Amathuluzi okukala imiphumela ye-porn ebuchosheni alapha.
Impikiswano ngokusetshenziswa kabanzi kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-Intanethi ivame ukugxila ekukhathazekeni komphakathi kanye nocwaningo oluphikisanayo. Ngabe i-porn yanamuhla ithuthukisa imishado? Kubangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile okuholela egazini elingaphephile? Ukuvumela abantu ukuthi bahlangabezane nezidingo ezivamile zobulili kalula? Izifiso zokuphefumula yokuziphatha okusha nokuziphatha okubi ngokweqile kocansi? Inkinga kuphela yokwenqaba abalingani? Ukwehlisa ababukeli abasha ukukhanga kwabalingani bangempela futhi ukwandisa ukukhathazeka komphakathi?
Wonke umuntu uyaqiniseka ngombono wakhe — futhi imvamisa angakhomba kuzinhlolovo 'zokukufakazela' lokho. Kodwa-ke kuthiwani uma impikiswano yezocansi ingahanjiswa kolunye uhlangothi lokudlala futhi ixazululwe ngokusebenzisa isayensi enzima?
Izindaba ezinhle. Amathuluzi angenawo amanga manje asekhona ekubhekiseni ubuningi babasebenzisi be-inthanethi be-porn. Amasu asetshenziswe kakade ukuze ahlole ubuchopho bezokugembula, abadla kakhulu, Ukulutha kwe-intanethi, nabasebenzisi bezidakamizwa.
Uma ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn inthanethi kungenabungozi, ucwaningo olunjalo luzoxazulula lolu daba ngokucacile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ucansi lwe-intanethi lubangela ukuguqulwa kobuchopho obuhlobene nomlutha kwabanye abasebenzisi abanempilo, lolo lwazi lubalulekile ngokulinganayo. Abasebenzisi bangafunda ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu eziyinkinga futhi benze izinqumo ezinolwazi. Umphakathi ungavikela kangcono futhi ufundise intsha. Ngakho,
- Yini ngempela abacwaningi bobuchopho abazobe beyifuna ebuchosheni babasebenzisi be-porn?
- Kungani lolu cwaningo lungekenziwa?
- Futhi kungani amalebuli okuxilonga ayibheka lutho?
Yini esingayifunda ekucwaningweni kobuchopho?
Abacwaningi bachitha iminyaka eyisishiyagalombili yokugcina beqhuba izinhlobonhlobo zokuhlolwa kwezinhloso ebuchosheni bezokugembula. Bathola ukuthi ukugembula ngokweqile kubangela ukuthi ubuchopho obufanayo buyashintsha as izidakamizwa ezidakamizwa. Ngokunjalo, odokotela bengqondo bahlukanisa kabusha ukugembula kwe-pathological kusuka 'kokuphazamiseka' kuya 'ekuluthweni' kokuzayo Incwadi Yokuhlola Nezibalo Zezinkinga Zengqondo, I-DSM-5.
Ukuxilongwa kokugembula njengomlutha kudida labo abahlobanisa ukulutheka nezinaliti ze-heroin noma amapayipi aqhekezayo. Kodwa-ke, ukulutha kwamakhemikhali nokuziphatha kufana kakhulu nomzimba. Ngemuva kwakho konke, amakhemikhali awenzi ukudala izinqubo zamanoveli emzimbeni; zivele zandise noma zinciphise izinqubo ezikhona.
Nakuba i-cocaine, i-nicotine nokugembula zizwa zihluke kakhulu kumsebenzisi, bahlanganyela ngendlela efanayo nobuchopho. Isibonelo, konke ukwandisa i-dopamine engxenyeni ye-circuit circuit, i-nucleus accumbens. Ngokuqinisekile, izidakamizwa ezidakamizwa ngokuvamile ziba nemiphumela enobungozi lapho imivuzo yemvelo engenzi khona. Futhi ezinye, ezifana ne-cocaine ne-meth, zidala ukukhishwa kungazelelwe Okuningi i-dopamine kunokuziphatha okuzuzisa njengokugembula. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ushayela noma ugijima, zonke lezi zindlela can ziholela eRoma.
