Abasebenzisi be-porn abangaphandle bavame ukubuyela emuva. Kungani?
Kungekudala, a umfana wachaza kumalungu akhe esithangamini:
Emphakathini we-2008 / 2009, abantu baqala ukuvela kwi-intanethi ababekhishwe ukuthi babe ne-erectile ukungasebenzi ngesikhathi sezocansi, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo bangathola ukuqina okuqinile kumazinga angcolile we-porn ngokweqile ngokusizwa nokuhle kokudala ukushaya indlwabu . Into eyinqaba yayiwukuthi izinkulungwane zabantu ngezinye izikhathi zaphendula kulezi zikhalazo zesikhulumi, zithi zinezimpawu ezifanayo ezifanayo. Ukuyeka ukushaya indlwabu ku-intanethi ye-intanethi kusize ukuguqula i-ED eyenziwe ngocansi.
Ngaphandle kwe-libido evamile, babika ezinye izinguquko ezinhle: Ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka komphakathi okuhamba, ukuzethemba okukhulu, ukuhlushwa okuthuthukisiwe, umuzwa wokugcwaliseka futhi ube phezu kwezwe.
Ngingomunye walabo bafana. Ingxenye emangalisayo ukuthi unyaka ngaphambi kokuba ngizame ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ngaze ngaya kobonana nodokotela bengqondo nodokotela bezengqondo abathola ukuthi nginesifo esibi sokukhathazeka komphakathi nokudangala, futhi bafuna ukungifaka kuma-anti-depressants, engingakaze ngivume.
Ngesikhathi ngihamba nge-first no-porn / masturbation streak (~ izinsuku ezingu-80) ngaqala ukuqaphela izinzuzo ezibikwe abanye. Namuhla, ngosuku lwami lwe-109th we-streak, ngizijabule, ngiyethemba, nginhlalakahle, nginokuhlakanipha, ngiyakwazi ukuhlangabezana nanoma iyiphi inselelo, njll njll njll.
Kwabafana abanjengaye, ukuyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kube nezinzuzo ezimangazayo. Abafana abanjalo bavame ukuzibuza ukuthi ngabe konke lokhu kungumphumela we-placebo, noma uma ngabe izinguquko zomzimba zingaba ngemuva kwalokhu kuthuthukiswa. Bazibuza nokuthi kungani abanye abasebenzisi benokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile. Kulokhu okuthunyelwe, sizobheka ucwaningo olungasiza ekuchazeni ukuthi kungani ukuthuthuka kuyahluka futhi kubani.
I-Dopamine: intambo evamile
Nakuba izimpawu ezinjengokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile, ukukhathazeka komphakathi, ukungabi nesisusa, izinkinga zokuhlushwa nokucindezeleka kuyahluke kakhulu, bahlanganyela ngokuthola okufanayo ezincwadini zesayensi. Konke kuhlotshaniswe nakho ukuguqulwa kwe-dopamine kumjikelezo womvuzo wobuchopho. I-Dopamine "yithathe" i-neurochemical ebalulekile ye-libido, ukuthatha ingozi, ukugqugquzela, ukugxila, nokulindela nokujabula.
Ngamanye amazwi, ukunqamuka kokuphawuleka kwe-dopamine kuhlotshaniswa nakho konke lokhu:
- Ukunciphisa i-libido, okuyinto engaba imbangela yezidakamizwa ezilukhuni,
- Ukwehlisa ukuthatha ingozi futhi yanda ukukhathazeka, kuhlangene nokuthambekela ukuthukuthela, noma yikuphi okunganciphisa ukuzimisela ukuzihlanganisa,
- Ukungakwazi ukugxila, okungabangela izinkinga zokuhlushwa kanye nenkumbulo, futhi
- Ukungabi nesisusa nokulindela okunempilo, okungenzeka kubangela ukunganaki, ukuchitha isikhathi, ngisho nokudlala indima ukucindezeleka.
Noma ukukusho konke ngokuthe xaxa: Uma i-dopamine nama-neurochemicals amakhemikhali ahambisana kahle, ukukhangwa ngokobulili, ukuxhumana, ukuhlushwa nokuzizwa kahle kunzima kakhulu. Sikholelwa ukuthi ukubuyela ekubonakalweni kokujwayelekile kwe-dopamine kusiza ukuthi kungani abantu abaningi bebika ukuthuthukiswa okufanayo njengoba bengaboniswa ngokweqile kwe-porn inthanethi. I imibiko ivame ukushaya.
