Ukuziphatha akukhona lapho sicabanga khona
Lokhu okuthunyelwe kumayelana nokuziphatha, kepha hhayi mayelana ne-ajenda ethile yokuziphatha. Imayelana nokuthi ikhampasi yakho yangaphakathi isebenza kanjani. Noma ngabe iyiphi ikhodi yakho yokuziphatha, uma wena noma obathandayo ngezikhathi ezithile nenza izinto ezingayephuli, funda uqhubeke.
Izinqumo zokuziphatha (kufaka phakathi ezocansi) azenzi "umqondo wokuziphatha" othize ebuchosheni. Bathembele kumshini wobuchopho onomthelela konke izinqumo: umjikelezo wethu wesifunda.
“Ososayensi baseHarvard University baye bathola ukuthi abantu bangenza izinqumo ezinzima zokuziphatha basebenzisa izifunda ezifanayo zobuchopho njengoba lezo ezisetshenziselwa izinqumo ezingaphezu kwamanye amazwe ezihlobene nemali nokudla.
La masekethe, atholakala nakwezinye izilwane, ahlanganisa izingcezu ezimbili zolwazi ezibucayi: Zilunge noma zimbi kangakanani izinto ezingenzeka? Yiziphi izingqinamba ezizokwenzeka, kuye ngokukhetha komuntu? ”
Izakhiwo abazifundile ziyizinto zonke zemijikelezo yomvuzo wobuchopho: i-ventral striatum, i-insula ne-vmPFC (i-pre-frontal cortex).
Ngakho-ke, inkinga ikuphi? Inkinga ukuthi izakhi zethu zofuzo zinama-ajenda afihliwe. Ukubhaliswa kokudla nezinsizakusebenza kunomvuzo ngoba kukhuthaza ukusinda, kepha imivuzo enamandla kunazo zonke eyokuziphatha okuthanda inzalo ethe xaxa, noma ngabe iziphi izingozi. Cabanga ngokuziphatha kukaKaren Owen, noma ukuphunyuka kukaBill Clinton, uMark Sanford noJohn Edwards, ama-antics kaLarry Craig kanye nomqaphi kaGeorge Reker. Cabanga iqiniso lokuthi amacala e-HIV emadodeni angama-gay angaphansi kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu agxume kakhulu kunalawa amaphesenti angamashumi amathathu kusukela 2001.
Laba bantu banento eyodwa abafana ngayo: Amakhampasi abo angaphakathi awasebenzi ngokuvumelana nesithombe sabo sesikhathi eside, ngoba inqubo yobuchopho yakudala ihlola imisebenzi yabo eyingozi njengokuthi — kholwa noma cha — amathuba ezakhi zofuzo. "Izakhi zofuzo zobugovu”Impela!
Izinhlelo zethu zofuzo zidonsa kanjani izintambo zethu? Kulokhu, ngokukhipha i-dopamine eyengeziwe (i- "gotta get it" neurochemical) kumjikelezo wethu womvuzo. Asiqapheli ukuthi kwenzekani ngoba sijwayele ukuthembela kokungenayo okuvela kulezi zifunda njengoba senza izinqumo ezingenakubalwa, ezizwakala kahle. Ngakho-ke, lapho ushaywa nge-dopamine eyengeziwe, simane nje ukwazi sidinga ukulandela leso sifiso, futhi simelane ngamandla nemicabango engadingeki, esangulukile. Uyathuka, eh? Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho i-dopamine (ukuzwela) yehla, singazizwa sinesithukuthezi, noma sengathi asifuni okungaphezulu kokuthile (noma kothile) —noma sengathi senze iphutha elikhulu izolo ebusuku.
Noma ngabe kuphakeme ngokungajwayelekile noma kuphansi, sisohambweni lwezidakamizwa ezincane noma siba ne-hangover encane. Kunoma ikuphi, sisebenza kanzima ngokumelene nobunzima obenziwe ngamakhemikhali. Ngenhlanhla, izifiso ziyadlula — ngaphambi noma ngemuva senza-futhi ukucaca ngokuvamile kubuya.
Lapho ukuziphatha kabi kwekhampasi kungasebenzi
Abanye bethu bafika kwiplanethi ngobuchopho obusenza sithathe kakhulu noma sithambekele ekuqhakambiseni kakhulu ubusha, ngaleyo ndlela sishaye amakhampasi ethu. Kodwa-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi iningi lethu lithinteke ukungasebenzi kahle kwekhampasi (okungukuthi, ukuhlanekezwa kwethoni ye-limbic) esimweni esisodwa: Zibandakanye ekuvuseleleni okukhulu kakhulu futhi olunye uhlelo lofuzo lungena isikhashana: i Uhlelo lokubheja.