Abanye abantu baphinde badide “ukulutha” “nothando,” njengokuthanda igalofu noma ucansi. Bacabanga ukuthi noma yimuphi umsebenzi umuntu awuthola uphoqelela “uyalutha,” okwenza leli gama lingasho lutho kangako cha imisebenzi ingathathwa njengomlutha. Eqinisweni, 'ukulutha umlutha' akusewona umqondo ophambukisayo, ngomusa wokucabanga okunjalo. Kakade, bathathu ukuchaza izici zokulutha kungaba njalo kulinganiswa ngokulinganayo ebuchosheni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuhlolwa kwengqondo, ngisho ukuhlolwa kwegazi, zenzelwe ukuhlola ukuthi kukhona ukushintsha okunjalo ngokomzimba, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka kobuchopho.
Nazi izincazelo ezilula zalezi zintathu eziyisihluthulelo, izici zokulutha izidakamizwa:
Impendulo ejabulisayo ehlonishwayo: Phakathi kwezinye izinguquko, ama-dopamine (D2) receptors awela emjikelezweni womvuzo wobuchopho, ashiye umlutha kancane ukuzwela injabulo, futhi "balambele" imisebenzi / izinto zokwenyusa i-dopamine yazo zonke izinhlobo. Umlutha ke lithatha ukunganakwa izithakazelo, izinkomba, kanye nokuziphatha okwakuke kwaba khona ukufaneleka okubalulekile.
Ukuzwela: I-Dopamine (the “gotta get it!” Neurochemical) ikhuphuka ekuphenduleni izinkomba ezihlobene nokulutha, okwenza umlutha uphoqe kakhulu kuneminye imisebenzi empilweni yomlutha. Futhi, ΔFosB, amaprotheni aphakanyiswa umsebenzi wocansi futhi kusiza ukugcina izinkumbulo ezikhudlwana, zihlanganisa ezindaweni eziyinhloko zobuchopho.
I-Hypofrontality: Frontal-lobe indaba eluhlaza futhi ukusebenza kunciphisa, kunciphisa kokubili ukulawula ukucindezela kanye nekhono lokubona kuqala imiphumela.
Akunandaba ukuthi intshisekelo kangakanani engeyona imilutha imayelana nomsebenzi, lezi zinguquko “ezinentambo eqinile” azenzeki. Abangewona imilutha bangayeka ngokuthanda kwabo. Ukulutha umlutha, ngokuphambene nalokho, kungukuziphatha okungalawulwa, okuphoqelelayo okuvela ebuchosheni obungasebenzi noma ukubhalisa ukwaneliseka ngokujwayelekile (ngakho-ke kuhlangabezana nezimpawu, njengokufisa nokungakhululeki kokuhoxa).
Isiqephu ngasinye sezinto ezintathu siboniswe ngokuphindaphindiwe ebuchosheni bama-gaming gamblers. Muva nje, ososayensi sebeqalile ukuhlola ubuchopho bamavidiyo we-video abaqotho. Baye bathola ubufakazi ukuguqulwa kobuchopho obufana nezidakamizwa futhi ukuzwela ukukhuluma, futhi kubonisa izinqubo zokulutha umuthi emsebenzini. Izinto ezifanayo zibonwe ku abadla kakhulu.
Kungani sitadisha ukugembula futhi akuyona i-porn?
Okwamanje, asazi ngezifundo ebuchosheni babasebenzisi be-porn besebenzisa amathuluzi anamuhla wokungaqali, angabizi kakhulu. Isizathu esisodwa sokuthi ososayensi ababheki abasebenzisi be-porn be-Intanethi ngobuchopho obulahlekile ukuthi i-porn ye-Intanethi isisha kakhulu. Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezi-static sekunesikhathi eside zikhona, kepha i-Intanethi enejubane eliphezulu ibilokhu itholakala kabanzi ngokucwayiza kweso ngokwemigomo yezemfundo. Ucwaningo luhlala lungemuva kweqiniso.
Esinye isizathu ukuthi ngokuvamile kuthatha ukwanda okukhulu, noma ukutholakala okukhulu, ukuze abantu bangene ekugqilazweni kwemiklomelo yemvelo njengobunqunu noma ukudla okungenamsoco. Kuphela nje abasebenzisi abakhulu be-Internet abathintekayo be-Internet abaseneminyaka eyishumi nambili beqala ukukhononda ngezimpawu ezibonisa ukuthi izidakamizwa zingase zisebenze ebuchosheni obuphilile: izinkinga zokuhlushwa, ukunyuka kokukhathazeka komphakathi, ukushintsha kwemizwelo, ukukhuphukela ekukhunjweni kokukhathazeka, ukuthanda izinto zobulili, ukuphazamiseka kwe-erectile njalonjalo. Amanethiwekhi amaningi asetshenziselwa i-Inthanethi iminyaka eyishumi noma ngaphezulu-futhi kuphela azi izimpawu eminyakeni embalwa edlule.