Kungani abanye abantu bebona ukuthuthuka okusheshayo, kanti abanye badinga izinyanga ukuze bazizwe “bejwayelekile” futhi?
Impendulo cishe ukuthi abanye abasebenzisi basanda kutholakala ekujuleni okweqile (nge-masturbation evamile, ebonakala kunzima kubantu kunokuya ocansini njalo). Ngokuphambene nalokho, abanye badinga ukuguqula izinguquko zobuchopho ezihlala njalo ezihambisana nokulutha. Ake sihlole la mathuba ngokuningiliziwe.
Ukujula ngokweqile
Izibonelo zezilwane ziveza ukuthi kukhona into enjengokuthi i-ejaculation kakhulu. Lapho inani le-ejaculations lifinyelela umkhawulo obekiwe, isekethe lomvuzo obucayi lobuchopho lisebenzisa amabhuleki. Ososayensi baphawula imiphumela emithathu esobala: ukuvinjelwa kwezocansi, ukulahleka kwezinzuzo ezilwa nokukhathazeka zocansi, kanye "nokuzwela ngokweqile kwezidakamizwa," nakho okubonwayo ngemuva kokuphindaphindwa kwezidakamizwa zokuhlukumeza. I- abacwaningi bacabanga ukuthi le "hangover" yezinguquko ze-neuroplastic ingaba yindlela yokuvikela ekuqedeni ngokweqile kwemijikelezo yomvuzo wobuchopho:
Kungacatshangwa ukuthi ukuvimbela kocansi okuhlala isikhathi eside okubangelwa ukuqubuzana nokwehlisa isisindo sokuvikela ngokumelene nokugqugquzelwa kwezifunda ezibucayi ezihilelekile ekusetshenzisweni kwazo.
Izinguquko zaphawula zibonisa ukuthi ukujula okukhulu kakhulu kuguqula okwesikhashana ukudluliswa kwe-dopamine ebuchosheni. Ososayensi babika ukuthi iningi lezinguquko ezilwaneni ezithintekile ziziphendulela phakathi kwezinsuku ze-4. Ukuze babuyisele i-mojo yabo ngokugcwele izilwane zidinga izinsuku ezingu-15.
Ingabe abafana abaphulukisa ngokushesha kwi-porn basebenzise ngaphambilini bephethe izindlela zabo ezijwayelekile zokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili nokungazi ngokubangela ukwehla kwesignali ye-dopamine?
Yiqiniso, i-dopamine akuyona kuphela i-neurochemical ethintekile yi-ejaculation. Ososayensi baye kakade kulinganiswa ezinye izinguquko ebuchosheni bamazinyo eziphethwe ngokocansi futhi:
- ukunciphisa i-androgen receptors,
- i-estrogen receptors ephakeme, futhi
- ukwanda kwama-opioid.
Konke kunethuba lokunciphisa i-libido ngoba nazo zivimbela i-dopamine.
Kulezi, okuthakazelisa kakhulu kunciphisa Ubuchopho futhi androgen (testosterone) receptors. Uma kuqala ukujula, ama-androgen receptors aqala ukwehla okuqhubekayo, ehlanganisa izifunda ezengeziwe zobuchopho njengezimbongolo zesilisa eziziqeda ngokocansi ngokwazo. Ngama-receptor ambalwa ku- i-circuit circuit kanye ne-hypothalamus, abesilisa bancane isabele emiphumeleni ye-testosterone-ngisho noma bebaningi kakhulu.
Ngezansi: Abanye abafana abayeka ukushaya indlwabu ngokuphindaphindiwe kwi-intanethi bangase babe nesisusa esikhudlwana, ukuzethemba komphakathi, ukuthuthukiswa kokubambisana ne-libido evamile ngenxa yokuthi izinguquko ze-neurochemical ezikhulunywe kulesi sigaba ziyaziphendulela ngokushesha.
Lo muntu, isibonelo, kwakukhona ngosuku lwe-24 olungenazo izithombe zocansi / ukushaya indlwabu lapho ebhala:
I-1) Ukuzethemba kwami kwakuhlale kuncane kakhulu empilweni yami yonke. NAMUHLA, nginethemba elikhulu kune-EVER! Ukuqiniseka ngokubukeka kwami, ubuhlungu nobuntu.
