Imicabango Ezingcolile (2018), uStephen A. Wilson, MD, MPH

UStephen A. Wilson, MD, MPH

Fam Med. 2018;50(3):238-240.

I-DoI: 10.22454 / FamMed.2018.365688

Abesifazane nabesilisa behlukile. Ekulweleni ithuba elilinganayo nokwelashwa kuvame ukudideka mayelana nokulingana nokufanayo, okungaholela ekungathathi hlangothi noma ukuguqula inkhulumomphendvulwano eyakhayo.

Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile akulula ukuziqonda — njengoba kusho iNkantolo Ephakeme iJaji uPotter Stewart ngo-1964, “… Ngiyazazi lapho ngizibona” 1,2 — kodwa kungaba yinselele ukukuchaza. Kusuka kumagama esiGreki porne (isifebe) futhi i-graphein (bhala) izithombe zocansi ziqale ukuvela ngolimi lwesiNgisi kwi-1842.3,4 Kuyamangaza kunobuhle bendalo futhi kungacatshangwa njengokushicilelwe, okulalelwayo, noma okubukwayo okuqukethe incazelo ecacile noma ukuboniswa kwezitho zobulili noma umsebenzi ovusa injabulo noma ukusabela okukhulu , imvamisa kwezocansi.

Ingaphakathi lomkhumbi libalulekile. Lapho sifuna ukuhlanza indebe, sihlanza ingaphakathi. Uma sifuna ukwazi okuqukethwe yindebe sibheka ngaphakathi noma sibheke okuthelwa kuyo.

Okungena emqondweni kuthinta imicabango, izimo zengqondo nokuziphatha. Kungani ezinye izinkampani zingakhokha izigidi ezingama- $ 5 ngokuthengisa kwe-30-kwesibili ngesikhathi se-2018 Super Bowl? I-5 ukubukwa kwethelevishini kuhlobene nokuziphatha okuthinta impilo nezimo zengqondo. Intsha eneminyaka engu-12-17 yeminyaka ubudala esebenzisa okungaphezulu kokuya ocansini kuthelevishini kungenzeka ibe nokukhathazeka kocansi kwangaphambilini.6 Ezinsizweni ezincane, ukubuka izithombe zocansi okuphezulu okuhambisana nesikhathi sokucabanga okuphathelene nabesifazane kanye namazinga aphezulu wobulili obunenzondo.7

Ku-2013, i-30% yokudluliswa kwedatha yonke ye-inthanethi kwakuyizithombe zobulili ezingcolile, futhi amasayithi we-porn abenezivakashi ezihlukile kakhulu kuneNetflix, i-Amazon, ne-Twitter ihlangene.8 Ku-2015, i-PornHub, iwebhusayithi yezithombe zocansi, yayivakashele i-21.2 billion futhi i-75GB yedatha ngomzuzwana , kwanele ukugcwalisa cishe ama-iPhones we-175 ama-16GB ama-iPhones.9 Lokho okuqukethwe okuningi kuthululelwa ezinkomishi eziningi. Cishe i-70% -80% yababuki bezithombe zocansi ze-inthanethi abesilisa.8,9 Abesilisa nabesifazane babuka izithombe zocansi ezihlukile. Izintandokazi zobungqingili obufanayo ngokobulili obuhlukile kwabobulili obukhulu ziphakeme phakathi kwabesifazane (i-21.3% yabesifazane vs 1.8% yamadoda), futhi ukubuka izinto abangakwenzi (noma abakwazanga?) Empilweni yangempela kuvame kakhulu phakathi kwamadoda (14% yabesifazane vs 70% yamadoda) .10

Izithombe zocansi zithuthukisa, zandisa, noma zivumela imiqondo enjengokuthi: abesifazane bayizinto zocansi; wonke umuntu uhlala elungele futhi efuna ubulili; abesifazane bayaziswa ngalokho abakwenzayo noma abazimisele ukukwenza kubo ngocansi; abesifazane benzelwe ucansi; nabesifazane bayizindikimba. Izithombe zocansi eziningi ziveza amadoda aveza amandla awo ngokomzimba kanye nemicabango engacwasi noma engalawulwa njengoba inenzuzo njalo noma efiselekayo ngaphandle kokufaka okuvela noma ukunakwa kwabalingani babo besifazane.

NgoJanuwari 2018, uDkt Lawrence G. Nassar wagwetshwa iminyaka engu-40-175 ejele ngokunukubeza amantombazane esemncane ngeminyaka ye-6 yonke iminyaka engaphansi kokuzenzisa ngokunikeza izivivinyo zokwelashwa noma ukwelashwa.11 Yize evuma icala lokuhlukumeza ngokocansi amantombazane ayisikhombisa, ngaphezu kwe-160 beze ukuzolandisa izindaba zabo ngezindaba ezixakile.11 Lesi sigwebo sangezelela iminyaka ye-60 ayesitholile ngoNovemba 2017 wezithombe zocansi zezingane.11