Isizathu sesithathu sokusebenzisa izithombe ezingcolile kuyinselele ukutadisha ukuthi kunzima ukusetha amaqembu okulawula, ngenxa yezizathu ezichazwe ku Ucwaningo Lwezocansi olungavunyelwe: I-Orgasm Cycle.
Okokugcina, kukhona ukuphikisana nophenyo olunjalo oluvela esikhungweni sezemfundo sezemfundo, nakwezinye izici ze-sexologists ezithandwa kakhulu-yizo kanye ochwepheshe abangalindela ukuhola icala ngokufuna, noma ukuqhuba, isayensi enzima manje edingekayo. Cabangela izitatimende ezilandelayo ngumuntu ovelele wezocansi. (Amazwi akhe kwenye indawo akwenza kucacile ukuthi izitatimende zakhe zihlanganisa ukusetshenziswa okukhulu kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile.)
Umqondo "wokulutha ngokocansi" iqoqo lezinkolelo zokuziphatha ezifihliwe njengesayensi. Cishe akekho emkhakheni we-sexology okholelwa kulo mqondo.
Akayedwa ezinkolelweni zakhe. Uprofesa wezocwaningo, lapho aziswa ukuthi ucwaningo lwakamuva oluthunyelwe ngu Odokotela base-Italy wabonisa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwe-intanethi ku-intanethi kubangela ukungabi namandla ezinsizweni, wabuza:
Kungani izindaba eziningi kangaka ezingasile ziveliswa ngalesi sihloko? Hmm, ingabe imelela ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngento engekho, njengokukhathazeka ngokweqile ngama-unicorn?
Abakhulumeli abanjengoba lezi zindlela zenza i-intanethi engxoxweni yezingxoxo ze-intanethi ezungeze uhlobo zokukhuthaza ("ezocansi"), futhi ukubone njengokuphikisana ngenkululeko yezocansi. Eqinisweni, noma kunjalo, inkinga ebucayi ingaba degree yokuvuselela i-neurochemical. Ama-Checkers ayengeyona ingozi; amahora e- "World of Warcraft" akhombisile ukuthi ayabulala. Ukudla kwabazingeli-kwabaqoqi kwakungeke kuholele ekukhuluphaleni; Isikhukhula sanamuhla sokudla okungenamsoco eshibhile sesivele sisizile ekwenzeni 79% yamaMelika amafutha angenampilo. Ukuma kukababa Playboy kwakungalungile okuhle; ukuphakamisa, i-novel ye-inthanethi ye-intanethi ingaba yizidakamizwa emiphumeleni (Bona i-Porn, bese kuthi manje).
Izazi eziningi zocansi zilinganisa ukushaya indlwabu (ukugqugquzela okuvamile) nokusetshenziswa kocansi kwe-Intanethi (ukugqugquzela okungavamile). Njengoba ukusetshenziswa kocansi sekukhule ngokweqile futhi kukhuthaza kakhulu, bavele bachaza kabusha 'okujwayelekile.' Kodwa-ke kuthiwani uma abasebenzisi bafuna ukukhuthazwa okwedlulele ngoba okungavamile, izinqubo eziluthayo zenza ukuba ukwaneliseka kwabo kutholakale ekuzijabuliseni okuncane? Ngabe 'inkululeko yezocansi' ibukeka kanjani ebuchosheni oboshelwe ekuvuseleleni okwandayo ngoba, empeleni, ungumlutha?
Mhlawumbe ngolunye usuku kungekudala leli chorus elinethonya lochwepheshe lizobuyela emzamweni wokuthola ukuthi yini ngempela, noma cha, eqhubeka ebuchosheni babasebenzisi banamuhla be-porn. Njengoba kunjalo, balahlekelwa ukwethembeka kulabo abazama ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, badlule ekuhoxisweni, futhi babone ukuthuthuka okungaqondakali kwemizwelo, ukugxila, ukusebenza ngokocansi, ikhono lokuzihlanganisa, njalonjalo:
Ngikuqinisekisile [ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi kubangele i-ED yami ngokuyeka i-porn, hhayi ngochwepheshe abavamile bezempilo. Abafuni ukwamukela, noma abazi, ukuthi kuyinkinga yangempela. Ngokomzimba, bengilokhu ngithola izinkuni zasekuseni ezinzima. Kuyaqabula ukwazi ukuthi kusasebenza.