Ake sithi uthola igumbi lokuxoxa eliku-inthanethi noma ibha encane. Uzungezwe yibo bonke labo ongaba abangane bomshado, ubuchopho bakho bukhipha i-dopamine eyengeziwe ("Yebo!"), Ufaka imibala emiqondweni yakho futhi kaningi ukwahlulela kwakho okwesikhashana. Eqinisweni, amathuba wanamuhla okuvulwa yinoveli, abashade abangahle bashise, izifiso zokwenziwa ngokocansi kanye nerejista yokudla okungenamsoco okukhuthaza kakhulu ubuchopho obuningi ukuze zizenzekele ukucindezela ukuzwela kwabo ukugcina abanikazi babo befuna izinto eziningi. Esikhundleni sokuzwa ukwaneliseka okwedlulele, abantu abanjalo bavame ukuzwa ukukhula kwe-malaise (ngaphandle nangabe ubuchopho babo buqala kabusha).
Lezi zinguquko ezicashile, kodwa zangempela, zenzeke ngaphandle kokuqwashisa okuqaphelayo. Ukuze ubuyisele ukulinganisa kanye nokwahlulela okuzwakalayo, badinga isikhathi ngaphandle kokuvuselela okukhulu, (kodwa, mhlawumbe, eziningi uthando noma ukuxhumana okunobungane). Kuze kube babuyela kokujwayelekile, ngisho othandekayo angabukeka…ukunganelisi. Kuthiwa indoda eyodwa emva kokulala okuningi kocansi ngamasonto amabili ebuhlotsheni obusha,
Ngizizwa ngiyisimungulu ngokuzibandakanya nowesifazane ofuna ubudlelwano obuqinile. Muhle umfazi. Ngiyamthanda, kepha lapho ngihlangana nabanye besifazane futhi i-chemistry ikhona, kunzima ukukuziba.
Umjikelezo wakhe wesifunda uyaphumelela kakhulu isithembiso yokuvuselela okukhulu (ngeveli) ngoba i-dopamine iqhubekela phambili ebuchosheni bayo obuningi emcabangweni. Uzwa unesidingo esingenasici sokusebenza.
Nansi into: Noma izifiso zakhe noma imiphumela yazo Kunokuningi okuphathelene nokuziphatha kwakhe. Icala lapha yithoni yezitho. Ingakhiqiza inkungu yokuphambuka kokuqonda okuhlanekezelwe, ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi nokuzithemba. Senza ngaphandle kokubona ukuthi singaphansi kwesiphonso. Lapho i-neurochemistry yethu ishintsha futhi, siyazibuza, “Bengicabanga ini ???” Impendulo: besingekho; besise-autopilot ye-neurochemical, noma okungenani sihlushwa umbono osontekile osenze sakwazi ukuzithethelela ngokuziphatha budedengu.
Cabanga ngalokhu kushintshana ngokuthi ukugqugquzela ngokocansi okwedlulele kuguqula kanjani ukuqonda ngisho naphakathi kwabasebenzisi be-porn bodwa. (Udaba lapha aluyona i-porn. Ukushintsha kokubona, okungenzeka ngemuva kokugqugquzela okuningi kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo.)
Umuntu wokuqala: I-Porn ikukhiphela ngaphandle kwesilinganiso salokho ocabanga ukuthi ucansi kufanele lube yikho. Kukuyisa “ezweni konke” lapho kulungile ukuhlukumeza nokuhlukumeza abanye futhi akunandaba ukuthi uthando lukhona yini kulaba abashadile. Eqinisweni, uthando oluncane, ukonakala ngokwengeziwe, kuba ngcono! Uma ungumlutha ngokuphelele ungabona CISHE noma yini yenzeka esikrinini. Isihogo, ngangikubuka ngenjabulo ukuchama, ukuhlanza, abantu abashayanayo nabahlukumezanayo, abantu abakhubazekile bethotshiswa futhi bephathwa kabi, ngisho nabantu belahlwe ngodoti — bonke bengacabangi nakancane ngakho. Kwakunengeka kodwa ngangingenandaba. Lapho ingqondo yami ikuleso “sikhala,” noma yini yahamba.