2) Angikhubeki njengesimomondiya njengoba ngenzile: 'Uhh, uhhhmmm…. mmmm .. kahle… ah… pho yini… uh..igama lakho…. (ekhipha ifoni bese ebuka esikrinini esimnyama, egwema ukuthintana ngamehlo). ' Manje ngibheka amantombazane ashisayo emehlweni futhi ngibanikeza ukumamatheka okuthembekile, okuphumayo nokuhehayo.
I-3) Amantombazane ayangibona. A LOT MORE! Amantombazane ashisayo, afanelekayo ejimini engangizicabange ukuthi bephuma enkulumeni yami manje manje anginika ukumomotheka, ukubuka, nokudlala ngothando.
I-4) Ngaphambi kwalokho, angikaze ngiqagele ukuthi babedlala. Manje ngiyaqaphela izinwele eziphuzizayo, izinwele, i-pose ekhangayo, i-eye-f-ing, konke okunye !!
I-5) Ukukhathazeka kwezenhlalakahle kuhle kakhulu. Ngangena ekamelweni elifana nomphathi we-f-ing ngokumomotheka ebusweni bami, nokuzethemba kwephrojekthi njenge-crazy. Angasabi ukwesaba umsebenzi weqembu enyuvesi, hhayi ukwesaba ukuxoxwa kwemisebenzi. I-ACNE YAMI YAKHO! Angikwazi ukukholelwa!
6) Ngikuzwa lokhu kakhulu, “O nkosi, kufana nokuthi ungumuntu ohlukile. Angikaze ngicabange ukuthi ungumpetha ku ___ njll, njll. ”
Izinguquko ezihlobene nobudlova:
Ngokungafani nezinguquko ezihlobene no-ejaculation nje okuxoxwa ngazo, izinguquko ezihlobene nokulutha umlutha zigcwele futhi zihlala isikhathi eside. Okubi nakakhulu, a ukuhoxiswa okubi ngokuvamile ukhona phakathi kokuyeka noma yikuphi ukubheja nokubuyela ekulinganiseni. Ukubukeka kwalezi zinguquko ngemininingwane eminingi bheka I-Porn, i-Pseudoscience ne-AFosB futhi Izifundo zokulutha izidakamizwa zakamuva zihlanganisa i-Porn.
Ngakho kuphi i-dopamine ifanelekile? Njengoba kuchaziwe ku Izifundo zokulutha izidakamizwa zakamuva zihlanganisa i-Porn, ushintsho olujwayelekile ebuchosheni bemilutha ngu ukungafuneki. Leli gama lisho ukudayela okujwayelekile kokuphendula komlutha kuyo yonke intokozo, okubandakanya ukwehla kokusayinwa kwe-dopamine. Kushiya umlutha ungazweli kakhulu enjabulweni yansuku zonke, futhi "ulambele" imisebenzi / izinto zokukhulisa i-dopamine zazo zonke izinhlobo. Izindlela eziningana zingabekwa icala ngokungafuneki:
- Ukuhla kwe-dopamine eyisisekelo (i-tonic dopamine)
- I-dopamine encane ekhishwe ngokuphendula umvuzo ongase ube khona (i-phasic dopamine)
- Ukuncipha kwe-dopamine receptors (mhlawumbe i-D2)
- Ukuncipha kwama-opioid kanye nama-receptor opioid
- Ukulahlekelwa komvuzo wesifunda se-grey indaba (eyatholakala kuwo lolu cwaningo lwe-2014 kubasebenzisi be-porn). Lokhu kuholela ekuxhumaneni okuncane kwesibindi, ne-1-3 ngenhla)
Endabeni yokulutha kwezilonda ezingcolile zobulili kanye ne-dopamine receptors zingase zilandele izimpawu eziningi zokubika zabasebenzisi abakhulu. Isibonelo, ama-receptors aphansi e-Dopamine adlala indima esimweni ukwesaba nokukhathazeka, ukukhathazeka komphakathi, ADHD, Futhi isisusa.