Kuyathokozisa kakhulu ukuzwa okuthandwa nguDkt. ______, isazi socansi ______, nomcwaningi we-Kinsey ______ ngokuqhubekayo ukunamathela kwi [Internet porn], okuye kwangithinta ngokuqondile impilo yami nokuphila kwengqondo ngendlela engalungile. Ukubona ochwepheshe abavunyelwe ukuvikela imboni engakaze ithathe izinyathelo zokuvikela abantu abasengozini [izingane] ziyagula. Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngelinye ilanga laba bantu bayolandisa ngenxa yokungazi noma ukuzithoba kwabo [kubakhiqizi be-etica], uma kukhona noma kunjalo, futhi.
Imisindo ye-pro-masturbation emphakathini wezokwelapha eminyakeni eyedlule ye-40 noma kanjalo isondela ezingeni lokwehluleka kwecala lobugebengu. Izizukulwane zonke zabantu abadala ziye zahlukunyezwa nalokhu okungenangqondo. Ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi yokusebenzisa i-porn, kwathatha izinyanga zami ukubuyela emuva evamile.
Imuphi umehluko i-label yokuxilonga eyenzayo?
I-DSM yamanje ayisho ngokuqondile ukusetshenziswa kocansi. I-DSM ezayo ichaza ukusetshenziswa kocansi okucindezelayo njenge disorder, hhayi umlutha. Amalebula anomthelela ekwelapheni, njengoba le minyaka eyisishiyagalombili ubudala ubudala ithola:
Ngibe ngumsebenzisi we-porn ocindezelayo isikhathi esingangonyaka manje, futhi ngingaqinisekisa ukukhuphuka kokukhathazeka okukhulu, kwesinye isikhathi okungabekezeleleki, kwezenhlalo nezinkinga ngokugxila. Kungakho ngicuphe unyaka wami wokuqala we-Uni (ngiphumelele kakhulu kuzo zonke izifundo zami), futhi manje angikwazi ukuhamba phansi ngomgwaqo ngaphandle kwe-hyperventilating. Ngisahlala ekhaya, ngakho abazali bami bakhathazekile ngempela. Bangiyise kulo dokotela wezifo zengqondo okwathi ngemuva kokungilalela imizuzu eyi-10 (kanye ne- $ 280), bangithola ngineBIPOLAR TYPE 2, baqala ukukhuluma ngamaphilisi. Ngamtshela ngenkinga yami yezocansi / ukushaya indlwabu kodwa waphikelela ukuthi lokho ngeke kube nethonya kimi.
Ngokuxhumana kwangasese, omunye wodokotela bengqondo ngemuva kwe-DSM entsha wangazisa ukuthi uma isiguli sivamile, asikwazi ukuba umlutha wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile noma ngabe zishukumisa kangakanani noma zisetshenziswa kaningi kangakanani. Ngakho-ke, uma othile ebanjwa, kusho ukuthi ubenezinye izingqinamba, okuyisimo esivele sikhona esingahlobene, esinjenge-ADHD, ukukhathazeka komphakathi, ukudangala noma amahloni.
Lesi sizathu siyindilinga. Uma ubuchopho besiguli obungaguquguquki, obuyiphutha buhlale buyimbangela, ayikho enye indlela yokuhlupheka engacatshangelwa. Kucatshangwa ukuthi isiguli besisendleleni eya ehhovisi lodokotela wezifo zengqondo kusukela lapho siqala khona, futhi nezinga lokukhuthaza alibalulekile. Nokho njengoba belulama, abasebenzisi baphetha lokho ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn ezisindayo kuphela kwakuyimbangela ebonakalayo yezibonakaliso eziningi ezibonisa izimo ezibalulwe esigabeni esandulele.
Okwamanje, iningi labahlinzeki bezokunakekelwa kwezempilo banamuhla liboshwe yizinqubo eziqinile. Kuze kube yilapho umlutha we-porn kungukuxilongwa okusemthethweni, abanakekeli kungenzeka bangabi nanketho ngaphandle kokuthola nokwelapha izimpawu zayo eziningi njengezinkinga ezingahlobene (ukukhathazeka, ukudangala, izinkinga zokuhlushwa, i-ED, njll.
Naphezu kwesigungu sokubusa, kunezibonakaliso zokushintsha kolwandle. Isibonelo, umcwaningi oqashe umlutha I-Eric Nestler PhD uthi:
Kungenzeka ukuthi ushintsho olufanayo lobuchopho lwenzeke kwezinye izimo zokugula ezibandakanya ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwemivuzo yemvelo, izimo ezifana… nezidakamizwa zocansi, njalonjalo.