Ngakho-ke ngemuva kwezinyanga ngingenazo izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ngachofoza ezinye zezinto engangazi ukuthi ngangihlale ngizithanda, futhi ngathola lo muzwa omubi wokuthi, "YINI ESIHOGWENI ENDIBUKAYO?" Ngangibuyele kokujwayelekile futhi ngangikubona njengami, ngamehlo ami anengqondo nengqondo… futhi kwakunyanyisa ngokuphelele. I-Porn yayingeyona ukuthi hlobo luni lobulili engangiluthanda, kwakungokubona izinto ezinamandla, ezinobudlova nezijabulisayo lapho ngikuleso sikhala.
Umuntu wesibiliIsikhathi siyahamba, nemizwa ka "Cha, hhayi futhi!" baba, "Yilokhu engiyikho, ngicabanga kanjalo." Kungakuhle ukwazisa abasebenzisi abasha be-porn ukuthi yini engabaguqula emgwaqweni. Kepha kungukuthi kuphela lapho bebona ukuthi bashintsha kanjani lapho bezokwazi khona ukuqonda ukuthi baba kanjani morphed ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Ukuya kumuntu othelwa ngumhlanzo emehlweni akhe nokukhala ngobuhlungu njengoba indawo iqhubeka igingqika kungashaya izingqondo zabantu kakhulu kunohambo oluqinile lwamakhowe. Abantu abangenalwazi babona kuphela ukuthi impilo akuyona i-porn uma bezama izinto abazibonayo. Ngethemba ukuthi njengoba abantu bezishaya izindonga zabo, nabo bazothatha isinyathelo sokubuyela emuva babuze, "Sengiyini?"
Ngizama ukungagxili kulokho obekuvame ukungivulela. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho sibona ukuthi siphambuke kangakanani, lapho sibona ukuthi akuyona impi yokuziphatha esiyilwayo lapho sihoxisa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, kodwa enye yezingqondo zethu nenjabulo. Ezweni elilindele ukuthi abantu benze njengamarobhothi isikhathi esiningi, uthando lungezinye zezinto ezimbalwa abantu abazishiyile ezingaba yinto yangempela yomlingo. Kubo bonke abanye abantu, ungumuntu nje ongenagama esixukwini, kepha kumthandi ungumhlaba. Ukukhetha kucacile.
Yebo, ukukhetha kucacile — lapho impendulo yobuchopho be-dopamine inikezwa ithuba lokubuyela kokujwayelekile.
Ngakho, ngempela, ukuziphatha kwangaphandle akunjalo isisekelo esihle kakhulu sokwahlulela ukukhetha komuntu kwezocansi. Umuzwa wethu wokuziphatha awusebenzi ngaphandle kwemijikelezo yethu yomvuzo. Inquma ukuthi yini "enomvuzo" noma "engazuzisi," enomthelela omkhulu kulokho esikubheka njengokufanelekile noma "okungafanelekile," futhi "nobuntu" noma "okungenabuntu." Ngakho-ke lapho ukukhuthazeka ngokweqile kuphonsa ithoni yethu ye-limbic ngaphandle kwe-kilter okwesikhashana, sisengozini yokukhetha okudabukisayo. Njengoba omunye umfana esho:
Isikhungo sami senjabulo sithatha ngokuphelele. Ikhohlisa ingxenye enengqondo yobuchopho ukuthi lesi kuzoba yisikhathi sami sokugcina, ukuthi ngidinge okunye ukushaywa okukhulu ukuze ngiqhubeke nezinto. Kufana nokuthi nginabantu ababili abahlala ngaphakathi kimi.
Imithetho yangaphandle yokuziphatha ayinakwa kalula ubuchopho obulwa nokungalingani kwe-dopamine. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho ubuchopho busesilinganisweni, akunjalo kudingeka imithetho yokusebenza-ngoba umnikazi wayo ucabanga ngokucacile. Nakhu okushiwo amadoda ayisihlanu ayenqanda ukugqugquzela ngokweqile:
- Kuyamangaza ukuthi mkhulu kangakanani umehluko okhona. Nginovalo oluncane, nginobumbano ngokwengeziwe, ngiyazethemba, konke. Kuzwakala sengathi ubuntu bami bangempela bungaphuma.
- Ngicabanga ngokucacile, futhi ngenza ngokuthe xaxa futhi i-LASTS yami yokugxila. Ngiyakwazi ukulandela, ukuxazulula izinkinga, ngisho nezinto eziningi ezilandelanayo isikhathi eside. Ngisho nomphathi wami wathi ngizilawula kakhulu.