Eqinisweni, lapho ngesibindi umfundi wezokwelapha avumela odokotela ukuba bafike ukuphulukisa i-dopamine yakhe Kancane, bheka ukuthi kwenzekani:
Ngesikhathi sokukhula kwe-dopamine kulesi simo, ububanzi bokuhlangenwe nakho okubonakalayo kubonakale futhi kwanyamalala ngokulandelana. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kwakufana nezimpawu ezimbi (ukulahlekelwa yisisusa, ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa, ukwehlisa ukucabangela, ukungahlehlisi kahle, ukukhathala, ubuhlungu bobuchopho, ukuzithoba, imizwa yokuhlazeka, ukwesaba], izimpawu ezicindezelayo, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, nokukhathazeka nezimpawu zokucindezeleka.
Ababheki bomlutha baye balinganisa ukwehla kwe-dopamine kanye ne-dopamine receptors D2 ebuchosheni bemilutha yazo zonke izinhlobo, kufaka phakathi Ukulutha kwe-intanethi. Lokhu kuncipha kwezimpamukeli ze-D2 kungaba zenzeka ngokushesha okukhulu “ngemivuzo yemvelo,” ezifana nokudla okungenamsoco, futhi kungenzeka phambili ezinye izinguquko ezihlobene nokulutha umlutha. Abasebenzisi abanenhlanhla ngokwanele yokuthola imoto yabo ngokushesha bangenza kanjalo ngoba babuyisela amazinga wabo we-D2 receptor ngaphambi umlutha ubeka.
Kubantu abaningi, ubuchopho ngokwemvelo buphulukisa lokhu kwehla-uma umsebenzisi engakwazi ukuyeka isikhathi eside ukuze anikeze ithuba. Yilokho kanye izinkulungwane zabasebenzisi bokuqala be-porn benza ngokusekelwa kontanga noma abahlinzeki.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ukusetshenziswa kocansi ine ukushintsha okungaphezulu nje kwe izindlela zokulutha izidakamizwa eziyisisekelo (kobunye ubuchopho). Kuyamangaza ukuthi imilutha yezocansi ibika kangaki ukukhubazeka okungavamile kocansi, ezihlehlisayo njengoba zilulama. Lokhu akwenzeki ngezinye izidakamizwa. Le miphumela ebanzi ingasiza ekuchazeni ukulahleka kwe-mojo. Kungenzeka yini ukuba umlutha wezocansi, ngoba uduna ubulili, unamandla okuphazamisa i-circuit circuits ukuthi ilawula ukuziphatha komuntu okwejwayelekile okuhambisana nokuziphatha?
Njengabafana abachazwe ekuqaleni ababuyisela emuva ngokushesha, labo ababayisidakamizwa ababuyela ekubonakalweni okujwayelekile kwe-dopamine ngokwemvelo banesisusa esikhudlwana, ukuzethemba komphakathi, ukuhlushwa okuthuthukisiwe kanye ne-libido evamile. Ukufika lapho kudinga ukuzimisela okuningi kanye nesikhathi. Izindaba eziningi zazo zingatholakala phakathi kwama-akhawunti ezansi leli khasi. Nazi imibiko emifushane emibili:
Ngizizwa ngiyisilwane manje - ha! Ngilahlekelwe ngumlilo wami empilweni ngenxa ye-porn kepha manje ibuyile futhi INCREDIBLE! Ngagcina ngentombazane ngosuku lwe-104 no-ED kwakungeyona inkinga nhlobo. Ngivele ngenza umsebenzi wami njengawo wonke amadoda emhlabeni abephila ngaphambi kwami!
Nangu umfana ebika ezinsukwini ezingama-230:
Ngangibuke izithombe ezingcolile isikhathi eside kangangokuba sezithathe ngokuphelele ubulili bami. Ngaphandle kwayo ngangiyisisekelo se-asexual. … Ngangifuna ukwakha umqondo omusha wobulili, owodwa owawugxile kubantu besifazane bangempela futhi uhlukane ngokuphelele nezocansi. Kusebenzile! Ukuheha kwami kwabesifazane bangempela kukhule kwamazinga angakaze afinyelele kuwo ngaphambili.
Ukuhlanganisa lesi sigaba:
I-1) Ukujula ngokweqile kungaholela ekubalulekile izinguquko zobuchopho okungenzeka kuthathe isikhathi eside uma izinsuku ezingu-15 ziguqula ngokugcwele. Lokhu kungasiza ukuchaza izinzuzo zesikhashana.
I-2) Ukubuyiselwa okuvela ezihlobene nokulutha kwezidakamizwa izinguquko zobuchopho (okungukuthi, ukwamukelwa kwe-D2 receptors kanye ne-dopamine kanye ne-cortex yangaphambili esebenza phambili) kungasiza ukuchaza kokubili izinzuzo ezincane nezesikhathi eside.