Esikhathini esiningi sangonyaka owedlule, kube nochungechunge lwezinsolo zokungaziphathi kahle ngokobulili ngabesilisa ngokumelene nabesifazane. Ukuziphatha okubi kobulili, okusuka kumagama kuya ekuthinteni okungafuneki nokudlwengulwa okuphoqelwayo, akuyona into entsha. Izingxoxo zethu zomlando wezenhlalo nezocansi neziguli zisifundisile lokho. Kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi into emile futhi eyaziwa kangaka yaphenduka izindaba ezivuthayo? Izigameko ezithinta abacebile nabanamandla zithola ukunakwa okwengeziwe. Umuntu wokuqala osolwayo wayengumakhiqizi wefilimu yaseHollywood ovelele futhi ocebile owasekela izimbangela “ezilungile” nabantu, futhi washo izinto “ezilungile”. Ngenkathi isilinganiso sokuziphatha kwakhe okudumazayo nokuziphatha kabi kwezocansi kwakwanda futhi kubi, ukuthi phakathi kwezisulu zakhe kunabaningi abacebile, abaqavile, abesifazane abamhlophe bahlinzeka ngomugqa ongaphansi namandla ukuze bakhuthaze ukungaphenduki komphakathi okuqhubekayo nokubuyela emuva.12,13

Amanani aqondene nobulili nokuqondiswa kokubukwa kwezithombe ezingcolile kanye nokuziphatha kabi ngokocansi, ukuhlukunyezwa, nokuhlaselwa yizikhumbuzo: amadoda nabesifazane bangalingana, kepha ngokuqinisekile asifani. Izinto ezimbili ezingafani, noma kunjalo, zingahlonishwa ngokulinganayo, ziphathwe, futhi zibaluleke. Abantu abanezingane ezingaphezu koyedwa bahlangabezana nalokhu nsuku zonke: ngamunye unamandla ahlukene, ubuthakathaka, izidingo, izipho, izindlela zokuletha usizi nenjabulo; kepha bonke bayathandwa futhi bayaziswa ngokulinganayo.

Iqiniso laleli zwe lamanje, le-ephemeral, elinobuhlakani linemithelela engaba khona emithini yezempilo yendawo yethu yokusebenza neziguli. Empilweni yendawo yethu yokusebenza, inqobo nje uma izinga lingukujwayelekile, namathuba okukuthola alingana, ukuthi umuntu ufika kanjani kuwo noma abonakaliswa kukho kungahluka kakhulu. Imvamisa abantu bavame ukulandela ngendlela engeyiyo indlela yempumelelo njengencazelo elandela ezinyathelweni nasezixekweni ezifanayo. Abanye badonsa isikhathi eside; abanye banezinyawo ezinkulu; ezinye zinesikhwama esikhudlwana; abanye baqala ngaphezulu ngenhla noma ngaphansi komgwaqo.

Leyo ndlela inezinselelo ezanele; ezocansi nobulili akufanele zengeziwe. Yiba nomusa, uhlakaniphe, ulalele. Ngabe ufuna noma ukwamukela ukuthi unyoko noma indodakazi yakho iphathwa ngaleyo ndlela? Ungasho noma wenze “lezo zinto” nabazali bakho noma izingane zakho? Uma osebenza naye wesifazane efika nokukhathazeka noma okuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile, lalela ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, ukwahlulela, noma ukusola.

Okwezempilo zeziguli zethu, okufaka nemibuzo mayelana nezithombe zocansi emlandweni wezenhlalo noma wezocansi kungaletha imininingwane ewusizo yokuqukethwe kwe-biopsychosocial. Mhlawumbe odokotela kufanele babuze ngezithombe zocansi kaningi, ikakhulukazi njengengxenye yokunakekelwa kwentsha, ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa, nokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile.

Ingabe izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ziwuhlobo lwezinkinga zomphakathi? Kuyanda kakhulu kunogwayi, utshwala, izidakamizwa kanye nezibhamu, zonke izinto ezinamapharamitha wokulawula kuzo ukuze zikhuthaze noma zivikele impilo nokuphepha komphakathi. Isibonelo esisodwa esilawulayo kungaba ukufaka ukuthi amawebhusayithi ezithombe zocansi abe “.xxx” ukwenza kube lula kubazali noma omunye umuntu othambekele ekwakheni ama-cyberbarriers. Okunye kungaba ukukhulisa izinsiza zokucwaninga ngemiphumela yezithombe zocansi emizweni nasekuziphatheni kanye (nasekubuyiselweni) kwemfundo yalabo uthisha wabo obalulekile mayelana nezocansi nezocansi abe ngocansi.

Izithombe zocansi zithinta indlela abantu abasha abacabanga ngayo ngocansi, nokuthi amadoda acabangani futhi asondele kubantu besifazane.14 Iningi labantu liphuza utshwala ngaphandle kokuba yizidakwa. Iningi labantu ababhema ugwayi alutholi umdlavuza wamaphaphu, kepha iningi labantu elinomdlavuza wamaphaphu libhema ugwayi. Akunandaba, emizamweni yokuba ngumgcini womfowethu, sithatha isinyathelo ukusiza ukuvikela nokuphatha imiphumela yokuthatha izinqumo ezingatheni, ngisho nokuzilimaza kulezi zinqumo nakwezinye izici ezithinta impilo. Ngenxa yokuthi izithombe zocansi kungenzeka zingakhi ibutho labantu abahlukumeza ngokocansi akusho ukuthi akulona ithonya elibi engqondweni, elibusa imicabango, elilawula izimo zengqondo, elilawula ukwamukelwa kwezenzo. Kungaba ngosayizi, isilinganiso sokuthulula, noma isilinganiso sokugcwaliswa, ezinye izinkomishi kungenzeka zichichime okuqukethwe kwabo kunokwabanye. Singenza okuningi ukuba umgcini womfowethu kanye nodadewethu.

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