- Ngizizwa ngingowesilisa ngokwengeziwe, ngilawula ngokwengeziwe, ngizinze kakhudlwana, NGIPHILA ngokwengeziwe, futhi ngenxa yalokho, ngendlela exakile, ngibe 'nobungqabavu' ngokwengeziwe…? Angiqiniseki ukuthi ngingayichaza kanjani. Kuzizwa kumangalisa.
- Ngiye ngabona ukucabanga okucacile, ukusebenzisana okungcono komphakathi, ukuzinza kakhudlwana ngokomzwelo, amandla engeziwe, nokuziphatha okungcono. Kuhle kakhulu ukubona imiphumela ngokushesha.
- Ngizizwa ngisekelwe futhi ngiqondiswa kakhulu, nginingi lokunikeza abantu abaningi. Izikhathi engizichitha nomngane wami womshado, ngizizwa ngigcwele futhi ngijabule.
Abantu abasibo ababi ngoba bephula amakhodi abo okuziphatha ngaphansi kwengcindezi eyingozi, eyenziwa yi-neurochemically. Abaningi badinga nje buyisela ukulingana kwabo, ngakho-ke amakhampasi abo aphinde ahambisane nemigomo yabo yangempela. Lokhu kuvuselelwa kungathatha amasonto.
Ukugwema ukushukuma okwedlulele kugcina (noma kubuyisa) ibhalansi. Kungakho amasiko amaningi okomoya emhlabeni egxila kumasu wokulinganisa ubuchopho njengokuzindla, i-qi gong, ukudla, ukuzinikela, umthandazo, insizakalo, ukufuna, ukuphana nokuphathwa ngokucophelela kwesifiso sobulili. Ngeza kulolo hlu uthando nsuku zonke, olungenalo imigomo. Amathuluzi anjalo angase asebenze ngokumangalisayo lapho egcina ikhampasi yethu yangaphakathi ehambisana nobani ngempela.
buyekeza: Ukushintshashintsha kwendabuko kokuguquguqukayo kokuziphatha kwe-dopaminergic midbrain drive
Abantu bayashintshashintsha ngokumangazayo ekuziphatheni kwabo, imvamisa benza izinqumo ezihlukile ngaphansi kwezimo ezifanayo. … Lapha, sikhombisa ukuthi umsebenzi wangaphakathi we-prestimulus brain ku-dopaminergic midbrain unomthelela ekutheni sikhetha kanjani phakathi kwezindlela eziyingozi neziphephile. … Okutholakele kwethu kukhombisa ukuthi ukuqonda okuphezulu kwe-oda kuthonywa ukuguquguquka kwezimo zobuchopho bangaphakathi, okunikeza isisekelo somzimba sokwehluka kokuziphatha komuntu okuyinkimbinkimbi.
Ukutadisha okuthakazelisayo kuthola ukuthi ubulili buhlukile kwezinye izici
Abaphenyi babheka izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokusetshenziswa kwe-intanethi okunenkinga bathola ukuthi ukusebenzisa i-intanethi ngezinjongo zocansi kuhambisana kakhulu nezimpawu zobuntu "obumnyama" beMachiavellianism, Psychopathy, Narcissism, Sadism neSpitefulness. Kusuka ku “Ubufakazi bokuqala bokuhlanganiswa kwezici zobuntu obumnyama nemisebenzi ethize ye-intanethi kanye nokusetshenziswa kwe-intanethi okunenkinga. "
Futhi okungenzeka kunesithakazelo:
Lokhu akuyona nje inkinga kwabesilisa. Ukuphoqelelwa Ngocansi Abesifazane: Ithonya Lezithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Nezimpawu Zobuntu be-Narcissistic kanye ne-Histrionic
Ukuhlanganyela [nezengqondo] nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile bekuyisimo esivelele sokubonisa… ukukhohlisa ngokomzwelo nenkohliso.