Ngokudabukisayo, kukhona nabafana abambalwa abangaziboni izinguquko abathemba ukuzenza lapho beyeka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile — ngisho nangemva kwezinyanga zokungaguquguquki. Kungenzeka ukuthi balwa nezimo ezazivele zikhona ezazingenakwenza okuncane ngemikhuba yabo ye-porn. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ezinye izimo zingahle zizalwe noma zihlobene nokuhlukumezeka kwangaphambilini, kepha futhi zihlobene nokukhonjiswa kwe-dopamine ne-dopamine.
Ibhizinisi leMonkey
Ucwaningo lwama-primate lubonisa ukuthi izimbongolo eziphezulu zinamazinga aphezulu e-D2 kunama-primates ezithobayo nokuthi la mazinga ayenamanzi. Izidakamizwa, isibonelo, izilwane ezincane ezisezingeni elingaphansi kwamazinga e-D2. Cabanga ngalokhu okulandelayo:
Izimbongolo eziyinhloko ziye i-dopamine ephakeme (D2) receptors kunezimbongolo ezizithobayo, kodwa hhayi kuze isigaba sabaphathi sisungulwa. Lokho wukuthi, umuntu akakwazi ukubikezela kusengaphambili ukuthi yimaphi ama-primates azoba namandla ngokuya ngamazinga we-D2 receptor. Lokhu kuvumela abesilisa abasha ukuthi bavuke lapho kwenzeka umholi wamabutho enyamalala. Izinga le-newbie's receptor likhuphuka lapho ethatha isihlalo sobukhosi. Ubuningi be-D2 receptor akuyona into engokwemvelo, kepha kunalokho iyaphendula ezimweni.
Lapho kusungulwa isigaba sabaphathi, akuzona izinkawu ezizithobayo aphansi Ama-D2, kodwa izilwane ezinamandla ezibona a jump ku-dopamine receptors. Empeleni, zikhula zizwela kakhulu ku-dopamine futhi zithokozwa ngokuba yindoda evelele. Kubantu, futhi, abacwaningi baphawula ukuthi,
isimo sezenhlalo senyuke nokwesekwa komphakathi okwandisiwe okuhambisana nobukhulu be-dopamine D2 / D3 receptors.
Kungenzeka yini ukuthi, njengoba abasebenzisi bokuqala be-porn bezithela kude nezikrini zabo futhi bahlanganyele, izenzo zabo zisiza ukusekela futhi zandise inani labo le-receptor ye-D2 futhi ubanike imizwa yokuphila kahle? Noma ingabe ukuzimisela ukuthatha ingozi yomphakathi kungokwanda ngokwemvelo njengoba i-dopamine receptors iphakama?
Futhi kuthiwani ngaleyo mizwa "ye-beta" ebucayi? Kulokho izidakamizwa zibangela ukwehla kuma-dopamine D2 receptors, kungenzeka ukuthi umlutha we-porn ugcina abanye abasebenzisi abasindayo bezizwa bengaphansi "kwendoda" kunokujwayelekile? Ezimfeneni, ukusetshenziswa kwesikhathi eside kwe-cocaine kwaletha zonke izifundo zokuhlolwa ku- amazinga afanayo we-D2 futhi usule ukungezwani kwesimo. Ngempela, i-D2 receptors ngemuva Ukuphathwa kwe-cocaine akuhambisani namazinga we-receptors ye-D2 ngaphambi ekuphathweni kwe-cocaine. Okungukuthi, ukunqwabelana kwamantombazane kwaphazamisa zonke izinkawu ngokulingana-ngisho nezikhulu.
Ama-receptor e-D2 avikela umlutha. Izinkabi ezidumile eziqenjini zezenhlalo zinezikhulu eziphakeme ze-D2 futhi zingenakwenzeka ukuba zingabonakali i-cocaine. Imiphumela evikelayo ye-D2 ephakeme iye yaphindwa ngezifundo zabantu. Singakwazi yini ukukhipha ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kocansi okunzima lapho usemncane kuholela emjikelezweni we-D2s aphansi, kulandelwa ukusetshenziswa okukhudlwana nokuqhubeka kwe-D2?