Abanye ososayensi abazi kahle i-neurobiology yokulutha umlutha bafuna ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kwe-inthanethi ye-porn / ucansi lwe-cyber ukuthi kuphenywe njengokulutha okungenzeka kube-eFrance ("Ukuphuza Ngokwezocansi") Kanye ne-States ("Umlutha Wezithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile: I-Neuroscience Perspective“). Kepha ngokwazi kwethu, okuwukuphela kwesinyathelo kule ndlela kuthathwe yi Ithimba laseJalimane. Ithimba lisebenzise izivivinyo zokuqonda ukukala imiphumela ye-porn ye-Intanethi ebuchosheni babasebenzisi. Ngokuqinisekile, bathole ukuthi izinkinga zokusebenzisa i-porn zihambisana nezinga lokukhuthaza (kulinganiswa ngenombolo yezicelo umsebenzisi azibandakanye kuzo kanye nobukhulu besipiliyoni), okukhombisa inqubo yokulutha emsebenzini. Ayizange ihambisane nezici zobuntu, noma nesikhathi esichithwe kubukwa.
Ngaphandle kwezithiyo ezikhona, abacwaningi manje banamandla okuphenya ukuthi i-porn iyabushintsha yini ubuchopho babasebenzisi noma cha. Noma ngubani omunye umuntu ufuna ukubona ukuphela kwengxabano ye-Porn?
UPDATES
- Ukuxilongwa okusemthethweni? Umbhalo wezokwelapha wezokwelapha osetshenziswa kakhulu emhlabeni, I-International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), iqukethe ukuxilongwa okusha efanelekile ukulutha izidakamizwa: "Ukucindezeleka Ngokuziphatha Ngokwemvelo. "(I-2018)
- Ukulutha kobulili / ucansi? Leli khasi libala Ucwaningo lwe-39 lwe-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikeza ukusekela okuqinile ngesimodeli sokulutha kwezidakamizwa njengoba iziphumo zabo zibuyisa ukutholakala kwezinzwa ezibikiwe ezifundweni zokulutha izidakamizwa.
- Imibono yangempela yezobuchwepheshe ekubhekaneni nocansi / ucansi? Lolu hlu luqukethe Ukubuyekezwa kwezincwadi ezingama-16 zakamuva nezincazelo ngezinye zezazi eziphezulu zezinzwa emhlabeni. Bonke basekela imodeli yokulutha.
- Izimpawu zokulutha umlutha nokukhula kwezinto ezimbi kakhulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokubika okutholakele okuhambisana nokwanda kokusetshenziswa kocansi (ukubekezelelana), ukujwayela i-porn, kanye nezimpawu zokuhoxa (zonke izimpawu nezimpawu ezihlobene nokulutha).
- Ukubheka iphuzu lokukhuluma elingasekelwa ukuthi "isifiso sobulili esiphakeme" sichaza ukulahla ucansi noma ukulutha ngokobulili: Okungenani izifundo ze-25 zikhohlisa isimangalo sokuthi ubulili nemilutha ye-porn "banesifiso esiphakeme sobulili"
- Izinkinga zobulili nezinkinga zobulili? Lolu hlu luqukethe izifundo ze-26 ezixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn / ukubheja kocansi ezinkingeni zobulili kanye nokuvusa okuncane ezenzweni zobulili. I fiziqu ze-5 ezingekho ohlwini zibonisa ibangela, njengoba abahlanganyeli beqede ukusetshenziswa kwezingcolile kanye nokuphulukisa okungavamile kocansi.
- Imiphumela yocansi ebuhlotsheni? Ucwaningo oluseduze lwe-60 luxhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kuya ekungeneni kocansi nokuzaneliseka komndeni. (Njengoba sifana nathi konke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zabika ukusetshenziswa okuningi kocansi okuxhunyiwe abampofu ubulili noma ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano.)
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta impilo engokomzwelo nengqondo? Izifundo ezingaphezu kwe-55 zixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kocansi nezimpofu ezingokwengqondo-ezingokomzwelo nemiphumela empofu yokuqonda.
- Ukusebenzisa i-Porn kuthinta izinkolelo, isimo sengqondo nokuziphatha? Hlola izifundo ngabanye - ngaphezu kokuqukethwe kwe-25 ukuxilongwa kwe-porn ukuze "isimo sengqondo esingafani" kubesifazane kanye nokubukwa kobulili - noma isifinyeto kusuka kulolu cwaningo lwe-2016 meta: Imidiya nezocansi: Umbuso woPhando lwezobuciko, i-1995-2015.
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