Futhi ubone: Ubudlelwano phakathi kobuthathu obumnyama bobuntu kanye nezinhlobo ezingacacisiwe / ezithile zokuphazamiseka kokusebenzisa i-Intanethi, Futhi Indima yobulili ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwe-Dark Triad ne-psychopathy, ubungqingili, kanye nezahlulelo zokuziphatha
Udlame locansi luseyinkinga edlangile emakolishi. Ukuphoqwa ngokocansi, uhlobo lodlame lwezocansi, kuvame ukusetshenziswa phakathi kwabantu abathandanayo bocansi (okungukuthi, ukuxhumana). Ucwaningo lwamanje luphenye ubulili obudlulele kanye ne-narcissism yocansi njengezibikezelo ezihlukile zokuphoqelelwa ngokocansi futhi lwahlola ukuthi ngabe kukhona yini umehluko wobulili kulezi zinhlangano. … Uma kuqhathaniswa nabesifazane, amadoda athole amaphuzu aphezulu ekuxhashazweni ngokocansi nakuzo zonke izilinganiso zobulili obudlulele. Ngemva kokusungula amamodeli wokulinganisa alingana kahle, sithole lokho kokubili i-narcissism yocansi kanye nobulili obudlulele kwabikezela ukwanda kokuphoqelelwa ngokocansi kanye nokuthi ubulili abuzange bulinganisele lezi zinhlangano. Imiphumela yocwaningo yabonisa lokho i-narcissism yocansi kanye nobulili obudlulele yizici eziyingozi zokuphoqelelwa kocansi ku-hookups kubo bonke ubulili.
[Ngaphezu kokungezwani okuthile, bobabili abafana namantombazane ababandakanyeka ezenzweni zobulili ezingcolile neziku-inthanethi babe nama-psychotic kakhulu, bengavunyelwa kangako, benenhlonipho engaphezulu, futhi benokwahlulela okuncane ngenxa kanembeza.]
Kokubili ukubukela [i-porn] kukodwa nokubuka ndawonye kwakuhlobene namazinga aphezulu wokuhlukumezeka kwengqondo phakathi kwabalingani, ngokuhluka okumbalwa ngobulili. …
Izixhumanisi zesikhathi eside ziphakamisa ukuthi ukwengeza noma ukwandisa ukubuka kwezithombe ezingcolile, okungenani kweminye imibhangqwana, kungaba ingxabano kukodwa noma kukhuthaza ukwanda kolaka olungokwengqondo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amazinga amaphakathi okubuka ndawonye abehlobene nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, kungakhathaliseki ubulili…..
Le datha yaqoqwa phakathi kuka-2007 no-2010, ngaphambi kokuthi ama-smartphones kanye ne-inthanethi engenazintambo zibe izici ezitholakala yonke indawo yokuphila kwansuku zonke.
Sithola ukuxhumana okuhle phakathi kokubuka izithombe zocansi nokuziphatha okungahlosiwe.
I-athikili elele ehlobene: Ukubuka Izithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Kukhulisa Ukuziphatha Okungafaneleki, Ngokusho Kocwaningo Olusha
Ngemuva kokubalwa kwezimpawu zengqondo nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa nezinkinga, imiphumela iveze ukuhlangana okuhle phakathi [kokusetshenziswa kocansi okunenkinga] kanye nokwenziwa kocansi kanye nodlame oluphakathi kwabalingani.
Ezifundweni ezimbili ukuvezwa ezintweni ezibukwayo zocansi kuholele ku: 1) isaphulelo esikhulu sokubambezeleka (ukungakwazi ukubambezela ukuzithokozisa), i-2) ukuthambekela okukhulu kokuzibandakanya ku-cyber-deliquency, 3) ukuthambekela okukhulu kokuthenga izimpahla zomgunyathi nokugenca i-akhawunti yomunye umuntu ye-Facebook. Ukuhlanganiswa ndawonye lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi kwandisa ukungabi namandla futhi kunganciphisa imisebenzi ethile yokuphatha (ukuzithiba, ukwahlulela, imiphumela yokubona kusengaphambili, ukulawula umfutho). Ingcaphuno:
Lokhu okutholakele kunikeza ukuqonda ngecebo lokunciphisa ukubandakanyeka kwamadoda ebuqilini be-cyber; okungukuthi, ngokuvezwa okuncane ezenzweni zocansi kanye nokukhuthaza ukuzithokozisa okubambezelekile. Imiphumela yamanje ikhombisa ukuthi ukutholakala okuphezulu kwezisusa zocansi kwi-cyberpace kungahle kuhlotshaniswe kakhulu nokuziphatha kabi kwabantu nge-cyber kunalokho obekucatshangwa ngaphambili….