Akuzona zonke izinkawu alulame emiphumeleni wokulutha ngokweqile ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ngemuva kwezinyanga ze-3, amaphesenti angu-60 wezinkabi eziluthayo aphinde athole amazinga awo ajwayelekile we-D2. Noma kunjalo, amaphesenti angu-40 ayengazange. Lokhu kungasiza ukuchaza izinga lokuguquguquka lokubuyiswa kanye nezinzuzo ezibikiwe
Kunoma yisiphi isenzakalo, i-mojo ibonakala ixhomeke ekuboneni okujwayelekile kwe-dopamine.
Kuthiwani nge-testosterone?
Iningi labancane bacabanga ukuthi amazinga e-testosterone egazi kufanele ahileleke ngandlela-thile ngezinzuzo abazizwayo. Akuyona. Izinga le-testosterone legazi alithinteki kakhulu ekujuleni noma ekuzigwemeni. Eqinisweni, ngaphandle kwa. A ngelinye ilanga spike, ukuziyeka akunamthelela amazinga we-testosterone wegazi. Sicabanga ukuthi izinkomba ezibaluleke kakhulu zikhona ebuchosheni.
Isifiso sobulili, ukuphazamiseka kanye neningi lemizwa ye-mojo-ehlobene ne-testosterone empeleni kuncike ekutheni i-dopamine. Testosterone is efanele, ngoba ibophezela ekutholeni ama-androgen receptors asebuchosheni, okwakuthiwa khuphula i-dopamine noma ngokungaqondile sebenzisa i-dopamine receptors. Kodwa uma i-androgen or ama-dopamine receptors enqabile… i-mojo ingaba phansi. Njengoba kuchaziwe ngaphambili, kumagundane abesilisa, ama-androgen receptors ancipha okwesikhashana nge-ejaculation ngayinye, Futhi uthathe izinsuku ukuze ululame. Okufanayo kungase kwenzeke kubantu.
Ngamanye amagama, kungahle kube yimiphumela ye-testosterone izothululwa kuze kube yilapho ama-receptors abuyela kwesisekelo. Izixhumanisi ezikuchungechunge lwe-mojo ziqala ngama-androgen receptors bese ziphela ngama-dopamine receptors. Vele, kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ama-hormone ajikelezayo angaziwa nawo aguqulwa ukushaya indlwabu ngokweqile noma ukulutha kocansi. Impela, uhlelo lobuchopho lwe-dopamine ehlangene nezakhiwo (i-hypothalamus, i-amygdala) elawula izinhlelo ze-endocrine nezama-autonomic.
Ngamafuphi, isithombe siyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa uma i-dopamine receptors ne-dopamine ziphansi (ukulimala), noma uma isifo sobuchopho be-androgen sinqabe (i-ejaculation), wonke u-testosterone emhlabeni uhambe.
Kuthiwani ngomphumela we-placebo?
Umphumela we-placebo awuchazi izinhlobo zezinzuzo ezitholwa abasebenzisi be-porn abazibonayo, ngoba izinzuzo eziningi zithatha isikhashana ukungena, futhi isikhathi eside ukuzinza (ikakhulukazi emilutha). I-hypothesis esezingeni lokwamukela, noma kunjalo, ihambelana kahle nobufakazi bobabili kanye nocwaningo olukhona mayelana ne-ejaculation kanye nokulutha. Noma ngabe imuphi umakhenikha oqondile, imiphumela ingokoqobo, futhi lokho kuyizindaba ezinhle kulabo abalulalayo:
Ngithole izinzuzo ezithile ezinhle. Okokuqala, ekugcineni ngiba namandla futhi! Angikaze ngikuzwe lokhu okuhle kusukela esikoleni esiphakeme. Akufani nokuthi nginguHulk noma yini, kepha ekugcineni nginamandla engeziwe WOKWENZA izinto. Ngichithe iningi lama-20 ami okuqala ngisesimweni samandla aphansi nokudangala okuncane. Manje njengoba sengiyekile [ukushaya indlwabu ocansini] kabili ngosuku, bengilolonga umzimba, ngiba nobungani ngokwengeziwe, futhi ngijabulela impilo.
