lecours S1, I-Vaillancourt-Morel MP1, Sabourin S1, Godbout N2.
abstract
Ukusebenzisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile nge-intanethi manje kuyinto evamile ngisho noma imiphumela ehambisanayo yocansi, kuhlanganise nokwaneliseka ngokocansi, iyashintsha kakhulu. Isifundo samanje sivivinye imodeli yokunciphisa ngokulandelana kwezinyathelo ezimbili lapho ukusetshenziswa kwe-cyberpornography isikhathi kuhlobene nokwaneliseka ngocansi ngokuhlanganyela, esitebhisini sokuqala, ukulutha okubonakalayo ekusetshenzisweni kwe-cyberpornography (okungukuthi, ukucindezela okubonwayo, umzamo wokufinyelela, nokucindezeleka ezithombeni ezingcolile) futhi kanye, ngesinyathelo sesibili, izinkinga zokusebenza ngokocansi (isib. ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi, ukuphoqeleka nokugwema). Lezi zinhlobo zokuhlukanisa nazo zihlolwe ngokubhekwa kobulili ngokusebenzisa ukuhlaziywa kwezimodeli kwamadoda nabesifazane. Isampula kubantu abadala be-832 kusukela kumbuzo wokuziphendulela komphakathi oqedile ukuzibika. Imiphumela ibonise ukuthi amaphesenti angu-XNUM wabesifazane namaphesenti angu-51 wamadoda abikile ekubukeni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile nge-intanethi. Ukuhlaziywa kwemigwaqo kuboniswe izinhlangano ezingaqondakali eziyinkimbinkimbi lapho kusetshenziswe khona isikhathi sokusebenzisa i-cyberpornography kuhlotshaniswa nokunganeliseki ngokocansi ngokusebenzisa ukulutha okubonakalayo nezinkinga zokusebenza ngokocansi. Lezi zindlela zokuxhumana ezigcinwe kokubili amadoda nabesifazane.
ISIFUNDO ESIFUNDILE:
Okokuqala, ngisho nalapho ukulawula ukulutha okubonakalayo ekusetshenzisweni kwe-cyberpornography nokusebenza kocansi jikelele, Ukusetshenziswa kwe-cyberpornography kwahlala ngokuqondile ngokuhambisana nokunganeliseki ngokocansi. Ngisho noma lobudlelwane obubi obuqondile bebukhulu obuncane, isikhathi esichithwa ukubuka i-cyberpornography kubonakala sengathi kuyindlela enamandla yokwaneliseka ngokocansi okuphansi.
http://www.psy-world.com/asex_print.htm
KEYWORDS: umlutha; i-cyberpornography; ubulili; ukusebenza kocansi; ukwaneliseka ngokocansi
I-PMID: 27831753
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