Le miphumela inezimpikiswano ezibalulekile, njengoba ukwehla kokuchayeka ezenzweni zocansi nokuthambekela ekwehliseni ikusasa kunganciphisa ukuthambekela kobugebengu phakathi kwabantu besilisa. Ukuhlaziywa kokulamula kuphakamisa ukuthi izikhathi zocansi zingadala isimo '' sokubona okufishane '' emadodeni, okuholela ekutheni bavume ukuzuza kwesikhashana ngenkathi behluleka ukubheka izindleko zesikhathi eside zokuziphatha budlabha….
Amadoda angase azuze ekuqapheliseni ukuthi ukuvezwa kwesenzo socansi kuhlotshaniswa nokukhetha nokuziphatha kwabo okulandelayo.
- Ukubuka izithombe zabesifazane abashakazi kuholela esimweni sokuzithiba okuphansi kwamadoda
Ukuchayeka kwabesifazane abagqoke uhhafu nokuziphatha kwezomnotho
Amadoda athatha ingozi enkulu ngemuva kokuvezwa izithombe zabesifazane abagqoke uhhafu uma kuqhathaniswa nabesifazane.
- Isayensi Inika Isizathu Sokuhlala Ezingcolile
- I-Dopamine ihlehlisa ukuziphatha okulinganayo kubantu
- I-Brain circuit elawula izinqumo ezibangela ukukhathazeka okukhulu okukhonjisiwe
- Indlela I-Porn Eqothula Ngayo Ikhampasi Yakho Yokuziphatha - Noma Ungayibuki
- Ukungenzeka nokulibaziseka ukukhipha isisusa sokweqile (2008)
Abasebenzisi be-Erotica babengahambisani namadoda, baphakamise kakhulu ezinyathelweni eziningana ezingokwengqondo ezakhiwe, futhi babonisa amaphethini amaningi okuzikhethela kokubambezeleka ekuphusheni imali yokusebenza ngaphandle kwe-erotica abangewona abasebenzisi. Lezi zithole ziphakamisa ukuthi ukwehlisa izinqubo kufezekisa emiphumeleni yobuzwe kwabanye abantu.
Sibonisa ukuthi ukuchayeka emaceleni ama-sexy kubangela ukungapheli okukhulu ekukhethweni kwamaphakathi phakathi kokuvuza kwemali. Ukuqokomisa indima yomjikelezi jikelele wokuvuza, sibonisa ukuthi abantu abanesimiso esibucayi somvuzo bangabhekana nemiphumela yezocansi, ukuthi umphumela uveza imiklomelo ye-nonmonetary, nokuthi ukukhathala kuyanciphisa umphumela.
- Ukucabanga kokuziphatha okuphezulu okuphathelene nomsebenzi owandayo ohlelweni lomvuzo wobuchopho bomuntu (2017)
- (Lokhu bekumnandi futhi.) Ukulangazelela ukubhujiswa: Imiphumela ephikisayo yobuso obukhangayo ekukhetheni kwabantu ukudla
Ukuchayeka ebusheni obuthandekayo (vs. kungafuneki) ubuso obuhlukile ‐ ubulili bukhuphuke amathuba okukhethwa kokudla okungenampilo.
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Izixhumanisi phakathi kokulutha kanye nokushoda kokucabanga "kokuziphatha" (nezinguquko ezinhlakeni zobuchopho ezihlobene) ziyavela kulabo abaye baba nemlando yokugembula neyokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa.
Amazinga amakhulu we-psychopathology, kanye nokuqala kwangaphambilini kwe-GD, ubude besikhathi se-GD nobukhali obukhulu be-GD nakho kuhlotshaniswa nokuba khona kokuziphatha kobugebengu.
Le miphumela iphakamisa iphethini eguqukayo yokucubungula kokuziphatha kwe-fronto-limbic okuhlobene nokusetshenziswa okuvuselelayo nokushoda kuzo zombili izinhloso eziphakathi nokuhlanganiswa kokuqonda kwezinqubo zokuziphatha zebhayoloji.
- Ukuzibandakanya kwe-Fronto-limbic ngesikhathi sokulungiswa kokuziphatha kubasebenzisi abasebenza ngamandla (Okokuhlela)
Ukukhula kobufakazi besayense yomjikelezo we-post-orgasm oqhubekayo (izifundo)
Izifundo ekuqhekekeni phakathi kobulili nezidakamizwa ebuchosheni
Izifundo Thola Ukunyuka (nokuhlala) ku-Porn Users (2016)
Abaphenyi bathi kungenzeka ukuthi i-testosterone ibe yiyona kuphela inkinobho yokuqonda isimilo (2019) (Asivumelananga ngaphezulu.)
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