Okwesibili, ngimba bonke abesifazane. Kukhona abesifazane yonke indawo! Eziningi zinhle. Ngenkathi ngi [ukushaya indlwabu ocansini] njalo, ngangigxeka abesifazane ekhanda lami. Njengokuthi, bezingakhangi kanjani. Manje umzimba wami uvele ungitshele ukuthi ngubani engimthola ekhanga, futhi okunye kungimangaza! Futhi, angisiyena umdlali omkhulu ngomlingo. Kepha ingxenye yami enhle ngabesifazane kulula ukuyifinyelela. Futhi nginesibindi esithe xaxa. Ngicabanga ukuthi kwehla ukwesaba vs isifiso-yikuphi okunamandla? Ukwesaba akukashintshi kakhulu okwamanje. Kodwa isifiso ekugcineni sifaka ibhalansi… maqondana nokwenza okuthile. Futhi lowo umuzwa omangalisayo.
Okwesithathu, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ekugcineni ngithole impilo yami ndawonye. Umsebenzi wami uyinselele futhi unomvuzo, futhi ngiyakwazi ukubhekana nezinselelo zami. Kuvuselelwa ngamandla ami, izinto zibonakala ziningi kakhulu… kungenzeka. Ngicabanga ukuthi kukhulu futhi kukhulu!
AMAKHAYA:
- Leli khasi libala Ucwaningo lwe-41 lwe-neuroscience (I-MRI, i-FMRI, i-EEG, i-neuropsychological, i-hormonal). Banikeza ukusekela okuqinile ngesimodeli sokulutha kwezidakamizwa njengoba iziphumo zabo zibuyisa ukutholakala kwezinzwa ezibikiwe ezifundweni zokulutha izidakamizwa. Imibono yangempela yezobuchwepheshe ekubhekaneni nocansi / ucansi? Lolu hlu luqukethe Ukubuyekezwa kwezincwadi ezingama-21 zakamuva nezincazelo ngezinye zezazi eziphezulu zezinzwa emhlabeni. Bonke basekela imodeli yokulutha.
- Izimpawu zokulutha umlutha nokukhula kwezinto ezimbi kakhulu? Ngaphezulu kwezifundo ze-30 zokubika okutholakele okuhambisana nokwanda kokusetshenziswa kocansi (ukubekezelelana), ukujwayela i-porn, kanye nezimpawu zokuhoxa (zonke izimpawu nezimpawu ezihlobene nokulutha).
- Izinkinga zobulili nezinkinga zobulili? Lolu hlu luqukethe izifundo ze-30 ezixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn / ukubheja kocansi ezinkingeni zobulili kanye nokuvusa okuncane ezenzweni zobulili. The Ucwaningo lokuqala lwe-6 ohlwini lubonisa ibangela, njengoba abahlanganyeli beqede ukusetshenziswa kwezingcolile kanye nokuphulukisa okungavamile kocansi.
- Imiphumela yocansi ebuhlotsheni? Izixhumanisi ezingaphezu kwe-60 zixhumanisa ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kuya ekungeneni kocansi nokuzaneliseka komndeni. Njengoba sisazi konke Izifundo ezibandakanya abesilisa ziye zabika ukusetshenziswa okuningi kocansi okuxhunyiwe abampofu ukwaneliseka ngokobulili noma ngokobudlelwano.
IZIHLOKO EZIFUNDWAYO:
- Ukwandisa i-dopamine ye-D2 inkulumo ye-receptor kumuntu omdala we-nucleus accumbens kuthuthukisa isisusa (2013)
- Ukukhula kobufakazi besayense yomjikelezo we-post-orgasm oqhubekayo (izifundo)
- Izifundo ekuqhekekeni phakathi kobulili nezidakamizwa ebuchosheni
- Ukucubungula izimangaliso zokushaya indlwabu - Cabanga kabusha ngalezi zinganekwane ezinhlanu ezidumile mayelana nobulili bodwa
- Sekuvele umkhuba ophazamisayo. Abafana abasebenzisa i-porn ye-Intanethi ngesikhathi sabo sobusha bavame ukudinga isikhathi eside ukubuyisa impilo yabo ye-erectile, bheka - Abasebenzisi abasha abasha abadinga usizo olude ukuze babuyisele uMojo wabo
- Ingabe ukusebenzisa i-porn kwenza ukukhathazeka komphakathi / ukuzethemba / ukucindezeleka kube nzima?
- Ingabe izithombe ezingcolile zingasebenzisa imizwa yami?
- Ingabe ukusetshenziswa kwe-porn kungathinta inkumbulo nokugxila?
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